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renderme:Sometimes, it's good to intervene. A social experiment is still an experiment, a test within a controlled & CONFINED environment based on external stimuli like tasks, exercise regimens, and even controlled social activities like parties with the added factor of being watched 24/7. You wouldn't easily share a bed with someone of the opposite gender you're not romantic with, neither would you be in a confined space with chykers you would have blocked or refused to even talk to. You wouldn't even meet certain people in the outside world if not for BBnaija. If Biggie intervened in BB Africa, what happened with Richard & Ofunneka would have been stopped. If Biggie had intervened earlier with a stern warning in See Gobe, the T-Boss/Kemen thing would have never happened. T-Boss actually complained in front of the housemates before that Kemen was misbehaving with her. Infact, it was noise online from viewers that finally made Biggie act. T-Boss herself didn't even know Kemen had assaulted her. It's different from Kuture being too handsy with the females like Sultana & Isabella, because the females haven't complained yet. But it seems he has given himself sense and reduced it a little, or someone spoke to him about it. This year, Biggie used his brain by sharply removing the kitchen knives when he senses things could pop off. Isn't that tampering with the social experiment? The minute Dede uttered not consenting to hugging Kola of all things, common hug o, Biggie should have called them into the diary room and cleared it out, because the girl seems very good at saying one thing and meaning something else. Ebuka said his aim is to trigger a reaction right? That in itself is influencing the game. Erica was cool with Laycon until Ebuka threw in a bomb there. Nobody knew Koyin & Sultana kissed until Ebuka busted it up, thereby alerting Dede. Same with when the Jason and Sultana thing got blown up, alerting Dede as well. So, fans wouldn't be out of place to say what they want out of a need for drama, entertainment or protection of a housemate, afterall they're the ultimate consumers of the BBnaija content. Afterall, Ebuka let Kola know he was a fish to Dede and he still died there, so why not spill the side-talk of any other housemate to get an expected reaction? It will force the concerned to own up to their words and actions ("standing on 10 toes" as these Gen Zs & Alphas call it), retract & apologize, or clarify that they don't mind what was being said and done about them, so nobody can claim to be a victim or free of responsibility. |
renderme:Lol, i said it here that ALL the girls have their eyes on Bright except Doris who's safely in the sister zone with him and maybe Dede out of respect for Mide. |
ultraviolet27:Lol, who's this Gentlefury? |
Tifay:Kola has obviously never been accused by a woman before so his mind might not be there. Back in school, a girl invited me to her miniflat, cooked for me, even offered to run hot water for me since she understood i was sleeping over. This girl laid beside me on the bed and was making calls while smacking my hand away as I was trying to press and handle. I assumed she had given me consent anyway. The lights were off so i was pulling off her clothes when she pretended like she woke up from sleep and started asking "What are you doing?" ,"What's this?", "Are you actually trying to penetrate me while I'm asleep?". I was dazed, i honestly thought she was joking until her voice went soft, almost like a little girl's voice, and she told me while smiling wickedly, "You know this is my compound and I'm friendly with my co-tenants? Hope you know i can simply rip my clothes & scream at the top of my voice (it was between 1-2am) and accuse you of trying rape me by the time everyone gathers? It will simply be my word against yours!" I had to plead for more than an hour before she calmed down, only for the same girl to ask me for sex 1hr later!!! Once 6am show, i RAN. My erection went dead and I saw my life flash before my eyes! This na girl wey dey allow me kiss and press o. Dede french-kissed Koyin in a Truth or Dare, but Koyin sensibly maintained distance. Sultana kissed Koyin, but she still maintained a boundary. Isabella, Ivatar & Thelma have all shared a bed with Kaybobo, but that one maintained 100% self-control. Even if Dede asks to share a bed with him(something she does with Koyin), Kola should not mistake that for consent o. Bright Morgan with his fresh boy still ensures Mide consents to whatever they do in bed together. I actually like Kola,na why this Dede gist dey vex me! |
