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LadyBoss1:
Oh ok mayb its not urs if she gives it to friends

ok, i just confided in my elder sister

Thanx bro,i shall do likewise.As we are talking,i've confided in my senior sister

IamLEGEND1:
O.K, since u asked.

Goldmaxx bro, first tinz first- no even attempt to deny am when matter finally reach the ears of the OPUTA panel. coz u go just put urself on a long thing and piss off her parents (& urs) even more.


second, everything might seem like itz all downhill from here but e go soon pass, and tinz go soon go back to normal. bt pls, try to get YOUR parents to sympathize with you as African parents are notorious for siding with the female in matters like diz and have absolutely no pity for the guy. And itz gonna come in handy if her parents are the "By fire, by force" type.

finally, depending on the decision both ur parents arrive at, try to provide the little support you can, emotionally and otherwise. but if her parents say dem no wan see you, abeg no go there oh..... ACID IS EVERYWHERE DIZ DAYS.

Bro,wats ur problem,why dnt u let me continue my grieviances alone

Luedave:
i dnt know oooo ask ladyboss1, goldmaxx d prof in yanshin and youngest fada, and freemanan area fada 1 of............ Joint....

Shez 18 and in ss3

tdayof:
mehn you fuvked up big time? Am 16 + I wouldn't imagine having a gf sef

Well actually how old is the girl? And do you really think she is pregnant?

tinkle:
ok I understand you but have you been tested for STDs?
its very very important, please.
guys often don't even show any sign of having it.
it can make you infertile and even kill you.
please go to a lab and test yourself

ok i will soon go

Ok sis, am modifying rite away

tinkle:
Nothing don't worry. just that I'm female but people often mistake me for a guy

IamLEGEND1:
Na female she be as you dey refer to am as "Bro"
#TakeNote

ok bro

LadyBoss1:
Even worse so shes older nah wah ohhh

sis by free giver,i didnt mean dat she is cheap,just dat we are friend so we started having sex wen she was in ss2 and i was in ss3

tinkle:
I think you should go and test yourself for sexually transmitted diseases STDs since she's a free giver (what an expression ) and you have had unprotected sex with her

sis by free giver,i didnt mean dat she is cheap,just dat we are friend so we started having sex wen she was in ss2 and i was in ss3

tinkle:
IamLEGEND1 chai! they have started again o

who

Bro by free giver,i didnt mean dat she is cheap,just dat we are friend so we started having sex wen she was in ss2 and i was in ss3

lovely17:
don't mind op he already has free giver at 17

Ok bro

chimerase2:
yea wen I was u was wen I was in ma finals
So amu no longer u

Ok bro,i will try summoning the courage to meet him by next week

tinkle:
ok. but nobody is perfect and we all make mistakes.

in life we will all disappoint somebody whose opinion we value a lot or who holds us in high regard.

as the first son the disappointment will be much but his love for you is even greater.

therefore I urge you to report your mistake to your father and accept both his disappointment and his loving correction.

you may have disappointed him now but you still have your life ahead of you to make him very proud in future. and i'm sure as the first son, for him your achievements will be bigger in his mind than your failures.

having said all that, you know your dad better than most of us here. if your dad is a strict disciplinarian then it would obviously be silly to expect him to let it slide easily. so it may be a long road.

but good things outweigh bad. that's why they are harder to come across and mistakes are always easier to make than achievements.

it shall be well. just tell him.

Sorry boss,i believe that i was wrong but hw do i face my parents esp my strict dad.He may disown me.You could be me bro

chimerase2:
U give gal belle and u re mentioning ishilove and lalalisticlala
Pls tell me were this two der wen u were doing it
Pls give me 10 reason why u re mentioning our hardworking moderators in this palavar

Jetjacky:
from doctors. if she is up to 2 months in her pregnancy. paternity test can be done.

okay,she said,its one month old

Shez 18 and in ss3

orogodoganyin:
hw old is the girl thow?

18 and in ss3

LadyBoss1:
How old is she dear

Thanx once again,shez 18 years but in ss3 while i finished college last year.Just dat am tall so pple mis-thought me being 19 or 20

LadyBoss1:
Well even if u dont want ur dad to know..
Dont u think the girls parents would carry her to ur fathers house n demand u look after her .. Cuz im guessing shes young too right ..
Its better u tell them i say i face it
Than try to hide it n they will find out sooner or later .. If it was mayb different states or something mayb it would b easy to hide.

