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Family › Re: Who Is Eligible To Return Bride Price by freshvine(f): 10:12am On Jan 02, 2025
pocohantas:
Dearest Senior Citizen,

All this are mere conjectures and irrelevant to the subject of the thread or my post. So don't quote me to advise, not after throwing your ignorant GenZ jab. You can do that as a standalone post. None of the parties involved have said they don't want the marriage dissolved. What the guy wants is for his ex FIL to call him or bring the bride price back himself and like I said and I repeat - IT IS NOT COMPULSORY THE MAN DOES THAT. There are FILs that do not want to set eyes on the SIL again and some would even transfer your money back to you. EOD!
I know your type. Argumentative and irrational with delusional tendencies.

Changing color like a chameleon to suit your narrative is tantamount to irrational behavior.
Education is everyday process, be humble to learn this one.

A reasonable father that want to return bride price should do so through his kinsmen. Nobody is saying father in law should personally return it but the people returning it is not traditional and unacceptable.
Family › Re: Who Is Eligible To Return Bride Price by freshvine(f): 9:09am On Jan 02, 2025
pocohantas:
The question here is not if it can be returned to the groom, but if the bride's father must be part of the return team. So Mr/Ms Senior Genz, take a second to read before responding to me.

The father of the girl cannot claim ignorance because you have no knowledge of their indoor conversation. If they have done that and appointed people to come return it, then it up to the guy to be on ground with his kinsmen to receive it. If he does shakara, they can drop it with his village head. At no point is it compulsory the father must come himself! Given that from the look of things, the guy has not deemed it necessary to reach his inlaws all through the supposed period of reconciliation. If he wants reconciliation, then he should call for it.

Also, it is IGBO, not IBO.

Thank you
You read where I advised accordingly yet you taking this part of ignorance trajectories.

If they intend to return the bride price, there's that person every traditional marriage employes before ceremony, the .MEDITATOR, they should look for him and hand him the bride price.

Breaking of marriage is not easy either traditional or civil marriage. It takes 2 years minimum to get court divorce and when it is traditional it takes processes.

When your intending husband comes, definitely he'll do knocking of door, introduction, payment of bride price and finally traditional wedding. When your husband says he no do again, let your father inform one of your sister's husband to do the refund.

For the useless Inlaw that got involved, shame on him!
Family › Re: Who Is Eligible To Return Bride Price by freshvine(f): 7:11pm On Jan 01, 2025
pocohantas:
If you don't want a marriage again, I wouldn't know why you will be dramatic over receiving your brideprice. The father doesn't have to call. Has your friend called his ex father inlaw in the period of separation out of respect or to see how things can be fixed? If no, then I fail to see why the father should extend same honour to him.

If they refuse to collect it. Then a lawyer can drop it off with their village head. It is not even compulsory you hand it over to the man or his family. Let alone it being compulsory the father calls or brings it back himself.
Gen Z advisor.

This situation depends on who's calling for the divorce. If it's the lady, she'll inform the father if still alive or father's kinsmen who will then invite the parent or guardian of the guy to come for their bride price. In Ibo land, bride orice is paid by the parent or elderly kinsman and not the intending spouse so naturally return of bride price is returned to an elderly person of the ex husband and not directly to the ex husband.

If it's the guy asking for return of bride price, sometime the parent of the girl may stall for a while to give reconciliation a chance and when it didn't happen, father may wait until his daughter remarries and then the bride price is returned to the previous husband.

Whatever is happening now, the father of the girl will claim ignorance in the near future.
Car Talk › Better Buy Between Toyota RAV4 Vs VENZA by freshvine(op): 8:36am On Dec 29, 2024
Please between the 2013 Toyota RAV4 limited 2013 Toyota Venza limited i4, which should be a better buy in 2025?

Please compare base on ;
Aesthetic
Handling
Interior build quality
Modernity
Cost of maintenance .


Which will you likely pick or own against the other.
Politics › Re: President Tinubu’s Pictures With Ibori Vs Kalu by freshvine(f): 1:09pm On Dec 23, 2024
All 3 thieves with criminal records.
Jokes Etc › Re: Share Your Experiences With This Padlock by freshvine(f): 9:48am On Dec 11, 2024
When the hook rings scatter inside, even your keys will be useless. Anyway I figured out a way to handle it.
Foreign Affairs › Re: Syrian Rebels Threaten Israel ‘From Here We Are Coming To Jerusalem' by freshvine(f): 9:23pm On Dec 09, 2024
AL Jazeera' should start moving their equipments into Syria. It's about to go down.
Their victim reportage tickles my clits
Politics › Re: Proposed National Temple For Traditional Religion, Abuja by freshvine(f): 11:08am On Dec 05, 2024
The place will be smelling with all sort of decaying sacrifices and blood. So many human and animal skulls will relic the place.

