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Lol, does Dede have to wear excessive make-up and dress like a trainee stripper unto "It-Girl"? That's why her antics would really amuse men above 30! 😁

Munzy14:
Hermes is Mysterious..His chemistry with Allyson was SOMETHING else.

Of course it was. Allyson remains the girl with the BEST figure in the history of BBnaija, and she acts like she doesn't even know it. Seeing her just walk was a total pleasure.

Munzy14:
Allyson I think she didn't reciprocate Adekunle's advances. Rather she was crushing on Hermes.

That hermes though 🤣🤣🤣🤣 las las we've had all types of human on this show.

Hermes! I really wanted him to win, solid guy considering all he's been through in life.

Adekunle was too gentle for Allyson, and he wasn't physical. She admitted that Hermes aroused her sexually, but Hermes seemed hesitant about having sex in the house, allegedly for spiritual reasons (i believe he's an Orisha worshipper).

His eviction pained me o. Adekunle and Ozo are the type of guys want to settle down with when they're done being wild with the likes of Kiddwaya and Jason Jae.

Please what part of Rivers is Kola from maternally? He seems particularly interested in everything Igbo for some reason.

The game last night was a little bit weird with Isabella just sitting and watching, she seemed really off. Imisi & Sultana participated and had a good time.

Or is she trying to not be seen a particular way? Or is it her time of the month? She usually lives for such games.

Munzy14:
Kaybobo's body build is eye candy for women.

His self discipline is top notch. And he is good just that kitchen is denying him interaction and mingle with fellow housemates. Anyway he has sold him self the best he can.

The kitchen thing even made women like him more. For 3 weeks they just sat down and he was serving them food. The fact that he was giving cuddles and still behaving himself made them mark him as a target that must 'fall'.

It's just like how Adekunle was always disciplined and moving like a monk, which made Venita scream out because of his constantly avoiding touching her,"I don go jam pastor eh!". Allyson also had the same problem with him. Venita sha mounted pressure until she succeeded. Same with Tolani, Lucy & Lilo with Prince.

Kaybobo's luck with women is amazing, even Dede and Soso probably looked at him twice.

But i don't know if it's home training or practising celibacy, his self-control game is really high. Will Thelma finally succeed where Imisi, Isabella, Ivatar, Gigi,& Tracy failed? We watch!

Tifay:
I dont even think he scored anything at this point. Just see the video below.

Later in the day he will say he kissed and did many more with Dede under the sheets!!See how he was pushed away! Still waiting for the pending kiss video from Showmax today !!

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— MAAME NAA🌻🌸 (@FinegirlMaame) September 18, 2025

Kola's word cant be taken at face value at this point

Lol, maybe Dede just looseguarded last time and regained her senses later. Kola at worst exaggerates, but he doesn't lie much. But she hasn't given him the main thing, otherwise he would have chilled a bit.

We're entering Week 9, he should wait so he can enjoy Dede very well outside the house (Dede's fans and team might spoil this, plus she might see videos of him telling Bright and Imisi things and get upset. Kola knows this tool, which is why he's really trying to score her INSIDE the house).

It's the same reason Jason is still tolerating Sultana, he hasn't enjoyed her very well and with the small sample she displayed last night during their raunchy game, she has so much more to offer.

Tifay:
It's Thelma and Kaybobo.

Dede has braids on.

Oh, okay.

geezprince:
This isn’t even about Dede or Kola. It’s about The production crew. Reality Tv shows are often driven by a specific agenda or story, production in their quest of creating a desired narrative, often manipulate footage, context, or events to confirm their desired perspective about a subject or individual, potentially at the expense of impartiality or factual accuracy.

You need to understand that there’s a narrative being pushed by the producers and they’ll do anything to validate the narrative. In this context, production has already painted a skewed portrait of kola(a rejected simp) to the viewers, therefore the moment they air any video of him and Dede smooching or cuddling aggressively under the duvet, that narrative/portrait gets disproven, invalidated or destroyed, hence the need to deny viewers the pleasure such scenes, not for ethical considerations but Narrative Strategy.

This is quite true, but production can't do everything.

Dede already told Mide she pecked Kola and admitted he has grown on her.

She also admitted to having an intense moment with Koyin (the duvet kiss).

