I am a girl of 25 years. I hailed from Kumasi in Ghana but was born and brought up in Nigeria.. I am tired of nursing this pain in my heart. I think it is high time I poured it out. I lost my mum while I was barley eight months so I grew up with my dad and step mother in our one-room apartment here in Lagos. My dad remarried nine months after my Nigerian mum died; to enable...
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On her first s*x, she cries, she feels pain every month thereby loosing blood, most ladies suffer heartbreak but yet find one or two reasons to love again. She faces the challenge of making the right choice of husband but yet she settles with the one her heart chooses. She gets pregnant and carries a child for 9months with all the pain and kicking of a child, that...
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Fresh off her ‘twerkscapade’ at the recently held One Africa Music Fest in Brooklyn, New York, in a video footage that literally broke the internet… Nigerian internet, I mean, Tiwa...@ http://www.oleeverkingblog.com/2016/07/video-tiwa-savage-ft-wizkid-bad-teaser.html

A guy who was vexing with our superstar just because he beat up a guy. He came down to Davido Facebook page and pour out his mind, how he's going to...@ photos http://www.oleeverkingblog.com/2016/07/i-would-kill-you-if-i-see-you-fan-told.html

Is a gorgeous girl driving you crazy? Or maybe you
just want to make sure your next date goes well?
Whatever the situation, there are a few secrets you can
use to help a woman appreciate your sexy side.
Contrary to popular belief, Casanovas are not born any
more suave than the next guy, but hone their skill like
any other.

Method One of Three:
Setting the Stage

1
Make an amazing impression every time. First
impressions matter. Contrary to popular belief,
though, you don’t only get one first impression in
each relationship. Think of every time you see her,
talk to her, or otherwise interact with her after
being absent as a new first impression, and make it
a good one.
When you pick her up for a date, look
polished and pay her a dazzling compliment.
“You look stunning” usually works well.
When you pick up the phone, smile and say
“Hey, gorgeous.” She can’t see you smile, but
she’ll be able to hear it in your voice, trust
me.
When you text or IM her, don’t just fall back
on “hey” or “hi.” There’s no substance there.
Say something like, “I can’t stop thinking
about you” or “How’s my favorite girl in the
world tonight?”?”

2
Clean yourself up. You probably already know
this, but most women care a lot about
hygiene. Prevent it from even becoming a problem
by paying close attention to your cleanliness right
now. Don’t worry about spending all day primping
— an extra 5 or 10 minutes added to your usual
routine can make a world of difference. Start with
these:

3
Talk to her. Question: What’s the biggest
human sexual organ? Answer: The brain.
Before you do anything else, you have to help her
think that you’re someone she wants to have
seducing her. A lot of that perception will be
colored by what you talk about, so here’s a quick
primer:
Do talk about:
How amazing you think she is
Her interests
What she wants out of the future
What you want out of the future
Shared experiences or other things you
have in common
Do not talk about:
The old standbys: money, politics, and
religion (unless you know her very, very
well)
Other women
Poop jokes (should be obvious, but
seriously)
Why your life sucks and how it’s never
going to get better
Things that you know she finds offensive

Method Two of Three:
During a Date
1
Set the mood. If you can control the
environment at all, taking these little steps
will help the atmosphere seem more sexy and
intimate .
Keep the lighting dim. If you’re at home, use
soft lamps, or light some candles.
Manage the temperature. If it’s a little chilly,
you’ll have the opportunity to lend her your
jacket or have her snuggle up to you.

2
Touch her in small, sexy ways. Yes, you’ll
probably have to be the one to break the
touch barrier, but you can do it. It’s easier than it
seems. Here are a few suggestions for different
situations:
If you’re standing or walking, rest your hand
on the small of her back (where her spine
curves inward, just above her butt). Keep your
pressure light and gentle. This is a better
alternative to sloppily throwing your arm
around her shoulders.
If you’re sitting next to her, lightly rest your
hand on her knee for a few seconds. This is
best if you do it while you’re talking to her,
so both of you aren’t awkwardly watching you
touch her and move away.
3
Offer her a foot rub or shoulder rub. Most
people, let alone most women, won’t turn
down a free massage. If you’re in a casual setting
where this is possible, like sitting on the couch
watching a movie, go for it.
If you’re giving her a foot rub, focus on one
foot at a time. Cradle it in both hands, and
keep your movements slow while applying
medium pressure. If she closes her eyes or
sighs, you’re doing it right.
If you’re giving her a shoulder rub, resist the
temptation to immediately put your fingers
under her shirt, Instead, use your thumbs on
her bare neck while your other fingers rest on
her covered shoulders,

4
Let her come to you. Once you’ve broken the
touch barrier and shown her you’re interested,
it’s on her to do a little bit of the work. See if she
sits close to you, nudges you, or otherwise makes
excuses to touch you. If she does, you’re on the
right track. If not, try revisiting the previous steps
once or twice and see if that warms her up.