Kingcid:There's one major evil that the APC brought to Nigeria - the introduction and popular use of online"influencers" using bot accounts to say anything and defend any kind of evil for as little as 20k. I wonder how a sane human being will wake up and say his "work" is to propagate lies, gaslight, troll, bear false witness, and defend evil, all for peanuts! They're talking confidently because they're either mentally unstable and don't understand the consequences of their actions or they believe they can easily deactivate their accounts if Kola's family takes the matter up. That job of "influencer for hire" should be rendered illegal in Nigeria! |
Christlike01:It's talk like that that will lead to problems. Which one is "apply pressure" again? She has actually told him no many times,but Kola used something close to emotional blackmail. He just kept gisting with everyone in the house about her(something she complained about in the diary room) until after many weeks in a confined space, she don finally give am peck. I agree that her style of Onitsha love(I like you,i don't like you) is very annoying,but is Kola under a spell? We're still not very sure she's gaming him or she's genuine or she doesn't want to get intimate on camera or she just enjoys the attention. Wasn't that how some of us actually thought Laycon had a chance with Erica until she disgraced him on live TV? Everyone has advised Kola,from Bright & Mide to almost all the girls in the house - LEAVE DEDE ALONE, if she wants you, she'll locate you. If i was Kola, i would focus on Thelma 100% and pepper Dede for weeks! Dede has seen her move didn't work, Jason is worried about his ship outside and has Sultana to warm his bed. Koyin didn't even flinch when he saw Dede & Kola on the bed, so that's dead on arrival. I just wished Biggie would bring in new housemates, even if they're fake or riders or house guests that will stay till week 9. |
Nkl4u:I dey tell you! |
Kola should help himself, this thing is getting close to obsession. Dede has told you she wants distance, don't come to her bed ESPECIALLY after Thursday or Saturday parties. Don't feed your haters with ammo. Not every girl is okay with doing stuff in front of the camera. That's the problem with this type of Dede's shakara. Once you start it, see it to the end because when you delay or rubbish a man for so long and finally decide to give him a chance, he'll want nothing more than to prove a point by treating you as a conquest. It's not just applicable to Kola,but the other 2 fishes as well. I saw how Kola couldn't sleep but kept sitting up to look at Dede's bed last night. That was how Mercy delayed Pere till around the 8th week, and even on the last day of the show, the guy was doing his best to sleep with her in the house because he needed to prove a point EVEN THOUGH he liked Mercy, same thing he did with Maria. It's just that Mercy is too street-wise and dragged it till after the show. Kola is a cool guy though, and it wouldn't hurt if Biggie or Ebuka gives him a hint of what's happening outside. Some of Dede's fans are actually planning a defamation campaign against Kola should anything happen with Dede. He should follow Bright's advice, dey your dey and share a bed with Thelma. |
Vijuchoco:He was giving some of the housemates a free medical lecture and they were just asking him questions which he calmly answered. |
Nice one Dr Faith!!! |
drimzsmoke:Which frat be dat, APC? |
fitzmayowa:He's probably a system man. |
Christlike01:Lol, she probably gets lots of attention in the real world because of her gigantic bum,but in the BBnaija house, there are girls that are levels above her in terms of looks. She can only do well in Nigeria because honestly,many Nigerian men don't have taste in women. Just have big back or front and wear body magic, they'll rush you with money. So she genuinely believes she has what it takes to pull a guy like Kola who takes his physical looks extremely seriously and expects the same from people he associates with even though he is friendly with all women generally? Confidence is good, delusion isn't. Ibifubara was CONFIDENT she could pull Bright if she had more time, at least she's tall & has beautiful boobs. Thelma is CONFIDENT she can pull Kola because she has the body for it even though he's intimidated by taller women. Dede is CONFIDENT that she can pull Kola & Jason because she knows she has it. She's actually not too sure about Koyin who is sure that in looks,he can match Dede. She's realistic enough to know she can't easily pull a guy like Bright, which is why she didn't bother looking at him at all. Mide is very very beautiful,but she's REALISTIC about being able to colonize someone like Bright, hence her strong use of emotional blackmail on him. Imisi was REALISTIC about her chances with Kaybobo & Faith, though Faith's rejection was hurtful. Doris, somehow, with her stomach that looks like a barrel of Munchit, and her Labubu vibes, believes Kola should be very happy she noticed him, so his refusal genuinely baffled her, when other girls like Isabella that got turned down by Kaybobo & Kola simply kept it moving with no hard feelings. This is apart from her being a very toxic person on her own with added gbazaquin behavior o! Denari is in for it! |