She's the one acting childish. She won't kiss Kola in public or even hug him properly.m, except when she was drunk and when she returned from the secret room, which was the first time she really cracked thanks to Joanna and Rooboy (Dede's fans were abusing them on Twitter lol).

Kola too has the habit of choking her by following her around all the time. They don't dance or steal kisses, and the housemates have begged him to give himself some dignity.

Dede is so crafty that even telling Kola she likes him and then giving him a hand job might be a scam.

Or are you saying it is possible she's being coached by production ? I remember Venita alleging something like this with Ilebaye.

Well, women are very unpredictable. If he keeps applying pressure she might finally agree to full sex. Nobody believed she would even hug him at first.

Kingcid:

Later in the day he will say he kissed and did many more with Dede under the sheets!!See how he was pushed away! Still waiting for the pending kiss video from Showmax today !!

🎥: @BBNaija #BBNaija
No copyright infringement intended. pic.twitter.com/M0HpWwzezz

— MAAME NAA🌻🌸 (@FinegirlMaame) September 18, 2025

Kolapo🤦🤦🤦

Lol,i think she cuddled him last last. But people are saying that was Thelma, not Dede.

Beorn:
When Sultana positioned for that d0ggy last night ... I knew that girl is baaad girl... 😬😌


Jason Jae don already imagine that style after the house. 😬😬

Jason won't be so lucky outside. Sultana's people will update her on what he said behind her. It's why i don't understand it when guys kiss and tell in a house with cameras. It's also why Dede might blank Kola outside the house, the guy talks A LOT. Jason's own is worse because Joanna seems like she already has him in mind after the show, but her people might also warn her.

Only 3 guys are sure to keep collecting outside the house not just for looks and packaging,but their conduct and sealed lips - Bright, Koyin and Kaybobo. Koyin has stubbornly refused to leak Isabella's gist. Bright is even still pretending to be begging Mide for a kiss in public.

Beorn:
This Kola is an entertaining HM to be honest. Hate him or love him, he brings his own spice to the show. 😂😂😂😂


The way he said "interesting" took me out. 🤣🤣🤣🤣

Lol, yes na. Thelma has been acting like an iron lady since so it would be surprising to see her in a man's arms like that.

I just knew when they played that game last night that serious wahala go dey. For the fact that i saw Thelma and Dede there, i realized that almost all the girls in that house except Zita were Hot last night. Imisi was screaming like a child that fell into a candy shop! Joanna is a coded bad girl sha, Mide tried to act like she wasn't pained😂.

The star of last night and that entire game for me sha was...... SULTANA. That her arch has been living rent-free in my head since i saw it.

Thelma shouldn't get her hopes up though. Kaybobo doesn't even easily kiss on camera, Ivatar applied extreme pressure before getting a kiss, and even then he quickly guarded himself up. It's been a while I've seen a guyman on BBnaija ask Biggie for his Bible.

As Joanna rightly said, dem get luck say Soso don comot. That game would have ended ASAP!

geezprince:
He doesn’t have to, he scored her a long time ago. We never got to know because, other than the game they(Dede and kola) are both playing, there’s a narrative the production crew has successfully created to make kola An irritant and A simp

Selective editing is one of the most powerful tools for shaping narratives in reality Tv shows..Here, producers emphasize certain interactions and completely omit others. In this context, producers highlight moments of rejection and downplay positive ones to build a specific character arc.

Dede said to him last night “ the only reason I decided to play the game was because you were there” “I thought you were going to come to me, why did you go to her(sultana)”
These conversations happened while they were both under the duvet last night…guess what happened next? They removed the camera from them.

The production crew hasn’t been fair to kola at all, they’ve successfully painted a portrait of him being a simp and a loser, constantly setting him up for drags, mockery and public ridicule for higher ratings, while they protect Dede by not showing when She’s being sweet and lovey with him, hence making it seem it’s a one sided affair.

Hmmm, this might be true, but let's not overstretch it, Dede isn't bigger than the show.

The only times in BBnaija history a sex scene escaped Biggie's eye were:-

1). Dora & Brighto, because she(Dora) must have been so discreet, slick & under the duvet that cameras didn't clock it. Well, she still confessed with her mouth later.

