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MT:
What exactly is Nigeria trying to prove - that they are stronger than Benin or what?

Super Eagle has shown they are horrible.

The only good thing is allowing this Benin to go play in the World Cup while Nigerians and South Africans are eating pop corns at home, watching the events.

SA has already qualified

prinsam30:
If Rwanda no wetin good for them make dem equalise those goals I no get time for playoff

That's impossible.

Is SA a joke to you?


The match will end in 4-0

Victorious1000:
So if we win by 3:0 we qualify for play off?

Dey play.

If they like they should score 100. They're not going anywhere

fyneboi79:
As if your babe or sister will not follow portable... Dey whine yourself

Their babe or sisters will follow the richest guy on their streets let alone portable. Leave them make dem dey whine themselves

gbaskiboy:
I don't know what ladies see in portable a dirty and riffraff being who constitutes nuisance everywhere. Don't just like his person

If you bring a handsome broke guy and bring portable for Nigeria women to choose from. Dude 100% Nigeria girls would choose portable any day any time twice on Tuesday evening. The joke is on you

Namaster:
The really interesting part is that a University Graduate chose to be IMPREGNATED by a RIFFRAFF like Portable NOT once but TWO separate times.

Lord have mercy!

Imagine sponsoring your kids through University just for her to graduate and become a BABY FACTORY for someone that looks like something that managed to escape from the bowels of HELL.

What a WASTE!

Dey play!

Haven't you heard the statement "women no get spec, just have money?

mercysamuelson:
Oshimen 2

If SE likes let them score 100 Goals they are still out

Kimo21:
I ask again…why are their names not printed on their shirts?

Na that one dem dey talk? SA is leading and Nigeria isn't going anywhere, you are talking about printing names on the shirt 🎽👕

Thank you south Africa!

SA really came prepared

I pity the guy who trained this girl to this level. Imagine leaving fresh girls of 18-22 only to settle with this old girl woman. Some guys dey try sha

They're even drinking bottle water and strolling around freely

Jennyclay:
As for me, my major red flag is a man who is broke and poor

No finance, No romance my dear.

You must be capable of taking very good care of me and also show me true love

This is my standard and I believe everyone has their standard.

Are you a virgin? And what valuable thing do you have to offer the man?

breadtoaster:
Please, those of you who are married — how do you cope?

I am married to someone I don’t think is my friend. We dated before marriage, but during that time, I had a very senior friend whom I always went to for advice, help with decisions, and assistance with things that required initiative or “manly” effort.

My husband, on the other hand, is very quiet. Living with him feels like living in a graveyard — no TV, no outings, nothing lively. It’s not that he isn’t intelligent (trust me, he is), but he’s too lazy to put his mind to work sometimes. By 9 p.m., he’s already asleep. He eats, goes to work, and that’s all. He has no drive for more. Whenever I talk about progress or goals, he says, “It’s a process; it’ll take years to come to fruition,” but he never thinks of ways to get things done efficiently or on time.

So in terms of ambition or drive for achievement, I’m suffering living with him. I feel alone. I’m scared that his lack of motivation and his slow, passive lifestyle will kill my own drive. I’m not even extremely driven myself, but I know I want to achieve greatness. That desire pushes me, but I’m afraid that living with him will make me too relaxed and unmotivated — and I don’t want that.

Before marriage, I had friends — both male and female — with whom I shared advice and ideas. I’ve always had male friends because they tend to be driven. From them, I learned about crypto, stocks, business ideas — they inspired me. But my husband doesn’t trust them or me around them. Since we got married, I can’t talk to most of these friends at home unless I’m at work. It’s affecting me mentally. I’m scared that my circle for growth and greatness is being trimmed down, and soon I might start behaving like him — with no ambition or hunger for achievement.

Women, how do you handle such relationship dynamics?
How do I keep my drive while being married to such a man?

Every Friday night, he’s already asleep. One time, I dragged him to a lounge on a Friday night, and he was dozing off there. I ended up dancing alone while other couples danced together. If there’s something important we’re supposed to do, he won’t take initiative or push for it.

For example, I suggested we start going to church regularly to build our spiritual life. One Sunday, he woke up first and went to bathe. When he finished, he didn’t wake me up, and by the time I opened my eyes, it was already late. When I asked why he didn’t tell me, he said he called me but I didn’t answer. For me, I wouldn’t act that way — especially when it’s something that helps build our faith together.

We also planned to pray as a family. We did it for two days, and then he forgot — and honestly, I’m struggling to remember too. I don’t know if our marriage is under spiritual attack or if it’s just his personality, but my mental health is suffering. I’m not happy. I don’t genuinely smile anymore.

He doesn’t know how to pamper me or show warmth. If I complain about something, he just lashes out. He didn’t date much before marriage; he was one of those “spiritual brothers.” I was spiritual too, but I thought quiet men were more romantic or deep inside. I was wrong. I feel like he’s choking the life out of me.

