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i believe they focus more on experience.
being a 1st class graduate with zero experience na wash these days

them get her sha.

Starlink sha never disappoint me even once

Ekuke Shepherd

bdon123:
How abt another womans husband??

wtf?!!

something is about to go down, i can feel it.

I can understand why this weighs heavily on you. You love both your wife and your brother's family, so it's natural to want everyone to get along. However, I think your first responsibility is to your wife.

From what you've shared, there seems to be a lot that you don't know. You've mentioned unanswered messages, snubbing, and other incidents, but you also admitted you don't know the full details. Before trying to bring everyone together, sit down with your wife and genuinely understand what happened from her perspective. Ask questions, listen without defending anyone, and find out exactly why she has drawn such a firm boundary.

If your wife feels repeatedly disrespected, pushing for reconciliation before those issues are acknowledged may only make her feel unsupported. Reconciliation works best when both parties are willing and when there's accountability, not simply because everyone is family.

As for your son, I think your wife's concerns deserve serious consideration. Until the adults resolve their differences, it's reasonable for her to be uncomfortable with overnight visits or weekend bonding. That doesn't have to be permanent, but it shouldn't be forced.

You also don't have to "report" your brother's wife to your brother. If the time comes, you can simply tell him something like, "There are unresolved issues between them that I hope they'll be able to sort out in the future. I'm trying not to take sides, but I also have to respect my wife's feelings."

For now, maintain your relationship with your brother, continue being respectful to his wife, and avoid acting as a mediator unless both women actually want that. Sometimes giving people space is healthier than forcing closeness.

The goal shouldn't be to get everyone back to how things were. The goal should be mutual respect. If that eventually leads to reconciliation, that's great. If not, it's still possible for both families to remain cordial and maintain healthy boundaries without creating division.

Your wife left her home country and built a new life with you. In situations like this, she should never feel that she's standing alone. Support her, understand her fully, and if reconciliation becomes possible, let it happen naturally not under pressure.
sha try dey pay attention to details more from here on.

well, He pretty much always dresses in a way that's associated with queer fashion.
me sef na the same question i go ask...

las las wuna go still Bleep on the 3 week.
need i say more?

we dey collect for this country sha

this country is messed up to the core

Always try to keep a cool head at all times brother, nobody go believe your story even if you say na out of self-defense.

They're still human, so what to do..

yeah i had a pupil like that during my NYSC days, i call her ''brilliant but lazy''.

See her like sack of potatoes

Let it be clear: it's the time the world should know the truth. what’s happening in South Africa is not just about illegal migration. That’s the excuse being pushed, but it’s not the truth.
A lot of this hostility is rooted in personal hatred, jealousy, and envy toward foreigners who are working hard and progressing. Some are bitter from failed relationships with foreign partners. Some are angry over financial dealings they agreed to like pawning property and losing it when they couldn’t repay. They tagged it hijacking buildings by foreigners. Others simply can’t stand seeing foreigners doing better than them. Example When they see foreigners in the club drinking expensive drinks than them or driving expensive car's they will be angry and developed hatred and jealousy towards the foreigners. Again they use foreigners for their political selfish interest to gain votes because they know that when politicians mentioned foreigners must leave citizens would be happy and support the politician.
This is not about law it’s about resentment.
Stop hiding behind “illegal migration.” That narrative is being used to justify something deeper and uglier. The world should know: this is driven by jealousy and envy, not facts. Mostly this jealousy and Envy is coming from xenophobic groups mostly black South Africans.

this generation ehn..smh

this news is false jor.

Go for the Pixel 6 pro, the phone just too make sense.

joke aside this kain girls dey sweet ehn.
mumu don lose better thing.

we should just cut ties with these people, South Africans are jealous, selfish, shallow and wicked for no reason atall

till this day i don't know what the US want or have against Iran

but wait oo, them no beat am even small sef?
this man get luck oo.

this one fit chop half of the NYSC budget sef in a week na..lol

wtf is going on with this generation fgs

OneCandleAway:
You know there's truth in his response to you. Everything isn't politics and obedient. How do we grow as a nation if we can't question our politicians?

true talk sha.

euniquea:
Waooo

Thank you so so much for this wonderful prayers and I wish you the same sir🙏🙏🙏👌👌@idris646

you're welcome ma'am, bless up.

Rapmoney:
That is a messed up thing to say right now, right? Oh I see. Nigerians should start asking these questions in 2030. I don't think there is any need debating with people like you.

1. this is not a debate.
2. you totally missed the point i was trying to make.

see as you just fine anyhow

mamagee3:
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