How much did he even spend to set up the business... Capital can't reach 100k... These men are shameless... Like he never enjoyed the returns made from the so called low Budget business he claimed to have set up for the poor lady .. dey call yourself man but dey drag wooden kiosk with woman.. tueh
Nonsense
Reason e hard for me to collect anything free from this gender... Irather rot than seek their financial help
I believe if the father of that cheater can rent a better office for her to do business she will not accept that kiosk
I've learnt never to expect anything from a woman except insult irrespective of what you give them they will tell you "WHAT HAVE YOU EVER DONE FOR ME"
money they cannot raise in 10 years they will want you to give to them within 2 days
N3TRAL: Homophobic retarded society filled with the descendants of those who either sold their relatives as slaves via the Sahara desert or the Atlantic Ocean recent centuries ago for a couple of mirrors and gunpowder to kill themselves.
I'm talking about a country that war-torn Ukraine donates grains to so that they can feed.
A country where life expectancy is less than 57 years and where most toddlers have not drank milk since January 2024.
A country where people cannot travel interstate because the roads are deplorable and killers roam freely on the highways to kidnap for ransom.
The umpteenth proof that the Negro is the lowest of humans.
When it comes to proper children upbringing African is better compared to your people in Europe especially in terms of behavior modification that ensure modesty
WE cannot keep looking until even a criminal will tell us that "I don't see myself as criminal but as a prophet" just the way some people are are not telling us that "they don't see themselves as a man again but as a woman"
Pls let us introduce SHARIA in this aspect. Any Nigerian that tell us that he is LGBTQ should be flogged 100 strokes of strong came until they they realize that the pennis or the vagina has already decided
Then those with both penis and vagina together can do surgery and remove one based on the level of male or female hormones available irrespective of how they feel
Boxnaijatv: Wahala!!! "If your salary is between 300k and 500k in Nigeria you are no longer in the middle class". - Man says
Fact or cap?
Some people earn 1M monthly and they are poor and never happy because they are concerned about what people say about them
Some earn 100k and are happy cos they don't care about anyone but do within their limits
There's is government schools, your family can eat 101 but you want to impress friends and enemies, even 2 million a month you will still be poor chasing nonsense
dominique: But almost every corner I turn I see women hustling; white collar jobs, blue collar jobs, hawking under the sun, selling in shops or in the market. Where are they keeping all the money they're making if men are the sole providers as they claim? A lot of homes are being held together by the efforts of the wife, some wives are the sole providers yet cover up for the husband by saying he's the one providing. Gow are they appreciated? Constant bickering, nagging and wailing by idiotic entitled men who believe women came to the world to please them. That's why I don't feel sorry for them anymore whenever they're given men's children as theirs, majority of them are useless and don't deserve any loyalty.
Racoon: Fanatic occultic religion terrorists calling defenders of their nation from their onslaught terrorists. Rest on Colonel! The warriors on ground will continue the fight.
To you Palestine is the real terrorist but we remember that it was the USA and UK government that pleaded to PALESTINIANS to give ISRAEL shelter when ISRAEL was under serious genocide attack from the same West
Out of pity Palestinians apportioned some encampment for ISRAEL because Palestinians are too friendly ISRAEL took advantage and expand the LAND to the point that they named a country currently ISRAEL out of gentleness of Palestine docile government
How can I accommodate you because your family chase you away but the next is for you to divide my apartment into two and start claiming right then also create a barrier that my children must not trespass
IF THE WEST CANNOT TELL ISRAEL THE TRUTH THEN LET THE WAR CONTINUE...YOU CANNOT BE A THREAT TO PEOPLE WHO ACCOMMODATE YOU WHEN YOU HAVE NOBODY IT WILL DEFINITELY LEAD TO SERIOUS CHAOS
[quote author=Domainer1999 post=132470019][/quote]I pray to join people who also post about my own car this year but I don't thinks it's possible because some people are already using my 2 months salary to buy fuel
givedemwotowoto: “He said that he was investing in the future of the young ones to discourage them from crime.”
Peter Obi could’ve done anything he wanted with his money, he chose to donate it for education.
Years later people will be wondering why crime rate in Anambra is low compared to the rest of the country
I like your indirect point. The same OBI that Anambra education became an eyesore when he was a governor. He is now telling us about education development
kettykin: Nice . Lagos to Abidjan $15b and Enugu to Cameroon $ 300m . How I'll these loans be paid back. .if have my say I will commence onitsha to Aba to Yaounde expressway via uyo , calabar as this will boost the export of Aba made things as well as boost trade. And there will be hopes of paying back the loans
This would have been done by your sudden Messiah the LIEING machine Obigory when he was governor for 8 years without achievement
idamokoemmanuel: Only Peter Obi can solve Nigeria Issues, because he relate with the common man mostly and he understands their pains. He uses our road mostly more than any politician. Obi will fix Nigeria.
