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An undergraduate of the Institute of Continuing Education, University of Lagos, Akoka, identified simply as Adetokunbo, has alleged that some operatives of the Special Anti-Robbery Squad, Lagos State Police Command, attacked him and robbed him of his school fees in the Okota area of the state. Adetokunbo, a 200-level student of Philosophy, told PUNCH Metro on Tuesday that the four policemen accused him of being a Yahoo boy (Internet fraudster) because he was seen with an iPhone.




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. He added that the men, who had earlier arrested two other suspects that were in a car, drove them around Lagos roads. The victim said the men later took the two other suspects to an Automated Teller Machine, where they were forced to withdraw N100,000 each before they were dropped off at the Oworonshoki area of the state. He said he was released on the Third Mainland Bridge after his N70,000 school fees was forcefully taken from him. The victim said he was not pained by the torture, but the fact that he would have to defer his schooling as he could not raise the money again. He said, “I am a clothier, but I am also undergoing part time studies at UNILAG. I am in 200 level. To raise part of my school fees, which was already due, I had to sell some of my property. “I had gone to deliver some clothes to a customer in Okota sometime in April and was returning on a motorcycle around 3pm, when I observed that there was panic in the area. The motorcycle rider that took me almost threw me into a gutter. “I was still chiding him when the operatives approached me and said I was a Yahoo boy. They held me by the trousers as I protested and struggled with them, asking for my offence. I pushed one of them away. They all descended on me and started hitting me. “They put me in handcuffs and threw me inside their car. The beating was much. They were slapping me from different sides. I told them to check my ID card or allow me to make a call. They didn’t listen to me or even check my phone. They asked who my father was that made me use an iPhone, which they could not afford.” Adetokunbo said he observed there were two other men in the car, adding that he gathered that they had just obtained their visas with a plan to travel abroad when they were arrested. He said the two men, who were also accused of being Internet fraudsters, were searched by the officials and their ATM cards seized. He said the operatives, who had police-crested guns and handcuffs, tore his shorts while attempting to search his back pocket where he had his wallet. “They took N70,000 from me and took the other guys to the ATM to withdraw money, which I gathered was N100,000 each. They released them at Oworonsoki. “My pain in all of these was not even the beating, but the fact that I had to defer my education because of the money they collected from me,” he said. PUNCH Metro gathered that the police authorities had already contacted Adetokunbo, inviting him for a meeting. He, however, said although he could identify the officers, he was afraid for his life. “While I was in the car with them, they pointed a gun to my head and said they could waste me and nothing would happen. I am afraid for my life, but I want those men brought to book. The police can find them in the Gowon Estate, Egbeda, and Okota, Isolo, areas of the state,” he added. When contacted, the state Police Public Relations Officer, ASP Olarinde Famous-Cole, said the police had started looking into the case

"Domestic violence: who is to blame? .

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. once had this quiet Medical Doctor as a neighbour, on this faithful day, he closed early. On his way home, he saw his wife in a beer parlour owned by an Alhaji where drinking and smoking starts as early as 6am even during fast.He only called her name and went home, sat her down to ask questions. Shockingly, the woman told him she doesn’t monitor his movements so she doesn’t want to be monitored. Before the man could utter another statement, a dirty slap landed on him. Still in shock, the Igbo woman [huge] pounced on him on the sofa and started punching. [A woman he had never slapped for 15 years]. .

.When he gained the strength to push her off, he gave her a blue black beating. Upon the arrival of peace makers, everyone was fast to accuse the ‘shameless Medical Doctor’ of domestic violence, bla bla. Only for him to shut them up and started telling stories of what he endures including coming home late to discover the woman left the kids at


home for night parties. There was a comment on Patoranki’s manager’s DV on this Forum that boasted her MACHO husband of 10 years has not touched her despite her RUNNING MOUTH. Just imagine! The day her cup will full and the man RUNS his hand, she will run to Forumgers with cooked up stories ,everyone will believe her and start insulting and raining curses on the man without deep investigation. Some women can be very devilish, most especially those married to tolerant men, professionals and Men of God. Are women abusing men emotionally or not which makes them to abuse physically? No woman had ever said she ignited the DV, threw the first punch, nor mention a single fault of hers. Everyone believes the women’s stories only, why? Are women innocent and harmless? Why are the men always 100% guilty?"

am a student, I need more information on setting of a view Centre.... am with almost 200k. " but what is the necessary requirement of setting a view center?
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I school at EBSU, cas ...i need your advice please, I don't want to fall a victim

At some point, it seemed like achieving a distinction in medicine was a very difficult task but it is wonderful to know that the jinx has been broken at Olabisi Onabanjo University. The young man who was identified as Olugbenga Alabi has emerged with a distinction in medicine. According to reports, Alabi had 7 distinctions in 10 courses and this award was presented to him the institution's combined convocation held last Tuesday.....




