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MICROCHIMERISM: Why Virginity Is Important

The sperm is more than just a fluid, it is a container of genetic information. Meaning when a man ejaculates in a woman, he leaves behind DNA that is stored inside the woman and shared if she gets pregnant. If she aborts, more information is stored

Scientists call this phenomena MICROCHIMERISM, there have being done on this phenomena and the results have been mind blowing

For example, the more a woman has sex with a particular man, the woman's DNA changes to mimic that of the man to a certain extent. This probably explains why, when a couple has been together for a long time, they end up looking alike

Another example, when a woman has DNA traces of many men inside her, she starts to change in her behavior and mannerisms as well, because her cells are changing. This probably explains why prostitutes tend to have all kinds of traits, it's due to having slept with many men

Another example, isn't it weird that one child in a particular family can be just totally different from others in behavior and mannerisms. You will ask yourself why that particular child is a thief/promiscuous/violent/mentally challenged yet in your family there's never been anyone like that

The truth is women retain DNA from every man they have slept with. This means these other male cells will be assimilated into the foetus when the woman gets pregnant

It gets even more interesting, that your woman who loves swallowing, if she did swallow another man's sperms before yours, it's worse. If sperm gets in the mouth, it ends up in the nasal areas, behind the eyes and ears. It then enters the bloodstream and then collects in the brain and spine. It becomes part of her forever

Now think about this, that woman of yours you didn't find a virgin, she has another man's DNA inside her brain and spine. On top of that, those other men's DNA is going to be passed on your children

There's a reason why our forefathers demanded that as a man you marry a virgin, so as not to pollute the family gene pool. Our forefathers were not backward, rather they were far ahead of their time. Think about this anytime you're marrying a woman you didn't find a virgin

Learn OR perish!!!
As a man, if you take this very serious when you are guilty of the same, you are a big HYPOCRITE and is not better than the woman.
Please Be Informed
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THE DECISION IS MADE IN THIS LIFE....

Where you will go for all of eternity is decided when you are alive. The decision is not determined the moment you die. It's either you are eternally secure in Jesus Christ, and He was Lord over your life while you lived. Or He wasn't, and now hope you can bribe your way into heaven. As you trust in your good works and deeds to persuade God. The issue? Your deeds are filthy before Him!!! God can not behold iniquity for He Is Holy. And there lies YOUR dilemma.

The problem is Sin. And the answer is Jesus. The solution is repentance of your sins and faith in Jesus Christ Alone. By trusting in His finish work on the cross. You can either take Jesus at His word when He said "I Am The WAY, I Am The TRUTH, I Am The LIFE" and live or take your chances. But there will be no mercy for you. Mercy is shown by God when you are given day after day multiple chances to get right with Him.

Every day you wake up, the clock of your life resets. Look at it this way - There is 365 days in a year. Which means, 365 chances in a year to get right with Him. Now multiply that by the years that you have been alive on this earth. This should give you a rough estimate of how many chances God has given you to get right with Him. What can really be your excuse when you take your last breath....

God DOES NOT send anyone to Hell. Man CHOOSES to go to Hell. How you choose to live NOW makes that determination. We urge you, Repent and Turn to Jesus Christ Today for the salvation of your soul.

The night is far spent, the day is at hand. Therefore let us cast off the works of darkness, and let us put on the armor of light. Let us walk properly, as in the day, not in revelry and drunkenness, not in lewdness and lust, not in strife and envy. But put on the Lord Jesus Christ, and make no provision for the flesh, to fulfill its lusts. - - Romans 13:12‭-‬14
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MICROCHIMERISM: Why Virginity Is Important

The sperm is more than just a fluid, it is a container of genetic information. Meaning when a man ejaculates in a woman, he leaves behind DNA that is stored inside the woman and shared if she gets pregnant. If she aborts, more information is stored

Scientists call this phenomena MICROCHIMERISM, there have being done on this phenomena and the results have been mind blowing

For example, the more a woman has sex with a particular man, the woman's DNA changes to mimic that of the man to a certain extent. This probably explains why, when a couple has been together for a long time, they end up looking alike

Another example, when a woman has DNA traces of many men inside her, she starts to change in her behavior and mannerisms as well, because her cells are changing. This probably explains why prostitutes tend to have all kinds of traits, it's due to having slept with many men

Another example, isn't it weird that one child in a particular family can be just totally different from others in behavior and mannerisms. You will ask yourself why that particular child is a thief/promiscuous/violent/mentally challenged yet in your family there's never been anyone like that