The same way he related with Anambra people for 8 years without good roads and 1 year strike action by doctors that led to death of so many patients
Check his governorship record and get back to us. VERY TERRIBLE 8 YEARS RECORD OF AGONY
The center of marriage is not for child bearing sha.. this is that part Africans needs to understand.
Two people may not be compatible by blood group or genotype but that doesn't mean they arent a perfect match psychologically and relationship wise.
Children will come, you will train them, they will marry and leave your house but your spouse will remain until death do you both.
Marriage is not about children, marriage is about love and partnership between a man and a woman, woman complementing the man in areas he is weak or needs assistance.
MAKE SURE YOU DON'T HAVE ANY BABY AFTER MARRIAGE SO THAT YOU KEEP COMPLEMENTING OKAY
[quote author=Lizzysamuel post=132483339][/quote]When the president and VP was around what did the masses like myself gain from it. @obi and his fellow dullard you can take over the country or you keep quiet quietly
Immorality has become a pride and that's why some government are even more SHAMELESS to keep promoting LGBTQ nonsense
I believe everyone knows what's bad but because we don't want to accept it's bad we decide to look for more people doing it then we legalize our stupidity
Very soon this USELESS ashawo will soon cry that USA should legalize fucking in the middle of the road and they will gather many people who will support it then BOOM
If everyone in this earth don't have sense I promise GOD to always have sense. I also have by bad bad immoral side but I will never defend it
Newly released footage shows 🇷🇺 Russian forces striking a Ukrainian town, using what pro-Kremlin sources have claimed is one of the most powerful non-nuclear weapons in the world.
On Tuesday morning, videos began circulating on Russian and Ukrainian media of a "vacuum bomb" being dropped on the town of Vovchansk in the country's northeastern Kharkiv Oblast.
Ukrainian news agency InsiderUA posted the video to its Telegram channel, citing Russian military bloggers who said that the bomb was the ODAB-9000, a three-ton glide bomb sometimes referred to as "the father of all bombs."
In the video, the bomb can be seen descending from the top right corner of the screen, exploding in the already derelict city and damaging the surrounding buildings.
Ngadangapussy: The way your parents raised you to kill and maime anyone who is not on your view prospects is not the way it works in a civilized world.
That is why you will never travel
No be swear na say them no want animals
And of cuz you know what you are
To your own family travelling our means success and paradise. You want everyone to emulate animal behavior from a continent where they refused to train their children how to behave
Pls if them born you well cross dress your own children to family meeting
Kudos to the woman and great kudos to the husband if he has not run away
Even pampers money alone can make the man to run for his life in this economy but after 20 years f those children the man will be very happy just as the mother
If God can do this for me I will be happy though I don't have money but I know that once those children grow up I will be very happy seeing them doing well together
Why is USA responding for Israel. Let Israel show us where the missiles landed then we can know it's truly ineffective
They throw missiles into your compound you said it's not effective, even if it landed at the front of your gate I am sure your gatekeeper will not remain the same
LostMyZeal: Imagine the confidence in typing this load of crap by a pep ass_licka
Tell me, what useless pattern did that fraud introduce?
Stop yarning sh*t
You are just watching football but you don't understand patterns. If pep leaves mancity today that pattern will scatter just the way Barcelona pattern scattered when he left
Since he left Barcelona they refused to qualify into champions League final
Pep has formula, if you like accept if you like complain!!!
I currently have two job offers. A banking sales job(Executive trainee) and a state government teaching job. I'm confused, I don't know the one to pick.
If the teaching job is Lagos state just do it but it's any other state go for your banking job because other state teachers are passing through shege dan iska mutum banzai
I have a serious confession to make and this has been killing me emotionally and I can’t keep it anymore.
It all started at age 14, I happen to be the only male child and seeing myself among my sisters I started developing a kind of strange affection for them which is really strange and evil. My sisters are really beautiful indeed to be honest.
I share room with my elder sister, and there was this night I woke up and realized she was on a phone call with her boyfriend and at the same time using her fingers to play with her vagina, but when I saw her she tried to get my attention to have sex with her but I refused.
Honestly the next day I didn’t inform any of my parents about this and I kept it confidential.
I thought that’s all, but afterwards, whenever am alone then I feel like having sex, I’ll become Hot to the extent that, I easily get moody after some few minutes without satisfying myself.
It went on and on until one day I couldn’t hold it anymore and I had to take my elder sister panties and wrapped it round my penis, and this is where it all started, unfortunately I had this idea from no where that I can use that as a means of satisfying myself without any girl.
