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duduade:
I am impressed.. I want to believe the razzness na staged razzness 😂😂😂😂

Shes polished too.. her English too dey alright..

She's a scammer. Zanga girl wey sabi Dido & Westlife lyrics. Zanga girl wey dey come up with stuff like "There's beauty in silence". The housemates clocked her since. The viewing audience didn't though, and that's why she'll win.

duduade:
Thelma ready to murder some Yoruba words

I know too many Yorubas that butcher Igbo words.

One even used my name to form an impromptu Fuji song because he was begging me for something. I felt violated!😭

Geezeem:
I watched that conversation in the house yesterday. Small time, camera run go dey show us person wey dey iron clothes

At least there is calm in the street this year, the notorious wailers have nothing to say. Organizers have peace

They are even 1st, 2nd and 3rd

All is good

It's all good, but what i don't get is the unrestrained speaking of ethnic languages. Well, they didn't stop the Igbos from speaking their language as well. Only Sultana and Soso reduced speaking in Hausa.

Christlike01:
My points are never clumsy — they were clear enough. Perhaps you've simply chosen not to engage with them. Dede is not who she — or you, her defenders — desperately wants us to believe she is. And honestly, that’s not even hard for any discerning mind to figure out. Even your weak attempt to defend her here is riddled with contradictions.

Now, check these out:
(1) "She's very much in control of whatever it is they have going on."
(2) "We all know Kola was never interested in pursuing anything outside. That part is clear. We also know he doesn't really like her like that."

If you say Dede is in control of whatever it is they have going on, and it's equally obvious to viewers that Kola doesn't really like her like that, then do we really need a soothsayer to tell us that Kola is the actual gamer here — and that Dede isn’t remotely close to him in the game?

See, it's really simple to pinpoint where we disagree: you believe Dede is the real deal, and I simply don’t see her that way. Like it or not, Koyin is not the one for Dede — Kola is! Dede might be young, but she's a sharp, highly skilled manipulator. Kola doesn’t care about the camera crew or appearances; what he clearly cares about is exposing Dede as a hypocrite — someone shady and adept at concealing her true emotions. Dede is no better than Sultana or Isabella.

Kola won’t act like Koyin because, unlike Koyin, he has a mission — to expose Dede and her double standards. It's all part of the game!

If you're convinced Kola has no interest in Dede outside the house and, at the same time, you believe Dede is in control of “whatever it is they have going on,” then I honestly don't know what to tell you.

P.S. Why does it always seem like you're so quick to tear down Kola and Mide, while painting Bright and Dede as the best thing since sliced bread?

Please are you trying to turn BBnaija bants into TRIBALISM ?😯

thatigboman:
since we are in the mood of analyse.
Let us analyse this conversation Zita had with kaybobo, rooboy etc
Zita: if you watch, it's us from West (South West, yoruba) that full here. HOH me (she zita) from west, deputy HOH (kola) west, most influential (faith) from west. Look those other people, bright morgan is the only igbo housemate remaining.

You guys keep referring to Joanna (that little faith wants to die on top) Dracula that isabella called her, but never calls Mide anglerfish that same isabella calls her.
You guys keep calling Dede for having a boyfriend but never call out anglerfish mide out for positioning herself at angle Y for bright morgan that has a girlfriend.
As there's no anglerfish in the west, see the picture below.
Hypocrites and hypocrisy.

Ha, tribalism in BBnaija of all things?!!! That was why Laycon's season was so intense because tribalism entered his issue with Erica. That's when I stopped being a fan of Teni Makanaki.

Christlike01:
My points are never clumsy — they were clear enough. Perhaps you've simply chosen not to engage with them. Dede is not who she — or you, her defenders — desperately wants us to believe she is. And honestly, that’s not even hard for any discerning mind to figure out. Even your weak attempt to defend her here is riddled with contradictions.

Now, check these out:
(1) "She's very much in control of whatever it is they have going on."
(2) "We all know Kola was never interested in pursuing anything outside. That part is clear. We also know he doesn't really like her like that."

If you say Dede is in control of whatever it is they have going on, and it's equally obvious to viewers that Kola doesn't really like her like that, then do we really need a soothsayer to tell us that Kola is the actual gamer here — and that Dede isn’t remotely close to him in the game?