I know I'm not the only one that finds it a little weird when Imisi breaks character and uses vocabulary you would associate more with someone like Gigi. I'm in Lagos and i know ordinary Ebute-Metta girls or even many campus girls don't use words & sayings like:- -"There's beauty in silence" -"Improvise" -"Transferred aggression" What kind of ghetto Yoruba girl knows the lyrics of songs like Dido's "White Flag"? She doesn't even flinch when she hears certain monetary sums being mentioned by other housemates. When Mensan said his carved staff costs 95k, she just answered "pere?" She was almost offended when Thelma said she looked like who would do lipo & fat transfer after the show. Imisi just said she could have done that way before the house if she wanted as such procedures could be had for "just" 2-5m Naira! Most of the housemates now know she's acting, what they now want to see is how long she can stay in character. It's too late though, she even has the largest team online media influencers that kick-started a bandwagon from Wk 1, and all things being equal, viewers are already convinced she'll win the show. I don't like her style,but i admire the work & dedication she put into her game plan. Afterall, except for Kuture who might not be able to afford & Mide, virtually all the housemates came prepared with media teams and game plans or heavy pockets for voting. Even Tracy's team managed to trend her on Twitter! So may the best gamer win! She once mistakenly hinted to Kaybobo that she's deep in character. She is friendly with Isabella, Dede, & Mensan, but when she's with Kola, she breaks character almost 100%. Maybe it's because he has a way of bringing out her inner child the way guys do with their sisters. Doris is really mean for saying Kola is only close to her because of food. How can someone so small in stature be filled with such explosive bitterness? She already has Denari, why's she still on Kola's case? |
Munzy14:Never say never. Koyin can decide to admit feelings for her. Well Ebuka will work on Sunday sha. |
Nkl4u:Possibly,even with her protruding front teeth. |
Skrrrrrrr:Lol, Dede is still in a good place, people are just laughing at her pecking Kola because of her excessive childish shakara . Dede thrives on attention, Mide no longer spends enough time with her because of Bright.If the fishes abandon her, she'll drop to Ivatar's relevance level in the house. To an extent i think she's even gaming Mide. Thelma was inching closer to Kola, and Sultana is slowly but surely colonizing Jason with the help of Soso. Koyin is detached and conceited enough to wait it out, and worst case scenario, he can stay alone for the next 5 weeks. Dede needs highlights desperately because she has calculated that she's a major topic outside the house. If Thelma gets too close to Kola, Dede will quickly unleash French kisses that will lock up his brain, sealing his loyalty and earning a major highlight. What will help is if she can finally instigate a fight among the 3 fishes. She will become the undisputed star of the show.. The difference is that Kola is now the main fish. |
TheEnforcer:Even Tracy is friendzoning Kuture badly, but Kuture is at her beck and call, he can go anything for her. So, she can't afford to lose him. |
renderme:They've had aggressive cuddling at least twice. She told Dede about it . |
If there's an unconscious male version of Dede in this show, it has to be Kaybobo. The girls like Bright,but they all maintained a respectful distance. With Kaybobo, they have been flashing all the green lights. Weirdly enough, his kitchen mounting made the girls like him more because he single-handedly took off the stress of cooking for most of them for weeks, something Soso gave up on in week 1. Maybe he's just that disciplined. Maybe food is a healthier habit he learned as an athlete. |
Oh my goodness, Kola are you wearing a chick's pajamas? Lol, over-packaging😃 |
For the first time in BBnaija, I'm not even sure of who the most likely top 5 finalists will be. Almost all the housemates have a story line that can easily trend on Twitter. Solid selection this year!!! |
mayor1814:None of the girls hate Bright. |
tioluwalasee:Is it impossible? |
mayor1814:She's a party rider na. Faith has plans for her OUTSIDE the house. |
Kola abeg as you're with Dede,keep on eye on Imisi. She's acting a little bit too hyper and it seems Kuture mixed Viagra in the Munchit he eats. |
mayor1814:Does it matter? He has gotten Joanna, possibly the prettiest girl in the house. |
carammel:Lol, you really believe Soso is 28? There's a kind of maturity and carriage that can only come from life experience, you can't fake it. Soso might be Ivatar's mate. |
Bobodee09:Dem no fit. It's the same way they're scared of Ivatar. You wan go rock your aunty?! |
Omo dis Thelma bum bum na 1st class graduate o!!! |