5
Give her a mind-blowing kiss . If all of her
signals so far have been positive, go in for the
kiss . Amp up your usual technique by:
Keeping it light and slow at first. Gently graze
your lips over hers on the first pass, and put
your tongue away for the first few kisses.
Doing the right things with your hands. You
could rest them lightly in the curves of her
waist, put them on her shoulders, or tangle
them up in her hair and put them on the back
of her head. All three are good.
Knowing when to transition to French kissing .
Start by lightly running your tongue over her
bottom lip. If she opens her mouth more, go
in. If not, save it for another time.

Method Three of Three:
Making Out and Beyond
1
Focus on her erogenous zones. Erogenous
zones are simply areas on the body where
there are a lot of nerve endings, making them more
sensitive. Focusing your attention on them can
help you get more mileage out of a make-out. Start
out with light touches, and move on to light kisses
if you think it’s time [1]:
Throat, neck, jaw and collarbones
Ears
The inside of her arms
Wrists
Palms
Abdomen
Thighs (especially inner thighs)
Feet and toes
Lower back
Obvious areas: buttocks, breasts, and genitals...... read more @ https://relationshipklinic./2015/06/24/how-to-seduce-a-lady-100-guarantee/comment-page-1/#comment-9

WAS THIS HELPFUL

HungerBAD:
what?

yea

A female shared it and I decided to share here..
I have been married to my hubby for 8 years and we are
blessed with 4 boys which I had vaginally. After my last
boy, my marriage went from bad to worse, as in, getting
my hubby’s attention over the years has been very
difficult. To have sex with him is even on ‘appointment’
basis. The rate at which my marriage was going, I knew
that if I didn’t do something about it, it would move from
worse to worst.
I sought the advice of one of my very close friends and
she told me what to do. As funny as this sounds, it was
working very well and I don’t want what I am doing to
end.

I got a new phone and sim card, then opened new
accounts on all the social media, putting all my best body
parts as the display/profile picture, especially on
facebook, whatsapp and bbm. I then sent a friend request
to my husband. The silly man did not waste any time in
accepting my requests. At first, he played hard to get but I
still relented. Because my identity is not revealed to him, I
went back to being the way I used to be with him that
made him fall in love with me. I flirted with him badly, and
he keeps falling more and more.

you won’t believe I send pictures of my p&%**y to
him every morning and if you see how excited he gets.
Can you imagine, he does not recognize ‘it’! The
relationship has been going on strong for 6 months. In
that 6 months, if you know how much he has sent to me.
He has been begging to see my face, but I know that if I
try that…the relationship will be over.
Back as his wife, his attention to me has greatly waned
but he has been very polite and somewhat ‘nice’. He now
locks his phone, as if…

I would rather have my hubby as a boyfriend than a
husband. What do you think?
Should I continue or should I stop?

Source : https://relationshipklinic./2015/06/24/must-read-18-my-husband-is-my-boyfriend-on-facebook-whatsapp-bbm-and-he-does-not-know-it/

lolx

There I was burdened by the weight of the gold, wrapped in an expensive creation of a designer, sitting on a bed decorated with rose petals. Roses are my favourite but at that moment I was almost allergic to them. I was sad about leaving my home, I was sad about leaving my family and I was scared. Scared about the new life I was going to lead, the changes my life would be going through but there was one thing giving me nightmares for a month… that was the thing escalating my heart rate most.​
Arranged marriages are sort of a tricky affair. They are a gamble that both the groom and bride play, which either results in new love stories or has a devastating effect on their lives. I was about to find out which way my marriage would head.
He came inside. With every step bringing him closer to me, my heart clenched tighter with fear. I tried not to look up and assumed that he was scanning every curve of my body, fantasizing about every part and feeling proud of his latest possession. “Rema,” he called, in a rather nervous tone. I looked up to realize that he was as nervous as me. He had warmth on his face and not the beastly lust that I was forced to believe he would have. Wasn’t I officially his? I thought he was ready to pounce on me.
I wondered if this was going to be different. My biggest fear, my first night, the night I was going to share a bed with a person I was not in love with, whom I had just met five times and skyped with twice or thrice a week for two months. That was all the connection we had developed. Oh yes, we did like each other’s Facebook pictures as well, if that makes a difference.
My maasi had found this match for me. He lived in Australia, while his parents lived in India and were part of some social group my maasi had been an old member of. I was introduced to him during his short visit to India. We met, we spoke for a little while, our parents liked us and each other’s families. We were soon bonding over the samosas, so yes it was ‘Mubarak ho’ time for our families.
I said yes but I knew I was not attracted to him. I wasn’t pressurized by my parents, but I said yes because I had no grounds to reject him. “Love takes time, and that is what I have lived half my life believing in,” mom had said. Maybe, he was the one.

