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IamD18:
All I see is someone trying to deflect

Epistle with zero point.


[s]God gave you rules to make heaven. True or False?[/s] Why did Jesus die for us (show us love by dying?)

Answer that.

The question is "Why did Jesus die"

Not why God gave us rules. Stick to the point.

IamD18:
This guy dn finish finally?

Yes! You did to benefit, so it's conditional.

[s]How about fornication? You did to benefit yourself. Is that unconditionally love aswell?[/s] Not a valid point.


Gifting a beggars is care.

Benefit who? - reason I said we are struggling with your proficiency in English here.

conditional love is when you try to show love for your own benefit!!!

so you can give unconditional care but can't love unconditionally?

So how do you defend the term that love is in the action?

IamD18:
A man who gave you rules to get his love don't love you unconditionally.

Stop deceiving yourself with bible verses. Can you even backup that claim without referencing the bible

Joke on you. You brought the Bible. Did Jesus die to give you rules? . Bible you no sabi too...

If I gift a beggar money, is it conditional or unconditional?

If I see a little boy begging for food, and I feed him, what is it called?

Last time I helped a woman push her car out of the ditch in the rain, and rejected her money, what kinda love is that? probably I want to fvck her. . I didn't also collect her number.

Emancipate yourself from your romance section shackles. It makes you a joke sometimes.

IamD18:
You are gradually making a fool out of yourself.

You bath yourself, buy goods clothes, buy cars and all.

They are all conditional, you did it to benefit.


Oboy, try get sense abeg

Train your young ones, employ workers, gift beggars.

They are all conditional.


Which can soiled brain be dis abeg

English is actually difficult.

If the condition of an action is for the benefit of the recipient, then should you call it a conditional love?

If I give a beggar money - what conditions am I attaching to it?

English isn't our language sha. I pardon you.

IamD18:
>God's love isn't unconditional and for that, you are a nobody to pretend loving unconditionally.

For God so loved the world that he gave his only begotten son. That whoever believes in him should not perish but have everlasting life.

Christ died so that you won't go to hell (His reason)

Hell is a place you fear and dread (Which God gave you an escape route)

So if his love was conditional, it would imply that (He died for us just to make sure that we keep paying him monthly)

What if the condition for the love favours you?

Think bro!

If you have an accident, and I save your life. (The reason for saving you is to make sure that you complete school and be useful in life)

Is that a conditional love?

This guy sef!!

IamD18:
Self-love is selfishness. Prove it wrong and stop deflecting.



Do it.

So I love myself, bath, buy clothes for myself, buy a nice ride, get a good house.

Is it selfishness?

Meanwhile, I give money to beggars, support people, teach people English - like I am doing now instead of sleeping ,

Train my younger ones, employ people to work and pay them

I wonder if we are having English tutorials here or you don't know the meaning of selfishness.

It baffles me!

IamD18:
Keep modifying
Keep struggling to make a point
Keep up with your illusions



Smh.

Explaining how to derive "Almighty Formula" in Maths to a layman is harder than having sex with a flaccid dick.

Reason for my many modifications. - just to make you understand.

IamD18:
[s]The truth is bitter, it's hard to ignore.[/s]

How many times have you typed "Good night"

Yet my truth keep dragging you out.


God don't even love you unconditionally, who are you to love yourself unconditionally? Do you even know yourself?


Smh! Keep deceiving yourself with love.

We know wia una type de end

Trying to sound smart wen you aren't making sense is conditional love to yourself.

It is called self-deceit.

IamD18:
Self-love is selfishness, not true love.


Get that.

Un conditional Love = Love without conditions or negotiations. (In a lay man's term)

Meaning there might be a purpose, but I won't give him conditions.

So when I see you have an accident and I don't know you.

I pick you up, take you to the hospital, pay your bills and you get well.

I did it without conditions. People have done it and will keep doing it.

IamD18:
You can play fools, not me.

You first disputed my statement with "Getting a babe". Right or wrong?

You now deflected to Mother-Child Yha smart.

Until you prove unconditional love to me with a general illustrations and example just like that Google definition, I won't prove shiiiit to you.

The link- I wanted you to read a statement there, but you couldn't attempt reading it out of your ignorance.

The statement ; But there is a point beyond which even the most committed parent cannot go.


Furthermore; God's love is conditional.

Someone thinks unconditional love is love shown without thinking or reasoning.

English sef!!!

Have you ever done anything without a thinking or without a reason?

I think yes - because probably you don't think.

Goodnight.

smh. I hope you don't fill up my mentions when I am already asleep.

Guten nate

IamD18:
You don't even have a real love for yourself, let alone another person.

This was your post. You said I don't love myself, and I said "Prove to me"

Is that difficult?

IamD18:
You asked about "Self-Love".

I gave a simple statement, and you are yet to agree or counter it



Self-Love is selfishness. Right or wrong?

Prove to me "I don't love myself"

IamD18:
I still maintain my statement. Unconditionally love doesn't exist.

No, tell me the boy shot his dad and threatened to kill her and she still sacrificed for him.

How about that?

Yes he has done it before, because it was a normal scenario in the environment.

What do you have to say?

IamD18:
Definition without backups.

https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/fighting-fear/201405/unconditionalconditional-love


https://www.parentingforsocialchange.com/conditional-love-html/

Read and learn, do your searching well.

Smh!

Drop points and explain them. It isn't difficult. You said Unconditional love isn't true love, I disputed with a clear definition of unconditional love.

Now what is the link for?

