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NgeneUkwenu:
Customer Dada Ni! Eka abo sir! ;

The Unholy Trinity and fruitless political sourjourn of Alhaji @atiku from 1998 till date.

1998 - 2006 ➡️ PDP
2006 - 2010 ➡️ ACN
2010 - 2013 ↩️ PDP
2014 - 2018 ➡️ APC
2018 - 2024↩️ PDP
2024 - date ➡️ ADC

The question now is, after 2027 failure... Where?

buygala:
And he had to post it online


GenZ Pharisee

seunmsg:
https://x.com/reprileymoore/status/1991241287152861331?s=46[/quote]They will inform the terrorists about the details of the meetings.

Don't trust them, America please don't trust this APC government.

They are evil people.

Prigidypogodo:
Everybody knows that GDP does not signify growth but HDI
but will yoruba agree ?

Politicstoday:
If course, Tinubu government will be much aware of US forces in Nigeria. US marine are already mapping out their strategy already.

Meanwhile, videos of Christian genocide in the north.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EfgQRPCINbo

cr7lomo:
Na these same judges go jail u las las....no worry

cr7lomo:
Na these same judges go jail u las las....no worry

nlfpmod:
https://punchng.com/fubaras-men-absent-at-govs-reunion-with-wike/

EvergreenDiarie:
Heavy Shooting Near Seplat Facility: Oton Youths Attack Webster Global Workers in Ugbekoko




Heavy gunfire erupted close to the Seplat facility in Ugbekoko, as Oton Youths (Urhobo) reportedly attacked workers of Webster Global Ventures on their way to Abigborodo community. According to eyewitnesses, the attackers destroyed a Hilux van and engaged in a fierce shootout with mobile personnel attached to the company.

In the background of the footage, you can hear repeated shouts of “Asawana”, signaling a combined force of Urhobo and Ijaw youths, who have allegedly been carrying out attacks in Ugbekoko and Abigborodo communities.

This incident raises fresh concerns about rising tensions in the Niger Delta region, as local communities, oil workers, and security personnel remain on edge.

📌 Stay tuned for more updates as this story develops.




https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JK0Nf1wHDgs

Righteousness2:
A carnal mind would see it as nothing. A Spiritual person will not.

If you Must stay in such a place, you Must Go on your knees in Prayers .
You Take Authority over every Strange Powers , Forces or spirits. You Bind them, Bind the powers and Kingdom in the NAME OF JESUS. You Take charge of the place and have hour rest.

RevenuesBoost:
Marriage Is Not for the Weak, Selfish, or Irresponsible Man

Let’s speak truth:

You can marry beauty.
You can marry loyalty.
You can marry a woman with a heart of gold.

But if you’re immature, emotionally lazy, or careless with her trust—
You didn’t marry a wife. You took advantage of a gift you weren’t ready to receive.

Because most marriages don’t fall apart from the outside—
They fall when the man inside the house stops showing up fully.


1. WEAK MEN AVOID HARD THINGS

A weak man shuts down in conflict.
Avoids tough conversations.
Runs from responsibility.

He calls her “emotional” when she just wants clarity.
He calls her “too much” when she just needs effort.

A real man leads with humility, not ego.
He doesn’t just provide—he protects emotionally, spiritually, and mentally.

If pressure makes you disappear, you’re not leading—you’re escaping.



2. SELFISH MEN DRAIN THEIR WIVES

Marriage is not a one-way street.

If you expect peace but bring chaos…
If you demand respect but give none…
If you want her to submit while you do nothing worth following—
You’re not a husband. You’re a tyrant in disguise.

A selfish man wants a servant, not a soulmate.
But a great man? He lifts, leads, and listens.

Marriage requires sacrifice. If you're not ready to give, don’t expect to receive.




3. IRRESPONSIBILITY KILLS SECURITY

A woman can handle tough seasons.
She can handle less money, long hours, even failure.

What she can’t handle is instability—
– Financial recklessness
– Broken promises
– No vision, no plan, no consistency

Her respect dies the moment she realizes she has to carry what you keep dropping.

Responsibility isn’t glamorous—but it’s godly.
If you can't be trusted with pressure, don’t ask her to follow your lead.




4. MARRIAGE REQUIRES CHARACTER—NOT JUST CHARM

Being good to her when things are easy is the bare minimum.

Real character shows when: – She’s struggling
– You’re frustrated
– Life gets hard

If your first instinct is to withdraw, blame, or cheat—
You're not ready to lead. You're not even ready to love.

Marriage isn’t about control. It’s about commitment.
And that takes more than a smooth tongue and good intentions.




Final Thought: Women Don’t Leave Because They’re Cold—They Leave Because They’re Exhausted

Fellas:
If you think love is maintenance-free,
If you treat submission like superiority,
If you demand loyalty but give instability—
You’re not ready for marriage.

Because a woman doesn’t need a perfect man.
She needs a consistent one.
One who protects, provides, and pursues—with humility and honor.

If leadership to you means dominance—not service—
You don’t want a wife.
You want a servant.

And that’s not marriage—it’s manipulation.



Marriage is for men—not boys in grown-up clothes.
Show up.
Take responsibility.
Lead in love.
And build something worth keeping.

Have a blessed day.



Note: This write-up focuses primarily on men. Check out my thread for the perspective on women.

https://www.nairaland.com/8516244/wwww-marriage-not-unteachable-combative

DiamondsAreFore:
https://edition.cnn.com/2025/09/09/middleeast/qatar-hamas-israel-strike-intl