See, it's really simple to pinpoint where we disagree: you believe Dede is the real deal, and I simply don’t see her that way. Like it or not, Koyin is not the one for Dede — Kola is! Dede might be young, but she's a sharp, highly skilled manipulator. Kola doesn’t care about the camera crew or appearances; what he clearly cares about is exposing Dede as a hypocrite — someone shady and adept at concealing her true emotions. Dede is no better than Sultana or Isabella.

Kola won’t act like Koyin because, unlike Koyin, he has a mission — to expose Dede and her double standards. It's all part of the game!

If you're convinced Kola has no interest in Dede outside the house and, at the same time, you believe Dede is in control of “whatever it is they have going on,” then I honestly don't know what to tell you.

P.S. Why does it always seem like you're so quick to tear down Kola and Mide, while painting Bright and Dede as the best thing since sliced bread?

Dede & Kola like each other,but not that much.

Dede likes Koyin more, but Koyin likes her as a person, not romantically or sexua11y .

Dede would have been more open sexua11y,but there's someone outside she's scared of offending. Kola made his intentions known, so it was easier to do things with him under the duvet. She made it worse by criticizing other female housemates that did things sexua11y.

Kola doesn't like her that much to continue things for real outside, he's too advanced and mature for her, but he needs the ship to secure gifts from fans and joint deals that will last years like with Sheggz and Bella. Smart long-term thinking! That's why minus the duvet things, Kola needs the ship to be PUBLIC.

Dede is bowing to her konji,but still controlling the flow of the ship with Kola who can at worst only do media rounds. If he tries sl*t-shaming her it might backfire outside the house in terms of PR.

Dede broke character by kissing Koyin in public, and then acted like nothing happened. Na serious ment be dat.

For the sake of cashing out, Dede should go official with Kola in the house and after the show, kiss him & ship in public. What she does in private by then will be nobody's business.

Hazardfan1:
Life don hard pass BBN, Tinubu don choke everybody. Its crazy.

That's why i come here to ease stress. How can you be earning money that's vanishing before you even spend it? BBnaija is pleasurable escapism, the new tax law just dey one place dey laff all of us.

E go red!

geezprince:
according to mide… The first day the guys came in, Dede told Her(Mide) to leave kola for her. They both agreed that to stay out of each other’s way as regards the boys(kola and bright)

Lol, are you sure Mide didn't speak first and Dede decided to go for Kola? She didn't even mention Koyin then,but now see.

Koyin is a young man, so he needs to know this.

Having a high opinion of yourself is not too far away from delusion and arrogance. As a man, don't expect anything to be given to you, you have to go for what you want.

All Dede wanted was for him to SAY SOMETHING & state his intentions CLEARLY to her, which is where Kola did better. Collecting seggz under the guise of "Bestie" & "Siblingship" is just childish. Not every woman that likes you will approach you, majority of women will only flash green light. Don't be afraid of rejection, na so man life be.

As for Dede, she should stop looking at Koyin & Bella and biting her finger. She should manage Kola or stick to just gisting with Kaybobo. There will be fresher guys coming for her after the show so she should be calming down.

geezprince:
Sad thing is people have called him Delusional, a creep and even a liar for speaking his truth….As for Dede, he’s been quite discreet about Her with everybody in there Except bright.

As for the kiss, I think she’s being dragged due to the fact that most of her supporters elevated her to an unrealistic standard, while simultaneously demeaning and slut-shaming others.
Much Ado About A Kiss. 😅

Dede thinks very highly of herself, which makes her similar to Koyin and Kola.

But she pretends about what she wants because she's childish.

I thought Sultana was just bitter when she insisted that Dede actually had her eyes on BRIGHT at first,but stepped back because it would make her look like a traitor to Mide.

Looking back, Sultana might be right. Where everyone will come for Dede is if her "boyfriend" is actually a big man or even worse, a politician.

We never got to know the real Dede.

Dozenz:
As a guy, kissing, smooching, cuddling, fingê**g and hãndjs don't qualify.
Only bjs and s*x qualify.
Bright and mide are terrible.
Kudos to Isabella/Koyin and Sultana/JJ.

