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Noticed how they deliberately avoid Nigeria girls?

Even Mikel went for a Russian. This should send a message that no man wants a liabi.lity in his life

AngelahFlo:
That's a Lie
A...Big...Fat...Lie!!!
Marriage is instituted by God to reflect His union.with the Church who is His bride.
It's the concept that's been modeled before us by social media and "celebrities" that has made us think that marriage is a scam.

What does a man gain from marriage

DeepSight:


Marriage is a scam.

Big scam

Men gain absolutely nothing from marriage.

Most girls are desperately praying for them to quickly marry so as to stop paying house rent and other bills. Imagine getting fed in a place for your whole life where you don't have to contribute a single dime.

Damn

The girl deserves what she got.

Simple please switch off your phone, she started behaving like a tout after the plane landed. The girl in question na even OS. Her nude pictures full everywhere. Her market will skyrock now

FineUsername:
No performances from J. Bieber, K. Lamar, C. Brownie, J. Cole or even Lil Yachty?

Wetin Justin Bieber wan find for there? Is Justin Bieber a joke to you?

Dude JB is on another level. There are levels to these things

IHate9jerianss:
Lol @Emboldened
So you too notice am?!
The guy clearly dey inexperienced with women.Probably one of those bookish types who reads rather than take action

Swears!

Everything the guy wrote was copied from Google. I have told him to stop believing those crap on Google and face reality.

He is inexperienced with women. He should have asked himself why those women intimacy gadgets sells very well than anything? Why do they use it to massage themselves and satisfy themselves with it? The reason is simple, they're always feeling ho-rny and desire sex like m@d far far more than men do but would rather stay indoors and do it with their toys. They won't go to any guy for fear of being called os unlike men when they're ho-rny won't waste time at all in saying it out. Na wetin I dey explain to the guy be this.

Make he dey there dey use Google dey argue

Gerrard59:
Basic biology states that men have the hormone testosterone. This hormone propels men to produce sperm cells every day, and these cells need to be expelled. The only realistic way to ejaculate is via the vagina. Only women have this organ. Men have the urge to have sex every day. That is the biology. Men don't experience menstruation, nor do they have specific days within the calendar when they feel horn¥. It is men who need sex, and this is why we spend thousands/millions of dollars supporting the sex industry across the world.

Women enjoy sex, but with only men they have emotional feelings for. Additionally, women can stay long without sex. We have had married men on Nairaland lament how their wives withhold sex from them for months. Some of these men have had to go outside to satisfy their thirst. Men stay without sex because they cannot afford to have sex. Any woman in Nigeria or elsewhere who wants to have sexual intercourse today would get it. It is easy. Men are that horn¥. Check Nigerians who japa'd, it is ONLY the Men who complain that they have not had sex. I am yet to see a Nigerian woman complain of a lack of sex.. I know one who brought s£x toy from Nigeria so she uses it when she is hot.

In fact, with s£x toys, women technically don't need men for sex sef. There is a big market for such products in the country. My friend, based in Lagos, dates a girl in our home city who made her money selling s£x toys. He showed me a pic of her inventory and said she confirms that sales are high. She is 26 (as at the time the discussion was had), living in the most expensive part of the city. Imagine a lass living in Ikeja GRA based on sales of d!l dos and vibrators?


I am not doubting that women don't enjoy sex. Maybe because I did not flesh out my reply as I am now. Also, maybe the notion of sex by younger women today has changed over the years. As you mentioned in one of your mentions, the reason most don't experience it is because of the prudish and sanctimonious nature of our society, and this is even regional sef (in Nigeria). For instance, women in the Caribbean (Jamaica, Barbados, Bahamas, Saint Lucia, etc) wear bikinis and panties freely with no one shouting OS or ashawo. Ordinary birthday celebration in Benue, a man wrote an epistle on Facebook. So, tell me, in which society would women sexually express themselves freely?

The problem I see is our hypocrisy: we, the men, want to have sex with as many women as possible, but we want to control how women view sex. We want the women to be chaste, but we want to be polygamous in nature. The math would not math because we have sex with women, not ghosts. I like sex, and this is why you would never see me criticise sex workers or girls who love sex.



They enjoy sex, but with the men they have feelings for. I am glad you agree that a girl wouldn't want to have sex without gaining something. We agree on one thing there: nothing like free sex. Every man pays for it.

Our sexually active and audacious women are making a lot of money selling sex to the biggest buyers, who happen to be the loudest complainers. Check OnlyFans and AllAccessFans, which is owned by Nigerians. Those guys grossed over a billion naira in transaction fees. It is our men who send a random girl on Twitter 500K because she is beautiful. It is men who need sex way more than women.

See here: https://x.com/AdaofLONDON/status/1953475695834767555. She has over a thousand subscribers. Another one based in Lekki bought an exotic car not long ago. Another graduated from the biochemistry department of a federal university and went deep into sex trade. I checked her IG page, and the birthday bash she held was very loud.

Who patronises these women? Why would they do so if they don't need sex more?