The truth is women retain DNA from every man they have slept with. This means these other male cells will be assimilated into the foetus when the woman gets pregnant

It gets even more interesting, that your woman who loves swallowing, if she did swallow another man's sperms before yours, it's worse. If sperm gets in the mouth, it ends up in the nasal areas, behind the eyes and ears. It then enters the bloodstream and then collects in the brain and spine. It becomes part of her forever

Now think about this, that woman of yours you didn't find a virgin, she has another man's DNA inside her brain and spine. On top of that, those other men's DNA is going to be passed on your children

There's a reason why our forefathers demanded that as a man you marry a virgin, so as not to pollute the family gene pool. Our forefathers were not backward, rather they were far ahead of their time. Think about this anytime you're marrying a woman you didn't find a virgin

Learn OR perish!!!
As a man, if you take this very serious when you are guilty of the same, you are a big HYPOCRITE and is not better than the woman.
Please Be Informed
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Ever since sex became easy to get, love became hard to find. Instead of sexual purity, the world is plunge into sexual perversion.

Relationship nowadays is messed up with, they can't visit, buy things for one another or chat for free. They must fornicate. Youths take glory, pride and joy in sleeping with multiple partners, they see that as an achievement.

They don't want to be told to wait until marriage, abstain from sexual immorality, keep their virginity or maintain sexual purity. No. They will descend on you and call you all kinds of unprintable names. All they want is the pleasure and nothing more.

There is no ordinary sexual intercourse, every sexual intercourse is physical and spiritual mating and exchange. Satan will introduce fornication in courtship & introduce adultery in marriage so that the family will be under the wrath of God.

The number of baby mamas, daddies, abortionist, DNA scandals, infidelity, cohabitation, prostitution, side chicks etc, are alarming and increasing in daily basis.

The degeneration has caused many their lives, womb, glories, destinies, marriage, purposes and lots more.

Some are suffering from demonic manipulation, satanic affliction, spiritual partners, generational curses, sexual transmitted diseases, stagnancy, barrenness, masturbation, pornography, curses and bad lucks because of mating sexually with someone or spirit in human form.

Others are into incest, beastiality, dildos, cucumbers, gayism, lesbianism, whoredom etc, to satisfy their sexual urge.

Through sexual immorality, many have lost control of their sexual urge, they can have sex with anyone, anything, anyhow, anywhere, anytime and yet, see nothing wrong with it.

Some have lost their body counts, even when they are married, their partners cannot even satisfy them, they are sneaking up and down in infidelity having coitus with partners outside their marriages.

Many are now using charms, amulets, spiritisms, voodoos, blood covenants, soothsayers and herbalists to woo their victims.

God frowns at every sexual perversions provided it is out of his plan for man examples; masturbation, MouthAction, anal sex, lesbianism, and besides, sex is meant for married people, if you are not married keep off. Everything must not be written in the Bible and your pastors may not know everything so use your discretion.
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abfelicity91:
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💥When you advise these women to get sense they will not listen.
We keep telling you to marry men who fear God you no wan hear.

You have been a church girl all your life and kept your virginity and then you ended up marrying a Mumu because of money and fame.

💥Someone who has been living a reckless life, sleeping with women anyhow. Then you said na that one you wan marry because of money and fame.

You yourself said you saw the signs but yet you still went ahead to marry him because you see money.

💥Now in the space of 1 year, you have lost your virginity, you have become a divorcee, they have exposed your poverty.
They have insulted your tribe, your culture and your church… your mother is being insulted publicly and all your family secrets being exposed to social media.

All these shame you brought upon yourself because you no get sense.
I don’t know what kind of a church girl you are.

💥So the guy paid your bride price, took your virginity and slept with you for a year, abused you domestically and emotionally for a year and then left you used like rag.
He picked you up with your pride and now you are back to square minus one! Coz definitely na you lose!

So what is your pride now? Since you have lost the virginity and you have become a divorcee at the age of 22. What will you now boast of? Nothing!

tell me, what is the essence of being a virgin without sense?

💥You see, this is how people go ahead and marry idiots and then come back to blame God for their issues.
Most people get married to goats because of material things. Then they spend the rest of their lives suffering and enduring…

So you have been a church girl all your life and then you ended up marrying someone whose name is Juju! How does that even relate?

Shay now the Juju don catch you?

💥So why didn’t he marry all the women he goes to clubs with? Why didn’t he marry all the ladies he slept with? Instead he came to you church girl.