Just go watch p*rn bro, haba!😂

renderme:
Abeg help me ask them. Those ones too sef no go see better woman marry them.
What is good for the goose is good for the gardener (in pawpaws voice).

This exact line has helped many guys (including myself) deceive MANY women. I love it when women think they're the same thing as men!😃

Tifay:
As for Mide, maybe now she'll respect the views of her parents more especially her dad who warned her about this happening and even said this is what people come to BBN for. She even countered them by saying she was coming to change the narrative only to even make it worse. And no, i'm not shaming her, i'm just using her words against her

The man obviously knows his daughter and her lack of resolve. I remember how she was talking about how her dad wanted to catch her unawares and visited her university without informing her. Funny girl said she was glad to be around on the said day - as she would typically be in Lagos every other weekend - by her own account.

The worst part is Bright is likely coming out before her and she wont even get the opportunity to package the story well. And if I'm to go by any indication, he'll probably be settling with his main babe - whos likely the one funding him.

The best thing for her at this moment is both of them coming out together and planning their stories. But no, she'll have to face the bigger part of the criticism by herself

Hmmm, mothers might be more understanding, afterall they're women who also experienced passion and romance.

But for men, it's a special kind of outrage when we see our female relatives being disrespected, especially our daughters, mums and sisters. All that effort into loving and being there for a person, only to see your life's work dogged out on national TV by another man for everyone's viewing pleasure!

I sincerely hope the man forgives Mide and punishes but still love her, she's his blood, they don't buy kids in shops. It's why i insist Dede has no man outside, no young man would allow his serious ship come to BBnaija and allow her fall to the antics of one very unserious thing that will deceive her with Truth or Dare games.

ultraviolet27:
ityyigiygibm


Has any female house mate in the history of bbn ever being banged up to nina of double wahala?yet she is married today by another man even erical didn't do half of daniella level up season exploits yet she is dating another man now

To be honest, Miracle was still discreet under the duvet and wasn't explicit with Nina, i even thought they were just doing aggressive cuddling.

Bright and Mide have gotten more explicit than Bella and Kayinkunmi, their own is too much.

Abeg who's the guy dating Erica? Is he a self-made and self-respecting man , or is he a Zion?

I can't suffer, build myself as a man, and claim another man's sloppy seconds as my treasure and jewel. Who does that?!

Nkl4u:
But honestly mide and bright messed up last night sha🤦‍♀️too explicit. Honestly don’t know why they couldn’t hold on until after the show

Mide's family members should grab Bright by the waist and drag him to the nearest marriage registry. You can't mess my sister up like that and go free. I will even keep a ready made suit in my car. I will even invite guests and buy food as well as bring a photographer.

Does Mide's body look like Fun City to him? And i thought he was sensib1e!

renderme:
You guys better chill. You are losing ur mind over kiss.

My only problem is kola isn’t sincere wt his desperation. He’s not that crazy about her, cos I doubt he even knows anything about her, like Koyin does.
He’s just all about the physical in my opinion.

It's not just the kiss, it's the fact that she was hypocritical about it, and that unbeknownst to her, Kola is trying to get the main thing from her and she's slowly cracking. She already kissed Koyin before so that's not the issue.

Where she can come out in 2 weeks and still brag is if she denies him penetrat1on. Even her haters on Twitter agree this hasn't happened yet,but pre-intimacy has. Kola doesn't lie,but he might exaggerate.

Samueltemi337:
The Kiddwaya and Miracle nor be woman go marry them?

You wan compare man unclothedness wit woman own? Man wey fit dey follow babe yarn for video call next second he go begin show the girl pipe?

As i wowo reach and as i no get money reach, if I bring girl like Erica or Daniella or Sultana or Bella or Mide say I wan marry, na my guys fit carry me aside mark me 30 minutes brushing!

meobizy:
Esther. I would guess Doyin since that one is everywhere in the real world, no different from her time in the show. With the way you defended Esther that year, it surely is her.

Lol, you have me mixed up with someone else. This ex-housemate isn't Yoruba and was in one of the seasons from See Gobe to NLG. That's the highest clue I'll give you.🙂

Tifay:
The bolded has always been my point from Day 1 cos I watched her extensively and knew Koyin was the one. I also knew she likes to mask her emotions, which isnt a big deal, you know - Tough girl persona.

