₦airaland Forum

greiboy:
I have accepted your definitions, since you are the antagonist here.

if Nigerian ladies are smart as you are asserting, it also means Nigerian men are not that smart either.

Did I in anyway say Nigerian men are smart?

I didn't bruv

RuthDaniels:
If you want some respect, Learn to give!


Don't expect people to give you regards when you trample on them, I for one won't do that. Good night!

But you are not smart nh, even with the respect.

You are not.

greiboy:
I never say we are the smartest bro, I was merely trying to point that out, although I believe that Nigerian ladies slightly edge them.

How many ladies from other countries have you met?

How many schools in Nigeria made the list of best schools in Africa?

How many African countries are Nigeria better than?

Nna eh! Be sincere kwanu

Mariinee:
Talk to someone, dear. Don't be another Ubunja in the making.

Kiddo

greiboy:
You need to see how many of these ladies are on government support or social security.

Some might actually turn it into a form of business

You see the government pays them about 400rands( 12000 naira) per month for every child they have.

There are scholarships and other incentives laid down by their government that they don't necessarily take advantage of.

The Nigerian women like the man go through hell to survive in the hands of our own government and we still survive.

if that is not smartness going by your definition, then I don't know what is

Do you know that you are yet to give me your definition of smartness.

How about doing that, for me to strike with it while you do yours?

RuthDaniels:
@first paragraph keep typing it till you believe it. Or better still edit your comment I referred to because it is contradicting.


Loving the truth/masturbating on your comment? Lol shouldn't the later be enjoyed too? How many contradictions do I have to read from you in a day? . Take a deep chill Bro, you don't have to be confused. No one is perfect.

So what's the point?

Mariinee:
I'm pretty sure my assumptions are right. You actually said a girl doesn't insult Nairaland men and that's why she's a better person? It's a clue to what haunts you.
Yes, liked. Because it was reasonable. Nowadays, you are simply stupid and outrightly despicable. Which girl hurt your very fragile ego?

Nawao

ubunja:
not every graduate will live a succeasful life and attributing the general unfairness of life to an excuse for failure will not help anyone.

We are saying the same thing.

A successful illiterate is smarter than a failed graduate.

greiboy:
Those ladies are pretty smart that is why they can even surf the internet to the extent of coming to Nigeria cyber space in the first place

One might also be forgiven to think Nigerians are all very smart when you see some of their contributions on Quora.

@embolden, says it all.

Our problem is that we hate the truth.

Mariinee:
So, I am right. I always knew I had a knack for reading people. A nairaland girl really dealt with you.
Take heart, dear. But, don't let it change you. I liked the old you, your posts anyway.

Reading me right? Lol, smh Assumptions and deceit.

Your like my old look? Like, who gives a fvck about your likeness? Did Dangote blow because of your likeness.

C'omon will you get d'fvck out of my mentions.

ubunja:
you can be smart but poor and be a failure generally. but still smart. just as you can be dumb but succeed.

That's fallacy and excuses for failures.

For instance.

In school, those who succeeded in passing exams are the smart ones, not the assumed smart ones that failed.

Mariinee:
I'm not being stupid, dear. You seriously need to check through yourself. If all these is you trying to be funny, cool. But; if not, you really need to check through.

k

greiboy:
Academies is not a scam to me and most people I know

Even my 5years old niece knows the name of the Nigerian president bruv

I doubt that your last assertion tho.

I am not saying Nigerian ladies are all geniuses, but I believe on average in Africa, Nigerian, Kenyan, Ghanian and Zimbo ladies slightly edge the others

Lol

Have you watched or see Nigerian ladies and ladies of other countries contribute to something on this section

Check the thread of how a lady left a man's house without cleaning his kitchen, compare the contributions and come back

ubunja:
whats your definition?

Smartness comprises of many aspects.

My definition is "The ability to make wave to succeed in any given ish or challenges"

Be it positive or negative

pocohantas:
Kati kati...

Smh

RuthDaniels:


I laughed out loud when I read "she rarely disrespect Nl guy" and I begin to wonder how much Nairaland respect mean to Donstan.

A person who doesn't respect others shouldn't see the need for it. But then it is Donstan,

Watching out for the competition though, It will be a lovely thing to read

Respect from Nland ladies means nothing to me personally, it won't pay my bills, I get enough respect in reality

I respect people, do well to know that, and until ladies start loving the truth, they'll continue to masturbate over my comments.

Mariinee:
Gawd. Which Nairaland girl hurt your fragile ego?

Don't be stupid

ubunja:
fair enough.
but i only speak of what i know. the convos i have with LadyMarionette, RuthDaniels and co. are some of the most intellectually stimulating convos i ever had with girls. such girls are hard to come by this side.

The definition of "Smart" to you is "Well-read and articulate"

With that definition, I give Ruth the credit.

