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SmallmebigGod:
You must be from Zimbabwe

no i am not..just liked his articulation of words .

LoveJesus87:
you are here.

lol

Not related, but you write so well.. Op your write up was so intriguing, I kept enjoying each paragraph till I finished it.

This is weird 😂😂😂.. A woman shouldn’t be the one to propose

tpbehappy:
Please develop the habits of not working weekends and spend your weekends on yourself

Thanks, with my nature of work sometimes it is impossible not to work on weekends. But i will try to reduce it.

Wow…

Negroid001:
Someone like you needs to start going out more often with the right intention.
Good people are out there, same with bad people.

So true.. thanks for your advice

Vergovert:
You dey find horseband


Say it with your full chest.



Nobody will beat you.

😂😂😂😂 you no Dey serious oo

Michelle55:
Lol, you don't have to envy anyone darling. I've always been this way from childhood so I'm absolutely okay with little or no friends, I enjoy my company and I have my movie apps to keep me busy. Once I put that on and mount my working device, every other thing is secondary. Your cycle is just perfect, just make sure they are real with you and everything else would fall into place for you.

Thanks Sis.. noted

Michelle55:
Yours is better, you still go to the office which means you enjoy the outside scenery more, you visit friends and more( that's an improvement if you ask me)
Me on the other hand is a different story, lol. My girlfriend is tired of being the only one visiting, she even suggested paying for my ride but I still don't see the need to leave the comfort of my home to go anywhere. The only time you see me outside is to stock up the house with food stuff and I do that once a month, any other thing is no business of mine.
You honestly don't need to keep too many friends, just surround yourself with the real ones even if they are just two and you are good to go.
Enjoy!

Yeah that’s true too.. just that I always envy ppl with a lot of friends and I always think my cycle is too small. But I think my perception to that is changing now.

Negroid001:
Someone like you needs to start going out more often with the right intention.
Good people are out there, same with bad people.

noted.. I just don’t always fancy going out.. but will prioritize it this year

Kolenda:
You don't need to make too much friends as the crowd might not be there for you when in need. Just ensure you maintain a healthy relationship with your existing friends

thanks for the advice

LoveJesus87:
Go out nw. And be nice to strangers. And if any guy approach u and ask for ur number, no do shakara. Give am.

Oya for example now, gimme ur number

I go out actually, but mostly to office and back home , weekends are spent indoors working , visiting friends or watching movies. I just noticed I recycle a lot of friends.. no new friends lately.

How can an introverted lady who works remotely make more friends without feeling overwhelmed? Drop your tips, experiences, or struggles in the comments! 💬👇

Wow.. I am speechless 😂

I see you have created multiple threads as regards looking for a lady, it’s now weird at the moment…

That’s cheating na 😂😂..

This is embarrassing 😂😂😂😂

Quickstar:
Such a lady is another man prayer request. Dey whine yourself op

For real.. I just hope she meets someone that matches her energy.

Wow this is a nice initiative

For real I really don’t understand what men wants. A lady sees her spec and someone she likes and she goes for him both Vocally and by actions. And you guys are telling him to turn her to a sex tool. I don’t just get it. Toxic masculinity is what I see here.

Nice write up OP

Alphabyte3:
More languages but my focus are Java and C#. I started a long time ago

Nicee 👍

Oh my God, how did the hatred even get to this level.

Greatzeus:
Me too, though I did feel years back and stopped learning because of work. I have picked it up again,and I pray this time I will get all initial necessary knowledge I need and go on to start my blog.
Also go for tutorials that are recent,because wordpress has changed from what many tutors used to do their tutorials. I was amazed by how much changes and update WP has gone through in the last 1 year,when I installed WP locally recently using xampp to practice offline, especially creating menu items and Block editor,use of templates etc.
You can check out this guy's I do learn from on YouTube.
Ferdy korpershoek
Tyler Moore.
Also I have researched Web hostings, Themes to use,and have some listed. Step by step,we will get there. Nothing comes easy,it takes hard work practice Prayer and grace 🙏🙏

Wow. Thanks for this comment, it’s really helpful.

Wow.. very informative 👍

For real just have money in this Nigeria. Ppl can actually come out and protest because of this 😂

RealityKings1:
Keep learning and watching YouTube guides

okay thanks

Alphabyte3:
Real programmers and coders possess a unique combination of skills and traits. They are passionate problem-solvers, continuous learners and detail-oriented individuals. Additionally, they demonstrate resilience, teamwork, adaptability, and a results-driven mindset.


Late-night coding offers benefits like fewer distractions, increased focus, improved productivity and enhanced creativity. To optimize this routine, create a conducive environment, set clear goals, take breaks, stay hydrated and prioritize sleep to maintain a healthy work-life balance.

To excel, they invest extra time, take calculated risks, seek feedback and maintain organization. Through dedication and commitment, they deliver exceptional work, consistently pushing themselves to achieve higher standards and drive innovation in the field of programming and coding. Their efforts yield high-quality results. Smarts work beat talents.

what aspect of coding is your specialty?

Yessssssss I can

I just started learning WordPress, and I’m excited to dive in! If you’ve been using it for a while, I’d love to hear your tips. What are the best way to learn it? Any common mistakes to avoid?

Drop your advice in the comments—I’m ready to learn!

Woow