What I didnt envisage and clock was her being full blown fake and pretentious - and she really has Kola to thank for playing along - well after that first kiss which by Kola's account was the first time something really happened. Most guys woudnt and would have changed it for her especially when you want to keep whacking them in public

Whoever coached her should have just told her to stick to the tough girl thing and not the pretentious one, she'll still get fans either way. This whole acting and pretending for camera after things have happened no even make sense. people start to wonder if they even saw any real part of you

You know its funny cos I was thinking this may have gone the Khosi-Thabang way if Kola had left and one party had shown interest but looks like I read things wrong. Although I did say she would never bare her emotions unlike Khosi and the guy maybe wasnt interested unlike T. Anyway it doesnt even matter what I see from her now cos it'll be more of acting on her side. Good thing she has a guaranteed slot in the finals. It's the outside world she may need to be worried about

Manfromlasvegas, you'll be pretty pleased with Koyin, he flipped the script on her like you wanted and now she's gone. I still dont think its enough to make him win as the winner has always been known and chosen from earlier on in the season.

Every woman has a looseguarding day, when she's crying over a break up, when she's happy, when she's bereaved, when she's feeling guilty over something she said or did, or when she realizes she hasn't been touched or approached by a man in years.

Kola was just lucky to be there when she first saw Koyin and Bella. She actually sat down alone in the garden and looked like someone dear to her had passed. She was truly broken. Later that night, she went and initiated things with Kola, regretted it, and asked him for space till last night when she saw Koyin and Bella cuddled up and playing Jason's dare game together. She must have seen something.... Bella wasn't just obeying konji, she was HAPPY, and to make things worse, Koyin seemed HAPPY as well.

Koyin made things worse by stating he would be preparing meals for Bella, something he did ONLY for Dede in the past. Koyin went further to establish boundaries with her, saying their bestie hanging around each other would have to stop.

Dede went up against more experienced girls in the form of Sultana and Isabella and lost her fishes. It's like a child losing 2 of his most valuable toys!

She still doesn't like Kola on Koyin's level, she's just SETTLING for Kola, but she needs to watch it as Kola is still a wolf pretending to be a fish.

I know you like her, so forgive her and see her for what she really is - a s1lly child. I can bet you weren't so evolved at 23. Nengi was only sharp at that age because life had shown her shege and she was a hardened hustler. Dede was just lucky to get a sugar daddy spending on her, she's not even a hardened runs girls. Runs girls never give free merchandise no matter the konji except they're sure you're a better client than their current client. Dede should have kissed him in public while maintaining he stay away from her bed at night, something Soso screamed at her to do.

If Dede's fans are serious,they should rally and find a way to vote out Kola next week, he has nothing but bad intentions for their girl and she no longer has her chaperone Koyin. Tega was the closest thing to a bros she had and though Rooboy has been an egbon to her, he was also deceived by Kola's simping into thinking he really cares for Dede.

Your girl will have to exercise her self-control and resist giving the main thing to Kola who's circling her like a lion that knows it's prey is injured and cornered .

geezprince:
Lol. Nothing has been said yet bro. Is there really anything to say though?

Totally nothing to say my man,Kola can be rest assured Africa has vindicated him. My only annoyance is his basket mouth,but regarding Dede,kudos to him. She was just sugar pretending to be concrete, as small water touch am, she melt!

geezprince:
One Hill I am willing to die on is that… kola Never Lies, Hate Him Or Love Him.

This i agree with. What did he say?

thatigboman:
this your thesis is not enough to be even an Introduction.

Lol, you mean am?

Dozenz:
If Dede hasn't done anything with Kola for 8 weeks, she'll hold out for the remaining 2 weeks. Now that they're getting to the business end of the show, she'll rather keep touching herself or using her gadget than do anything with Kola.

Bigger problem is that Kola can't see how she's used him to advance her stay in the house. At the same time gradually reducing him to zero.

Guy, are you watching the show?

Kola has collected solid kissing. Solid smooching. And he has allegedly used his fingers on her while collecting a job from her hand. Enough aggressive cuddling don sup!

Kola dey win right now o. Viewers weren't familiar with his game. The only thing Dede can do now is deny him the main real seggz.