My dad will be angry and disappointed in me as the first son

tinkle:
let the baby be born but:

- get a DNA test as soon as it is

- if the lady doesn't want to hold onto it, put it up for adoption

so many people are out there looking for babies and so many people's lives were saved by being adopted by those who wanted them and could look after them better

what do you think your dad is going to say/do?

Ok sar but why ar u using the F-word

Luedave:
i aint insultin and dude it cant b fvckn me. Its a big disgrace dat a fellow nairalandr wit all d shiity threads uve read still went on to fvckn dig a fvckn slut..... U dnt even know d bustop where u wud board a bus to your destiny and uve startd digging a hole on the path u gonn follow. Dude u bout to fall and i feel lyk cryin 4 u if dis is tru coZ u cant tell d fvck dat u aint know how to prevent dis fvck mess

Thanks bro,but hw do i approach my dad

Freemanan:
Chisos....


Reading....


Op...
I am impressed with your diction and composure for a man of your age. I sincerely advice that you tell your parents Please. Don't do anything silly, I really wanna follow you up on this. Be Good Boss.

U mus'nt insult me sir.Things happen and it can be you

Luedave:
man u wicked smaaall ooooo...
Dude dis u got is fvckn anof...... Wen u dey of pressure ur orbituari wud be on NL FRONTPAGE just be patient.........


Go and fvckn earn money and learn for yur good. Her fvckn parent wud fvckn find out and throw d fvck out of her out. Then u wud fvckn have to acomodate her.

Okay,what should i do nw

ikeepitreal:
Seriously, dude. But he would still know one day. Just come clean while its early

Thanx so much bro,but hw do i knw if am the fada since the baby is not yet born

Jetjacky:
man. goto the hospital and find out if you're the father. if you're, all you need to do is ask yourself what you want: do you love her? if you don't, tell her, but take responsibility of your baby. make it clear to her, and better still tell your parents, and let them know your stand on it. when the baby is born bring him/her to your family, let the girl only be visiting. You should be a man now.

this would help you to continue with your schooling, and help her further her education or future. and it won't tie you down

life sucks sometimes but you need to take it with a smile

Thankx dear,buh i will do anything to prevent my fada 4rm knwing cos am the first child and i fear my dad disowning me.

LadyBoss1:
17+
But Op havent you heard of condom.. Ur grown enough to engage in the act but dont take time to protect yourself
What if u catch HIV too .. Have u even tested yourself

How do u know its your , u stated she is a free giver , y not find out the facts first before u start panicking . If it is true be a man tell ur parents if u have to. U laid ur bed now u have u lie in it no matter how scary it seem ..

Anyway hope it works out

Seriously i will do any thing to prevent my dad 4rm knwing

ikeepitreal:
In burna boy's voice *robbery, robbery, robbery*
But op, you are a big fool. I'm seventeen myself, an aspirant of oau, I hv a girlfriend whom I love. But come to think of it, it's actually funny.. Imagine, pregnancy.. Your papa should castrate u

Lalasticlala farano Ishilove front page please I need more advice

One month old

bigneorapz:
.How many month old is the pregnancy? that we can know the typa advice to give you @op

Thank you sar

Luedave:
beta pikin helep us tell dat mumu dat call himself goldmaxx, d latest id.iot in nigeria....

he hasnt thought of his damn life and how to make money, be prosperous, serve God and be a beta man instead he carries a 4inch deeck up and down to dig 3inch wide hoez.......

goldmaxx d mechanic in my area is recruiting incase u dnt mind to earn some cash for pampers... believe me ur education go get comma even though u come out well ur life got a stain already

Tank you

Luedave:
am proud of u. dnt call those two names again coz they can push dis to fp..


next time ur hungry deeck wud rest and stop watchn porn, u can self service nd enjoy more than digging a gal

I dnt knw bro

Cutehector:
so wat do u wana do? Tell her to abort?

I've gone diz evening.Its true.She an aspirant of unn

Cutehector:
well... Wat do u wana do nw? Hav u met her yet? It may be a bluff... Be serious wit her, be like.. I won't believ until u show me a doctor's confirmation or smth