From the beginning it feels good to me and honestly I was enjoying it, gradually I improved on it.
This is the journey to my addiction…..I started Masturbating with ladies pants everyday at any little opportunity I get.
I can masturbate more than 5 times in a day.
Am an introvert so this really hunt me more and more. It got to a time I feel within myself that it’s evil but I couldn’t talk to anybody about it because I was afraid even my parent couldn’t like me again so I kept it on the low.
I did everything possible to stop this addiction but all failed.
Sometimes I feel a strong energy around me, mostly when am alone and that’s the exact time I’ll start thinking about woman, and this caused me to love porn.
Honestly this hunts me amicably so I decided to have a girlfriend at age 18yrs thinking that will rather help me stop masturbating but it became worst, I even ended up being a womanizer, chasing girls everywhere.
Truth be told, my worst enemy now is Masturbation, I am 28yrs now with a woman and two handsome boys but ridiculously, I still masturbate, it’s eating me up and am getting depressed over this addiction.
Masturbation is reducing me, both physical and spiritually, I feel drained.
Everything is shutting down on me, and I have no one to talk to about this, am really scared my wife will get to know about this and right now things are getting out of hand.
Am facing a lot of trauma, my business isn’t moving anymore and I can’t stop Masturbating.
I can be having sex with my wife and still be masturbating.
This have caused me to have no limit over my sexual life, and whenever am having sex, I feel an extra energy within me that makes me sex for so long without getting tired.
It’s killing me slowly within, right now I’ve developed a waist problem and I don’t know the next damage this will cause me again.
Please everyone here, am pleading you all to help me with a solution, I need help to overcome this, I’ve confessed this to several pastors but couldn’t get any solution……
Please nairalanders, help me.
Pastors and Alfa can only give spiritual advice but your problem is psychological problem
Go and read on psychological approaches to masturbation and choose which one to adopt if you cannot do whatever read alone and ensure you stick to it then go to psychiatry hospital for proper treatment
Psychiatry hospital is not necessarily for mad people and I am sure they will refer you to us, psychologist
press9jatv: Hope for the Single Parent: How to Overcome Your Biggest Challenges
If you are a single parent, you may need to know something: you have the hardest job in the world. You have to meet all the needs of your kid, over many years, without the help of a spouse. Some of my closest friends are single parents, and my heart breaks with theirs when they encounter the rough years of parenting. Single parenting can sometimes be brutal and overwhelming. That's why it's important to discuss boundaries for single parents.
Many of my friends have also found the balance and resources they need, and they are experiencing success as parents. Their children and teens are doing well and are maturing at the right rate. So there is hope for you as well.
Let's look at some of the biggest struggles single parents face and explore what you can do to meet those challenges:
Single Parent Challenge #1 - Not Enough of You
Single parents have to do the work of two parents, yet they have more limited resources than two-parent families, both in quantity and in ability. This limitation becomes more of a challenge when your kids are teenagers. They push against your authority and limits and assert their freedom in a million ways.
Parents who have a spouse can hand off their teen to the other parent when they are feeling worn out. My wife and I do this all the time. But you can't do this as a single parent. If your teen doesn't let up on you, you don't get a chance to rest and regroup. This can be exhausting, and it's easy to feel you don't have any strength left inside to resist your kid's resistance.
What can you do? The answer isn't trying harder, or using your will power. Instead, realize that you don't have what you don't have. You will need to get from the outside what you don't possess on the inside. You need to do this for your kid, and for yourself as well. Call a safe and sane friend and get your emotional tank filled, and then enter the ring again and resolve the issue.
It's tempting for single parents to think, I am so tired. I just don't have it in me to spend a lot of time talking with my kid. Besides, he's almost an adult anyway, so he probably doesn't even need a lot of me. While your teen is almost an adult, he still needs bonding time with you in order for him to feel safe and loved and to help him sort out the vagaries of teen life. So get some strength from others, so that you can stay attached to your teen.
Keep in mind that you may need to ask another adult, such as a mature friend, youth pastor, or counselor, to intervene. Your teen may be able to hear things from this other person that he refuses to hear from you. Regardless, get connected.
Single Parent Challenge #2 - Rescuing Your Kids From Failure
I recently asked a single mom who is a good friend of mine, "What do you think is the biggest mistake single parents make?" Without hesitating, she said, "Not allowing their kids to fail."
My friend was talking about rescuing young kids and teens from experiencing their consequences. Parents who rescue their adolescents often do so out of guilt. They already feel bad about their kid's situation, and often feel partially responsible that their child doesn't have two parents in the home.