Mariinee:
3 examples of such ladies, please. Don't just pull out fact from your skull, dear.

Which fact did I pull?

pocohantas:
Are you a good representation of Nigerian men, going by your post?
Look at yourself and judge small kwanu.

Leave Misswrite alone.

I love how you compare ladies on this forum, based on the point you're trying to pass across. Trying to create this subconscious competition among them. You're petty smooth though, I give you credit for that.

The problem with you is that any posts, thread or comments you come across seems to be a Male vs Female shii to you.

Can you point out where I hyped the intelligence of Nigerian men?

Can't you read well?

greiboy:
No, but academic plays an important role. it opens our mind and improve our perspective of life.

For example, I am sure academics played an important role in your life and improving your perspective.

I have once met a south African chick who felt Nigeria is in Asia.

And during the nations cup in 2014, we had to keep explaining the difference between them world cup and nations cup to most of the chicks.

You need to see what your ibo brothers always say about the South African chicks.

I can't say for other countries, but in Nigeria, academics plays less role in improving life perspectives.

Academics in Nigeria is a scam, a tool of boast, a show to belong and means for few to blow.
BrO, check the state of the country and tell the truth.

Somewhere in Zamfara, Aba, Osun, Onitsha and any village, some people don't know our president, it's something you can find anywhere.

On Nairaland herein, some ladies don't know the difference between world cup and nations cup. Fact!

greiboy:
He has a point..

The pass mark in south Africa is 40% from high school all the way to university.
.
The have two different type of mathematics which are mathematics literacy (similar math) and our normal mathematics.

Although, I think this is more of a result of white repression in the past with the education system imposed on the blacks.

Nonetheless, they are catching up.

You might be amazed after discussing with a black south African chick offline

I think the e warriors are coming tho, I have no time for childish banters these days

If you don't mind.

What's your definition of a smart lady?

Academics?

Ladyhippolyta88:
You always know my usual reply to you "Your problem donstan,I could care less Hippolyta doesn't care about the opinion of inconsequential people you can continue to take panadol in matters that concern me.
I don't care.

And who gave you Hippolyta as a name?

Are your parents aware of that?

ubunja:
its not about being addicted to social media. its about WHICH social media. in SA its the picture-based social networks that are popular coz empty heads only think of pics.
in nigeria its words-based social networks that are popular. coz heads are overflowing with knowledge. a girl like MissWrite would murder a whole college of girls with her knowledge.

Now, the question should be. "How many ladies are like MissWrite" on Nland. She’s one in a million, not because of her writeups and ideas, but because she rarely disrespect any Nland guy.


But sir, you don't expect me to be boastful of Nigerian ladies because of one person. Hell NO!

Take a look at ladies on this section and do the judging yourself.

Ladyhippolyta88:
Same way you should stop disturbing the peace of my mentions and I wonder when it became a crime to ask of someone.
Better maintain your lane.

You don't have a lane.

Your mention will not know peace until you stop deceiving yourself in the name of care.


Fvckin call who you care for or remain silent.

ubunja:
lol nigerian girls are smart for Africa. believe me. if you hate what you see there you'll be disappointed this side. you know things like writing novels in huge numbers etc, such things dont exist this side bro.

Fact is; Nigerians are so much addicted to social media, that's why it look like they are too smart.

Lots of online rants, diss, savage, positive and negative contributions, advise and others.

Yet, they don't put it to practice in reality, is that what "Smart" should be all about.

The state of Nigerian as a country is enough prove.

Ladyhippolyta88:
Mind the way you quote me to annoy me on this forum.
If you want too pretend do it and don't put words in what I typed.I didn't ask for your input.

Just call her number and stop disturbing the peace of this forum.

ubunja:
intelligent. you know a site like Nairaland wouldnt exist in SA. if it did the girls wouldnt be contributing like the girls here are doing. smart i mean well-read, articulate, such things.

If "Well-read and being articulated" is the smart you meant, then I'm ok.


Because Nigerian ladies don't worth the "Smart" hype.

Their online appearance isn't reality, you of all people should know that,.

Ladyhippolyta88:
I have never noticed any of these.
By the way I wonder where Xhosanostra is I haven't read her comments for days and she was last seen on the 8th.I hope she is doing fine.

If you care for her well-being, call her on phone.


If you don't have her number, then you never cared.

Quit the pretense.

Dem dey win woman, she be bet9ja?

Anything that can be won with no hardwork is CHEAP.

ubunja:
south african women: hot but dumb nigerian women :smart but ugly.
nigerian men: handsome - nigerian women : ugly south african men: ugly - south afican women: beautiful

What's your definition of a smart lady?

Mariinee:
I'm a Naija girl and I have never opened my leg. What's your point?

You are right