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Jobs/VacanciesRe: FG: SURE-P Graduate Internship Scheme by IMABEN(m): 9:01am On Apr 01, 2016
Happy new month to us all....
Exiting after my March time sheet submission...
I hope those coming in new don't get experience delay in stipends payment...
Wishing us all the best this month has in Stock...
I benefitted from GIS.
I am moving on to a higher ground.... See us there when God wills it. Amen
Science/TechnologyRe: Happy Birthday, Albert Einstein!Things You Never Knew About The Scientist by IMABEN(m): 2:01pm On Mar 18, 2016
I am a science student and well orientated
TV/MoviesRe: The Vampire Diaries and The Originals Fan Page by IMABEN(m): 11:42am On Mar 07, 2016
Please a DOWNLOAD LINK for the Vampires diaries Season 7
TV/MoviesRe: The Vampire Diaries and The Originals Fan Page by IMABEN(m): 2:08pm On Mar 06, 2016
please i need a link so as to download the latest episodes of season seven for the vampires daireies
PoliticsRe: Kogi: Tribunal Admits Wada’s Expert Report, Dismisses APC, Inec’s Objection by IMABEN(m): 6:47pm On Mar 05, 2016
As e dey happen.... My state... My home.... Lugard made a mistake not making kogi capital n opted for Lagos
PoliticsRe: Nasir Zarummai, Sokoto Commissioner Is Dead (photos) by IMABEN(m): 9:23am On Mar 05, 2016
rest in peace... i knew him well,, a kind and gentle philantropist ... so young full of knowledge
ComputersRe: Post Your Computer (PC) Troubles Here. by IMABEN(m): 5:01pm On Feb 24, 2016
airsaylongcon:
Use KMSPICO
i tried that... but it is still requesting for product key
ComputersRe: Ubuntu Linux by IMABEN(m): 1:01pm On Feb 23, 2016
pls how do i get the product key for windows 8 pro build 9200... somebody please help me
ComputersRe: Post Your Computer (PC) Troubles Here. by IMABEN(m): 1:00pm On Feb 23, 2016
pls how do i get the product key for windows 8 pro build 9200... somebody please help me
ComputersRe: Windows 10 Problems And Solutions (official Microsoft Windows 10 links added) by IMABEN(m): 12:59pm On Feb 23, 2016
pls how do i get the product key for windows 8 pro build 9200... somebody please help me
ComputersRe: Is Simple Server Still Working by IMABEN(m): 12:56pm On Feb 23, 2016
pls how do i get the product key for windows 8 pro build 9200... somebody please help me
ComputersRe: Is Simple Server Still Working by IMABEN(m): 12:54pm On Feb 23, 2016
a kinda slow today ooo....dont know why....
Jobs/VacanciesRe: FG: SURE-P Graduate Internship Scheme by IMABEN(m): 6:20am On Feb 03, 2016
my exit date was altered after i logged on....
i was able to fill my time sheet for january...
my match date and employer still firm
Jobs/VacanciesRe: FG: SURE-P Graduate Internship Scheme by IMABEN(m): 2:37pm On Feb 02, 2016
.....wats the actual challenge....cos I cant sign into the gis site
na wa ooo... even password recovery aint functioning
Jobs/VacanciesRe: FG: SURE-P Graduate Internship Scheme by IMABEN(m): 12:50pm On Jan 01, 2016
Then UBA don hammer.... Cos since inception of GIS na dem be domicile account subscriber.... #105 monthly
Jobs/VacanciesRe: FG: SURE-P Graduate Internship Scheme by IMABEN(m): 12:33pm On Jan 01, 2016
Since na CBN pay... Were you guys charged #105 by UBA
Jobs/VacanciesRe: FG: SURE-P Graduate Internship Scheme by IMABEN(m): 10:11am On Jan 01, 2016
April Fool is by April 1st not January @Philchez
Jobs/VacanciesRe: FG: SURE-P Graduate Internship Scheme by IMABEN(m): 6:01pm On Dec 30, 2015
Away for a while.... Please don't be offended even some #Federal workers and #Security forces are yet to get salary since #October.
God help us all... Amen
Tweeting continues
PoliticsRe: Kogi Gubernatorial Elections – Live Updates #KogiDecides by IMABEN(m): 6:38pm On Nov 21, 2015
donphilopus:
Who's having the upper hand between Wada and Audu there?
Almost even... The differences not much
PoliticsRe: Kogi Gubernatorial Elections – Live Updates #KogiDecides by IMABEN(m): 3:59pm On Nov 21, 2015
Live in #Kabba the situation is calm.... No need to die for any politician as e dey happen
Jobs/VacanciesRe: FG: SURE-P Graduate Internship Scheme by IMABEN(m): 1:26pm On Nov 13, 2015
OrangeDream:
I bet u supplied me the beer.. Oni iranu
HaaaaHaaaa you are a tragedian
Jobs/VacanciesRe: FG: SURE-P Graduate Internship Scheme by IMABEN(m): 11:01am On Nov 13, 2015
OrangeDream:
Must you constitute yourself as a chronic liar here?
@OrangeDream I don't post comments often.... But u must be drunk when u replied my post
Jobs/VacanciesRe: FG: SURE-P Graduate Internship Scheme by IMABEN(m): 9:58am On Nov 13, 2015
The SureP site has been suspended.... May Day.... May Day
Jobs/VacanciesRe: FG: SURE-P Graduate Internship Scheme by IMABEN(m): 6:59pm On Oct 20, 2015
As in eeehh..... See as here busy
Jobs/VacanciesRe: FG: SURE-P Graduate Internship Scheme by IMABEN(m): 7:20pm On Oct 19, 2015
Please read this to help calm down NERVES...