As a result, single parents often indulge their teen and don't enforce the consequences that should come with attitude and behavior violations. They think, My teen already has a strike against her. I'll make it up to her a little by being easy on her. However, this "solution" doesn't solve the problem; it merely creates a second problem. Not only does the teen have to struggle with a broken home, it's likely she will never develop any self-control. Kids from a single-parent family need limits just as much as any kid does.
Surround yourself with guilt-busters—that is, friends who will support you when your emotions tell you you're being too mean. Cry on their shoulder, allow them to give you a reality check, and let them encourage you to love your teen and still hold the line.
I have a single-parent friend who always felt guilty whenever she grounded or took privileges away from her teens. But her kids have grown up, and they have come back to her and said, "Thanks for being strict, Mom. That's why I can keep my own marriage and job together."
Single Parent Challenge #3 - Parenting Differences With Your Ex
Many divorced parents differ in their parenting values. Often, a parent will notice that the child has a bad attitude or misbehaves after she has spent some time with the other parent. You can attribute some of that to the teen trying to adjust and transition between two worlds, and she needs your support and patience on that. But it may also be that your ex is not providing enough structure and consistent limits.
If this is your situation, do all you can to get your ex to agree to put your kid first and to come to an agreement on parenting values and styles. If your teen's well-being is in jeopardy, you may even have to go the legal route for his protection.
If you see some negative effects when your teen spends time with your ex, but they aren't serious enough for you to take legal action, then be the best parent you can be. Be balanced and integrated with love and boundaries. If your ex is a Disneyland parent, don't be the hardnose, hoping to compensate. Your teen needs to be around someone whom she can take inside of herself, who is a picture of maturity, grace, and truth. Don't try to get even with your ex. Get healthy.
Single Parent Challenge #4 - Asking for Help
Finally, don't try to be strong and go it alone. Ask for help from your kid's school, your church, and your friends. Single parents need more help, and they should get more.
God has a special place for you and your children. In Psalm 68:5, King David wrote about how much God wants to provide for kids who don't have both parents around: "A father to the fatherless, a defender of widows, is God in his holy dwelling." Ask God for help, and He will give it to you.
Taken from Boundaries with Teens by Dr. John Townsend. In his book, you will find a lot more information for single parents, including a separate chapter dedicated to step-parenting.
You see women. They will have enough but to have their husband with them is a problem due to arrogance and the need to be the head since they are providing something
The only way out of this nonsense that has led to different social immorality such a LGBTQ and other nonsense. The only way is shariah, a woman should be under the guidance and care of man even if she is getting 1 billion dollars daily. If humanity continue this useless trend we will use our ego of hatred towards Islam to destroy human race to irreparable point
ShoeGetSize: Embarrassment will never allow them to admit this.
Khadija proclaimed/pronounce that she voluntarily gave her properties to the course of Islam and to the prophet being her husband
"Voluntary" not a situation of claim that we see everywhere today.
Infact no woman will do such to a man and allow the man to marry another wife.
This is a sign of voluntary gift for the cause of Islam. Had it been it is because of normal marriage to the prophet Khadija might had withdrawn whatever she proclaimed to be gift to her husband (SAW) but all was gifted to the cause of Islam
Lifestone: This is how we allowed imported textiles to kill the textile industry in Nigeria. Today Millions of jobs have been lost, aside it has also contributed to the collapse of Naira.
You have a very good point. Govt should force those useless importers to come together and build a refinery and also encourage foreign investments into refining of oil
Importation will not help, it will kill dangote and we will go back to the full SUBSIDY that was removed again
nansng: A social media user, Duchess Osayimwense, has taken to a popular social media platform to express her desire to find a husband. In a recent post online, Osayimwense pleaded for assistance in finding a suitable partner, stating, "I need a husband please help my life🙏🏽."
The post has since garnered attention online, sparking discussions among netizens. While some users offered words of encouragement and support, some others have been trolling her but she’s seems not to care.
I know it's just to trend but the truth is that a girl child needs to concern themselves with their future
They must stop fucking around doing the age of 15-23 so that by the time you are looking for husband your useless past will no chase men away
DevilsEqual: Expecting to see read how many people here would commit fallacy of hasty generalization by attacking all or most hijab women, for the sin of one person
Attack her for her crime, dont demonize over 10000 other hijab women out there with your random opinion that cant be backed by any true statistics
As for her, make dem disgrace her more more...Stealing na bad thing
If you can cut one hand as prescribed by our religion no problem but don't make it look as if people who wear wig don't steal in your shop
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Bournemouth Vs Manchester City (2 - 1) On 2nd November 2024 by Hussein035: 8:45pm On Nov 02, 2024