2). All the bathroom scenes of SYE (Angel & Pere, Cross & JMK). Adekunle later explained that production might have decided airing such scenes were too invasive, especially when those scenes were spontaneous and the housemates obviously too time to ensure privacy. Highest, they'll show kissing in the bathroom. But the 2 scenes were probably very x-rated, no kissing or romance involved.

Dede still isn't as big as Erica, yet Biggie didn't hold back from showing her and Kidd.

I've also noticed that the same people doing things under the duvet will definitely get shown.

Dede is undoubtedly the star of the show, but if she looseguards, Biggie won't spare her. Whatever she does will still generate massive traffic.

If Kola scored major, his simping would have reduced a bit. I believe he scored French-kissing and a handjob once just last week, but Dede is still holding back.

Dede grew into liking him, she didn't before. She does crave his attention though, while not wanting to stop whatever she has with Koyin at the same time.

Biggie knew Sultana risked earning a fatwa in the North,but he aired ALL her scenes with Jason.

Isabella is a star of the show in her own right, but Biggie didn't pity her. We've seen ALL her scenes.

Pretty ajebo Mide also wasn't spared. Biggie zoomed IN on her scenes with Bright, despite her constantly saying she didn't want to embarrass her family on the show.

Despite crying that she didn't want to do anything to offend her family , Zita's scene with Danboskid was shown.

Ordinary cuddling between Thelma & Kaybobo last night (Kaybobo my man!👍🏿), Biggie showed us. Thelma's shakara is even worse than Dede's.

Dede is not ranked to be even the 1st runner up, so if she mess up, she sef go collect Chakam!

Kola is still mounting pressure because he wants to end her outside ship(which I believe doesn't exist), and because he has no plans for Dede after the show. But Dede isn't a baby, she can't keep sleeping near him and pushing him away when it's time to kiss.

This game might end with Kola finally scoring Dede if he can close-mark her throughout this night till Saturday.

TheEnforcer:
LOL, I think he was about to go to aviation school then.But he was wearing pilot dresses as if he was an actual pilot[ pilot scope].,He got so much money after the show.Imo state government even sponsored him

No, Miracle had a PPL(Private Aircraft Pilot License)at that time but wanted to get a CPL(Commercial Pilot) certification , which he could finally pay for after the show.

Kai, Thelma's really looking good today. I can't even deny it!

Geezeem:
This is a tantrum
I won't respond to it much

I only said your ways are weird and I am not the first to say so

You two write like you know these people but YOU DON'T

Where is the name calling?

You're not the first, you're only the second. The first person is actually the other irritant you were kiki-ing with.

What exactly do you mean by "Your ways are weird"? If you could make that conclusion by means of my comments on a FACELESS & ANONYMOUS forum, how am i weird for giving my opinions of people who talk,fight,eat, dance, and basically live out their lives on my TV screen for weeks now?

Do you not see the baffling contradiction in your reply? You're educated na, read what you typed again.

Geezeem:
Him and that Tfay fellow
...very weird!

I think it's wrong to call people names without provocation don't you think? I would have used more fitting language on you & that possibly pre-pubescent moniker you replied to,but I'm holding back because I keep getting banned and I'm genuinely irritated with being compared to one other Gentlefury character who weirdly types like me, though he seems to be slightly better with being pleasantly disrespectful.

Be calming down, it's just BBnaija . Na cruise last last. How's your day at work going?

Anniemae:
I really do not look forward to your textbook paragraphs. Also the way you speak about the housemates like you're that one cockroach living in their wardrobes. You speak about them like yk them so well.

Then why bother replying? Afterall my comment wasn't aimed at you or your previous comment. Is it my fault that you have network failure when it comes to reading more than 1 paragraph?

Tifay:
They didnt go this far. Im pretty sure she probably just touched him or showed him more affection and Kola exaggerated as usual. The body language between them after is not one you can connect to people that have been that initimate. She keeps whacking him and doesnt seem to care.

Let me tell you how bad Kola's exagerration is and why you shouldnt really believe him when it comes to Dede. I watched a conversation between him and Dede where he asked her why she doesnt come around him on Thursday and Saturday nights during and after parties.

This is what Dede said " I dont like being around men who are attracted to me when i'm tipsy or drunk.