MARRIED or NOT , YOU should READ THIS....

AS CURLED from a Blog..
So touching.....

…“When I got home that night as my wife served dinner, I held her hand and said, I’ve got something to tell you. She sat down and ate quietly.
Again I observed the hurt in her eyes....
Suddenly I didn’t know how to open my mouth. But I had to let her know what I was thinking. I want a divorce. I raised the topic calmly. She didn’t seem to be annoyed by my words, instead she asked me softly, why?
I avoided her question. This made her angry. She threw away the chopsticks and shouted at me, you are not a man! That night, we didn’t talk to each other.
She was weeping. I knew she wanted to find out what had happened to our marriage. But I could hardly give her a satisfactory answer; she had lost my heart to Jane. I didn’t love her anymore. I just pitied her!
With a deep sense of guilt, I drafted a divorce agreement which stated that she could own our house, our car, and 30% stake of my company.
She glanced at it and then tore it into pieces. The woman who had spent ten years of her life with me had become a stranger. I felt sorry for her wasted time, resources and energy but I could not take back what I had said for I loved Jane so dearly. Finally she cried loudly in front of me, which was what I had expected to see.
To me her cry was actually a kind of release. The idea of divorce which had obsessed me for several weeks seemed to be firmer and clearer now.
The next day, I came back home very late and found her writing something at the table. I didn’t have supper but went straight to sleep and fell asleep very fast because I was tired after an eventful day with Jane.
When I woke up, she was still there at the table writing. I just did not care so I turned over and was asleep again.
In the morning she presented her divorce conditions: she didn’t want anything from me, but needed a month’s notice before the divorce. She requested that in that one month we both struggle to live as normal a life as possible.
Her reasons were simple: our son had his exams in a month’s time and she didn’t want to disrupt him with our broken marriage.
This was agreeable to me. But she had something more, she asked me to recall how I had carried her into out bridal room on our wedding day. She requested that every day for the month’s duration I carry her out of our bedroom to the front door ever morning. I thought she was going crazy. Just to make our last days together bearable I accepted her odd request....
I told Jane about my wife’s divorce conditions. . She laughed loudly and thought it was absurd.
No matter what tricks she applies, she has to face the divorce, she said scornfully.
My wife and I hadn’t had any body contact since my divorce intention was explicitly expressed. So when I carried her out on the first day, we both appeared clumsy. Our son clapped behind us, daddy is holding mommy in his arms. His words brought me a sense of pain. From the bedroom to the sitting room, then to the door, I walked over ten meters with her in my arms. She closed her eyes and said softly; don’t tell our son about the divorce. I nodded, feeling somewhat upset. I put her down outside the door. She went to wait for the bus to work. I drove alone to the office.
On the second day, both of us acted much more easily. She leaned on my chest. I could smell the fragrance of her blouse.
I realized that I hadn’t looked at this woman carefully for a long time. I realized she was not young any more. There were fine wrinkles on her face, her hair was graying! Our marriage had taken its toll on her. For a minute I wondered what I had done to her.
On the fourth day, when I lifted her up, I felt a sense of intimacy returning. This was the woman who had given ten years of her life to me. On the fifth and sixth day, I realized that our sense of intimacy was growing again. I didn’t tell Jane about this.
It became easier to carry her as the month slipped by. Perhaps the everyday workout made me stronger.
She was choosing what to wear one morning. She tried on quite a few dresses but could not find a suitable one.
Then she sighed, all my dresses have grown bigger. I suddenly realized that she had grown so thin, that was the reason why I could carry her more easily.
Suddenly it hit me… she had buried so much pain and bitterness in her heart. Subconsciously I reached out and touched her head.
Our son came in at the moment and said,Dad, it’s time to carry mom out. To him, seeing his father carrying his mother out had become an essential part of his life.
My wife gestured to our son to come closer and hugged him tightly.
I turned my face away because I was afraid I might change my mind at this last minute. I then held her in my arms, walking from the bedroom, through the sitting room, to the hallway. Her hand surrounded my neck softly and naturally. I held her body tightly; it was just like our wedding day.
But her much lighter weight made me sad. On the last day, when I held her in my arms I could hardly move a step. Our son had gone to school. I held her tightly and said, I hadn’t noticed that our life lacked intimacy.
I drove to office…. jumped out of the car swiftly without locking the door. I was afraid any delay would make me change my mind…I walked upstairs. Jane opened the door and I said to her, Sorry, Jane, I do not want the divorce anymore.

