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GloriousGbola:
It is an interesting story because this actually does happen. A girl goes to a guys place and if she does not put out, he becomes threatening/intimidating.

There is often an element of coercion in sex that we don't talk about. The other part of the conversation is that Nigerian chicks also expect coercion or force of some kind as part of the mating ritual.

This is why fellows who stop when they say no or protest hear later that the girl said they are slackers/ not sharp guys

The dynamics of the mating dance among Nigerians, particularly youths, are just fked up.

This is a sex game gone wrong.

@ the bolded, you are right. I have ended a relationship because of that. I hate nonsense. Can't afford to have one dysfunctional human being set me up for rape accusation.

kayperry:
its all about victimization to you buh i think having a healthy society for both genders is worth more.
Being a rape victim is as bad as being falsely accused, whatever gave toyosi the confident to tweet falsely is what the society as being afraid of for decades. If we aint careful & filter wisely "women will soon see rape as a weapon"

They already do see it as a weapon, which was why the Toyosi girl used it. With their frequent mood swings, their emotions can change at anytime. That's why I tend to be very cautious with them See as these guys enter gbese from small play.

I had a similar experience during youth service. She passed the night in my quarters. In the morning we're playing and throwing pillows. I was only on boxers and she's only wearing her panties. We played for a while and she said she wanted to go. I was like shu, we're still playing. I went and blocked the door, still throwing her pillows. She told me she would shout rape. You need to see as I fly commot from that door as I heard that word — based on who I be, that word and my name can't be in the same sentence. She smiled. For her, she's got a mighty weapon. But that's the beginning of the end of the relationship. I can't have anything to do with someone that trivializes such a strong word.

The mistake these boys made was calling her bluff, thinking that she wouldn't dare play with such strong words. See where it landed them.

ADepresedpotato:
The truth is tomorrow or next tomorrow u'll masturbate again and u'll feel sad and dejected and vow not to watch porn again but actually u'll still masturbate again and feel sad and dejected again. This is the cycle of a chronic addicted masturbator pass through every day.
To break this cycle is easy, don't feel bad or sad after masturbating, embraced it as part of Ur lifestyle and instead enjoy it until the principle of "See Finish" comes into play when pornography no longer gives u the satisfaction u need.

Not true sir. The mind is very creative. If normal boy & girl sex does stimulate enough, the fellow will start adding some weird fantasies to it: BBC student bleeps teacher in her office, boy bangs neighbor's housewife, boy bleeps his friend's mother, boy bangs mother and daughter, boy bleeps stepmother, step sister, etc.

Don't joke with porn addiction. Sexual content is by far the biggest stimulus for dopamine surge, and dopamine is at the center of all addictions.


@Op, you need a total dopamine detoxification. It's not gonna be easy, but if you persevere, you will be happy for it. See you at the main thread. https://www.nairaland.com/5223408/masturbation-quitting-challenge-thread

Zionzoom:
be thinking about money, I swear you won't even think of masturbating, that's what helped me to stop masturbation

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