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MY ADOPTED GOVERNOR

I know most of you would think Unahi does Audio projects

If you ever enter Abakaliki at night, u may think its Europe..

He has transformed his village in no time..

He is currently dualizing the road here and building a med sch here

The guy is currently, in my opinion, the best governor in nigeria

feyisy86:
I believe na money u use as the base of love she only loved ur money, its better u both settle it now , but I can say she doesn't love u, your wife is seeing another man, if I should ask wats ur own level of education.

Im a medical doctor

Morenikeji070:
First qurstion.. Do you guys did a legal court marriage

yes

poshestmina:
You are probably the problem in the marriage.

Why going around, reporting her to people?

A marriage is has barely passed the honeymoon stage.

From the screenshots ,you were the one that 1st talked about "been forced into the marriage " and she only agreed.

You both have your faults .

Yeah thats true..

Pls i need a sincere advice here.

Im 3 months old in marriage and im so unhappy about the set up (my wife too)

My wife is a student and she tried everything to shift the marriage until easter this year but i refused due to many projects for the year. so we got married 3 months ago.

I took care of her bills since she got admission and we dated for 5 years

But she is so disrespectful and want to make important decisions in marriage which ive refused to allow.

Now, she claims i forced her into marriage and she is not mentally ready because i asked her to change to my family's name.

She has been good then bad then worse..And i think her words about forcing her into marriage has irreparably hurt me.

I spent over 3m of my cash to give her the wedding she wanted (Without any support from her family) against my wish for a 1m wedding.

And despite getting the big wedding she wants before consenting to marry last year, she claims she is not mentally ready and was forced into marriage.

she has repeated this over and over and its making me go crazy..in fact im tired already

Right now she wants more time to be a wife..but im beginning to feel there is a love issue here..I feel she does not love me as she always claims

Though weve settled but we dont talk as usual..we dont even want to hear from each other...

it seems i nolonger love her like i used to..And worst still, continuing with the marriage when she claims she was forced is degrading and disreputable.

My question is, at what point should anyone seriously consider a divorce?