You followed coz you saw money and fame.

He can recover back all the money he spent on you, but can you recover back your virginity and the virtue he took from you?

💥You women need to understand that there are things money cannot buy.
But when we talk you will say it’s your life. Now has money kept her marriage?

Okay since it is your life don’t go and start blaming God for the decisions you made alone for your own life.
💥I am sure when she was about to marry Him everyone was shouting “Grace” “Grace” Shay a lot of you said it is the will of God. Is this how the will of God is?
Very soon now you will see her in church praying for husband.

God gave you sense and wisdom but you decided to allow money cover it.
💥You made the choice alone you will suffer the shegeh alone. ❤️❤️❤️
💥When God said “Do not be unequally yoked…” you thought it was for Him? My dear it is for your own good.
Every instruction in the Bible is for our own good. If you obey, You are not doing it for God, you are doing it for yourself. ❤️
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eazzzy1:
There’s nothing like a real man. A man is a man. A man who sleeps around can also pick the women he sleeps with. He doesn’t necessarily have to sleep with every woman who wants him.

Sex doesn’t come easy for men, the scarcity of sex is what makes it valuable to man. Like money, the ones who have it in excess are considered better off than the ones who doesn’t, due to its scarce nature.

Sex is ego gratifying for men. It goes beyond just humping. Every woman he gets to lay with is affirmation of his value. It’s a pointer to being better off than his peers.

I’m against cheating because I think it’s betraying the trust of the people who you should cherish the most. I’m all for getting all the sex you can get when you aren’t committed to anyone.

That sounds like an excuse, we are human beings not animals. No offense please

To me it shows illiteracy, lack of sense and low mentality. People should learn to reason well.

Men are not wired to cheat... ✍️

I hear these phrase all the time that all men are wired to cheat, all men are the same, no man can be committed. Sincerely I used to think that way. But here’s my thought.
NO men are not wired to cheat. The only reason some men cheat is lack of discipline, peer pressure, selfishness, low self esteem and maybe to punish their spouse.

Think about it, a man who knows his worth will not allow himself to get naked with all women. A disciplined man, one who puts his emotions in check will know when to say no and walk away. It is known that men are more prone to succumb to peer pressure. Just because you are in a gathering with your friends and 80% of them are sharing experiences with women other than their wives does not mean you should tag along and disrespect your body and marriage.

If all men were created to cheat, God would have formed more women out of Adam. But He formed one woman and Adam named her and lived with her all the days of his life. One woman from one man not multiples. God would have said go into the world and make yourselves merrier coz the number of women you sleep with the more room is created for you in heaven. And the pathetic part is that some women have come to accept a cheating man as a normal thing. No its not. An unrepentant cheating man needs the attention of a psychiatrist.

A Chinese proverb say a man who loves many women, loves none. But a man who loves one woman loves all.
Don’t create excuse why you cannot be faithful to one woman because you are a man. Be responsible and be a man not a toy for any and every woman. When a man counts the number of women he has slept with, he is actually counting the number of women he has been a slave to.
Yes as a man you can be handsome, rich, got swag and still be faithful to your spouse. Coz that’s what a real man is all about.
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LUST NOT LOVE.

Multiple sex life and partners before marriage has destroyed the value of modern marriage, it has many negative consequence on a life and thereby making many shadows of themselves.

Imagine a young man or woman who is used to illicit and promiscuous sex life with multiple partners before marriage settling down in marriage with only one partner, there maybe issues of comparison and unnecessary demand for sexual satisfaction like ever before.

Many marriages are broken, many partners are unfaithful and many lives are shadows of themselves because of this decay. Sex outside marriage is not just a pleasure, it is a covenant, a transfer and a share of many physical and spiritual issues.

Not every partner out there is normal, alright or sound. Your entire life may be in trouble for a few minutes moment of pleasure.

Sex outside marriage is the greatest weapon of mass destruction in the hands of the devil. Whether you believe it or not, it still remain the greatest avenue responsible for the downfall of men and women.

The truth is, the same way STD's are transferred through sex outside marriage, so also, spirits, generational curses, family altars, the persons character and lots more are transferred also.

Not everyone you see or meet outside there is a human being. Some are spirits in human form, possessed with devils, agent of darkness, representatives of hell, infected with diseases, filled with lust, deep into sodomy and filled with all kinds of lust.

Mating them sexually may get you into what you cannot explain, downfall that you cannot rise, stagnant and hunted for life.