What a bizarre experience it'll be.
Politics › Re: Governor Fubara Commissions Reconstructed Okehi/Umuola/Eberi Road by freshvine(f): 7:53am On Dec 05, 2024
EmekaA125:
So it's only Ikwerres that are putting R to any name that begin with Umu in Rivers State in a bid to claim what I don't know.
Etche, Omuma, Oyibo and Ogba Egbema uses Umu. Even main Ikwerre LGA uses Umu. Only Obio Akpor, Port Harcourt uses Rumu and Emuoha too
Travel › Re: Aero Contractors Slashes Airfares To ₦80,000 For All Destinations In Nigeria by freshvine(f): 8:53pm On Dec 03, 2024
Collect southern business, nationalize it and hand it over to a Northerner. One Nigeria indeed.
Foreign Affairs › Re: Italy, Netherlands, Canada To Enforce ICC Arrest Warrant Against Netanyahu by freshvine(f): 2:12pm On Nov 22, 2024
God1000:
No peace for the wicked


Under the Rome statute, countries that are part of the ICC are legally bound to enforce its arrest warrants.

I think ICC should extend the arrest warrant to US and UK leaders, they are the biggest enablers of this genocide.
How the head of the snake is ledt out still intrigues me. I mean Ayatollah
Politics › Re: VAT Generation Between The South South & South East (photo) by freshvine(f): 9:32am On Nov 22, 2024
I recently paid vat of over 1.7m in Rivers. I am from the east.
Foreign Affairs › Re: Deadly Israeli Air Strikes Hit Gaza - BBC Reports by freshvine(f): 9:40pm On Nov 21, 2024
psucc:
When the Hamas strike Israel, the hit the military or their facilities but when the Israel hits back, the kill women and children.
The October 7th massacre of Israelis by HAMAS chanting Allahu arkbar were the victims military targets?
Autos › Re: 2012 Venza Registered Neatly Used First Body Pan Thumb Start For Sale by freshvine(f): 2:15pm On Nov 19, 2024
The amount you mentioned will land a toks on pre-order.
Foreign Affairs › Re: Kamala Harris Paid $2.5M To Oprah Winfrey's Harpo Productions - DailyMail by freshvine(f): 1:46pm On Nov 19, 2024
Tinubu is smarter than her. Instead of Tinubu wasting money on frivolity, he bought INEC and the rest is history.
Foreign Affairs › Re: Turkish Strikes In Syria Cut Water To One Million People by freshvine(f): 12:11pm On Nov 19, 2024
Islam arm against Islam.

No comment.
Foreign Affairs › Re: Mohammed Afif: Israel Kills Hezbollah's Chief Spokesman In Lebanon Airstrike by freshvine(f): 5:40pm On Nov 17, 2024
Coldspice:
Do you know that Biafrans are the only people supported by Israel who eventually lost?

Imagine Biafran men running away, none wanted to lead. They had to go import Effiong and Banjo to lead. Even Ojukwu ran like a dog when Obasanjo landed.
Imagine a tiny territory standing up against the Nigeria government with all their arsenals and foreign allies including Egypt actively participating. Imagine a tiny territory raising a ragtag military to keep the Nigerian forces and their allies busy for 3 whole years.

Juxtapose that to today's reality.
Politics › Re: South-South Generated The Highest Revenue In 2023 - StatiSense by freshvine(f): 7:47am On Nov 08, 2024
Richtaiwo:
What the fvck is this one saying? Is he trying to explain why the entire SE is the most unproductive zone?

North West — ₦1.41 trillion
North Central — ₦1.34 trillion
North East — ₦911.65 billion
South East — ₦823.54 billion
The real tax payers are the South East. The pay from their individual businesses and self efforts.

Ogun State and lagos has a large concentration of national investments and sea ports plus its the epicenter of everyone's business in Nigeria.

The South South majorly derive their taxes from oil and gas exploration activities.
Business › Re: What Business Can I Do With A Million Naira Please by freshvine(f): 2:27pm On Oct 24, 2024
Buy AK47, you can even quadruple your investment if you're hardworking in a day grin
Politics › Re: Hausa Language On The New BRICS Currency by freshvine(f): 1:00pm On Oct 24, 2024
Anything Islamic or Nigeria, the money will become instantly useless.
Foreign Affairs › Re: Palestinian Girl Carries Her Injured Sister For An Hour To Safety. by freshvine(f): 11:10am On Oct 22, 2024
God1000:
Watching this breaks my heart
Something that was staged and film by Aljazeera to hoodwink the world pushing propaganda narrative.
Foreign Affairs › Re: Iran Reacts To Killing Of Yahya Sinwar By IDF, Labels Him Model For Youths by freshvine(f): 1:52pm On Oct 19, 2024
Spy drone is on ayatollah already for a precision strike from IDF.

