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A young man they call Anya has committed suicide after effort to retrieve the 6million he spent on his ex and renovated her father's house all proved abortive.

But why are men deceived into thinking spending on a woman means you love her and not spending on a woman means you don't love her? I have asked several times don't women love men to also spend on a man?

Only a foolish man whether single or married won't demand a woman to do for him what he does for a woman, when will men understand that it's only the one who spends his hard money tries to protect his or her relationship because he or she stands to loose if the relationship ends.

The only way to stop this nonsense is for men to guard their resources jealousy and use it to improve themselves so they can remain hypergamous in the eyes of the women around them and not upgrade their women while staying stagnant making the women look up to another man.

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CC seun, farano, Nlfpmod

Sirchiboy:
Brother Anya finally kpais himself after all efforts to collect back the 6 million he spent on his ex and roofing her father's house weren't yielding any results.

The short note was found beside his body which we cannot post here due to policy v!olations.

We pray his soul gets eternal rest for taking this matter too far🕊️😥

The soul of a SIMP can never get eternal rest. He was a fool. And simps are fools. They deserve even death sentence.

How can a normal man send a girl to school and renovate her father's house?

MasterJayJay:
Nairaland mods keep pushing fake videos to the frontpage.

It's not fake

The wèrey girl has gone to change her tiktok account name!

I never wanted to cast her, but even after the incident she was still forming hot babe on tiktok. Plus she's even a single mother. An olosho and a hookup girl.

For those who wishes to watch her, this is her new tiktok name "Sandy baby" or just search for "obaruella"

Her dp has a car on it

But the North and SW are one na. Why this? The hausas and Yorubas are one!

Well, we Yorubas welcome the Sharia law enforcement in Yoruba land. We're very happy and well pleased with it and the North can come to ibadan, osun, ekiti ogun or any Yoruba land and set up the Sharia law with we liberal Yorubas backing them 💯

Any one against this should be arrested and imprisoned ASAP.

helinues:
Another stake gaslighting, irrelevant shalaye which is incoherent to the topic of discussion

Are you tired of building Bridges with the north? 🤡

helinues:
Please why should some Igbo's have any issue with this thread

Abeg, make some of you stop this annoying boring attitude in pokenosing into things that are not not supposed to concern you.

Don't some of you have self respect?

Would you have treated this lightly if someone threatened your region SE

So as how some of you Igbo's have been creating uncountable threads about this same Sharia trying to gaslight on something you can never tolerate in your region

Abeg, make una stop jare

Sadly you failed to understand where I was pointing to, due to your emotions.

Have you forgotten how tinubu said Fulani and Yorubas are one? And u Yorubas applauded him and went as far as insulting other regions while claiming to deal with them?

I thought you were building Bridges with the north? What later happened?

Una never see anything, you Yorubas should continue asssslicking the north while they gradually take over your lands besides all lands in SW belongs to the hausas!

Ur brothers from the SW are always pleading with the north to give them their votes in 2027. Obviously the SW can't stand on their own. pathetic!

Oga stop creating useless thread and acting childish.

Where were you when tinubu said Fulani, hausa and Yorubas are one? Now this is the reality.

When we tell you guys that hausas owns Yoruba land y'all will think we're joking. Yorubas are greatly Afraid of the North. I thought Yorubas were trusting northerners to give tinubu their votes in 2027? Small threat wey north give una , una just dey run up and down.

Yorubas and hausas are one! We must deal with the igbos and other tribes as usual. 🤡

What's so special about pastor kumuyi's son leading worship in his Father's business empire?

How exactly is this news?

I remember two deeper life babes wey I knack. Very nice and fresh kpekpus

Muric is yet to say anything concerning the Sharia law enforcement in SW

Those hailing the useless media chat are not normal.

Tinubu should be forced to resign. He has failed woefully

Tflex01:
Why are you triggered by the truth about the Igala's domination of the Igbos? Why are they still the majority in some Igbo states till today according to Attah of Igala??

Igalas own the Igbos and there is nothing you can do about that. It doesn't matter whether you are nupe or Kalabari.

Low self-esteem and minorities wan kpai you. How many people dey igala? Lol even the binis and esan alone are by far in population than igala. Lol. You're a very funny dude

ahmedio2017:
so what will now happen to southerner Muslims? We will be watching you?

Yoruba Muslims you mean?

They'll go with the North na or the Yorubas will be dragged to the North if they wish to. Normally Yorubas can't do without the north

Tflex01:
Lol just trying hard to find a counter argument about how Igala enslaved your tribe Igbo for centuries... To the extent that the meaning of Igbo in Igala is "slave".

😆

Is Yoruba and Igbo the only tribe in Nigeria? Once anyone speak out against tinubu y'all tag him as an igbo?

What happened to tribes like Bini, auchi, esan, tiv etc? Igbo isn't the only tribe in Nigeria Dude and I'm definitely not from there

Besides how can igala enslaved Igbo? How many people dey igala? U Yorubas are really terrible. Well, the North owns all land in the SW.

Mccullum:
Even in South South and South East.

Sharia law has been approved and set up in osun abi ogun State. Shows northerners owns SW and nothing will happen.

They should go to SS and se and set up Sharia law let's see if the citizens there won't burn it down immediately within 24hrs.

I repeat it's only in SW and the North you'll find something like this. After all, tinubu said Yorubas and hausas are one

Alliswell248:
The drug lord Ohaneze appealed to Tinubu to negotiate their release in India.

Let them remain there.

Ipob and stupidity cannot be separated.

So why are you telling me? What is my concern with ipob, and prison?

So anyone who's against tinubu is an ipob? 🤡

Confirmedzombie:
May the peace of the Most Holy Prophet Muhammad (SAW) be unto you.