Could you believe that Kola remixed this conversation and told Bright and Mide that " Dede said she doesnt like being around him on Thursday and Saturday night parties cos she's attracted to him unlike Koyin who she isnt and more comfortable with"

And that's why when he goes on his stup1d media rant, I dont buy what he says. He's very deliberate with his yarns. We'll watch Dede whack him, then he'll go to Bright and Mide and exagerrate a part of her speech and conote it differently especially some of her love island lines and use that as a basis for his tirades. If I was a Dede fan, i'll really h8te Kola. He sets her up with his moves,talks and exagerrations.

Lol, Kola! I don't blame him, 150m is still a lot of money. He should calm down sha, it's Week 8 already.

Anniemae:
I really do not look forward to your textbook paragraphs. Also the way you speak about the housemates like you're that one cockroach living in their wardrobes. You speak about them like yk them so well.

Then avoid replying to my comments. It's not my fault that reading upsets you so much, and in any case was my comment directed at you or your previous comment?

I don't know these people, but they've been on my TV screen long enough to make deductions about them, do you watch the show only for sex scenes and fights? If you're a relative of any housemate, say so instead of trying so hard to show me you're bereft of manners or social skills.

Tifay:


Abeg make una help me see the bolded oo . Lies you tell yourself. Kai

Did you see the disgusting look Dede gave him when he mentioned her name today. Dey deceive yourself, your boy no fit leave the pond.

Reminds me of the first time he formed vex, only to go back to her after two weeks meanwhile she no send am. Just watch how he'll still do the same thing again.

At least with Kola, no fake pride, una jj go dey form pride, meanwhile he watches her every move in the house and still look for any quick opportunity to go back to the pond

I know something went down between Dede and Kola that night, but I'm beginning to feel Kola exaggerated. She most likely jerked him off or kissed and smooched just before that advert. If it happened after,the cameras would have shown it for a few seconds. They've already shown people giving head, actual head, and actual fingering, Dede isn't special.

Kissing and smooching, if it was real sex or even head, Kola might have calmed down with the simping. Either way, he'll still come out and explain his blabbing to Bright about it, so most likely anything with Dede outside the house is dead on arrival.

For whatever reason, Dede seems to be finally tired of him,but the guy seems very determined to be a pest at his age.

Jason is slowly becoming obsessed with Dede, i think he's even ready to sacrifice his left hand just to watch a video of Dede having sex. That's the creature Sultana humiliated herself on live TV!

Dede is a child. A mature woman would have ended this whole fishes nonsense or make her choice at Week 2. It's why i can't fault Thelma maturely handling Rooboy's advances, even though she was sometimes very condescending about it.

Christlike01:
As it is now, anyone will do! Dede desperately needs a story to hang on to. I agree with your earlier submission — Dede desperately intends to launch a new storyline with Kaybobo, since the pond has dried up and the "fishes" have escaped! As you rightly observed, she has picked a wrong guy — Kaybobo will never fall for any of her antics.

Juliet Ibrahim and Dede? There is no basis for comparison — Juliet is not in the same league as Dede.

Lol, Kaybobo had stuff with Juliet Ibrahim, so he might be amused at Dede feeling herself. It's why i wish i could see Kola's exes. It's how I can tell Jason hasn't really bagged many girls like Sultana before .

Anybody will not do o, otherwise she for reason Kuture since. She's just hovering around the presumed top 5 freshest boys in the house.

Christlike01:
Yes, maybe — especially now that the "fishes" are no longer cooperating.

But it's a waste of time for her. Kaybobo doesn't even kiss. He'll just cook for you and gist and maybe cuddle, and even in the cuddling if you try touching him wrongly he might complain. The problem is that women LOVE pressuring such guys. It's why some women like going for pastors that are married.

Outside the house, you think he would choose Dede over Juliet Ibrahim?

Christlike01:
As much as I agree that most of the girls in the house find Kaybobo attractive and would have loved to have something with him, the fact remains that Kaybobo wasn't on Dede's radar in the early stages of the show. This was even evident in their conversation yesterday when Kaybobo told Dede that he had wanted to get to know her in the early days, but she (Dede) brushed him off.

So, in essence, my point is: if the "fish" story were still very active and the "fishes" were cooperating like they did in the past, Dede wouldn't even remember that someone named Kaybobo exists in that house.

