Sports › Re: Sporting Lagos Vs Ikorodu City (0 - 0) On 30th September 2026 by Freshtruth(m): 4:04pm On Sep 30 |
This is a cracker please Nairaland try to build up the rivalry in frontpage 3 days before the games since no job in Nigeria. Let try n promote our leagues it will create jobs for us the citizens we can't depend on only oil. Saudi Arabia are now investing deeply on Football
Rangers vs Enyimba Sporting Lagos vs ikorodu untied Kano pillars vs Enyimba Enyimba vs abia warriors Kasitina united vs Kano pillars
This bitter rivalries games must be properly promoted.
I think Nigerian clubs should bring more foreign coaches to the league. Caf competitions we are not going far please if can compete with America in music. We can also do that with England.
We have the billionaires on ground late ifeanyi ubah did his best the rest billionaires could follow to invest. |
Celebrities › Re: Carter Efe Criticised Peller's Romance Content, Now He Is Doing The Same by Freshtruth(m): 1:13pm On Sep 28 |
We leave in a world full of hypocrites mostly Nigerians. We insult england for hyping their players but na our own worst past |
Sports › Re: Osinachi Ohale Retires From Super Falcons After 16 Years by Freshtruth(m): 7:08am On Sep 28 |
pyyxxaro: This one meat don over mature , if you won cook this kind meat , you must put better AKANWU 😏 This na early morning bro I dey shame for u
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Christianity Etc › Re: Is Masturbation A Sin Or Did We Make It One? by Freshtruth(m): 10:22am On Sep 27 |
Antichristian2: Masturbation is simply self fornication or adultery. is a big sin |
Politics › Re: Residents Chase Away APC Mobilizers In Jigawa (Video) by Freshtruth(m): 3:21pm On Sep 26 |
Na WA oooo thus is serious ooo tinubu has to be careful oo |
Romance › Re: Are There Men Like Me? Am I Putting Myself Under Pressure? by Freshtruth(m): 12:09pm On Sep 26 |
Coder2Client: I’m someone who isn’t ashamed of being single.
I’m 36, and I’ll be 37 in December.
The honest truth is that I’m single. I’m not currently dating anyone. It’s not because I don’t ask women out—I do. But I’m not someone who enjoys talking too much, and sometimes the thought of having to constantly communicate, explain myself, and maintain a relationship feels stressful to me. Maybe that is one of the reasons I have remained single for this long.
My lifestyle is also very regimented. I have a routine that is so predictable that someone can almost tell when I’m at home and when I’m not.
Money is another major issue.
I currently earn ₦200,000 a month before tax, and I don’t have a side hustle at the moment. Sometimes I look at my income and wonder how I’m supposed to build the kind of life people expect from someone approaching 40.
I have even lied about being in a relationship when I know I’m not.
I’ve told people I have two children, even though I have never had children. I did it because I wanted people to stop asking questions and putting pressure on me. But ironically, while trying to escape other people’s expectations, I think I have ended up putting even more pressure on myself.
For a long time, I genuinely enjoyed being single.
The peace was beautiful.
No relationship drama. No constant explanations. No arguments. No pressure.
But lately, that peace is beginning to feel like loneliness.
I miss having someone.
And that is difficult for me to admit.
Another thing about me is that I give up easily on relationships. I can enter a relationship today and, a month later, lose interest and walk away without even properly explaining to the woman why I’m leaving.
I know that isn't a good quality.
My life has also been somewhat of a slow journey.
I started school at 11. I finished secondary school at 22. I completed tertiary education at 32. I started my teaching job earning ₦20,000 a month, and today, at 36, I earn ₦200,000.
You would think that increasing my income would make life easier.
But every time my income increases, inflation seems to move the goalpost.
What used to feel like enough no longer feels like enough.
And then there is friendship.
I have always struggled with keeping friends. Even as a child, I realised I didn't really have a flair for friendship. Today, I honestly don't have anyone I can confidently call my close friend.
I even remember a time when I would give people money just so they would play with me.
Looking back, that hurts.
I don't drink. I don't smoke. I don't party. I don't womanise.
At work, I joke around, interact with people and eat good food. From the outside, I probably look like someone who is doing just fine.
But deep down, there is a part of me that genuinely misses being in a relationship.
I can go an entire month without making or receiving a personal phone call. Most of the calls I receive or make are work-related because I’m one of the leaders at my workplace.
Sometimes I wonder how I got here.
I don't think I’m a bad person.
I don't think I’m unattractive.
I don't think I’m incapable of loving someone.
Maybe I just became too comfortable being alone.
Maybe I have built such a structured and independent life that making room for another person now feels difficult.
