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tonididdy:
I never rub cream for months now 😭
I either bought a fake or the products just ended up darkening me.

Is it so difficult to get a skin glow, no bleaching cream for fair guys 🤦🏻‍♂️

Make una recommend for me abeg!

caesymore:
Getting married to an intentional spouse is everything in one.

My birthday is 16th of November, since I started dating my Wife she has always done everything possible to make my day remarkable.

I'm that type of guy that likes keeping things on a low, quite an opposite of my Wife, she likes doing her things loud and doesn't care who gets to hear it.

Well, my type of guy I don't cage you, infact I allow you to be yourself cause I like being myself, on her birthdays I don't mind making it loud but on mine I just like chilling on my own if I'm even to have fun its best of me to spend quality time with her hangingout and chilling on dates.

It's almost November again, and the sweet problem as I call it is here again. It's been 5 birthdays with her as my wife so far, and she has always made it remarkable, always making a great occasion off it. Even when we are not together. I've always gotten cakes that I share with colleagues at work and they marvel at the quality and amount each of them got, my wife is high test and she doesn't spare a dime when it comes to what she feels will be a show of love to me.

Now on my part I'm just cheerful about it for the effort, money and time she puts in doing it even though my joy has never been on what she did but for the fact she is ready to show me such love.

On talking to her today I got to know she is planning to do money cake for me with about 1million naira while she pays the cake lady 200k, omo I feel it's a waste owing to the fact that I do not place value In all these, I had to ask her not to do it, oya come see her romantic vex that it's her thing make I dey my day.I've been trying to stop her and I'm seriously not okay with it as I see it as waste, firstly there is no way in hell I'm going to snap picture with money cake and I believe that's one of the essence of the cake, secondly who has time to pack up a million naira from money cake, thirdly she won't even be around as she is out of Nigeria for now, then imagine giving out 200k just for someone to stress me, how much does most 9-5 workers earn.

I know she doesn't place much value on money just like my Mum and that's one of the major reasons why I love her so much, she also values Humanity more than money and material things.

Truths be told since I we started dating before we married my birthday has stopped being the calm thoughtful day it has always been which I love so much, to such an uncomfortable day with much anticipation which I also love to an extent.

I've always told her it's supposed to be what makes me happy that counts on that day but she doesn't want to see it that way. I wonder how long it will take for her to understand or how long it will take before I get used to this.

But right at this moment it's actually a sweet problem to me.

vanvickie:
Rest madam. Why isn't the woman also providing money which runs the home, or will the kids feed and live on love alone? U'll be so naive to underestimate money that takes care of up to 80% of all life issues. Women talk about house chores as if it's a mountain of load .. hope you know in Nigeria, 100k can get you a domestic staff that can take care of almost all the things woman do at home.

Kajaard:
Kobo can I ask you a question? Please take no offense to it.

Did you have a father figure growing up or there was a complete lack of a fatherly presence hence your views towards the male folk?

Or perhaps you might have been hurt emotionally by one of my gender in the past thus you now have a personal vendetta against all of my kind?

Answer so we can understand where this your chain of thoughts developed from. Thanks.

cupcrack:
Message sent, please check

Jman06:
Didn't you read where the op said that he proposed but she told him that she wasn't ready?? Is that how to vibe with someone you're interested in?
As far as I'm concerned, the guy and the friend didn't do anything bad to op. She should continue waiting for Mr perfect while sensible girls are getting married every weekend.

Jman06:
Only a very classless man would wait on a lady after she turns him down or not giving him a positive response. Only boys who are not ready for marriage would wait until he's chosen as plan B when she couldn't get her plan A.

Jman06:
This is what your gender says when a guy decides to move on and not being kept as the fall back option. You claim he never loved you and he was a weakling. Many of you don't know that most eligible men have lots of ladies on their lists and the fact that he comes for you doesn't mean he couldn't get other ladies. Real men don't have the time to keep begging and waiting for only you while you keep turning him around until you probably meet your "perfect" man and dump him with all the rude and degrading languages you use when you want to dump a man.

Kudos to the smart friend who ceased the opportunity to hook herself a good man.

Lenor:
It's called Margvoice, you can go to the site and see.
I've had friends who have been able to withdraw after reaching minimum payout.
My problem now is just having data to continue pushing until I eventually request withdrawal and get paid.
Like tomorrow morning now, I need data and the little 125mb I used to come in here can not complete Margvoice task.
It takes 3 hours commitment each day

Lenor:
Oh okay, I understand. Unfortunately, I don't have the 3,000 at the moment. The reason I was asking about daily-paying tasks is because I'm currently struggling to keep up with the data cost for the online task I'm already doing. I was hoping to find something small that can at least give me enough daily to cover data. If you know of anything like that which doesn't require upfront payment, please let me know. I'd really appreciate it.

stormborn28:
Is this guava leaves .

OredoPikin:
name

Ilamina:
Girl rule

Boys always horn y, rapists


Can't stay with a girl in a room for days without fccking her

RollinTNDA:
That is what I use to destroy their Hellfire Theory because the whole experience of Hell require the person to have
1. Skin
2. Brain
3. Nervous system

Without these 3 things working
The person will not feel a single thing

And guess what doesn't have these 3

A SOUL

Imagine trying to torture something that has no nervous system
The person no get skin no human flesh or body, no lungs, no stomach

So how can you starve that person??
How can you torture that person??

When you point out these loopholes
Their Hell theory begins to look like joke

kaywhy09:
Bank would have been your better option.

They'll even help with contracts to secure your funds after supplies.

Hungrychicken:
Thats so bad of him, leading you on with no intentions of helping you. All he had to say was, im sorry unable to help at this time.

But, he has a big ego, rather than accept he’s penniless at the moment; he prefers to disappoint you.




I'm struggling to understand this quote op, could you explain?

Is he not supposed to issue you a PDC, while you pay back with 10% interest. Is that it?