Hence, when the desirable is not available, the available becomes desirable.

Maybe she felt Kaybobo was a player. Maybe she felt he was too strict. Kaybobo mentioned Dede and Soso as his main interests,but he doesn't chase women. Maybe Dede's brain is telling her she should look at him a second time.

Christlike01:
When the desirable is not available, the available becomes desirable.

Lol, is this your description of Kaybobo of all people, one of the most desired guys in the house?

If not that he probably wants to avoid woman wahala by focusing on food, he was actually ranked by women as being on the same level with Bright.

Tifay:
He also lives and is based in Miami; A place with some of the most exotic women on God's green earth

You know ball. If you try foreign dating platforms, you might never be impressed with Nigerian women!

It's why Kola is baffling me. Didn't he see more attractive women in Canada?

Bennytwin:
People were expecting Kaybobo to be like Eric with one girl in the house or be like bright...

I like Kaybobo as he is! It is not a must a guy will ship or kiss or have sex in bbn!

Kaybobo is as real as they come! I have been saying it! He is just himself!
There is something about Kaybobo , Isabella and Sultana! They don't act! What you see is what you get!

I will vote those trio many times over before I drop a vote for Imisi or Koyin. Lols

But then again,I guess it is up to the voters! Enjoy!

I give Kaybobo kudos for giving a good account of himself. It's just that women are deadly in one aspect - when they want you, they simply won't rest till they get you or you stand your ground, then they start hating you.

The women weren't deceived with Kaybobo's hugging the kitchen, they even started giving him kudos for cooking for them everyday.

To make things worse, they heard he was giving gentlemanly cuddles in bed without being handsy, which made them notice him more.

Ivatar that said she doesn't do younger guys almost swore to get him down ,but the young man managed to resist. Thelma & Gigi probably simply decided they'll get him outside the house . Isabella & Imisi were very pushy. Soso tried coming back after bouncing him, but he was no more interested.

He was a school athlete in the US where girls, especially White girls, go wild over athletes. I doubt BBnaija girls would move him much.

Tifay:
Friendly25, are you really sure anything happened between Kola and Dede?

Why's she still whacking him like this? Almost like nothing has changed oo

Maybe she's bipolar. Kola really wants this ship for outside the house. She's really upsetting him. Nobody knows what Dede will do next - she might face Koyin squarely, flirt with Kaybobo, or even flirt with Bright.

Tifay:
Kaybobo has been adamant and has said it on multiple occasions in the house that he's not there to ship but if it happens, it happens. I still remember the funny incident of Isabella asking him to share his "pen1s" and he said no..lol. No matter how relentless Ivatar got sef, all she ever got was a cuddle. I've not even seen him chase a single girl in that house unlike the other boys who you can tell the girl they are gravitating towards.

He said he liked Sabrina and Dede, but I no see am make any single move. Yeah female viewers would have liked to see him in a romantic setting, but he doesnt seem to want or care Maybe he's waiting for the outside world where he said he's used to classy girls chasing him - he mentioned Juliet Ibrahim being in his DM one time like that.

About Dede and Kola, yeah I did notice the bolded.

It could be because he's demystified her or what is more probable and like I predicted; her acting like nothing happened which I think made Kola step back. I noticed same with Koyin after their whatever

Although earlier today, I heard Kola complain when discussing with Mide earlier today that Dede doesnt share or speak about emotions - He was asking Mide how Dede felt about Zita picking him as HOH guest and that one said Dede didnt say anything.

I think Dede may be trying new connections, albeit too late - Cos I heard her tell Thelma not long ago if she ever feels like or wishes to have her own person in the house i.e someone who's really for her alone. That did tell me that she may have been feeling left out by her fishes

Lol, in her mind, she probably knows her game has made her popular, but she seems to like nobody in the house and has decided to change her game.

What happened with Kola that night was totally initiated by her, Kola probably just planned to doze off. Maybe she just wanted to feel some intimacy, or reward Kola for being so enduring.

Girls like Dede don't just hangout with people for no reason. I saw her playing that Ayo game with Kaybobo and noticed her exaggerated laughing. She still hasn't forgotten Koyin who still intrigues her. We watch.