At home, I can’t even make calls freely — he gets unknowingly aggressive if I’m on the phone and says things like, “Don’t you have things to do?” So I can’t talk to the people I’d love to.

After our marriage, he had issues going to my family, claiming I blackmailed him because of earlier arguments. He would get upset about small things, like me dancing to Afrobeat music. He’d say I shouldn’t, then later deny he said it. Or if we go out to eat, he’ll say we should leave early or that the place will soon close, even when I just want to relax and enjoy being outside.

I feel alone, yet married. I miss home. I’m not sure what to do.

It even took us one month after the wedding to consummate our marriage. We were both virgins, but his manhood wasn’t functioning well, and we had so many arguments that our emotional connection broke down. I felt it literally fall apart. Now I feel like I’m just living with someone.

He often says, “We’re not aligned,” or that he trusts me only 60%. If I go out, he sometimes gets angry or accuses me of lying about where I went. I can’t stay indoors all day like him — I’d just die inside.

I need help. I feel like I’m losing myself. When I visit home, my mother’s voice feels loud or too much, my friends when i talk to them, it feels like they are talking too much — not because they are talking too much, but because I’ve been living in such silence that I’ve lost touch with voice, morelike in a graveyard.

I am even crying as I type this, and he is sitting somewhere on the other side asking me if my head is swelling or what is making me cry.

I’m just… tired. feeling so strongly emotionally starved tooo.

Madam opt out of the marriage. Divorce him and live your life simple

How's this possible. Tf is wrong with tinubu and his cabinets

You clearly have no goal, ambition and focus in life!

Dude I have no advice for you.

Continue living with your parents until you're 78 then come back for advise. I'll have one for you

Guys are now wiser this days.

Let these girls feel a taste of their own medicine 💊💉. Ordinary help she's helping the guy she came online to announce it to the entire universe. Meanwhile men have been doing that back to back since the world began and yet you won't hear a single noise about it

Seunmsg will never appear on this thread

Nigeria men are hot cake.

I wonder as a man why would you be desperately killing yourself to get a girl who's obviously not interested meanwhile this is a white woman who's ready to do anything for you bro! So why kill yourself over someone who has absolutely nothing valuable to give you? Once you noticed the cold signs dude delete her number and move on!

Here's the rules

1. Never double text a girl (don't ever try this bro)
2. Never beg a girl for sex
3. Never act desperate (match energy for energy) if she takes 2 hours in responding to your message, take 6hrs to reply hers.
4. Don't always be available
5. Normalize ghosting and ignoring women (mostly on WhatsApp) read the messages, and leave it unanswered (this triggers her emotions and scatters her ego)
6. Never ask for her validation (a king doesn't need a woman's validation)
7. Keep things casual, don't take her too seriously.
8. Don't make her your top priority
9. Stand against disrespect

Goldrosewine:
I am just saying...😊

Wetin concern landmass concern Vat?

Forget, if not for xenophobia and hatred black SA has towards their fellow blacks, SA as a country is too sane and well developed with great infrastructures

This guy is Back again.

Dude, thought you said you lived in a self contained? What's with the sweeping and rules? How would you stay in a face me I face you house with your wife and 7 children?

Probably belongs to a politician.

Stop playing, there's money in this country!

chipet67:
Fixed

Thanks.

I Didn't noticed it

jordyspices:
If na my country trust me we go spend days and nights there before we reach our destination

It's an insult to mention Nigeria when they're talking about sane countries like China. Kindly delete or edit this comment of yours! The Chinese are angry with it for using it in the same sentence with a typical version of s.hit hole country

China is arguably the most developed country in the world Right now. See how sane and extremely organised everyone is with their cars strictly maintaining their lane!

In Africa, people would have highlighted out of their cars and starts fighting, some will be shouting, others will be blowing their useless horns knowing fully well that the road is blocked. Everywhere would have been filled with Commotions and seriously disorganised

Holluwhakemmy:
You just have total hatred for women nothing else I have known you and your comments towards us as something not fruitful

How does speaking reality and saying the truth becomes hatred for women?

Would you rather prefer i say "men give women money, work and spend all your money on them and give them a good life" ?

The joke remains on you. We say the hardcore truth here as it is.

Holluwhakemmy:
Warrior Online SIMP physically& womens rapper

Would you rather prefer your brothers do the opposite of everything I wrote there?

The joke is on you

Wallade:
Direct your questions on that to President Tinubu, I am not Tinubu or his spokesman.

Mr Joker.

Direct your question to nnamdi kanu. I am not his spokesperson.

The joke remains on you

jaxxy:
Nice points. Finally I can appreciate something u wrote..

U know me before?

HelenaWills:
Why are you triggered, sweetheart?
Are you Ibo?

I'm not a gay sir. Kindly avoid me