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. Speaking to newsmen, he said he was glad to have achieved the feat of being the first to graduate with MBChB with Honours in the history of this university. He said he went through the requirements of achieving a first class and saw it as an impossible task,but today he has achieved it, giving all thanks to allah. Alabi stood tall on the podium to address his colleagues, he said getting to the zenith of a man’s aspiration is substantially determined by God and not by human’s efforts. He said the reason why he is standing in front of them might be as a result of outstanding academic performance but he couldn't have done it without the blessings and favour of God. He noted that he believes only in prayer, diligence and hard work, he advised his fellow students to read, assimilate and teach others or engage in academic discourse with them. He included humility as another key to making it in life as well as forming the habit of having good mentors and seeking advice from them. According to him, he is not an introvert. He maintained a modest social life, adding that he tries as much as possible to maintain his bounds with friends. He mentioned that he has so many girlfriends but has just one fiancee who he said has really tried for him. Alabi who is now in his late 20's said he would not wait to complete his internship before thinking of a postgraduate programme to pursue in clinicals and academics.

What is female testing?
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I just want to say a quick word about
female testing. They will always do it, as long
as you are together. Women need to trust their
men and the only way they can be sure you are
trustworthy is to constantly test it. Look for it
and love it. If it upsets you, you are finished, try
becoming a monk instead.”



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How women test men?
Men all know that women test them all the time, women
can’t help it. But why do they do it? There are a few simple
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(1)Defence Mechanism:
She needs a man to know that he can’t take her for granted,
she is not a push-over. She needs a man to show that he
can respect her. She wants a man to see that she has
standards and that he has to meet them.


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(2) Screening:
She needs to find a man that she can’t take for granted, he is
not a push-over. She needs to know that she can respect
him. She wants to see how strong emotionally he is, how
smart he is.
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(3)Need for Re-assurance:
She wants the certainty that a man cares for her and wants
to protect her. She wants to know that he is trustworthy and
that she is safe surrendering to him and his love.
Love
She wants a man to know that she loves him, that he is
important to her. Only a man she cares for and wants in her
life is worth constantly testing.
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(4)Ego Inflation:
Sometimes a woman tests because she enjoys making a
man uncomfortable, because she can. Men ask for it by
getting nervous and uncertain. Ultimately she wants a man
to reveal himself, particularly if he is not uncomfortable is his
masculinity. This is not meant cruelly, but to help the man
see who he really is and what he needs to do to become
worthy of her.
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(5)Abandonment Complex:
This is a serious issue that needs to be treated with care by
a man. It is a psychological trait that a woman has
stemming from abandonment by men, usually starting with
her father. Often nothing the man can do will satisfy the
inability of the woman to trust the man. It is not solvable by
the man (men, don’t try to solve it!) and needs professional
help.


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How do men react to testing?
The more a man passes a woman’s test, the more intimacy
he achieves with her, the more he is trusted by her. Women
want a man who is in control of himself yet slightly out of
control; a confident, independent man who excels in life.
This is because a woman ultimately surrenders herself to a
man who she believes to be ‘the one’. If a man doesn’t
understand this then he can create chaos in a relationship.
As we saw at the beginning a man can fall victim to the
testing or get angry with it. Either way he fails. He can,
however, take it in his stride, be a rock, be sure of himself
and let her swirl around him. The he passes. There is no
control involved, just openness and freedom, on both sides



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Do you understand that your woman
needs certainty?
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Can you accept her testing?



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Are you able to take it?

am into buying and selling of foreign rice at lagos, but I now decided to further! and I am admitted to study agricultural economic at ebonyi state university. " and I want to setup a new business, which business is advisable for me with 400k capital. I mean business that would not obstruct my academic activities.

xyoung:
Ask for toto

not all ladies are olosho

favourmic:
Bro how old are you?

..shutup and behave

what should I ask for? "to make her mad in love.
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if I ask for money, she might think otherwise
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if I ask for true love.....am not sure if that still exist
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and if I ask for sex......" she might think am only going to use her and dump her.
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so what should I ask for? though our relationship is about 3months now.

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Come, take my hand.. Which sextion u wanna visit first?
Crime? Literature? Sports or Obituary??

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am Daniel, just joined this site some mins ago.