It is not a Google thing, but basic peer-reviewed research papers. We need sex more than women, and this is why most men don't see an issue with having sex with different women in different areas. Na our men dey look for sex workers when embarking on trips outside their bases. There is a reason why sex work thrives where mining and transport/haulage hubs are situated.

You're contradicting yourself son.

Women go with intimacy gadgets because they can't approach you, initiate a conversation and tell you they want it. This is common logic na. A man leads and more reason why men don't hide their urge unlike women that'll rather stay indoors with their intimacy gadgets and be doing it. Do you expect the woman to approach you before? U want people to call her os?

Dude, women are extremely good at hiding and pretending at things like this.

All these things you wrote are just trash 🗑️. I have been running away from couples of girls now because they love sex like m@d. E be like girls no like you enough or consider you hot enough for serious nacking na why you dey quote all these things.

Men pay for sex because women have since understood that men are so eager and ready for it anyday anytime and hence the need to monetize it even though they too desperately want it. Dude just try find girls wey like sex then come back and edit this thing you wrote.

starbuck:
She drew David's head on her side a... S..... S from the pre wedding pics they posted days ago..
She that her black gown that was all see through

Send us the link or the image let's see.

Chioma can't try such

mirrael68:
While I don't like tattoos, this writer has displayed grand ignorance about marriage. A man is commanded to love his wife beyond his own life. So Davido has done well

A famous American actor did the same until his marriage hit the wall. He went and changed it from the wife's image to that of a dog

Damn

Nice

But davido writing chioma's name on his body shows his a simp.

Chioma will never try such. Nothing will make chioma tattoo David's name on her body. Never!

In reality, chioma should be the one tattooing and thanking David for coming to save her and not the other way around

Apcshit:
Did you pay for her tfare yes or no? The money you refuse to pay your ex wife ,na this one go waste am

Dey play

The court will declare him bankrupt. It has happened before and will happen again

Men are really suffering in the Western world.

You can be accused of raped and then made to pay millions upon millions to the girl in question

almarthins:
You just exposed the reality of Davido's confusion. The society want men like him to sway a whole generation of real men in line of stupidity. It is sad that 90% of men out there are much of a sissy than real McCoy.

Abeg no talk again because dem go pounce on you for revealing the obvious as they want this illusion.

50cent and other sane men will never try this.

Chioma herself will never ever tattoo David's name on her body! Never!

Ameachi can't even win river state as a gov if he contest today. Dude is trying so hard to be relevant but sadly nobody knows beyond his LGA

Politics of hatred everywhere!

Meanwhile, mere rumours announcement that GEJ is coming back, the entire camp of the opposition has been shaking

Damn!

Nice!

But davido writing her name on his body via tattoo is complete simping!

Chioma will never try that. Nothing will make chioma tattoo David's name on her body. Women are more smarter.

Atiku has finally destroyed ADC.

The man is not giving up anytime soon until he has finally destroyed it

Deoboss:
Not in support of what the guy did to this lady. But ladies run all sorts of moves to scam & cart away guy’s funds more often than not.

Am a victim a couple of times to a few ladies sweet looks & fronting they need funds to solve urgent problems since we were dating i thought it was not a big deal to spend on the love of my life only for me to realize that it was just a scam to milk me off money.

I even paid tuition fee & upkeep money for a while on a lady i was dating & also proposed marriage to her which she accepted willingly only for her to get her OND degree in the Polytechnic the following year and declared that am very sweet & good to her but she is in love with another guy & that she is very sorry but they both intend to get married.

I swore to never help out or do such assistance again to any lady whatsoever.

I heard their relationship later hit the rocks afterwards (karma).

😂

I like this your story. I hope more simps falls victim to this so they'll learn the hardest way.

When we say you shouldn't invest in girls no matter what, we get insulted here but then you've seen the outcome yourself?

U go dey pay girl school fees till she got OND degree? Omo!

Women don't love, they'll use you to climb to the top and discard you. Let me tell you, while you were wasting your money on her in school, she's busy mounting one rod to the other. The other guy she claims to love doesn't spend single dime on her. You're just the Mr nice guy doing all the simping for her. I am happy simps are learning. Thank God for the REDPILL message of salvation

Brahamimo:
I hate simps honestly.

I have a friend who would starve himself because he wants to give his last card to a girl. He even goes to borrow money to entertain his girls. If you're dying of starvation today and he has food to give to eat, but his girl is coming to see him, he would never give u. He will say he's keeping it for his girl...

I've never seen a simp like dis

Limit your friendship with that guy otherwise he'll sell you out. Such guys can even borrow from you but will never give.

Limit your friendship with him at a minimum level!

RollinTNDA:
Her: I don't usually do this...

