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I dey vex right now. I swear to God who make me, na upper cut wey go split her tongue.
I go still use police make she spend two days for cell. Still find female agbero wey go beat nonsense and finally call her parents to come and carry their I'll mannered and poorly trained daughter.
Nothing like family meeting or man of God intervention

brain54:
I don't even get this whole thing...

Tearing his passport will prevent him from going back?

Can't he apply for a new passport?
🤷

Na Mumu thinking with their fish brain

Not far fetched

My friends Uncle came to Nigeria to visit his family. The wife started trouble from no where, he went out to cool off.
When he came back home. Shockingly, she burnt his traveling documents to ashes. Luckily he was adviced by his family members to keep away his traveling documents from home. The one she burnt was his expired papers

I guess this was her first visit abroad sponsored by her husband with the kids. Women, you can do better. Abeg

Waka jeje make you no go jam agbako 💯

Trendtips:
There must have been a significant trigger for her to react this way. However, her behavior suggests underlying anger issues that need to be addressed. On the other hand, the man's calm demeanor raises questions about his potential role in the situation, and whether he may be partially responsible for the conflict.
We will need an extended video to determine what lead to the video to be taken.

Nothing like extended video , she just committed a offense by tearing our passport. Abi u want to justify her actions

CyrusVI:
Im always scared of the kinda evil women are capable of doing

How do I spend all the rest of my nights on Earth with a creature that could destroy a dynasty just cause of some mood swing

You sef, wetin be mood swings . That's bad manners, na mal-handling de deal with such idiots.

Spoilt and ill-mannered adult

I dey vex right now. I swear to God who make me, na upper cut wey go split her tongue.
I go still use police make she spend two days for cell. Still find female agbero wey go beat nonsense and finally call her parents to come and carry their I'll mannered and poorly trained daughter.
Nothing like family meeting or man of God intervention

We4all:
I can't believe my eyes at the bolded. Dude, no one forced you. You dated her, got her pregnant, and now you are whining that she manipulated you. If you didn't like her enough, then why were you sexually involved with her to the extent of getting her pregnant? You sound so immature and clearly had no business in getting married.

He did all but its not just working. He tried

BlindAngel:
Good afternoon Nairalanders,

Please read to the end, It'd be quite an episode.

My marriage of 6 months has almost finally come to an end.

On my previous thread I have posted a lot about trouble we've been having during and after the marriage.

- How she manipulated me with her tears into marrying her despite the fact that I wasn't in anyway ready.

- How she manipulated me with her tears, and refused my pastor to conduct our baby's naming ceremony, therfore giving way for her pastor to conduct our baby's naming ceremony. And called me all sorts of names while crying when I refused and insisted that my pastor will be the one to do it.

Plus other's that I cannot even remember.




Now back to the topic, I will be extremely sincere to you all, I won't add anything and will not remove any. Everything started two day's ago, I was lying on the bed and she came to me crying and begging for me to love her that she's tired of begging for my love all the time, that I should give her just 1% of the love that I've for our son. Just 1% is all that she asked for, I didn't answer her, but later told her that I've tried in the past and still trying but the love isn't there naturally that maybe it's because she forced me into marriage when I'm not in anyway ready that in my wildest dream I never believed that I'd be a married man this year. Then she started crying heavily, went to look for rope and started strangling her neck that she will kill herself that there's no life for her to live, I rescued her. Then, I went to bath and before I came back she has locked the room door, I was hearing endless cough outside the door and pleaded with her to open the door but no response. Thank God the door key is somewhat faulty, I managed to open the door and saw that her eyes are already extremely red and spit drooping out of her mouth, the rope was so very extremely tight to her neck. "I'm still wondering until date how she managed to hold on tight and not let go despite the great pain she was in" next she went tho get knife that she'd stab herself. I was late for work and with the anger inside of me, I walked out of the house, she called me on video call immediately and showed me that this is the end that I should take care of out baby, I immediately ended the call, put my two phones on flight mode until I few hours later.