But then my friends who are married warned me of these shy and quiet guys, because they are supposed to be more dangerous on the first night. “You’ll wonder why you can’t forget things more easily,” they said. They used the word “animal”. That’s what he would become on the first night. He wouldn’t care about emotions at all. Why not just conquer the latest possession? Men fantasize the first night since the time they get engaged. They make it a point to make their wife agree to whatever they command. All their sexual fantasies that were frustrating them meet reality and the wife is left shaken to tears. That newly wed wife is now an unsuspecting toy. I asked if one could avoid the first night due to the tiredness and emotional outbursts. They laughed, “The guy doesn’t care, you will be his property then! But don’t worry you will gradually learn to deal with it.”
I regretted that conversion because it scared me to death. Marriage suddenly became from being a fairy- tale to the worst nightmare anyone could have.
I didn’t want to be tagged as someone’s property. No that is not what I had imagined my life to be. I wasn’t a virgin bride, neither was he. We had discussed it over skype. He knew my history and I was aware of his. But trust me when he was approaching me that night, I was more scared than a virgin could ever be. I liked the idea of making love but then it has to have love in it, doesn’t it?
I don’t know how most men manage to be harsh enough to treat their bride like slaves on the first night. The women are made to do things they don’t want, and that is what scared me. I never understood the big hype around MouthAction. I don’t like taking it and I don’t like giving it. For me, it feels really disrespectful. I had sworn to myself that I would never do such things.
I don’t judge people who have such desires but for myself? I would hate myself for doing it but I was told I will have to do it whether I want to or not.

He came and sat next to me. He asked me get comfortable and do away with these extra layers that I was embroidered with. I sensed concern but it was overridden by what my friends and relatives had fed me with. I changed and came to him. Soon I was saw my worries fading away as he rubbished all my negative thoughts. “Don’t you think arranged marriages are funny?” he asked and I smiled with a sigh of relief.
Soon we were both engrossed in a conversation with fun and laughter. He told me I could sleep if I wanted to as he was a night person and was used to sleeping late. I didn’t because I was enjoying my first night. We discussed everything we wanted to. He made me comfortable by saying first nights don’t usually have to be what is shown in the movies. We would definitely take time so I didn’t worry. It was as if he was reading my mind.
He made me be at ease and open up like no one ever had. I can’t still believe that I said it to him on the first night. I am not open to blowjobs, I resent it because it is disgraceful, and that is my personal opinion. He was rather shocked to hear it from me but then he laughed hard.
“It is not my sex life, it is ours. There might be things you are not comfortable doing and similarly there are things I wouldn’t like. We will explore it together and set our own guidelines. Guys get aroused when girls are enjoying it too, I would never be happy making you do something that I know you don’t like. Sex is complex because people make it look like that, it is different for different people. I assure you it will be different for us, just the way we like it and not what others do or have done in the past,” he said.

I think those words were enough for me to be left cupid-struck, because the man in front of me, my husband had made all my fears disappear in the first night itself. He lived up to the vows and that made me feel something for him. I was glad it was not going to be his journey but ours together.
We didn’t have sex on the first night but we did the night after that because we both wanted to. Mine wasn’t a love story every girl had dreamt about but the man I am married to for four years now has never let those first night fears come back to me. I thank my maasi every time I meet her. My husband changed so much for me that night, he made me grow as a person and rise above the judgemental attitude we inherit from the society. I’m not saying that it is pleasant for everybody. I’m just saying that it doesn’t have to be as bad. My husband and I discovered the key to communication that night. It was in a smile
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source: https://relationshipklinic./2016/07/01/my-first-night-with-him-deep-confession/

A teacher in LAGOS admitted to having a sexual
relationship with a student, saying that he couldn’t control himself
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Freaknasty:
Hello,

I am looking for a lady I can take care of financially, sort of like a friend with benefits. You scratch my back, and I scratch yours.....


She should be between 20-30 and be living in Lagos
She should also be good looking and a fun person.