IRAN always talking tough. It's not the amount of missiles you stockpiled against your enemy but the intelligence and strategy you employ.

Isreal can use intelligence and 5 aircraft to turn Iran into ruins.
Politics › Re: Are Those Supporting This Government Have A Special Market? by freshvine(f): 1:39pm On Oct 19, 2024
helinues:
Okay. Tell us the improvement your current state governor, House of rep members and the senators made for their constituency, for their people

The prices of good and services in other countries are not the same compared to 8 years ago

And if you want to use minimum wage as an excuse for not improving, you need to consider purchasing power. Things are more cheaper in Nigeria compared to other countries which the minimum wage is far better to Nigeria when exchanged the currency but when you compared things they will buy with that money, Nigerians would buy more with their meager salary

Kenya for example, their basic salary is around 30,000 KES, equivalent to Nigeria currency is N399,000 @ 13.3 rate.

Average one bedroom in Kenya is 10,000 KES, basics, transportation, foods, and here and there are still there to sort out.

A beer in Kenya now should be around 250KES. Can you buy one bottle of beer at N32,500 in Nigeria?
Stuppid economic analysis.

You import everything you consume, pay duties and taxes on them, how then do you buy things cheaper?
Autos › Re: Foreign Used 2010 Lexus RX350 by freshvine(f): 12:07pm On Oct 19, 2024
19.5 or 29.5?
Foreign Affairs › Re: Drone Launched At Netanyahu Home In Northern Israel, Spokesman Says by freshvine(f): 12:04pm On Oct 19, 2024
Just small play when Hamas go play inside Israel, it has cost Iran many military Chiefs, Hamas leaders, Hezbollah leaders and Palestine flattened to the ground with shout of genocide everywhere.

Then imagine killing Netanyahu or any IDF general, Israel will nuke middle east.
Foreign Affairs › Re: Hamas Leader Yahya Sinwar 'is DEAD'(Photos) by freshvine(f): 4:49pm On Oct 17, 2024
Ayatollah should watch his back.
Foreign Affairs › Re: US Bombers Target Underground Houthi Weapon Sites In Yemen by freshvine(f): 9:09am On Oct 17, 2024
Iran should be nuked for relative peace to return to the world.
Foreign Affairs › Re: UN Troops Failing Israel As Hezbollah Creates Tunnels Right Under Their Nose. by freshvine(f): 8:14pm On Oct 14, 2024
nedekid:
Whats is hezbollah? Do you even know? What is the he reason the group was created? Do your research, because it seem you are uninformed. Simply reciting the colonizers narrative.
So Muslims created Hezbollah to be firing missiles and rockets into isreal?
Foreign Affairs › Re: UN Troops Failing Israel As Hezbollah Creates Tunnels Right Under Their Nose. by freshvine(f): 7:35pm On Oct 14, 2024
MasterTeeUSA:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Fld4RUu-20U?si=RWUlQgpgSu2-gixW

Without US, Israel cannot do 1% of what it does. 4 Israeli soldiers killed with a drone. US deploys troops...US deploys Army Ships. US provides weapons for Iron Dome...US = Israel and Israel is US's puppet LOL.

Without Iran, North Korea those terrorists won't even exist supported by Turkey, Qatar and other Islamic propaganda media organizations.
Foreign Affairs › Re: UN Troops Failing Israel As Hezbollah Creates Tunnels Right Under Their Nose. by freshvine(f): 7:29pm On Oct 14, 2024
nedekid:
Rubbish as usual from the apartheid occupier, muderious, war crime committing regime.
The Israelis have aircraft tanks, missiles to penetrate the Lebanese airspace and land anytime they wish, since the Lebanese don't have the same, should they just lay down and die without resistance with the little they have? The tunnels is located in Lebanon just as Israel has air bases in Israel.
Is Hezbollah the Lebanese recognized army formation?

How could a nation allow " militant group" acting as though they have been captured.

If Lebanese army are not ready to flush out Hezbollah, IDF is capable for the greater peace of both country.
Politics › Re: President Tinubu Met With Masari At His Private Residence In London-photo by freshvine(f): 4:41am On Oct 12, 2024
TPAIN tinkering the idea of white substance shipment to targeted market. ESCOBAR MOOD ACTIVATED!
Foreign Affairs › Re: Israeli Strike On Gaza School Sheltering Displaced Kills 28, Paramedics Say by freshvine(f): 5:17pm On Oct 10, 2024
God1000:
This is heartbreaking, the number of deaths and displaced people in this conflict from Gaza to the occupied west bank is staggering
Isreal cannot defeat Hamas!

As long as Hamas is concerned, Palestinians can all die so that Hamas remain undefeated.

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