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silvoice: pls i need advice on how to go for this my marriage introduction. My wife-to-be is an Ibo girl. i hav some questions which I'd Like my useful NLs to help me, because my parents are late and i don't really know who to ask this question and get an objective answer. 1. should i ask my girl to tell me what is needed 4 first introdution according 2 their tradition or jus go wit cash? 2. if i go with a friend is it ok or must i go with an elder at this 1st stage? pls i need sincere advice, b4 i make mistake

. Apologies 4 commenting late. Pls I ll ask what part of ibo is that? Then despite the part of ibo, just go with a friend or an uncle with a bottle of hot drink and maybe a gallon of palmwine if its an anambra girl. This is inform the parents or guardians of the girl that you are interested in marrying her. With the girl's consent you will be asked to come back for the list cos its not the parents that formulate list but the father will get from the kinsmen. Forget about the fear people are trying to instill in you cos its not always about money. I wish you success in this.