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Themartins2:
I like your honesty. I know my husband has a son back.home in Nigeria. He says his son's mother moved on and married someone else.. I do talk to his family. I talk to his sister she does listen to me but I'm tired of reaching out to them. It's to the point my husband doesn't want me to talk to his sister anymore. Every weekend it's a different reason to go out. He was drinking herbs. I didn't know he was drinking herbs with a co worker of mine until my coworker comes to me says oh I didn't know that your husband I was drinking herbs with him . I said what is herbs he says your a wife you can't tell when ur husband drink herbs I said no he just come home go to sleep
He says no he should have strength to make baby.
Following weekend​ I went to sleep at 9 pm I wake up at 3 am . My husband is gone. I call him he out at a party .
3rd weekend he has a ten pm business meeting.
his uncle wife birthday party. I wasn't invited. But when they have car issues there kids come to my house.
I feel it's not fair.. we don't even have date night as a couple. He always out with his friends.
We don't have kids together and I don't have any kids at all so maybe I should just move on..

this whole thing is complicated.... I hope you find answers

Philosophia:
So many things have crossed my mind. Is she seeing someone? But she assures me that she's not seeing anyone. Is she just looking for a fresh start? What did I do terribly wrong?

I am so confused. I called her, maybe to get direction or to hear something else. I'm not sure. She is advising me to fast and pray about it to get direction on what to do. She said she has prayed and fasted and she was told to prepare her mind for marriage.

I do not want to loose her but I don't know how I am supposed to do that. What is that supposed to achieve for me?

I am so lost.

when man says there is a casting down, I'll say there is a lifting up..
you're lifted young Man, his plan for you is for good so as to grant you an expected end...
your testimony is near...just open your ears and heart unto him....he'll speak to you....SHALOM