Health › Re: Father Of Murdered Lokoja Photo Journalist, Ayo, James Aiyepeku Dies by Gotocourt: 9:37pm On Aug 13, 2025 |
Fekumzi123: Very very tragic. Sometimes it's not good to love someone too much. There's this girl in my university days. Her dad died, she posted it. One month after, she posted it, something like, dad I miss you I can't do without you. Two months, she posted. This trend continues until this girl died within one year that her dad died. Young girl below 26 I still my father 10years after his death, he was murdered by his wife (step mum). E no easy, thank God for life 🙏 |
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Family › Re: Is My Wife Right To Ask This? by Gotocourt: 5:29pm On Aug 13, 2025 |
Israel5: Please (even though I know my appeal with fall on deaf ears too numerous to count in this forum), approach this issue with logic and without prejudice to the people involved.
My wife and I are duly blessed with a son who is in his basic 5 now. Also, we decided to get the daughter of one of my cousin to stay with us. She is one of 7 children. So I wanted to help raise a CHIMAMANDA.
As my rule, every child of same age under my room attends the same school and calls us Dad & Mum. The school part didn't quite seat well with my wife, who had a different opinion, but I prevailed anyway. Because na me dey pay school fees.
The girl is a year older than my son, but due to the level of education at the village before she came over, we made her be in the same class as my son. She met my son in primary 2. Now they are both in basic 5.
A shocker happened: This girl keeps coming up in the class, while my son keeps running away from the top. We've tried extra lessons, even tried changing schools. Now it looks as if the girl is better suited for school than my boy. She reads, spells and memorizes things too marvellous. I bought a dictionary cos of that.
I even buy gifts for her (for coming top) more than I do for my boy, to make him sit up, but my pikin nor send me o. Guy use cry & Woman power make me buy am bicycle. 😁
I would think he's being a spoilt boy, who believes daddy & mommy is there, I don't really know. But I am hopeful.
Now, my major issue is my heavily pregnant wife. She wants the girl to be changed/enrolled at a different school. In her defence, she wants her to be available to help her take care of things. The kid's school close by 3pm. She suggest government school that close earlier. I see sense in what she said but I feel like I'll be unfair to this young girl.
When I tried to have a healthy debate on the idea. Na so madam start to dey talk plenty tins wey I nor fit type. I have accepted to do her wish from September for peace.
Please, do you see another way I could avoid problems?
Is she right to have asked that I changed the girl's school just because she needs help around the house & her business? Guy, if your story is real. Don't allow your wife maltreat that girl. Hope you've seen husband's on handcuffs because of wife behavior. That's child abuse allowing that do those work your son can't. Use your head Wella |
Family › Re: Men Over 30 Give Advice To Men In Their 20s by Gotocourt: 4:12pm On Aug 13, 2025 |
Forget women and Japa oOoOO 📌 |
Health › Re: My Wife's Serious Fertility Issue Is Affecting My Mental Health by Gotocourt: 12:28pm On Aug 13, 2025 |
Marry second wife, no b u Kee Jesus. Better do the needful, it's very legal. I know a judge of Appeal Court whom is a Christian who has a second wife. |
Politics › Re: Court Bars Ogun Government From Demolishing Gbenga Daniel’s Residence, Hotel by Gotocourt: 5:54am On Aug 13, 2025 |
Mr Governor begging for his life, how the mighty fallen so fast 🤷🏿 |
Politics › Re: Oil Producing States' 13% Share Of Derivation — January To June 2025 by Gotocourt: 5:51am On Aug 13, 2025 |
The governor's can't simply pay minimum wage of 250k 🤷🏿 |
Health › Re: I Kept My HIV Secret For Years And Here Is The Truth I Have Been Afraid To Share by Gotocourt: 5:25am On Aug 13, 2025 |
placeofallure: Somebody very close to me is LWHA. When I was first informed, I didn't panic because this person was very professional about it. Much later, I was watching a Nollywood movie with my bf, where Hilda Dokubo played the AIDS patient, and I just burst into heavy tears. My bf wondered how an ordinary movie could make me cry. Then I confided in him.
This friend has been living with it for decades now and is very boisterous and well. There's no big deal about it as I've come to realise it. Because of her condition, my friend does Health-based NGO work which has taken her across continents.