The reason why rape, pornographic contents, cohabitation, boyfriend/girlfriend relationship, sodomy, lesbianism, sex enhancers, breast and buttocks enlargement are on the rise, it is to make sure, all humanity are captured and destroy through this lust.

Scroll through your Bible, you will find out that no one had sex outside marriage, in the whole of the scriptures, went free, they all pay dearly for it.

The reason why people argue and give excuses is because they are guilty and that doesn't change the facts that, Sex outside marriage, is a sin. It leaves you empty and filled you with guilt and condemnation.
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007Marvel:
Sometimes I question this God loves all? The past nine months has been the most challenging time of my life, prayed, fasted but it seems to be getting worse! And it makes me wonder why God let certain things happen? Things that can break a man so hard! To the point of having suicidal thoughts! Although not me, I can never be suicidal. Things happening to me right now can actually draw a man far away from God! And then comes hell, there are certain situations in life that actually pushes someone to the edge and then comes sin! And then the person get condemned to hell! How is that even fair.

Be encouraged please, it may not look like it now but believe me you are not the only one, please have faith. The Bible asks what can separate us from the love of God, and the answer is nothing. Don't lose hope, there are people in worse situation than you and are still cleaving to God. When you pray and things seems to be getting worse know that the light/morning is VERY near, don't let the devil rob you of your glory 🙏

oz4real83:
Anatomy ------- mortuary

oneman2k7:
Flesh and blood did not reveal this unto you....

Hahaha, my Belle o

Oju4190:
mathematics no job.......u smoke weed

How many jobs have you seen in mathematics IN NIGERIA (no tell me teaching o)

Tunde835:
Bro you no even put teacher for those science courses instead of no job

Lolz , teaching na work ( make I dey run first ⛹️🏃🏃, before the teachers come for me I'm just kidding oo)
But anyways guy, teaching falls under "education" courses, though I know you can also work as a teacher with any degree, however I don't think it's the standard.

Sun5ie:
This is a funny truth

SOME COURSES AND THEIR PLACE OF WORK IN NIGERIA

* Medicine --- Hospital

* Law ---- Court

* Nursing ---- Hospital

* Dentistry ---- Hospital

* Physiotherapy ----Hospital

* Medlab --- Hospital

* Engineering ---- Industries

* Accounting --- Bank, industries and other organizations that deals with money

* Banking and finance ---- Bank or financial institutions

* Pharmacy ---- Pharmaceutical companies

* Radiography ---- Hospital

* Education ---- schools

* Agriculture ----- farms

* Biochemistry ---- No job

* Botany or PBB ---- No job

* Zoology (AEB) ---- No job

* Microbiology ----- No job

* Optometry ----- No job

* Science lab tech (SLT) ---- No job

* Chemistry ---- No job

* Physics ----- No job

* Mathematics ---- No job

* Statistics ----- No job

* Industrial chemistry ---- You can work in a chemical industry but your only job is to mix chemicals

* Masscom ---- Mass media. You can become a news caster in radio and television

* Theatre Art ---- Film acting. You can find a career in Nollywood industry if you are lucky

* History ---- No job

* French ---- No job

* Linguistics ---- No job

* Arabic and islamic studies---- No job

* Home economics ---- You can work as a nanny and be taking care of people's houses

* Yoruba language ---- No job

* Economics and statistics ---- marketing industry

* Insurance --- No job

* Philosophy --- No job

* Entrepreneurship ---- No job

* Music ---- No job

* CRS ---- No job

* Classics ---- No job

* Environmental science ---- No job

* Edo language ---- No job

* Psychology --- No job

* Criminology ---- No job

* Sociology and anthropology ---- No job

* Geology ----- No job

* Architecture ---- Building and construction company

* Anatomy ----Mortuary attendant

* Physiology ---- No job

* Islamic Law ----- No job

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let the vawulence begin ??🤣

#chichi smile
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Reminderz:
they won't and they will continue learning the hard way... sound it from today till eternity, it won't change a thing... sheybi na made men dey want? they want flashy lifestyle? hook up is their way abi? na flashy death go follow...

Hmmm "flashy death"

imagrg:
My Lord,

I plead guilty sir!

We are guilty of the offence!

If you are serious, it's only a matter of retracing ones steps.
No one is sinless sure, but is that an excuse to continue with our loads. Nah, the important thing is the effort that is put to getting right with God, and God will complete the remaining. Even we will be surprised if how we stopped. The important thing is to be intentional about it.