Immediately I on my phone my mom called me, she has reported a lot to my mom, my mom talked to me and when the heat was too much I walked out of her.

After that day, which is a day before yesterday, she totally changed, she no longer respect me, she talks to me anyhow, she insult me and talk back at me. These are things she does when I newly met her until she totally changed, now she has turned to something else, she bought a school form without even informing me. Two weeks ago she brought one of her friend to stay with us without informing me, when I confronted her she said she forgot.

Today she told me that I'm treating her bad and expect her not to revolt and continue keeping quiet, that this is the end road for me. I guessing that she got this advice from a friend, because she told her friend that she met at antinental everything that has been going on and she gave her some advice.


Today a huge quarrel broke out today which I'm clearly the cause, we were watching a Nigerian movie and I saw a chubby girl and complimented her that she's sweet that this is the kind of body I like that I'm going to search for her on Instagram just to see more of her. I said all this because I've been singing in her ears that I love dark skinned or chocolate women that are extremely chubby or fat. She also don't always fail to tell me that she's on weight reduction therapy "I'm always pained whenever I hear this words from her because she's not in anyway fat, she's fair too and rubbing cream to make her fair more, all these is paining me, she knew what I want but always doing the opposite. I can't resist a chubby girl, but coming home to see her how slim she's always makes me so heartbroken and weak.

The quarrel led to insult, we started insulting each other. She told me to shut up, that I'm an idiot bastard, a fool at 30, mumu, Goat etc.

And I insulted her as well, I'm pained by her insult because as she's supposed to give me some respect.


During the heat of the quarrel while we were still dating, I reminded her how she cheated on me by going to sleep with a stranger In a hotel until dawn, and denied that nothing happened, that the man didn't touch her.

I got to know all this when I she was sleeping and I used her finger print to open her phone and saw her chat between her and her room mate In school, she was still a student then.

"her friend asked her not to go, but she refused and went, on the chat she made mentioned that she didn't shaved that she'd be ashamed if the guy want to have sex with her.

When I saw her chat she blamed me, that I didn't gave her attention on that particular day. This is a woman whom I'm always chatting with all the time, except that particular day that I was extremely busy and told her that I'd be busy but when I'm less busy we'll chat. She said I told her that I was busy but I was online on whatsapp that she sent me messages but I never opened them, that her emotions got the best part of her.

I also reminded her of how she chatted a guy that was always disturbing her. She told the guy that she's ready to date him that he should go and rent house so that she would be coming to sleep there. What made her to write the guy? We had a quarrel, her friend that our last born was far older than, insulted me and instead of her to scold her friend she joined her friend and starter insulting me that I was the one at fault. Note : we were still dating back then when all this happened, today's argument made me to remind her.

I also reminded her of her chat with her friend when she told her friend that I'm a broke guy she's just managing.

But she said she was naive then that things have changed now which I can't deny. I then told her that I will call a family meeting and state all these that sha did during the past, I won't have done it but all her 4 sisters excluding her mom and one of her sister, think I met her a virgin, the remaining 4 of her sisters think I met her a virgin, so I want them to know that I didn't met her a virgin that she has already dis virgined when I met her.


Now back to the deal breaker, she said everything on my body is small including my penis, that whenever she's holding my penis when not erect, God forbid that it looks like a baby's penis. That God forbid our son having such a small penis.

Then I told her that her vagina is very wild that I don't feel anything when having sex with her, that all the prostitutes and my ex that I've slept with are far tighter and sweeter than her that she's has the worst and bitter vagina I've ever tasted in all my life and day to day existence.

Then she kept on hitting about my small penis that my penis is small and that's why I haven't felt anything. Then I told her how many girl's that have cummed during sex, even prostitutes. "Note, I'm not lying, this is 100% true" Then she said I'm lying, that my penis only long but it's small bla bla bla.

Few minutes later, I dressed up and went to church, while going she again called me a Goat, a fool and a Dog.


