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BlindAngel:
Good evening Nairalanders, few months ago I posted here regarding how my wife forced me into marriage that I wasn't in anyway ready for because she got pregnant. I posted about the regret I'm still battling until date, because the love isn't there from my own end and I'm also not in anyway attracted to her physically. I have told her severally that I want to option out of the marriage and not doing again but until date she has refused to let me go.

Back to the main point, my wife lost her dad this morning. Her deceased dad has two wife's and several concubines that gave birth to lots of children, my wife doesn't know some of her half brothers and sisters.

So I went to their family house this morning to console them. The eldest son of the family (her half brother) told me and another in law that we'd be the one to pay for mortuary expenses and casket, and when the burial is getting closer they'd give us a list of things to buy and we'd both bring one goats each.

To be brutally honest I wasn't mad because of this latest expense, I got furious immediately and right on the spot because of the pressure my wife pressured me into getting married to her, by now I'd have been totally free of these unnecessary expenses. More than 19 of her sisters, both biological and half sisters that has given birth, no single expense was listed for their man that they got pregnant for and has a child for. But I and the other in law that paid dowry are the one going through these unnecessary expenses.

So immediately he told me about everything, I charged at my wife right on the spot, right in front of her mom, her brothers, her sisters and some of her friends that came for condolence visit. I got so furious and started shouting at the top of my voice, I reminded her how she forced me into marriage that I'm not in anyway prepared and ready for, both physically, psychologically, emotionally, financially. (I have been reminding her regarding this almost on a daily basis and whenever we are quarreling.

I reminded her how she threatened me with suicide and our of fear of the unknown I wasted almost 4m in getting married to her. I told her that I'd have been free of these expenses if not for her pressure.

Immediately she burst into tears, and started crying endlessly.

Her mom and sisters started yelling at me and I yelled back at all of them. They told me I met her a Virgin and now she's no longer good for me (truly, the whole family thought that I was the one that took her virginity) My wife and I agreed to keep it a secret, but the constant remainder from her mom and sisters made me let the cat out of the bag, I told them that I didn't met her a Virgin that she has already started having sex when I met her, they didn't believe me but with my tone, I know they'd.

I also made mentioned that I'm not buying any goat or paying for mortuary or taking any list from them. That it's their dad and they should take care of every responsibilities, after all he has uncountable children, why putting some of the expense on me? I walked away, and switched off my phone until now that I'm just putting it on.

I know that I acted wrongly and allowed my anger to get the best part of me. But I was furious because no single bill went to her sister's baby father's, absolutely nothing was listed for them. I got furious because these expenses won't be on me right now if not for her pressuring me into marriage that I want ready for. I was furious because I and the other in law that they billed became the scape goat by doing the right thing by getting married and not leaving theirs daughter In ruins, where as those that got their daughter pregnant without getting married to them were totally free from these unnecessary bills. I'm in so much pains and regret right now.

JASONjnr:
I am not a Yoruba man.... Mind you!


Nigeria isn't centered around Igbos, Hausa and Yorubas.....

If you had any formal education z you'd know this.

Racoon:
Meanwhile someone like Dave Umahi thinks building coastal highways of fraud is a way to even stabilise the naira. These bridges cum airports spree by most governors are avenue of embezzlement cum corruption.

Racoon:
Meanwhile someone like Dave Umahi thinks building coastal highways of fraud is a way to even stabilise the naira. These bridges cum airports spree by most governors are avenue of embezzlement cum corruption.

spearman:
I knew that recusal drama will backfire. Ibos celebrated too much like it was Christmas. Kanu will remain in jail because Nigerians get joy from pressing Ibo neck.

Reload101:
Igboman trying to shutdown his brother's business

Ringstonermask:
Tribalism and hatefulness in this post already.

If it your tribe, you will say he is qualified

Bt if it another tribe, u will say he rogue his way there...


Nigeria is not supposed to be a country

Deziwealth:
Obi rodents who masturbates on tinubus matter, you'll learn by force

Maysdevices:
Likeeeee

Na Hausa kill them for here, even go Scot free, dem still dey mention Igbo

These people are insane and I’m not even from either tribe. Shit is starting to get to me, I can’t share a country with such evil shameless people

foleskay:
It's coming gradually. Ur eze ndigbo of Lagos is still eating watery beans in detention. That's ball,kiddo

foleskay:
Like we will also send u all packing too in Lagos

Fareke:
https://dailypost.ng/2024/10/01/independence-day-if-you-hate-nigeria-you-may-not-progress-apc-chieftain-joe-igbokwe/

NLCreator:
https://x.com/SaharaReporters/status/1841092516604440677?s=19[/quote]Lol
The coward Yorubas are running over this little issue😂😂😂😂.

When will Ndi ofe mmanu learn to respect their host?

The Arewa should send them all packing.

Softmirror:
They are doing their best. Obi that is making noise made the people of Anambra poorer than he met them.