SkengRay:
E fit be say the babe wan kill the guy with over billing baba kuku reason am say make e use am package . Not all glitters is Gold, These is a lesson for siofra and others

You sef

Aammee77:
As a guy at 18, I was a virgin
This one is already doing sleepovers for survival.
It's well with her soul

I just wonder

Powerbando:
why are you pitying her, he be like say you be the next in line

Lolzzzzzzz

If boyfriends are now using their girlfriends for ritual, then where do we go from here? Who then do you Trust? When the people who should be protecting you are now the ones k!llingg you. Nowhere is safe.

See this beautiful 18 year old 300l student wasted. Private parts removed by her Boyfriend who’s desperate to be rich.

💥Please … Boyfriend or not, girlfriend or not, don’t just trust anyone this season. Boyfriend no be husband. He Never marry you!!!
He can waste you and spend the money on other girls. The days are evil! 💔
This is why I always advice Godly relationships… The church may not be perfect, but it is still the safest place to date.
You said Church boys are boring, you said church girls won’t give you sex… Then you go out there to the world and meet Deomons who will give you fun and destruction.

💥The devil is always waiting for you to be loosed and enter his zone, and most of you keep running towards there because you wantu enjoy life.

A person who doesn’t fear GOD is a tool for the devil to use anytime he wishes to!

💥I repeat, the Church may not be perfect but it is your safest zone… Staying away from God’s Territory is a Baaad Idea! ❤️❤️❤️
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After dating 25 people and having sex with all of them before marriage, tell me how your partner can satisfy you?
Just in case you don't know, sex is a very important part of marriage... it can keep a home and it can break a home. It is that powerful.

80% of the issues people have in marriage is because of sex... Either infidelity or insatisfaction.

💥A man who had sex with dozens of women before marriage will always judge his wife's body looks and sexual performance and probably cheat on her.
A woman who had sex with dozens of men before marriage will always frown at her husband when he performs less than what can satisfy her.

It is easy to Judge your partner when you have multiple body counts.

💥Small small, one person will begin to get tired of the other... then there'll no longer be connection, and when there is no connection, every little thing will produce offence.

You people don't know the implications of what you're doing now. You think you are young and enjoying life. But there are always consequences.

💥If you don't fix your life now that you have the chance to because you are "enjoying,"
The time you're supposed to be enjoying life, you will be busy trying to fix it...
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DOES SEXUAL APPETITE KILL, IF NOT QUENCHED?
Silly question isn't it? Some people think they will die if they don't have sex. I have however talked to grown ups of ages 40-50 who have not had sex. They are still alive and well. Do you think you will die if you don't have sex? There are a lot of heartbreaks because of sexual sin.
This I call 'short term gain for lifetime loss.' Remember the story of Esau and Jacob in GENESIS 25 vs. 32. Esau gave up his birth right for some red stew. Would one die if they don't get an in-between snack (stew)? Vs 32 'look I’m about to die,' Esau said. 'What good is the birthright to me?'
I hear some young person saying 'what good is my virginity, dignity, self worth or integrity to me', just because they are burning with sexual passion. Sexual appetite is normal; we all have it, but wait a little longer my beloved. Esau could have waited a bit for the next meal. Remember SEXUAL APPETITE DOESN'T KILL IF NOT QUENCHED.

2. SEXUAL FEELINGS CAN BE CONTROLLED
There are times when I feel like screaming at my kids, but I have learnt to control myself. I don't just let words out of my mouth because I feel like it. Sexual feelings, like any other feelings can be controlled too.
Having sexual feelings is one of God's greatest ideas for you. They alert you that one day you will marry and be a mother/father. You don't have them so that you behave in an ungodly manner but so that you work your life towards the future.
God is preparing you for marriage. So next time you feel the ooooooooo in your body, tell yourself to work hard since motherhood/fatherhood is around the corner. The more the feelings come, the harder you should work for they indicate the movement of time.
Feelings are not like sneezing,. Sneezing can't be controlled. That’s why even in a meeting you find yourself sneezing and you say 'excuse me.' If feelings can't be controlled, how come we don't see them popping in a meeting and you grab someone? Instead, one plans for where and how to release them.