I can see you are troubled and needs peace.

Prophet Muhammed SAW doesn't give peace

Dude, the man get gives trouble. He instruct his followers to kill the infidels and bomb countries. What a sick man he is

Britishpea:
You are a nonentity...Bag of rice was sold at 4200 in this country and people queued before politicians for money, two cups of rice and 1k just to vote for them...

from 1995, people including your father and mother queue in multitude at Baba Oloye, Sola SARAKI in Ilorin, Tinubu in Lagos, Adedibu in Ibadan just to eat AMALA, collect 1k, and 2k respectfully...

People have been like this from time immemorial to collect free gifts..The economy is biting but people are always like this... It is not just in Nigeria, it happens in almightY America..i know people in America who go to their churches or food bank to collect free food...
The question is did the organizers who invited the whole of Ibadan people via radio announcements provide safety measures? If you cant provide safety measure why organizing such events by inviting people to come and die...what is the motive behind it...

inviting alot of people for public gathering has its safety measures to follow...

I am obviously certain that you are one half baked semi illiterate hence, the context of this discourse will be too cumbersome for your little depreciated grey loaf ...Mind you small boy, as far as living standard and economy are concerned , president Tinubu is still performing abbysmally..QED

Trash as usual.

now can you tell ur beloved tinubu to take the price of bag of rice to 4,200 ?

Today a bag of rice is over 100k, see the trash you ended up writing

buckeyemedia:
Lazy Clown, open the border for you to chop cheap rice Abi?

Ur brothers in osun abi ogun just died because of Free rice and this is all u could write?

If the drug lord had opened border would those kinsmen of yours had died?

Mccullum:
Even if Nigeria disintegrated, Muslims will still exist in Southern Nigeria while Christian will still exist in Northern Nigeria.

You understand?

Yeah, strictly in SW and North.

Nothing concern Muslims concern other regions.

Teco2:
You people are pathetic! Molested ? Did our Mother, Aisha told you that she was molested? Do you think we are talking about a naive and timid girl knew nothing? The woman you claimed she was 'molested' was a religious teacher, who taught many of the companions of the prophet. And she alone, authored, by narration, more than 2000 hadiths.

Does this sound to you like some girl that was molested?

What is "our mother" ?

Whose mother?

Dude you should simply say Muslim or Islam mother, before you'll cause religious war with this ur careless utterances

cjudy:
Not all Yoruba. The ones into this are the Yoruba Muslims those who always support the failed government

I saw what you did here

zoomman:
It's cursed and not caused....and to your question, we are not cursed , just few amongst us are into this devilish activities...we are brilliant, industrious, God fearing sets of people...this shameful acts cut across all ethnic groups in the country.

Thanks for the correction. I Didn't see that!

However the other things you wrote are false. I don't have the mental energy to argue with you.

Britishpea:
God! why is it that people who queue behind Peter Obi are dumn asf....jesus.. so they should just fold arms and let it slide like nothing has happened?

they need to question her...what if there are ulterior motives behind it....what if one of the victims is your person or your own, god forbid will you still hail Obi?

If bag Rice was still sold at 8,200 a bag, would you see those people there in the first place? WTF is wrong with u Yorubas? Dude is ur brain leaking?

Oga, the drug lord should open the boarder ASAP to crash down price of food in the market. POVERTY has been weaponzed by ur beloved tinubu which has resulted to deaths of millions of Nigerians but of course as usual na obi and followers be ur problem? 🤡

Damn!

Obi my real niggar!

I don't know the other dude, he's an edddiot

badoh:
Hope you deh okay? What concerns Tinubu with what happened, however, we are not surprised at all your level of bitterness ever since the man made a strategic victory to be the president. If actually your brain is functioning, you should know some Nigerians have this habit of covetousness, greediness and impatience such that even if they have surplus, they will still clamour for more. People need to be held accountable for their actions. Was it Tinubu that gave them the directive to announce such on the radio without putting safeguarding concerns into considerations. People just do things in Nigeria because they know the law is not effective to curb their actions. After the incidence of Ibadan, how come organisers in Anambra and Abuja never learned from such and still threw away safeguarding rules. When we tell you some of our people are adamant to corrections, you'll be blaming the leaders left and right. No be every bad thing you go deh attribute Tinubu every time, people also need to check themselves. Palliatives can be given to children in their various schools without making it public and it will not cause issue rather than all these showbiz palliatives

All this trash you wrote is unnecessary.

Why giving palliative when the FG can open boarder to crash down price of food in the market and the parents of those children can afford to buy food to feed their kids.

Why weaponzing POVERTY? Seems ur brain is leaking! It's obvious people like you are the reason the govt will keep weaponzing poverty.

RedScorpion:
No I am just reminding you not to make the same mistake your father and brothers made

It's just a Reminder 🎗️🎗️🎗️

Ur BF and brothers needs the advise more. 🤡

Meaning Yorubas are slaves to the northerners?

It's such a pity someone like kemi is from a tribe where they're afraid of the North and can't stand on their own. Such a pity

Freedom of speech is restricted in tinubu regime

Fundamental human rights is no longer enshrined in Nigeria's constitution

RedScorpion:
You only see Sugar Mummies because that is what your mind is telling you to look for at the moment...

You don't need a Sugar Mummy to survive this economic hardship...

There is dignity in legit labour, so work with your hands and not with your Goodharddick like your moniker implies...

Sugar mummies are being funded by men with one head like you, so can also be a Sugar Daddy.

U mistake me for your boyfriend and brothers?

WTF is wrong with these Yoruba people?

Did they swear for them with skull 💀 mining?

Anyone traveling or planing on traveling to SW, most esp ekiti, ogun and osun should endeavor to get an iron helmet for safety