₦airaland Forum

seunmsg:
APC only need two more defections to put a final seal on 2027. Kwakwanso of Kano and Muftwang of Plateau. With those two in APC, even an Atiku/Obi ticket will be heavily defeated.

Sensiblerealist:
As the guy wife pretty reach, he get plenty OS for Lekki, Ikoyi and VI. Some he keeps in private suites all year round.
Not sure he has dropped that habit now that he is more of politically exposed person and nursing gubernatorial ambition

EvilMerodack:
I used to think all medical doctors are smart, guess I'm wrong

Thank God I've never visited any hospital for medical attention in my entire life, but if I would have to now, I'd need to test the doctor's intelligence first.


This dude is prolly poor at Economics. You don't flatly compare earnings in diff countries with diff currencies, you consider purchasing power, tax and other factors that can influence potential savings at the end of each month/year

kettykin:
If there was an actual coup attempt, what are the chances that it will be averted successfully.

leocollins:
Lol,you know nothing..it okay

guest1234:
She is not a runs girl or agbero but a church girl to the core, if she sing you will think Angels will come down but in aspects of this marriage, she is not worth it, and regard hearing her side of stories, I can't sugar coat my part in order for me to look lie a saint, in a forum that I don't know any person personally and for the root cause, I don't know why she is misbehaving because anything that man can provide for his family, I have done that in regards to feeding, accommodation, clothing, emotional, and otherwise so I don't understand her behavior and moreover thanks for your input

Danchibez:
For women that has normal 28 days menstral cycle, their ovulation start from 14 days after menses. But for women that long menstral cycle of 34-35 days, their ovulation start from 19 days after menses.

Note: their are other women that do have short cycle of 24, 25 days. Therefore ovulation tracking can help for a good timing

leocollins:
Una too dey argue ,Oga it 14days after her menses..

Madmohamed1:
I said it before that fulani in Nigeria army planing to remove tinubu and it will be happen during Christmas holidays if cear is not taking tinubu will not return after Christmas holidays.

I have information about this el-rufai is one of the Plana.

Danchibez:
For women that has normal 28 days menstral cycle, their ovulation start from 14 days after menses. But for women that long menstral cycle of 34-35 days, their ovulation start from 19 days after menses.

Note: their are other women that do have short cycle of 24, 25 days. Therefore ovulation tracking can help for a good timing

ProfGday:
You did the right thing. I want you to know that is not all people that have the capability to be married.

Some have mental disorder and unloveable. My friend escaped death in the hand of his ex-wife on two occasions. He ran to U.K after series of physical and spiritual attacks from this so called woman. But thank God, he found a good woman who is giving him peace of mind.

Once again, you did the right thing in walking away. Don't see yourself as failure, give your yourself time to heal and fall in love again, this time with your eyes opened.

Ganicus676:
So if you use your money to buy food and you find out that the food is causing you severe stomach ache, you go continue eating the food because of the money you used to buy it right?



Now I see why plenty married folks dey die for their marriage, cause they are all about what outsiders would say...


Yes, na the same outsiders go attend their burial and say plenty Ehya.....



Shey if say op die from stab wound, all the money he had wasted to do marriage would be used to wake him back up...


Rubbish and ingredients....

calabaman:
I guess you aren't married Sir
After the rigours of counselling.

Billing upon billing onto marriage plans.

You would understand that leaving is almost always a last option, in the case of op to save his life.

I don't call it weak... But being matured and saving his investment.
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Kobojunkie:
Congratulations @OP!1. Why is your family putting their mouth when the decision is yours? Did they have some sort of contract with your wife that they then feel it is their place to interfere in the divorce?

2. Good decision! From your post, it is not clear if you have actually implemented the divorce or if you only recently decided on this.

3. Please, be sure to opt for shared/joint custody of your children(or full custody if you feel your wife is a threat to them), so you can only have a part in the raising of your own children and maybe have them at least 2 weeks out of each month.

SpencerForbes:
Seems you married a runs girl or agbero. I’ll love to hear her own side of the story and also know the root causes of the problems at home before I can say my mind.
Leave first, don’t decide before I speak my mind. So you will understand the truth.

guest1234:
I Finally Chose to Walk Away from My Marriage

After deep reflection and repeated attempts to make things work, I have decided to step away from my marriage for the sake of my peace, safety, and well-being.

For a long time, I have endured constant physical and emotional abuse from my wife. During disagreements, she often resorts to violence, slapping, hitting, and using hurtful words. On several occasions, she has even threatened me with sharp objects such as knives and scissors. Unfortunately, today, she carried out that threat and stabbed me in the neck. By the grace of God, it wasn’t fatal, but it was the final straw that made me realize I cannot continue living in fear.

Throughout our marriage, I have done my best to provide for our home and ensure we lacked nothing. Despite my efforts, I have never received her support, emotionally, mentally, or otherwise. I have never raised my hand against her, yet that restraint has often been taken for weakness, giving her the boldness to abuse me repeatedly.