Nkl4u:
This dede is a very big hypocrite, I dislike people like her. Thank God receipts are everywhere now.

No need for her to keep pretending, make she chest am with her full chest

Lol, oya Dede messed up, but the truth is that from what we've seen so far, she hasn't had real seggz yet, and that's why Kola is still pretending to simp for her.

Dede should hold herself or beg Koyin to watch her or tell Kola to maintain a distance or use her fingers, it will be a shame if she cracks at Week 8/9. Kola has given enough warnings that if he collects the main thing, he'll show her his true color.

Tifay:
Oh I watched it in real time and made my judgements already. I saw the kiss, no question. they may have also been handsy

Infact it was clear to me that the cameraman was ready for her and played a fast one with the way he switched and waited for her to slip. Be like she don truly master how to hide from camera - which leads me to a conversation i remember where Koyin was teaching her how to know when the camera is on them. You know he has camera experience unlike her

No wonder Kola's been playing along and indulging her cos he knows it all ends in the house - with the way she pretends the next morning and never claims him. However the difference now is that she saw the camera and now knows she was caught, so let's see how she moves. Me I wont pay much attention sha, cos it would most definitely be an act at the end of the day. This is very similar to the aftermath of the Nengi-Kidd bathroom incident. She's just as pretentious - well only to those who havent clocked her. And there's not much to see there

Lol, good observation from your end. Her fans really defended her fanatically, but the truth is she let them down.

She mocked Sultana & Isabella, yet she had the intention of doing what they were doing and fooling the viewers while at it.

Mide confided in her about her duvet doings with Bright,but she somehow felt she could game even her fellow housemates.

She's a disturbed attention seeker, and when she loses that attention, she crashes out and does whatever she feels is necessary to secure any other surviving option she has. It's why i agree that there's a link between Koyin leaving her and her suddenly giving Kola duvet favours.

Kola was about to share a bed with Thelma,she ran and told him she's coming to his bed.

She called Koyin a bestie,but planned and failed to break up the Koyin/Bella ship.

She's as Hot as the other girls,yet hides behind charades like Truth or Dare games or bed partner selection. Doris really clocked her well.

Whatever happened with Kola last week was 100% initiated by her, but her fans were blaming Joanna and Rooboy. What happened between them might not have been full sex, but it was intense enough to shock Kola considering that he had to beg for just a peck a while ago. It might still be full sex,but if it was, Kola would have told Bright exactly, instead of saying "way more than kissing".

Jason's own was that if she knew she liked intimacy, why pretend about it and look down on those who were doing it?

She has a warped main character syndrome, mixed with a very very serious thirst for attention, and a well-hidden lack of self-control and a hypocritical mindset for someone so young.

Nengi was way better, she told Ozo to simply wait till after the show and properly rejected Prince. She only relaxed with Kidd because he was her original planned target from even before the show, she made it clear to Ozo that she's a hustler sponsored by benefactors she can't disrespect on live TV. Kidd was only worth the risk because she probably saw him as a way to reach Terry Waya. Kidd realized this and avoided her.

Dede has no ship anywhere, she just has a benefactor she's scared of losing as correctly clocked by Sabrina. Maybe she's physically attracted to Kola, but Kola has seen her for what she is and now just wants to score her. The camera thing would have unsettled her and made her worried that everything they did was seen, so she might truly insist Kola goes back to his bed which will foil his plans.

Kola also knows that once they leave, he'll have no chance with her as her team of worshippers will alert her about his media rounds. She'll also most likely block Joanna and Rooboy😁. Sultana and Isabella will GRILL her!

Mide will be too busy fighting her own battles, Bright has really messed her up.

Kola won't care, at least he has tasted her to an extent and he'll shift to any of his more beautiful female fans and Sabrina,his actual real interest. Dede was just a trophy.

Her fans were deceived into thinking she was the beautiful flirt who still wouldn't compromise her morals on a live show, because that's what she presented herself to be. She wasn't even allowing hugs, she always acted very repulsed at the thought of having sex on TV, and she always spoke about "respect for her boyfriend outside". That's why they defended her so stubbornly, forgetting that she's just a deluded fine face and an entitled empty sugar baby who couldn't even close her legs for 2 months while castigating others who were open about their sexuality while somehow thinking she's a princess.