Or maybe I simply haven't figured out how to balance my personality, finances, career, friendships and relationships.
I don't know.
But lately, being single doesn't feel as peaceful as it used to.
It is starting to feel a little boring.
So I’m genuinely asking:
Are there other men who are like this?
Men in their 30s who don't drink, smoke, party or womanise.
Men who have very few or no close friends.
Men who have become so comfortable being alone that they don't know how to let someone into their lives.
Men who are not necessarily unhappy, but deep down, still miss having someone to come home to.
I’d really like to hear from you. bro we are in the same page bro amm currently 37yrs old , no wife no kids but I always lied I have a child to ease up pressure, I currently earn 250k a month am a very cute handsome young man like u girls dey o bit I just can't stay with a woman above 3 months. But I think my own case is spiritual. But we both have similar traits |
Sports › Re: Swimming Lessons In Portharcourt by Freshtruth(m): 11:58am On Sep 26 |
yinkeys: Safety first Better learn to float Unforeseen circumstances Nigeria & our poor education systems Most whites I’ve chit chatted were taught in primary school ok man |
Crime › Re: Man Kills Girlfriend In Enugu Over HIV Infection (disturbing Video, Pictures) by Freshtruth(m): 7:06pm On Sep 23 |
Leave yahoo guy and date normal guy una say no |
Nairaland General › Re: My Sporty Bet App Is No Longer Opening My Winnings Is Still Inside by Freshtruth(op): 6:10pm On Sep 23 |
Imalwayshorny: Off your VPN and Wi-Fi that's the causeuse their app first if them arrest you
They'll be blaming tinubu thanks sir bro is now working |
Nairaland General › My Sporty Bet App Is No Longer Opening My Winnings Is Still Inside by Freshtruth(op): 4:04pm On Sep 23 |
Hope sporty bet has not do me MMM this is what it has been showing since morning.
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Politics › Re: 2027: NDC Presidential Campaign Council Ready Soon, Begins Agent Mobilisation by Freshtruth(m): 11:57am On Sep 22 |
Forget joke o NDC look more serious than Adc for me . Without structures party Atiku can get votes tell me apart from the north were is he going to get the votes |
Sports › Re: Enyimba Supporters Club Rallies Behind Kanu Nwankwo's Management by Freshtruth(m): 1:18pm On Sep 20 |
Big club like enyimba dey die una dey close mouth and turn eyes because na kanu dey head am .. The better a proper and ruthless administrators like Felix anyansi is appointed the better for Alex otti and his legacy |
Politics › Re: We Now Have Five APC Governors Supporting Peter Obi - Isaac Fayose (video) by Freshtruth(m): 11:24am On Sep 20 |
We know o Nigerians and those governors hidden agenda against Tinubu. We dey see the out of betrayals. This started from tinubu birthdays Some Nigerians refuse to celebrate him |
Sports › Re: Nigeria Vs Madagascar: 2027 AFCON Qualifier (2 - 1) On 25th September 2026 by Freshtruth(m): 7:24am On Sep 20 |
Hmmmmm2024: Which stupid AFcon in 2037 again ? CAF stop killing the football career your African players I swear we fone tire them just play one finish late last year another one again next year. The fact Nigeria can't even host afcon is disgraceful since 2000. The gaint of Africa wey he dey self? We keep deceiving ourselves even the so called akwaibom stadium we always brag about is outdated go n see what kenya, Morocco n small Senegal are having world class facilities |
Sports › Re: Nigeria Vs Madagascar: 2027 AFCON Qualifier (2 - 1) On 25th September 2026 by Freshtruth(m): 7:20am On Sep 20 |
Wetin Madagascar go Carry Nigeria eyes see today |
Politics › Re: ₦18,000 Minimum Wage Bought More Than ₦70,000 Does Today - Makinde by Freshtruth(m): 11:51am On Sep 19 |
If you have 10million naira in your account today u re a broke man |
Sports › Re: Governor Mbah Visit Nnamdi Azikiwe Stadium Under Reconstruction by Freshtruth(m): 7:56am On Sep 19 |
Tracks stadium done reign go ooookk na wa |
Romance › She Asking For Forgiveness Should I Forgive Her(photo) by Freshtruth(op): 8:06am On Sep 18 |
She insult me on public, disgrace me before my friends now she is begging for forgiveness should I forgive her?