Through her help, I do volunteer work and consult for some NGOs too cause I was so scared for her at the beginning. Now I know it's not a death sentence. Do your CD4 count as often as recommended, use your anti-retrovirals, eat good food and don't stress yourself. Keep your doctor appointments and you are fine. If you wish to start a family, it's very possible to keep your spouse from being infected; you can even prevent mother-to-child transmission. If you ask me, it is still the best practice to prevent yourself from getting infected. Lost my father to the complications of it. He had a very low CD4 count despite taking care of himself. |
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Politics › Re: EFCC Arrests Ex-Sokoto Governor Tambuwal Over Alleged ₦189 Billion Scandal by Gotocourt: 9:41pm On Aug 11, 2025 |
Coalition go collect wetin no good. Time to pick em one by one  |
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Politics › Re: Naira Stable As External Reserves Hit $40.15 Billion, Highest In Eight Months by Gotocourt: 6:58am On Aug 11, 2025 |
Reduced FX demand due to lower import activity
Who noticed MAN has been quiet. They are cashing out low-key on a steady. Time to take over the market of companies that have left.
Aspira company have taken over the soap and detergent (viva) market of northern Nigeria.
Mamuda company, makers of Pop cola and biscuits have taken over the northern markets. These companies are based in Kano State.
Coca-cola is presently having a good run for their money 🤫. I no longer see RC cola in the north again.
Transportation cost of goods from southern Nigeria have drastically reduced goods distribution. |
Politics › Re: Naira Stable As External Reserves Hit $40.15 Billion, Highest In Eight Months by Gotocourt: 6:55am On Aug 11, 2025 |
Mynd44: The excess crude account should be zero because it is an illegal account in the first place. But it helped the country before finally depleted by GEJ and buried by Buhari |
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Investment › Re: Mutual Funds by Gotocourt: 12:38am On Aug 11, 2025 |
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Car Talk › Re: Hardship: Nigerian-Used Car Market Booms As More Owners Sell Off Private Vehicle by Gotocourt: 11:47am On Aug 10, 2025 |
destinychildolu: My APC landlord has sold one of his two houses. He sold 2 trailers too and 3 Keke Marwa. I want to buy his last house. I pray Tinubu wins 2027, everyone must get sense by force. I was singing " On your Mandate we shall stand" beside him, the man said nobody should sing any useless song beside him oo Comrade reduce the volume of this vawulence 🤣😂😅 |
Family › Re: How are The Black Couple That Birthed A White Blonde Baby In 2010 Doing by Gotocourt: 10:08pm On Aug 09, 2025 |
Why didn't she give birth to a blonde in Naija abi it's only in London miracles happen. I fear my native women  |
Politics › Re: NNPC Sacks Pump Attendant, Suspends Manager Over Attempt To Defraud Customer by Gotocourt: 8:10pm On Aug 09, 2025 |
E don cast, woto woto wity wity wata wata. They gonna luurnnn the hard way 📌 |
Politics › Re: Peter Obi Won Rivers State In 2023 – Rotimi Amaechi by Gotocourt: 6:26pm On Aug 09, 2025 |
The election was rigged in Obio-Akpor LGA and few other Wikes strong hold👌📌. Check the figures. That's why CSOs are calling for electoral amendments to cancel ward coalition centers. |
Politics › Re: GEJ Wants To Run Again, What Did He Do In SS, He Is Not Our Brother - Amaechi by Gotocourt: 6:19pm On Aug 09, 2025 |
GEJ depleted the ECA account, he stopped the river Niger dredging started by Yar'adua, abandoned East West road, Total failure. |
Nairaland General › Re: Ambode Declares Total Support For President Tinubu’s 2027 Re-election Bid by Gotocourt: 6:16pm On Aug 09, 2025 |
Stockholm syndrome, Omo nawaooo. Lagosians are chained forever. Meanwhile Elrufai is pressing Tinubu neck  |
Politics › Re: Onitsha Port Welcomes First Barge Of 2025 Season by Gotocourt: 2:43pm On Aug 09, 2025 |
kettykin: This is a cheering news but what's wrong with the dredging of river niger, we have river ports in China that are navigable all year round African rivers have navigational issues such as being seasonal, rapids & falls etc. President Yar'adua started the dredging which was stopped by President Goodluck Jonathan 👌📌 |
Health › Re: Thai Hospital Fined After Medical Records Were Used As Street Food Wrappers by Gotocourt: 2:35pm On Aug 09, 2025 |