Explain your points - that is how to stake your claims.

Now go back and do it.

IamD18:
Conditional.

Support with points.

Has any action ever been carried out without a reason?

Just answer the bolded - nothing much.

IamD18:
Below.



I supposed you mean love of Mother-Child.

They are conditions surrounding her act of saving her child.

The love of parents to their kids v'got to do with conditions. A mother won't sacrifice for a son who once attempted to kill her.

A Mother won't love a bad child, no matter what.

Love of most parents depends on the behavior of their kids.

Truth is; Don't see it that your Aunt loves her child because there are behaviors the very child will start exhibiting, she'll never sacrifice for her.




This boils down to my initial explanations.

He will never do that, if he was a bad child.




Self-love is selfishness.

Right or wrong?

If he was a bad child... . So the child was perfect?

Now you are bringing your own mentality into play.

So what if I told you that the boy was stubborn and a criminal, yet the father chose not to give up his son's location? - conditional love right? . Let me guess, cus he would enjoy the money in his grave.


Our only problem is that you are using words without placing them correctly.

IamD18:
The aforementioned are nothing but unconditional LOVE.


Unconditional LOVE isn't real LOVE.

Wake up.

You know Google search is actually free.

I LOVE you and I did it for you unconditionally - without expecting rewards.

Read the image below.

Goodnight.

IamD18:
Is this an unconditional love or conditional?

You haven't countered any of my points. You are asking further questions.

Establish an argument, turn it into a fact with points.

But to ride on your own lane.

Conditional or unconditional, you said there was nothing like TRUE LOVE.

From my stories, the recipients of such love never got a chance to pay them back - good or bad.

Now answer your question.

Conditional or unconditional Love?

IamD18:
True LOVE indeed

That's conditional love Bruv


In a simple statement ; SELF-LOVE means SELFISHNESS. Right or wrong?

In arguments, counterpoints before driving home your own points.

If you think it is a conditional love, explain the rationale behind that before you throw further questions.

So give me reasons why you called it conditional love.

IamD18:
Because that's what women want from a men, that's what they call love. ls that suppose be seen as REAL LOVE? Isn't it conditional?



You are yet to prove we've got REAL LOVE.

I quoted you twice, you skipped one.

I have dropped three scenarios where love played out.

Your issue is streamlining everything to romance. Love isn't romance. It is further than that.

Love isn't just for a boy to a girl; a man to woman, boyfriend to girlfriend.

Love is general.

Dog to man, man to man, father to son, son to mum, mum to daughter, daughter to uncle, boyfriend to girlfriend.

Love doesn't expect the favour back. Just that when it happens, you would call the person a fool and dumb - because you aren't used to it.

plavic:
Phew, this is actually the opposite of love.. Love is not all that glamorous stuff we know it to be.. it is not always beautiful, sweet and nice. Love is not based on emotions and nice words. Love is sometimes sacrifice, tears, labour, laughter, silence, punishment, chastisements, rebuke, truth etc.. A partner who doesn't tell you the truth so he / she won't break your heart doesn't love you.. Love must show in sacrifice. Funny that our parents never confessed their love to one each other but they would sacrifice. Their marriages lasted..

Your lover might not be physically attractive but you can show them love. love is not always beautiful. The world has deceived us. You cannot Know love if You're not in Jesus. He is Love. Stay blessed.

The other guy won't see this. he thinks love is just about relationships.

Why would you take the HIT for someone, when you know that you might be at risk.

In the exam hall, this guy loved his buddy so much; when the dude was caught with an implicating material, he threw it over to another desk where his buddy sat. The guy picked up the paper and chew it.

The exhibit was gone, the case was cancelled at the panel.

IamD18:
Only if I can get a logical proof of existence of real love.


Then I'll perfectly prove it to you.

My aunt loved her child so much that she donated her kidney to save him.

A neighbour I know of hid his son and refused to give him up despite being under gun threat. He was finally killed.

I don't want to go personal to avoid being trolled later on in the future.

If this isn't true love, what is it Mr?

Prove to me I don't love myself.

IamD18:
First; I don't love, because I hate pretending and deceiving people. The true love a woman wants from you is care and attention, and I'll give it if she worth it.

Second; I don't need anyone's love because I love myself already.


By politically correct, you mean?

Your arguments are highly contradictory. If you say that True Love doesn't exist, why do you end up saying the bolded?

IamD18:
You don't even have a real love for yourself, let alone another person.

you can prove this logically?

give it a shot.

[s]

IamD18:
[s] How To Know If A Guy Really Loves You? Lets Find [/s]

[s]Topic should be.

HOW TO KNOW IF A GUY REALLY WANT TO KEEP YOU AS A SEX PARTNER

LOVE is a scam to humanity, there's nothing like LOVE.

You lots should better buckle up and stop deceiving yourselves.

Both the lover and the lovee[/s]

Go find better babe.

Love is real and will remain real...

Who no experience am no know!

A guy that loves you will spend nothing less than 50k on a girl monthly.

Look at Davido and Chioma.

If a girl calls you a theif, wetin e mean?

Does it mean something romantic?

MissWrite:
Happy Birthday, Bush; many more great years ahead.

Madamwrite.

Thank you Girl. I appreciate.

MissJoy29:
Happy birthday dear Bush. Wishing you all the good things of life you want. Have fun.

Thanks dear. I appreciate.

highqueen:
happy birthday bush!!

Thanks dear.

IamPlato:
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Happy Birthday Bro

Thanks bro. I appreciate.