(Then proceeds to kneel down and give me one of the bombest sloppy toppy )

I really find it difficult to take the words of a Nigerian girl serious

Bro a girl was dying for me for weeks
I took her out and flexed her coincidentally that day was her birthday.
I took her to a motel give am 7k

Still she wan make I wrestle her thighs before she give me the goodies.
I wan remove her pant she they hold am back like tug of war. Only for me to beg again
When I finally enter come see riding

For my mind I say so alllll that shakara u do
Na still you want am pass me...SMH

Nigerian girls are one of the toughest sweetest girls you will ever enjoy. Because they are as hornny as u just that they are very good at disguizing it. But once the unleash the dragon.
Na you go dey beg them to stop

Cc Gerrard59

At the bolded is exactly what I was explaining to Gerrard59

Women are as ho-rny as you dude but will never show it, simply because they don't want to be labelled as OS. Oga Gerrard59 they need the sex more than you do. Meet a girl who's addicted to your rod and you'll understand what we're saying. You'll be shocked to discover that women needs it and even enjoy it far more than men do. Na from experience I dey tell you so. No let Google dey whine you

Gerrard59:
I agree with never begging a woman for sex, but the bold is false. Men need sex more than women. It is basic biology. The enjoyment aspect is also false. Most women don't enjoy sex with men, especially when they are not connected emotionally. And our women have to pretend even if they enjoy it because they would be labelled as ashawo.

You haven't come across girls who enjoy sex na why you dey yarn this thing. You've probably been having sex with girls who doesn't have urge for it.

Women don't enjoy sex because konji doesn't catch them abi? As in they're sticks and firewoods? I don't know how some of you men think and reason. You even said men need sex more than women? How? Haven't you seen guys who had stayed for years without sex? Dude women need sex far more than men do. This is simple for anyone to understand. A woman won't come to you until you go for her and talk to her yourself even when she's dyin-g to have you on bed with her. The girls who have been to my house were the ones chasing me around for sex. Another girl wan use sex finish me, she always comes from school to my place every weekend, at a point, I told her I travelled I wasn't around, I said this because this girl loves and enjoys sex like tomorrow no dey so i needed to lie that I wasn't around. Dude, this girl needed the sex far more than I do! She doesn't even hide her own she tells it to me straight on call that she wants it and she's coming right away. I always look for ways to tell her I'm not at home.

Dey play shaa! Google has manipulated you to believe that women doesn't like nor enjoy sex whereas in reality they enjoy it far more than men but good at pretending. Besides a girl will not have sex with you if she has nothing to gain (money). Also a girl can do it again and again with you if she enjoyed the previous one. U won't understand shaa. Continue reading Google

Nicoddemus:
Just continue with this your way of reasoning. You will only be able to keep a very sloppy
and worthless girl

You don't keep a woman dude. A girl that wants to be kept will preserve and keep herself. Nothing you do can keep a girl.

That being said, attention is the most powerful tool you have as a man, why waste it easily? Money is important and highly valuable because it is a scares and a rare commodity to come by.

If you want to be seen as important and a high value man, dude you need to be scares. For scarcity brings intriguing and mystery. Besides nobody values what they can get easily. Flocking around a girl, always in her DM chatting with her will only make you lose value

dollytino4real:
na our logo

I'm surprised you ain't supporting your gender this time around.

Christistruth03:
Ojukwu was Gowons Army Junior

Gowon joined in 1954 and Ojukwu joined in 1957


Ojukwu lied a lot

Engaging you in a conversation is a complete waste of time.

Even Gowon himself came out and said he is sorry for the war that he caused it, he revealed that his decisions led to breakout of the war.

And you dey here dey argue 🤡

Bahamas95:
They always claim to be ræped the first time they had sex.

1. "I didn't wanna do it o, he was just disturbing me and the next thing he did was to shift my pant. That was how I was deflowered"


2. "You're the second guy I have dated since I was born, I don't wanna talk about the first one. It was a horrible experience" (Mind you she's referring to number1)


3. "I'm not a baby nau, I can take care of myself. You can cüm inside" ( oga if you make dat mistake just ready to buy pampers)


First time they visit you and you serve them rice and chicken.

4. "Ha! This food is too much na, I don't eat much" ( Just take style waka comot from house na bones go remain for plate)




I'll add more later, make I eat first.

Absolutely true.

That first guy is actually the guy she likes more and there were plenty others before him. So you're like the 60th guy she's meeting to nack her

DeepSight:
Ol boy you dont understand me, we are on the same page.
I am telling you that some scandalous women will allege that they said stop while the action was already going on and one more thrust means you have ra.ped her. Nonsense.

Such nonsense can only be found in useless country like America with their f-uulisness

A girl will have s3x with a guy willingly and the next thing she'll drag him to court and starts screaming he rap-ed her

DeepSight:
Alright, so what about the "stop" while you are already inside her. One more movement and its ra.pe.

What are you saying

How can you be inside her already and she'll says stop when it's not paining her? I don't understand, is the guy's gbo-la a joke? So his own thing is irrelevant and inactive? It is the woman's own that is more important?

christistruth01:
Do you know that Ojukwu was not only Junior to Gen Gowon in the office corps but to Col Victor Banjo too?

Col Banjo joined Army in 1953 ,Ojukwu humiliated him till he killed him
Gowon joined in 1954 and Ojukwu joined in 1957

What's this one saying

Gowon was junior to ojukwu in ranks and shouldn't have been the head of state. The northerners fixed Gowon there and of course you wouldn't expect other senior military rankings officers to be happy with that development

AngelSlay:
it's either you man up or you exit the stage for who's capable.

Broke women have no business entering a relationship. You should remain single until you're financially stable