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RomanceRe: How Do I Get Respect From My Sister Back by Ilamina(op): 10:57am On Dec 30, 2024
Clairvoyancy:
Let her know she revealing it won't break you, even if it might, don't show any traits of fear, be yourself and don't allow her manipulate you cos of that. She might even be worse...
thanks
RomanceNigerian Men Rock by Ilamina(op): 7:50am On Dec 30, 2024
Nigerian girls suck

Thank heavens for Nigerian men

Girls suck around the world not even nigeria
But men always rock
RomanceHow Do I Get Respect From My Sister Back by Ilamina(op): 7:41am On Dec 30, 2024
She knows one of my secrets
So I have been scared to shout on her the way I used too

Life is so hard
RomanceI Don't Want To Sleep Around by Ilamina(op): 6:12am On Dec 30, 2024
cry

If I use a condom, shey I won't get pregnant
RomanceI Lack Home Training by Ilamina(op): 6:59pm On Dec 29, 2024
undecided

I am scared of death
RomanceWhat Do You Know About Iceland by Ilamina(op): 4:50pm On Dec 27, 2024
smiley
RomanceWhy Iceland Girls So Beautiful by Ilamina(op): 7:17pm On Dec 26, 2024
Finnish girls are second, while Iceland is first - such an underrated nation

Sweden third
RomanceAbuja Is So Fine by Ilamina(op): 12:01pm On Dec 26, 2024
My dream was to travel too Abuja before the end of the year

Sucks I didn't make it

There's always next time
RomanceI Failed by Ilamina(op): 11:46am On Dec 23, 2024
Because I didn't work hard enough
RomanceA Lagos Person Replied My Post On NL by Ilamina(op): 6:01pm On Dec 22, 2024
It cant get better than this smiley
RomanceRe: I Am Thinking Of Going Back To School by Ilamina(op): 3:26pm On Dec 22, 2024
AngelSlay:
It sounds like you've had a profound realization. Recognizing that your gateman's aspirations and desires are valid, despite his occupation, is a beautiful display of empathy and humility.

Life's Lessons
1. Social status is not everything: Your experience has taught you that social standing or occupation doesn't define a person's worth or potential.
2. Empathy and understanding: By putting yourself in your gateman's shoes, you've gained a deeper appreciation for his feelings and desires.
3. Self-reflection and growth: Your newfound awareness has encouraged you to reevaluate your own life and aspirations.

Breaking Down Barriers
1. Challenging societal norms: Your story highlights the importance of challenging societal expectations and biases.
2. Fostering inclusivity and respect: By recognizing the value and dignity of every individual, regardless of their occupation or background, we can create a more inclusive and compassionate society.

Moving Forward
1. Embracing life's challenges: As you said, "Life is hard," but it's also full of opportunities for growth and learning.
2. Pursuing your goals: Don't be afraid to chase your dreams, just like your gateman is pursuing his own aspirations.
3. Treating others with kindness and respect: Continue to spread empathy and understanding, and remember that everyone deserves to be treated with dignity and respect.

Keep shining, and remember that life is full of surprises and opportunities for growth!
You write well
Are u from lagos
RomanceI Am Thinking Of Going Back To School by Ilamina(op): 12:59pm On Dec 22, 2024
I used too look down on my gateman for wanting to marry me . .because he's a gateman

But I am in the same level as him

I don't want people too look down on me either

So I have to try
Life is hard
RomanceWhy Are Half Cast People Nice by Ilamina(op): 11:40am On Dec 22, 2024
Half cast people are truly a blessing to the black nation

Very loyal and dedicated to make the black race shine
RomanceI Lost by Ilamina(op): 4:29pm On Dec 19, 2024
Imagining feeling on top of the world

Then lose it after two months

Good things always come to an end

I am now back to square one
RomanceI Am Such A Loser by Ilamina(op): 8:19pm On Dec 18, 2024
cry

Why does God hate me so much
RomanceGuys, Can You Marry Someone Without A Degree by Ilamina(op): 7:56am On Dec 17, 2024
undecided
RomanceRe: I Am So Low Class, I Didn't Go To University by Ilamina(op): 2:46pm On Dec 16, 2024
Pierocash:
beware of human traffickers, you may end up in Libya or Burkina faso. That is how they lure people into trafficking and prostitution in the name of work abroad ,or education in Europe
grin
RomanceI Am So Low Class, I Didn't Go To University by Ilamina(op): 2:13pm On Dec 16, 2024
No wonder, most nairalanders look down on me
RomanceWhy Is Abuja Finer Than Lagos by Ilamina(op): 8:57am On Dec 16, 2024
smiley
RomanceRe: Ee by Ilamina(op):
to all a good night
alex haley's queen
Losing isaiah
The rich man's wife
RomanceLife Is So Hard by Ilamina(op): 3:52pm On Dec 15, 2024
cry cry

I have no choice but to pray
RomanceCatholics Can Do Praise And Worship More Than Protestants by Ilamina(op): 11:30am On Dec 15, 2024
Such a lovely church

So many fair girls
Because you know igbos like catholic church
RomanceWhy Are Ghanaian Girls So Nice by Ilamina(op): 10:01am On Dec 15, 2024
Even when you are fresh off the boat

They will still welcome you whole heartedly in their homes and lives
RomanceI Am Watching Harry Potter by Ilamina(op): 7:51am On Dec 15, 2024
Haters, Eat your hearts out
RomanceWhy Do Caribbeans Like Only East African Girls by Ilamina(op): 7:34am On Dec 15, 2024
They feel more in common with them than West Africa

Because they are considered beautiful like them

I think West Africans like sierra leonians have cool personalities

And Southern Africans are awesome with their big bums and being exposed to white people compared to other African countries
RomanceRe: Dstv Added Two New Channels For Christmas by Ilamina(op): 8:32pm On Dec 13, 2024
MondayOmoAdugbo:
Out here 👀 we can't even relate
why
RomanceDstv Added Two New Channels For Christmas by Ilamina(op): 7:10pm On Dec 13, 2024
It can't get better than this

It's not easy having the second class dstv

Now I wish I had the first class dstv
So many channels on the first class dstv


To be poor sucks
RomanceRe: Why do All Good Things Come To An End by Ilamina(op): 8:55am On Dec 13, 2024
Corrected my grammar, my bad for everyone
RomanceWhy do All Good Things Come To An End by Ilamina(op):
cry

Life is hard

Only God can control man
Not man control man
Nairaland GeneralRe: I Thought There Was Hope To Get The Bakassi Back From Cameroon by Ilamina(op): 7:06pm On Dec 12, 2024
Sirmwill:
So what's your stress
I want Bakassi back
Nairaland GeneralRe: I Thought There Was Hope To Get The Bakassi Back From Cameroon by Ilamina(op): 5:45pm On Dec 12, 2024
Sirmwill:
Is your family house there
no
Nairaland GeneralI Thought There Was Hope To Get The Bakassi Back From Cameroon by Ilamina(op): 4:41pm On Dec 12, 2024
Just realised there is no hope

Why is life so Unfair sometimes

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