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adusco: God will help us cus some xtian ladies find it hard to wait.when you start dating for 3-4 yrs and she's bn complaining.what do you have to say?

na true ooooooooooooooooooooh

[quote author=C'est moi]ok man,if u say so.[/quote]swt hrt it is

Revolva: then the pride of a guy is his Erection and busting nuts

heheheehehehh

Florena: You okay?

hmmmmmmmmmmmmmm

slimyem: Maybe the guy don too spend money and never touch the girl since. Im con dey think say na this moment the "do anyhow" go start.

funny

OsezyBlessing: Never Be Unfaithful To Your Wife
This is a biggie. Marriage is sacred - whether you are religious or not. Being unfaithful to your wife not only proves to her that you disrespect her, but also that you are untrustworthy. Simply never even think about doing it, much less actually doing it. The excitement of an illicit affair is simply not worth the pain it brings.

Never Lie To Your Wife
Being truthful, and speaking only the truth, is the only way to ensure that you are never "caught out." If you lie to your wife you will be caught out at some stage, and then she will wonder how many other lies you have told her, and whether you can be trusted at all. It might be painful to tell the truth, but it is always less painful than being caught out lying.

Never Listen Half-heartedly When She Talks
Not listening when someone speaks is rude and shows disrespect for the person. If you do this your wife will grow to resent talking to you, and that is not a good position to get into in your relationship. Concentrate on what she says, and respond intelligently.

Don't Neglect To Assist With Household Tasks
This is an area where many men are guilty. If you do not assist your wife with the household tasks you communicate to her that she is only your slave. On its own it can already destroy any feelings that your wife has for you, and together with the other things we mention it just makes things worse. Help her with household tasks – and not only every now and then either. No, make it a habit to help her, and watch how her respect for you grows.

Do Not Point Out Her Shortcomings
We all have shortcomings because nobody is perfect. I bet you don't like it when someone points out your shortcomings to you, do you? No? Then do you think your wife enjoys it? Of course she doesn't. And she likes it even less when the person closest to her - her husband - is the one bringing it up. Only someone with a caveman attitude could argue that she "just has to take it" because she is inferior in any case. She is not inferior - God has made her extra special, in fact.

Do Not Lie On The Couch / Watch TV While She Work
Lying on the couch and leaving your wife to do all the work is nothing other than letting her be your slave. This type of behaviour screams at your wife that you have non respect for her. If you indulge in this behaviour you should NOT be surprised if she leaves you for someone who treats her with respect.

Help Her With The Children
We are decades past the time when it was the "little woman's job" to raise the kids, while her husband went out with his buddies. Not helping her with the kids – that YOU helped her produce, by the way - is not only part of your responsibility, but will also strengthen your relationship both with your wife and your children. An actively involved father is one way of ensuring well- balanced kids.

Do Not Compare Her To Other Women
How many guys can be married to the most beautiful woman on earth? Only one, because there is only one most beautiful woman. The others are second most beautiful, third most beautiful, etc. So there are ample opportunities to see women with lovelier hair, more beautiful eyes, trimmer figures, better legs, a tighter butt, slimmer tummy, etc. than your wife. But do you really have to pint this out? How would you like it if she begins to compare you to Kevin Costner, Brad Pitt and Leonardo di Caprio? Or to the better looking guy next door? Keep away from this destructive behavior and rather look for things to compliment her on. That will build you relationship rather than breaking it.

Do Not Criticize Everything She Does
Remember that criticism is one of the most destructive things we can do, so beware of this. If you want to criticize, rather think of another way of approaching the issue.
Instead of saying, "Not fish again? You know I hate fish!" you could say, "Honey, even though I don't like fish, I know that the Omega oils are good for me and that you prepare it because you care for my health." That takes the criticism - and therefore the sting - out of what you say.

Do Not Leave Her Sexually Unsatisfied
A proper orgasm (or two or three or four orgasms) is something that gives your wife massive joy. It is your task, no your privilege, to assist her to reach massively satisfying, mind blowing orgasms. You should not have a "get" attitude towards sex (getting what you want), but rather a "give" attitude (giving her what she wants). If you just get on her, and roll over once you are done, then there is no joy in it for your wife. Remember that to your wife sex is almost as much an emotional act as it is a physical one. Learn all you can about becoming the type of lover for whom your wife will be glad to strip her clothes because you satisfy both her emotional and physical sexual needs.
http://www.osezy..com/2013/06/10-golden-rules-on-how-to-avoid-ruining.html

that is nice but. Pry she understand

[quote author=C'est moi]fear of unfaithfulness,heartbreak etc[/quote]swt hrt that is just part of love

Truckpusher: Look at who's thanking God....smh

meaning

gibson8955: My ex has agreed that we will be friends after 2 months of slagging me off after we broke up. He is always making an excuse to be round me (I did this after we broke up) and is making it look like he still likes me. He has had a few girlfriends after me and I haven't had anyone after him. I'm not entirely sure why he has been giving mixed signals.

he still likes you

DailyNews: What I understand from this article is that ladies should try and avoid being materialistic- as in attaching material favours and gains to their emotion and allowing materialism and money to decide who they date or marry.

But then, I don't see anything wrong in a lady falling in love with an already made guy so long as she is sure she isn't faking the love just cos the guy has money and providing her material needs.

You know, as a lady, u won't know how bad a guy feels to discover or suspect that u are dating or married to him just because he has some money or material favours to dish out, it hurts every man to the core!

Finally, there are already made guys who are also lonely and searching for love, pls don't run away from them as a result of what u read online or hear people say, just get closer to him and get to know him with your guards and wisdom on.

Remember, some guys were born in well to do family, hence, they didn't witness poverty or hardship, so they too deserve to be loved, and some lost their childhood love or school love or family-related love, etc while growing financially, so they too deserve to be loved equally like a broke guy or a guy who is still struggling to stand financially.

Love isn't meant for the poor or broke guys alone, the rich or comfy guys also need love, but be wise and don't just fall in love with a guy cos he has money, love him cos u cherish his entire personality.

Stop looking down on guys who are still struggling financially cos tomorrow is as unpredictable as the rainfall.

I know its not easy on the part of the ladies, not with the unpredictable nature of our economy, the rampant poverty here and there which makes many Nigerians afraid of future and hence, seeking for a safe ground to stand on, which isn't guaranteed anyway. Just pray b4 u make ur decisions and dnt be materially influenced in choosing romance/life partner, only God guarantees future!

Like I said, I know its not easy, but u ladies can do better if u decide to, just avoid bad friends and bad companies and u will make good life decisions.

good one

ginny93: I broke up with my boyfriend a year ago,and I swore I'll never fall in love again.2 months ago,I met a guy,this guy has being so good to me,he has showed me so much love and care,i spend almost every weekend with him.I've fallen so much in love with him that I can't get him off my mind even for a second.I'm so confused,i don't know if I'm making a mistake by loving him this much..

then get him between your legs and see if it well help