For Naija, I've eaten akara on HIV patients assessment sheet, school examination sheets, governors office documents, peoples CV. |
Crime › Re: American Hunter Travels To Africa To Hunt A Buffalo But Was Killed By The Bufall by Gotocourt: 12:32pm On Aug 09, 2025 |
Bush go catch the hunter
RIP - SOUND SULTAN |
Phones › Re: 9mobile Rebrands As T2 by Gotocourt: 9:51am On Aug 09, 2025 |
amstamon: I Sha hope it's not what I'm thinking o. Acquisition, acquisition acquisition.  Your mind dey, only Tinubu can invest due to resources at his disposal 🤷🏿 |
Politics › Re: Manufacturing Sector Lost N1.2trn In 4 Years, Recovering Under Tinubu - Quartus by Gotocourt: 8:56am On Aug 09, 2025 |
Who has noticed MAN has been quiet. Time for investors to take over market shares of companies that have left Nigeria 👌📌 |
Car Talk › Re: First Timer Going For Volkswagen Passat 2010-2015 by Gotocourt: 7:08am On Aug 09, 2025 |
richeeyo: Oga nothing is wrong with that car, keep a good maintenance culture, i know people who has this car, at a time i had my eyes on the CC the truth is Nigerian mechanics are lazy and stuck in the past Any small thing Toyota, Honda I believe you've heard the word reliability. Have you thought of used abi Belgium Toyota/Honda serving decades in Nigeria under poor maintenance and bad technicians 🤷. |
Politics › Re: Tinubu Has Approved Reconstruction Of Katsina-Ala Road - Umahi by Gotocourt: 6:38am On Aug 09, 2025 |
Dogalmighty17: To be objective in analysis, infrastructure wise, the APC has performed exceptionally. I am no means a Tinubu supporter but at the same time I won't allow my dislike for the man blind me. Projects that for decades were just campaign promises under the PDP have been executed or being currently worked on by the APC. I know for a fact that the second Niger bridge was something Jonathan promised the South east to execute in 2011 but ignored after he won election. Buhari made sure that project was fully executed. David Mark should have no business in national politics anymore seeing that the road to his home town Otukpo, remained terribly unpassable for the decades he was in the senate. 8 of those years as senate president. That road is being dualized now.
Unfortunately though, the foreign loans APC always rushes to collect and the unwillingness of the party to apply human face to its policies, has led to hunger ravaging the land.
People have to eat first before they can use infrastructure. And this is were the APC has failed. Nigeria had the most capital projects under President Shehu Shagari followed by President Buhari. It might interest you to know that Makurdi-Enugu and Enugu -onitsha express was done by President Shagari. I prefer funding of capital projects particularly using Chinese government through CCECC than collecting cash that will be embezzled. Tinubus using HI-TECH to construct Lagos -Calabar coastal highway will turn out to be a disaster, it will be unfinished and abandoned. It's obvious the money will be squandered, if he did it with a Chinese loan approve-construct-execute model, I will know he has the interest of the south and support will be massive. North Central is the next battle ground for 2027👌 |
Politics › Re: Tinubu’s 2-Year Record Has Surpassed PDP’s Performance Under Obasanjo — Bwala by Gotocourt: 6:33pm On Aug 08, 2025 |
President Obasanjo remains the best President Nigerians ever had. ECA savings which was depleted by GEJ and his governors 📌💯 |
Politics › Re: "Check In 2027, You Will Eat Your Words" - El-rufai Replies Netizen Who Said He by Gotocourt: 6:08pm On Aug 08, 2025 |
Adaisback: One of my northern friends from sokoto told me in December last year, that the suffering in hausaland is too much and the northerners through Eleufai is planning something big. I kept taunting him and I jokingly laughed it off but it seems his words are coming to pass It's terrible, farmers can't afford fertilizers just for home use think more of commercial farming. Animals that are source of organic fertilizers have been sold just to survive. Businesses are barely surviving, elderly men have turned beggers, Matters choke oOoOO |
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Celebrities › Re: AY Comedian Unveils Reconstructed Lekki Mansion Two Years After Fire Incident by Gotocourt: 10:10am On Aug 08, 2025 |
Akfrenzy: Money stops nonsense,
Taste money and know the real deal honestly Rich man will build under two months. No time, he tried though |