Konji is real,but the girls of this season i won't lie were a little bit too hot. Even Thelma is beginning to move like she's on heat. Only Tracy & Soso held out.

@Tifay , Lol, you tried with defending Dede, but the truth is you overrated her. No wonder Kola refused staying in the HOH villa. At this rate Dede is going down completely by Saturday latest. Looking back, Big Soso was actually doing her a favour the day she confronted her, she would have been spared this embarrassment. You never play with fire, it'll burn you.

The moment Dede realizes the camera caught she and Kola kissing. My girl say damn it and asked Kola as from tomorrow to his room. Kola was shocked did I do smthg wrong🤣
Dede just keep enjoying yourself it’s already out there no need to be hard on yourself baby girl🤭#BBNaija pic.twitter.com/B5CKoPQPbH

— Rainyzion Drops🌧 (@Rainyziion) September 19, 2025

Tifay:
But Kola's a nice guy if all along they've been doing under duvet things and she'll be acting up and whacking him in public and he was just chesting it. Maybe he just doesnt care about his reputation

The 2 times Dede has acted out of character with him has been when Isabella hooked Koyin. Who knows?

But Dede no try oo. With the way you carry yourself, you suppose fit do things with your full chest

Lol, kudos to your sense of fairness. Dede isn't a saint, and hypocrites irritate me,but she's still holding on. I told you they kissed.

Maybe seeing Koyin with someone else actually triggers her.

I strongly believe Dede and Kola kissed and smooched , but Kola is still simping because he wants the main thing, which is to score her the way Bright is brutally doing with Mide.

Dede might have decided to not do anything with him, but Joanna and Rooboy really convinced her. Since she doesn't have a mind of her own,she gave in. This is apart from konji and these recent raunchy games.

She's hiding because she doesn't have a ship outside. What she has is a sugar daddy/benefactor, which she doesn't want to lose. Shes too immature for this seduction game of fishes and should have stopped weeks ago.

Afterall she french-kissed Koyin in a Truth or Dare and then kissed him during Bare Minimum Week. I knew she would crash out when Koyin got back with Bella.

The bad thing is that Kola doesn't want to wait until after the show. He'll apply more pressure and try to score her which will be a lasting revenge for her embarrassing him and calling him a fish. For her own good,she should better hold out, otherwise she'll come out and face the same backlash as Mide, Sultana and Isabella while Kola will be laughing about it and gisting his friends about their encounters under the duvet.

Tifay:
If you can see the bolded, then why cant Kola see it?

The cardinal rule is to never even approach a drunk or tipsy woman. Kola actually went to her bed shirtless and is hustling for kiss puting his body at unnecessary angles that even makes him look worse off.

I keep hearing that she's acting when she see the camera, but she'll have to be incredibly good at it. I mean this cameras showed Bright and Mide having full blown s3x. And they even Switch to Kola and Dede once they notice any strange movements but all I keep seeing is Dede either whacking him or pretending to do it

This season has one fault - never have i seen a set of housemates more invested in seeing another housemate humbled than this season. Nobody,not even Bright,has given her good advice.

The closest thing to an elder brother she has, Rooboy,told her to give in to Kola.

Dede can't blame intoxication this night though, Kola asked if she was tipsy and she said "No".

Tifay:
Rule of thumb.

Until there's an actual video evidence, they didnt. She cant keep disgracing him the way she does if they've ever been intimate

The video showed their faces very close,but Kola's forehead was around her lips. Kola is getting restless, he knows he has just 2 weeks.

I don't know if it's house getting to her, or Biggie & the other housemates giving her faulty advice because they want to see her get nacked just to make themselves feel better,but she can't see that Kola is slowly showing his intentions - he wants to score her in the next 2 weeks because he knows they'll most likely block each outside by the time receipts get to them.

She has so far not shown willingness to have sex on camera,but can she hold out for 2 weeks?

Tifay:
By tomorrow Kola fans will come and say Production is painting a bad narrative of their boy.

Meanwhile I am actually watching Dede push him off her bed meanwhile he's hustling for a kiss - Bear in mind that the babe is tipsy oo.

She even told him his mouth was smelling and he hurried to go brush. I just pity the guy sha. All these desperation no necessary

And i think they just kissed, though not heavily.