She looked at me, astonished, and then touched my forehead. Do you have a fever? She said. I moved her hand off my head. Sorry, Jane, I said, I won’t divorce.
My marriage life was boring probably because she and I didn’t value the details of our lives, not because we didn’t love each other anymore. Now I realize that since I carried her into my home on our wedding day I am supposed to hold her until death do us apart. Jane seemed to suddenly wake up. She gave me a loud slap and then slammed the door and burst into tears. I walked downstairs and drove away. At the floral shop on the way,I ordered a bouquet of flowers for my wife. The salesgirl asked me what to write on the card. I smiled and wrote, I’ll carry you out every morning until death do us apart.
That evening I arrived home, flowers in my hands, a smile on my face, I run up stairs, only to find my wife in the bed.... -dead.
She had been fighting CANCER for months and I was so busy with Jane to even notice. She knew that she would die soon and she wanted to save me from the whatever negative reaction from our son, in case we push through with the divorce.— At least, in the eyes of our son—- I’m a loving husband….The small details of your lives are what really matter in a relationship. It is not the mansion, the car, property, the money in the bank. These create an environment conducive for happiness but cannot give happiness in themselves.

So find time to be your spouse’s friend and do those little things for each other that build intimacy. Do have a real happy marriage!.........
In 3 sentences what's ur view about this storyline.
Let's test our COMPREHENDO
Jobs/VacanciesRe: FG: SURE-P Graduate Internship Scheme by IMABEN(m): 5:47pm On Oct 19, 2015
I need the alert too abeg
Jobs/VacanciesRe: FG: SURE-P Graduate Internship Scheme by IMABEN(m): 8:00pm On Oct 16, 2015
he meant #Backlogs .... so no worries
Jobs/VacanciesRe: FG: SURE-P Graduate Internship Scheme by IMABEN(m): 7:23am On Oct 16, 2015
hope the allawee shows today.... that stipend is worth some packages
PoliticsRe: List Of 19 States Given Bailout As Released By CBN by IMABEN(m): 8:05pm On Sep 19, 2015
My state received the largest share....
Chaiii....
So the would secondary graduands by 2035 would meet n partake in the payments of the loan.... Na wa oo
PoliticsRe: Kogi APC Primaries.... Audu Declared Winner!! by IMABEN(m): 3:03pm On Aug 30, 2015
The state that links all the GEO political zones in the country... Was 24 on 27th August 2015.... Road network so bad..... Guly erosion dealing with the villagers.... Civil servants owed salaries and many more.... Na wa oo my home state KOGI STATE it will be GOD'S grace to put the state in shape.... Even the Prince from previous records..... has no regards for civil servants
CelebritiesRe: These Nigerian Celebrities Real Names Will Surprise You by IMABEN(m): 2:18pm On Aug 26, 2015
@skales is from Cameroon
Jobs/VacanciesRe: FG: SURE-P Graduate Internship Scheme by IMABEN(m): 3:31pm On Aug 18, 2015
Hands folded and legs crossed..... Awaiting mine

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