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Sports › Re: Messi Named In Argentina Squad For Final Farewell Appearance by Freshtruth(m): 9:26am On Sep 17 |
I pity those teams Messi go scatter thoer nets with goals |
Politics › Re: Peter Obi & The Anambra Debt Record: Facts VS Fiction By Obono-Obla by Freshtruth(m): 8:29am On Sep 17 |
When it comes to politics don't play with tinubu see as dem dey dig out Mr saints hidden tracks |
Politics › Re: Peter Obi Releases Handover Document To Counter Anambra Govt’s Debt Claims by Freshtruth(m): 8:09am On Sep 17 |
Anambra2019: That arrogant efulefu that calls itself soludo should pray Peter Obi doesn’t win cause if he does, we will ensure he either resigns or is impeached by every legitimate means possible. if obi mistakenly wins that will be the end of Apga and suludo political career even at not his political career dey shake I doubt if any Igbo man ho vote for am when he one gi senate or he wan do like obiano go exile for abroad |
Politics › Re: Peter Obi Releases Handover Document To Counter Anambra Govt’s Debt Claims by Freshtruth(m): 8:06am On Sep 17 |
Omo this obi dey bring out evidence no be mouth o |
Politics › Re: Even For Jerusalem Ashawo Quarter They There- Dino Melaye by Freshtruth(op): 8:04am On Sep 17 |
Obapluto: Easy to use Christians for examples. He should go to Kano and say even in Mecca. Lets see I swear weda he no go collect |
Business › Re: Is ₦500,000 Monthly Salary Enough To Live Comfortably In Nigeria Today? by Freshtruth(m): 7:23pm On Sep 16*. Modified: 9:28pm On Sep 16 |
More than enough u be big boy trust me
Even if you have family u can create major wealth from 500k a month.
Me I earn 380k monthly I have 2 lands as we speak bro. I enter into contribution and I was able to create something out of nothing.
If with 500k a month u are still confused then even with a billion naira nothing come out bro |
Politics › Even For Jerusalem Ashawo Quarter They There- Dino Melaye by Freshtruth(op): 5:06pm On Sep 16 |
“Even In Jerusalem, There’s An Ash@w0 Joint Near Mount Sinai”- Dino Melaye Former Kogi State senator and African Democratic Congress (ADC) chieftain, Dino Melaye, has criticised the use of public funds to finance religious activities, saying government resources should be channelled towards more pressing areas of national development. According to him, pilgrimage should not be regarded as a government responsibility, noting that neither Christianity nor Islam makes travelling to holy sites a requirement for attaining heaven. https://www.facebook.com/100063752402145/posts/1675698081231923/
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Politics › Re: Tinubu: 'Why Change The Leader When He Is Doing Well' - Oba Of Benin by Freshtruth(m): 11:03pm On Sep 15 |
Peter obi wife dey 200m hand bag, peter obi dey donate peanuts to orphanage |
Politics › Peter Obi Is A Big Criminal, He Can Never Rule Nigeria, - Asari dukunbo by Freshtruth(op): 8:57pm On Sep 15*. Modified: 9:33pm On Sep 15 |
I am supporting our son, our brother the founder of NDC Senator Dickson. but we are not supporting the presidential candidate that man called himself Peter Obi, we are not supporting him because he is a criminal, he can’t rule Nigeria, he can’t even rule me. I have unfinished business with Obi we are going to dig it out by ourselves Obi is a criminal. But we are supporting NDC and our brother senator Dickson. ~ King Asari Dokubo congratulate senator Dickson and NDC but not supporting Obi for president https://www.facebook.com/61569244224677/posts/122116007204641474/?app=fbl
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Politics › Re: Obi: Wike Looked Healthier When He Was With Me, No Plans To Witch-Hunt Him by Freshtruth(m): 8:50pm On Sep 15 |
Soludo still searching for the people obi owe salary
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Business › Re: Having A Male Heir Is Not My Priority - Dangote by Freshtruth(m): 1:20pm On Sep 15 |
Those poverty stricken men go wan kill thier wives because he failed to give them male child .
Bro or sister. Never marry anybody from a poor background
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Politics › Re: NDC Governorship Candidate, Marafa, Tours Zamfara (Video) by Freshtruth(m): 11:45am On Sep 15 |
Imagine of peter obi has been in NDC since 2023 or LP by now Atiku won't even been in the conversation. The government knows this that y they fight and cause confusion |
Politics › Re: Peter Obi Speaks On His Wife's Hermes Bag Controversy by Freshtruth(m): 10:44am On Sep 15 |
Peter obi is a very bad person |
Politics › Re: Peter Obi Speaks On His Wife's Hermes Bag Controversy by Freshtruth(m): 10:41am On Sep 15 |
Nigerians make una wise oooo this obi is deceptive. Pls allow tinubu to continue ooooo
Over 200 million naira on hand bag |