I am quiet and self employed

You can reach me on 08028052100 (whatsapp or SMS)

i could help you.
i need some of your info

full gist.... https://relationshipklinic./2016/06/20/deep-confession-my-neighbours-loud-sex-wont-let-me-sleep-at-nigh/

Please forgive me if you feel offended after reading this piece but I can’t hide it again. Problem shared is problem solved, so goes a popular saying.read more... /p6mVfk-6K

full story https://relationshipklinic./2016/06/20/how-my-father-disvirgined-raped-me-at-will-14-year-old-girl/

A must read ..... How my father disvirgined, raped me at will – 14-year-old girl

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FlySly05:
You sha like to ruin my Fast abi. God pass you.

no vex bro

Flexherbal:
Such is not allowed in Nigeria.

wetin concern court

Kevin was the first editorial assistant I was allowed to hire. He was twenty-three; I was just twenty-nine. I interviewed six candidates, but never thought for a minute that I was going to hire anyone else.

In his suit, he looked like a college lacrosse captain dressing up as a business man for Halloween. You know how, when you first really have a crush on someone, it's hard to tell if they're a really great person, or if you just want to Bleep them? That's why everyone should have to interview with a bag over their head — if someone tells you they can be completely divorce talent from looks and charm, they're lying.

After that, things progressed like clockwork. I assigned him a desk near mine so I could look at the side of his head when I got bored. On Friday, I asked him out for a drink with a couple of co-workers, "to celebrate your first week." No one else stayed longer than an hour.

As we sat, I realized I wanted to figure out if he was into me, or just being nice to his boss after his first week of work. At ten, I looked at my watch and said, "Wow, it's late. Do you want to get one more, or head out?” so he’d have a polite out. He said, "Let's get one more." Again, hard to tell. We were talking about work projects, and he was obviously an eager, ambitious kid.

At eleven, we walked out, I followed him to his car, and then, surprising even myself, pushed him up against the door and kissed him. He kissed back. We went back to my house, and had very fun first-time sex.

While he was blowing me up against the wall of my bedroom, I thought, "What a suck up," and almost laughed aloud.

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The Federal Capital Territory, FCT, Abuja Police Command on Wednesday arraigned one Vincent Chikwukume and Nnandi Ujunwa before an Abuja Grade 1 Area Court for allegedly having sexual intercourse in a public place. According to the prosecutor, A.Z. Dalhatu, policemen on routine surveillance of Abuja at Aminu Kano Crescent, Wuse II at 12:45 a.m. on Tuesday caught the accused...http://www.jamolon.com/2016/06/two-docked-for-having-sex-in-public.html

galadima77:


Ok whisper am small

lmao

Jaycool18:
Probably..




















The groom has bad breath...

lmao true

ucheHapers:
This early morning...?

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He took his sweet time with me.
He soaped my body and got to know me, and I gasped as he rubbed bubbles all over my rounded breasts. He turned me around slowly and took a few moments to admire my ass in silence.

“Damn,” he said under his breath. His dick was pressed against my thigh and he used the washcloth to drip bubbles down my back. He licked my earlobes and suck the back of my neck as I moaned into the darkness and pressed my hand to mu pussy. Juice leaked from me immediately, and I reached back and offered hum my fingers which he licked one by one.

I turned around and kissed him, tasting myself in his mouth and he slid two fingers inside of me as he sucked gently on my tongue. Then he left my lips and bent slightly.

He got to licking on my breasts like they werelipops. My pussy was on fire. I grabbed his dick and started stroking him, faster and faster. He took it as long as he could then he moved my hands and cupped my ass, guiding he head of his dick into my opening and sliding into me with one single stroke.

He pushed as deep as he could go, like he wanted it to come out of my throat, as if ......http://www.jamolon.com/2016/06/bathroom-experience.html

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A mild drama ensued during a wedding ceremony in Ghana after a bride angrily refused to seal her marriage at the alter with a kiss from the groom.

The lady was visibly angry throughout the wedding -turned away her face when man made a move to kiss her ahead their marriage pronouncement.

Not on did she remove her face but also pus him away from her while still in an an mood.

The whole church bursted into laugh including the man who smiled sheepi to cover the embarrassment. The lady currently trending online now as people are trying to fathom what will make a lady do that to her man on such a special day.

SEe Photos @ http://www.jamolon.com/2016/06/drama-as-bride-refuses-to-kiss-groom.html

My daughter Anna had boyfriends regularly and they were all quite the same. They were young, awkward teenage boys who were overjoyed they had a girlfriend. I met Anna's 19-year-old boyfriend, Lukas, for the first time at a small party she had for her 17th birthday. Lukas was absolutely gorgeous: tall, tanned, green eyes, broad shoulders and ruffled blonde hair. He came up... Continue here http://www.jamolon.com/2016/06/i-had-sx-with-my-daughters-boyfriend-up.html