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clubone05: Different strokes for different folks girls givingme a hard time cus my stuff is too big.

what did u just say

boko-haram slap

rice

thank God........
The likers have stopped

original looks drag

abeg make them change the thread name to chatroom because all i see is talk and talk and more talk

AfricanApple: dat eye wey u take dey do gbeborun so eh, i go comot am for u

usheeee, face ya work

nah which work u give me self

dre11:
amebo

do the needful

AfricanApple: dat eye wey u take dey do gbeborun so eh, i go comot am for u

usheeee, face ya work

nah which work u give me self

no comment

BRAV0O: Klo

u for tell am to use the borrow me credit facility for that network........ say you go pay am when the two of una see

derrick333: to anibody,evrybody mayb ur frnds,no b d 1u go de shame2walker wit4street

mine friends or her friends

i don't know that ladies do give up on guys....










Because, what i knew is that...... ladies are always 'fed up' with guys
**singing when a woman is fed up with her man by R.kelly**

MISSYTOSIN: Well, aint Nobody do it better than a black Nigga .
I love Tall guys too, am like 5'8,love it wen ma man is taller than me. Not necessarily handsome, but presentable.

thats intresting.......
presentable to who.... if i may ask

farano: I see

with how many eyes

so, the OP see pit and she go throw way her self inside the pit......

All is well o

did she tell the boyfriend before hand...... or ots when she was leaving that she did tell the guy







because some guys have ego issues on that

OP na which network she dey use self make we know whether the things tooo small or just okay

Truckpusher: Long story.
Op dey fucck up, if na me I go commot pant jump enter the bathroom na that day their fantasy go clear

kia,

things they happen ooooo

ThoniaSlim: Oga you are even confusing yourself! How can he discourage the ex and she still came to the house? Please how do these two add up?

If that dude really discouraged his ex, she wouldn't even have the effrontery to go past the gate of his house! So please spare me all that yadi yadi yada.

since u believe am giving you a yadi yada story.....i rest my case.....
But, just know.......... some women don't understand the word 'NO'
and
she did not only come herself...... she came with an escort

ThoniaSlim: What do you mean by letting them know she owns the house? Is it her house? Is that how she wants to start a marriage?

It is not her job to keep them other ladies in check! The man should be able to do that! A man who truly loves and holds his woman in high regards, lets every other woman know she's his priority! If the tables were turned and it was her ex bf, I bet you the man would be crying blue murder! I guess cus its the woman, then that makes it ok! She's suppose to sit on her butt and happily take whatever crap the man throws at her! Anyway like I always say, guys dey look face before they pull such stunts!

A man would treat you the way you let him treat you. If you show him you've got no regards for yourself, then don't expect anything less!

pls do go and read what the OP said in her write -up
u will see that he discourage his ex to come and visit him...... she said on several occassion she wanted to come but he sail NO,
but, she now decide to come with her friend thesame day she was arround..... thats why i said she should have stayed back.... and let them know she owns the house, she owns the mans heart, she is in control

blank: @ OP, My opinion is that you should have stayed back and hosted his visitors. That is what the lady of the house does. No one said you should fight anyone. It might have been his game plan so that the ex will see you there and start understanding that he is off the market. Some guys don't know how to be blunt and you should have helped him. A woman stands by her husband through whatever.

That being said, you need to sit down and have a hard discussion with your beau. It is not enough to set the rules, they have to be followed or there will be consequences. Talk to him about his lack of respect and ask him to make up his mind if it is you he really wants. I hope you have a strong base cos i can see that you are going to need it to remain married to this kind of person.

spot on with the bolded point.....

ThoniaSlim: Some men sure do take the piss! And I think women allow it!

How can he allow his ex girlfriend he knows is interested in him that way to his house with you there?

That shows he has no respect neither does he hold you in high regards! That's a straight up red flag right there for me!

but, she could have stayed and let them know who owns the house now.....
And she should stop listen to negative hear-say and let her mind and the being in her direct her steps

OP u need to defend what you have and stop running away when any girl/lady comes to see your husband to be.....

U have your sixth sense that can show you the part to real realism about who ure spending your life with, who is going to be the father to your children, who is going to be the one your heart longs for, who is going to be the second person that will chase 'ten thousands with you'........ so use it and feel the space.


Lastly, know that you can't change a man just by a decree...... u change him just by making him see reasons why he suppose to change

he talks as if women are trash.....