The decision I intend taking, I intend doing out child's dedication next week Sunday, so in order for anything not to connect us ever again after I've gotten back my bride price.

I have blocked her both numbers on whatsapp and Facebook, and on calls although she doesn't know yet. "note : this is the very first time that I'm blocking her, ever since when we started dating, no matter the quarrel and provocation, I haven't ever done this ever before.

Nothing and absolutely nothing will make this marriage work ever again, I intend calling a family meeting immediately after the dedication to state my mind that the marriage has ended and she should leave.

To me, this marriage ended a long time ago right from the very first day she manipulated me with her suicide attempt and endless tears and calling me wicked, heartless. In which I couldn't bear and I agreed to marry her despite the fact that I wasn't ready, the love wasn't there and above all I wasn't sexually attracted to her. I wasted 4 million plus in getting married to her February this year, and I have accepted my fate. I will do the dedication and call the family meeting to make my stance known.

Thank you all for reading, although I've already made a decision but I'd appreciate your contributions and what you think about all that happened.

God be with you, Bless up bro 🙏

Don't rush your next relationship

Girls of 19-20 date 34-35 wella. Ladies care more about future while Men care about past

Warning shots fired,

VDM vs pastor fufeyin money must be made

Zonefree:
Ask 96.863% of them to define "Photosynthesis", and watch them disgrace their lineage.

One is even wearing wedding gown

Comrade reduce the volume of this vawulence 🤣🤣🤣

DNAconverter:
In the 90s, Reinhard Bonke was came to our statement capital for crusade. A neighbor of ours who is a Muslim was persuaded to take his deaf son to the crusade for miracle. Without notifying his husband, she attended the program for 4 days and his son situation remained the same. Considering that the deaf guy was our playmate then, we were just making humour out the whole issue and this himour on the street got to the father. To cut the story short, the dad became angry, public humiliated his wife and sent her packing....

Her own worse oOoOO

Format, why not white girl

Agbado idiot

Na dem(419, scammers, manipulators)

Japaaaaa oOoOO

madridguy:


Weak man, hearing another weak man telling him as you be man no talk Even if she be president daughter, na rough face, bloody mouth she go carry comot for the airport.

Ozuuor man.

I dey vex right now. I swear to God who make me, na upper cut wey go split her tongue.
I go still use police make she spend two days for cell. Still find female agbero wey go beat nonsense and finally call her parents to come and carry their I'll mannered and poorly trained daughter.
Nothing like family meeting or man of God intervention

tunjijones:
Sharap... That man has been selling that soap and miracle water for a very long time now.

Market don drop, sheeples don wise

Nothing new, A lot of abroad visiting husbands don't keep their travel papers at home . For her to destroy the passport at the airport 🚫🚩

Our women can be terrible and destructive.

Make everything spoil Gangs.

That's is why the women are kept here in Nigeria . When the kids are done with secondary school, they go abroad for schooling.
The haggard old witch remains here

Where is grass bed

Wash, our Mumu never do

All this hungry prophets (scammers).

Tulumbu economy resetting everybody head

The way Judge go blast Mr fufeyin eeehhhhh

Do not touch my annionted leaves thread

Biodun556:
He created agencies and stole 16 billion dollars meant for independent power projects

He failed to prepare Nigerian army for challenges ahead despite the riches under his government. He only bought 3 low quality fighter jets for Nigerian airforce and one crash before he left office. Compared to Buhari who bought more than 50 fighter Crafts.

Buhari has written his name for capital projects 💯

siofra:


What's all this

God abeg!

Speaking from experience, if a man does this nonsense to me, I'll create a scene before leaving. You want to embarrass me? You've never seen embarrassment rubbish!!

Gutter behavior, tueh. Poverty stricken siofra, hustle oOoOO

I fear for the next

Tulumbu has gotten the grassroots supports

2027 go choke oOoOO

Meanwhile

Money must be made MMM