3. SEX HAS A PRICE TAG
On our wedding day we had bride maids. They really blessed our day and we will forever cherish their presence. Do you know that even in the spiritual realm, there will be maids (tags) at your wedding?
For us our spiritual maids that graced our wedding were happiness, trust, health, faithfulness, peace and love. Be careful my children in all you do. Some of you will have the following as bride maids; heartbreak, HIV, bitterness, guilt, shame and lack of trust.
These will be dancing around you on the day. Handle your life well. Fear the Lord. Your perfect time will come. 'Listen my son to your father's instruction and do not forsake your mother teaching.' Proverbs 1 vs. 8. Praying that you have a wonderful wedding.

4. MURDER SIN.
Colosians 3 vs 5 'Put to death therefore whatever belongs to your earthly nature: sexual immorality, impurity, lust, evil desires and greed, which is idolatry. Because of these, the wrath of God is coming.' There is one thing we are allowed to murder by God.
That is sin. We are instructed to put sexual immorality etc to death. I have watched movies where people plan to kill. They study the pattern of the targeted person. If he uses a bridge everyday, they hide under that bridge knowing he will pass at a certain time.
When the time is approaching, they arm themselves so as to catch their prey. This is exactly what we need to do. We need to study the patterns of our feelings. When do we get the hottest? What will have happened? We therefore need to kill (get rid of) that which arouses them.

Be it sexual talks, friends, movies, magazines or places. When something is said to be dead, there will not be any trace of a heartbeat. This is what is meant by death. Lets put to death all impurities. You can do it my friends, you can do it. 'I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me.' Philippians 4 vs. 13.
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1. DOES SEXUAL APPETITE KILL, IF NOT QUENCHED?
Silly question isn't it? Some people think they will die if they don't have sex. I have however talked to grown ups of ages 40-50 who have not had sex. They are still alive and well. Do you think you will die if you don't have sex? There are a lot of heartbreaks because of sexual sin.
This I call 'short term gain for lifetime loss.' Remember the story of Esau and Jacob in GENESIS 25 vs. 32. Esau gave up his birth right for some red stew. Would one die if they don't get an in-between snack (stew)? Vs 32 'look I’m about to die,' Esau said. 'What good is the birthright to me?'
I hear some young person saying 'what good is my virginity, dignity, self worth or integrity to me', just because they are burning with sexual passion. Sexual appetite is normal; we all have it, but wait a little longer my beloved. Esau could have waited a bit for the next meal. Remember SEXUAL APPETITE DOESN'T KILL IF NOT QUENCHED.

2. SEXUAL FEELINGS CAN BE CONTROLLED
There are times when I feel like screaming at my kids, but I have learnt to control myself. I don't just let words out of my mouth because I feel like it. Sexual feelings, like any other feelings can be controlled too.
Having sexual feelings is one of God's greatest ideas for you. They alert you that one day you will marry and be a mother/father. You don't have them so that you behave in an ungodly manner but so that you work your life towards the future.
God is preparing you for marriage. So next time you feel the ooooooooo in your body, tell yourself to work hard since motherhood/fatherhood is around the corner. The more the feelings come, the harder you should work for they indicate the movement of time.
Feelings are not like sneezing,. Sneezing can't be controlled. That’s why even in a meeting you find yourself sneezing and you say 'excuse me.' If feelings can't be controlled, how come we don't see them popping in a meeting and you grab someone? Instead, one plans for where and how to release them.

3. SEX HAS A PRICE TAG
On our wedding day we had bride maids. They really blessed our day and we will forever cherish their presence. Do you know that even in the spiritual realm, there will be maids (tags) at your wedding?
For us our spiritual maids that graced our wedding were happiness, trust, health, faithfulness, peace and love. Be careful my children in all you do. Some of you will have the following as bride maids; heartbreak, HIV, bitterness, guilt, shame and lack of trust.
These will be dancing around you on the day. Handle your life well. Fear the Lord. Your perfect time will come. 'Listen my son to your father's instruction and do not forsake your mother teaching.' Proverbs 1 vs. 8. Praying that you have a wonderful wedding.

4. MURDER SIN.
Colosians 3 vs 5 'Put to death therefore whatever belongs to your earthly nature: sexual immorality, impurity, lust, evil desires and greed, which is idolatry. Because of these, the wrath of God is coming.' There is one thing we are allowed to murder by God.
That is sin. We are instructed to put sexual immorality etc to death. I have watched movies where people plan to kill. They study the pattern of the targeted person. If he uses a bridge everyday, they hide under that bridge knowing he will pass at a certain time.
When the time is approaching, they arm themselves so as to catch their prey. This is exactly what we need to do. We need to study the patterns of our feelings. When do we get the hottest? What will have happened? We therefore need to kill (get rid of) that which arouses them.