My family, having witnessed much of what I’ve gone through, has now asked her to leave and packed her belongings. She has quarreled with nearly every member of my family and remains in conflict with them.

This decision to end the marriage is not out of anger but self-preservation. I am choosing to prioritize my mental, emotional, and physical health. I have nothing to hide and no intention to tarnish her image; I am only speaking the truth about my experience.

From this point forward, I am focused on healing, rebuilding, and finding peace again.

Orlandoo:
Tinubu keep making unpopular decisions that always backfires. How can a president be pardoning hardened criminals and murderers just to look famous?

NobleDeSage001:
Things you need to know:
Ovulation normally starts 14 days after a woman's menstrual circle. So, if you are conscious of this, engage in regular sexual intercourse over the next 3 - 4 days starting from the 14th day.

The moment you ejaculate, do not withdraw immediately, give a few minutes (at least 5mins).
Ovulation normally starts 14 days after a woman's menstrual circle.

Meanwhile, the two of you should approache a gynecologist to recommend laboratory tests just to be sure that you are medically ok.

With respect to going just one round, some men are wired to have low libido. Once they ejaculate, that is it for them. This may not be a medical issue.
You can go 2 to 3 rounds if you really want to, but this will take hours. Prepare your mind to always make love to your wife and not just intercourse. Be creative and explore. pre-intimacy is very very essentially.

I was once a novice in the matters of sex, but I had to explore. My wife was equally patient and helpful. Now, we have evolved and we enjoy sex more.

I have some other tips to share, but let me stop here for now.

Goodluck!

franchasofficia:
If Tinubu truly means well for Nigeria and wants to end this insecurity, he should order Nigerian military to go back to their barracks, they are compromised, the top generals who are core Northern Muslims are in bed with these terrorists; some for Islamic purpose, others for financial purposes and using the insecurity to enrich themselves by looting the funds allocated for security and fighting insurgency. It's a big business for them, so cut off their lifeline and order them back to their respective barracks and use half of the trillions Nigeria has been wasting on fighting this endless, unwinnable war on insecurity to hire foreign mercenary outfits to end this nationwide insecurity before it finally consumed the whole of Nigeria.



Hire Chinese or Israeli mercenaries and watch insecurity become a think of the past in Nigeria

AngelSlay:
People aren’t really ready to hear the truth about working in hospitality. On the surface, it may look like a regular job — serving food, smiling at guests, and clocking in and out. But behind that smile is a person who’s often physically exhausted, mentally drained, and emotionally worn out.

Growing up, I was vibrant, outspoken, full of life. But working in hospitality stripped a lot of that away from me. You constantly have to dim your light, lower your voice, and reduce yourself just to make others comfortable — just to please customers who often don’t see the human behind the service. And it's not just the guests — the management can be even worse. They push you, frustrate you, and you're left with no choice but to accept whatever is thrown at you because the fear of losing your job is always looming.

Yes, you may be making money — but what’s money when you don’t even have the time or energy to enjoy it? You're lucky if you get one full day off a week. Even on your "off" days, all you want to do is sleep and recover, because shifts are long, draining, and demanding. Standing for hours, dealing with rude guests, running up and down — it takes a toll on your body. No matter how well you eat before a shift, exhaustion catches up. Sometimes, you end up eating scraps or leftovers from tables just to make it through.

And let’s not forget the environment — working late nights, inhaling second-hand smoke from customers, dealing with drunken behavior, and trying to stay professional in the middle of chaos. Over time, it chips away at your self-worth and your health.

I could go on and on about my experience in this industry. The nightlife and hospitality scene might look glamorous from the outside, but if you value your mental and physical well-being, it's not a place to stay for too long. It teaches you resilience, yes — but it can also break you in ways people don’t see.

🙏🏾

brain54:
Is this oron...

Why are they dressed like hausas?

Sonnobax15:

Even as my relationship has gotten more serious,I even prefer it that way...Like it doesn't matter to me if nobody wishes me a HBD or not........I see that day and take it like every other day..... Personally, I'm the type of guy who doesn't fancy such things.....If she likes,she wish me a HBD on social media or not,but it won't still add to my finances......

Savedday2:
because, dey see you (husband) has an idiat. The boyfriend (s) didn't pay anything, but enjoy them and even use them to make money.

You the husband came and pay everything and even be begging for sex, and you think the girls don't know you're an idiat?

Let me ask you, will you be happy posting an idiat on you DP?

I dated a girl for 2yrs, never for once she posted my pic on her DP even on my birthday. But the period I discovered what 9ja girls truly her and change accordingly, the Idiat started posting my pics almost everyday blushing about me without me saying a word about it.

It was then I realized that these girls know what dey are doing. After I enjoy her pekus and her mother free food tire, I dump her. Till today, the mugu still dey call me dey beg.

What I have understood is that, these girls read you very well and dey act and follow you accordingly.