Islie:
https://punchng.com/wike-made-my-appointment-as-petroleum-minister-possible-lokpobiri/?amp

chisomkachy:
Auto parts dealer arrested over heroin, loud shipments concealed in lamps, sofa legs

. As NDLEA arrests 2 wanted kingpins, 2 ex-convicts for drug trafficking; intercepts illicit consignments going to US, UK, Canada, Australia, Thailand


https://www.instagram.com/p/DAf1hASs2g_/?igsh=cWQ4bXY0YW96dXZ3


I'm sure most of the idiots commenting stopped reading immediately they saw Ejiofor, they failed to read through to see that their kinsmen are in higher percentage

bluepreek:
Obaseki's downfall will be like a child's play compared to the one that'll befall Fubara.......the name "Fubara" should be synonymous with "Traitor" in the next edition of the oxford dictionary . What an official one time governor he's about to become already.....

CommonSense1967:
Useless court system.
Even a first year law student should have been able to prosecute this guy and sentence him to life in prison or firing squad by now.
The Nigerian court system is useless just like all institutions in Nigeria.

Jostoman:
APC government of Rice and Agbado?

Candidlady:
How will any lady in her right senses want to settle with a broken man


Even when they are wealthy they still don't have sense and act very irresponsible how much if he is without money

A broke man has no right to get married or even have an erection

LegendHero:
SINGLE MOTHERHOOD BY STATE (HUSBAND IS DEAD)

Percentage of children age 0-17 years living with mother alone where father is dead

2011
Top 10States
1 🟢Enugu — 9.8%
2 🟢Abia — 8.6%
3 🟢Ebonyi — 8.5%

I think Bayelsa must be on the top of the list for every year.
4 🟢Imo — 8.5%
5 🟢Anambra — 7.5%
6 🟤Cross River — 5.2%
7 🟤Akwa ibom — 5%
8 🟠Benue — 4.8%
9 🟤Rivers — 4.7%
10 🟠FCT — 4.6%

2016
1 🟢Ebonyi — 9.4%
2 🟢Enugu — 8.7%
3 🟢Anambra — 8.1%
4 🟤Akwa Ibom — 7.2%
5 🟤Edo — 7.1%
6 🟢Abia — 6.7%
7 🟢Imo — 6.5%
8 🟠Benue — 6.1%
9 ⚫️Borno — 5.8%
10 🟤Rivers — 5.7%

2021
1 🟤Bayelsa — 10.6%
2 🟢Ebonyi — 8.6%
3 🟢Enugu — 8.6%
4 🟢Anambra — 8.3%
5 🟤Rivers — 7.9%
6 🟤Akwa Ibom — 7.7%
7 🟠Benue — 7.3%
8 🟣Ondo — 6.9%
9 🟢Abia — 6.2%
10 🟤Edo — 5.9%

🟠NC 🟤SS 🟢SE ⚫️NE 🟣SW

tasalanoni:
Nnewi sense is second to none in the world.
This man plans and organizes the loudest funeral ceremonies across the length and breadth of Nigeria but see how his sister was buried without any elaborate celebration.
Her funeral looks nothing close to anything planned and organized by his brother.
Man is an astute businessman who knows where money is worth being spent on.

slaawomirr:
Damnnn niggar

Borrowers never progress

InfoGuru118:
Previous Thread: https://www.nairaland.com/8196382/tinubu-appoints-new-directors-general-dss#131702285



https://news360ng.com/10-things-to-know-about-mr-adeola-ajayi-new-dss-director-general/

opamoses1:
This is good news.
It's foolish and an insult to have a Yoruba king in iboland. An Oba without a kingdom.

What Yoruba Oba gave the foolish man the title? None
What Yoruba Royal family is established in the SE..None.

I trust ibos, they don't joke with their own lands, despite having Eze Ndigbo all over Nigeria. Gladly, Sanwo Olu has stopped that nonsense as well in Lagos.

AcuraZDX:
Alright

InfoGuru118:
https://news360ng.com/chinese-firm-seizes-another-nigerian-luxury-jet-in-canada-amidst-asset-confiscation-trend/

Sonyboom:
USA court have gone mad.
With all the NigerDeta pollution against Chevron n She'll the foolish court did not award a dime to Nigeria in damages even when the evidence is glaring till 2040 when anyone not yet born can step into Niger Delta and verify this claim.

The will claim it is outside their jurisdiction but a case against the government of Ghana that took place in Ghana is not outside their jurisdiction and they can foolishly be awarding any amount their foolish souls desire for Africans to pay. The judge USA are simply mad

martolux:
No single Southeast state?? What are they even agitating for when their very own leader don't care about them? It's predictable that when they finally break free from the shithole it would be into a deeper shithole! If this agitation is not political, it's time they start holding their leaders accountable and stop shedding the blood of innocent citizens in the name of agitation.

Yorùbá Adage says: "Oju ti o maa bani kale , Ko ni ti aaro se ipin" ( The eyes that will serve one until old age won't be rheumy in one's youthful years ).

shivisee:
Where’s our delusional developed 5 plots region??

Kennitrust:
This thing doesn't look fake to me... My opinion.


A place like Indian, Jesus will quickly do miracles to divert their attention from Hindu and others fake things that they worship.


I believe in Jesus!