Be it sexual talks, friends, movies, magazines or places. When something is said to be dead, there will not be any trace of a heartbeat. This is what is meant by death. Lets put to death all impurities. You can do it my friends, you can do it. 'I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me.' Philippians 4 vs. 13.
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BEFORE THEY MARRY.

Our generation is marred with a lot of atrocities, disgusting things and immorality in the name of relationship.

Before settling down in marriage, they must have gone farther, deeper, higher and wider in immorality.

We have many young people who are just after pleasures up and down instead of preparing for marriage. And they believe marriage will automatically work when they settle down.

Some are out there sleeping and mating with any partner they are in relationship with or that comes their way.

Some must have had babies, committed series of abortions, destroyed other people's home, party everywhere, given birth to many children outside wedlock, lost wombs etc, before considering marriage.

Recently, I was told of a man who had twelve children from different baby mamas and not yet married.

I can count many marriages now that had abortions in their youthful age, they are married now but with no children.

Those who believe in "I must taste or test before I marry" have tasted and tested everything with no satisfaction.

What some people have reduced and subjected themselves to in the name of relationship calls for pity not celebration.

They glory and pride themselves in the numbers of partners they have gone to bed with and how good they are on bed.

Relationships are no longer pure, decent or clean, sexual immorality and all kinds of promiscuity are now attached to it.
Though warning signals and red flags can be ignored but not the consequences.

May God deliver our generation
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MARRIED OR NOT, YOU SHOULD READ THIS STORY

“When I got home that night as my wife served dinner, I held her hand and said, I’ve got something to tell you. She sat down and ate quietly. Again I observed the hurt in her eyes.

Suddenly I didn’t know how to open my mouth. But I had to let her know what I was thinking. I wanted a divorce. I raised the topic calmly. She didn’t seem to be annoyed by my words, instead she asked me softly, why? You know

I avoided her question. This made her angry. She threw away the chopsticks and shouted at me, you are not a man! That night, we didn’t talk to each other. She was weeping. I knew she wanted to find out what had happened to our marriage. But I could hardly give her a satisfactory answer; she had lost my heart to Jane. I didn’t love her anymore. I just pitied her!

With a deep sense of guilt, I drafted a divorce agreement which stated that she could own our house, our car, and 30% stake of my company. She glanced at it and then tore it into pieces. The woman who had spent ten years of her life with me had become a stranger. I felt sorry for her wasted time, resources and energy but I could not take back what I had said for I loved Jane so dearly. Finally she cried loudly in front of me, which was what I had expected to see. To me her cry was actually a kind of release. The idea of divorce which had obsessed me for several weeks seemed to be firmer and clearer now.

The next day, I came back home very late and found her writing something at the table. I didn’t have supper but went straight to sleep and fell asleep very fast because I was tired after an eventful day with Jane. When I woke up, she was still there at the table writing. I just did not care so I turned over and was asleep again.

In the morning she presented her divorce conditions: she didn’t want anything from me, but needed a month’s notice before the divorce. She requested that in that one month we both struggle to live as normal a life as possible. Her reasons were simple: our son had his exams in a month’s time and she didn’t want to disrupt him with our broken marriage.

This was agreeable to me. But she had something more, she asked me to recall how I had carried her into out bridal room on our wedding day. She requested that every day for the month’s duration I carry her out of our bedroom to the front door ever morning. I thought she was going crazy. Just to make our last days together bearable I accepted her odd request.

I told Jane about my wife’s divorce conditions. . She laughed loudly and thought it was absurd. No matter what tricks she applies, she has to face the divorce, she said scornfully.

My wife and I hadn’t had any body contact since my divorce intention was explicitly expressed. So when I carried her out on the first day, we both appeared clumsy. Our son clapped behind us, daddy is holding mommy in his arms. His words brought me a sense of pain. From the bedroom to the sitting room, then to the door, I walked over ten meters with her in my arms. She closed her eyes and said softly; don’t tell our son about the divorce. I nodded, feeling somewhat upset. I put her down outside the door. She went to wait for the bus to work. I drove alone to the office.

On the second day, both of us acted much more easily. She leaned on my chest. I could smell the fragrance of her blouse. I realized that I hadn’t looked at this woman carefully for a long time. I realized she was not young any more. There were fine wrinkles on her face, her hair was graying! Our marriage had taken its toll on her. For a minute I wondered what I had done to her.

On the fourth day, when I lifted her up, I felt a sense of intimacy returning. This was the woman who had given ten years of her life to me. On the fifth and sixth day, I realized that our sense of intimacy was growing again. I didn’t tell Jane about this. It became easier to carry her as the month slipped by. Perhaps the everyday workout made me stronger.

She was choosing what to wear one morning. She tried on quite a few dresses but could not find a suitable one. Then she sighed, all my dresses have grown bigger. I suddenly realized that she had grown so thin, that was the reason why I could carry her more easily.

Suddenly it hit me… she had buried so much pain and bitterness in her heart. Subconsciously I reached out and touched her head.

Our son came in at the moment and said, Dad, it’s time to carry mom out. To him, seeing his father carrying his mother out had become an essential part of his life. My wife gestured to our son to come closer and hugged him tightly. I turned my face away because I was afraid I might change my mind at this last minute. I then held her in my arms, walking from the bedroom, through the sitting room, to the hallway. Her hand surrounded my neck softly and naturally. I held her body tightly; it was just like our wedding day.

But her much lighter weight made me sad. On the last day, when I held her in my arms I could hardly move a step. Our son had gone to school. I held her tightly and said, I hadn’t noticed that our life lacked intimacy. I drove to office…. jumped out of the car swiftly without locking the door. I was afraid any delay would make me change my mind…I walked upstairs. Jane opened the door and I said to her, Sorry, Jane, I do not want the divorce anymore.

She looked at me, astonished, and then touched my forehead. Do you have a fever? She said. I moved her hand off my head. Sorry, Jane, I said, I won’t divorce. My marriage life was boring probably because she and I didn’t value the details of our lives, not because we didn’t love each other anymore. Now I realize that since I carried her into my home on our wedding day I am supposed to hold her until death do us apart. Jane seemed to suddenly wake up. She gave me a loud slap and then slammed the door and burst into tears. I walked downstairs and drove away. At the floral shop on the way, I ordered a bouquet of flowers for my wife. The salesgirl asked me what to write on the card. I smiled and wrote, I’ll carry you out every morning until death do us apart.

That evening I arrived home, flowers in my hands, a smile on my face, I run up stairs, only to find my wife in the bed -dead. My wife had been fighting CANCER for months and I was so busy with Jane to even notice. She knew that she would die soon and she wanted to save me from the whatever negative reaction from our son, in case we push through with the divorce.— At least, in the eyes of our son—- I’m a loving husband….

The small details of your lives are what really matter in a relationship. It is not the mansion, the car, property, the money in the bank. These create an environment conducive for happiness but cannot give happiness in themselves.

So find time to be your spouse’s friend and do those little things for each other that build intimacy. Do have a real happy marriage!

If you don’t share this, nothing will happen to you.

If you do, you just might save a marriage. Many of life’s failures are people who did not realize how close they were to success when they gave up.

Remember love is the richest of all treasures. Without it there is nothing; and with it there is everything. Love never perishes , even if the bones of a lover are ground fine like powder. Just as the perfume of sandalwood does not leave it, even if it is completely ground up, similarly the basis of love is the soul, and it is indestructible and therefore eternal. Beauty can be destroyed , but not love.

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Lelouch vi Britannia returns soon

What's the name of this anime, please?

BEFORE THEY MARRY.

Our generation is marred with a lot of atrocities, disgusting things and immorality in the name of relationship.

Before settling down in marriage, they must have gone farther, deeper, higher and wider in immorality.

We have many young people who are just after pleasures up and down instead of preparing for marriage. And they believe marriage will automatically work when they settle down.

Some are out there sleeping and mating with any partner they are in relationship with or that comes their way.

Some must have had babies, committed series of abortions, destroyed other people's home, party everywhere, given birth to many children outside wedlock, lost wombs etc, before considering marriage.

Recently, I was told of a man who had twelve children from different baby mamas and not yet married.

I can count many marriages now that had abortions in their youthful age, they are married now but with no children.

Those who believe in "I must taste or test before I marry" have tasted and tested everything with no satisfaction.

What some people have reduced and subjected themselves to in the name of relationship calls for pity not celebration.

They glory and pride themselves in the numbers of partners they have gone to bed with and how good they are on bed.

Relationships are no longer pure, decent or clean, sexual immorality and all kinds of promiscuity are now attached to it.
Though warning signals and red flags can be ignored but not the consequences.

May God deliver our generation
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