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222Martins:
I have been in your situation before and i must tell you this: Trust your instinct. I have seen a lot in the hands of these so called Rev. Fathers. Hmmmmm make i no talk, but guy, one thing is for sure: Most priests like to keep and groom young girls, even sponsor them in school and take care of their need; with the ultimate aim of...............**Use your tongue to count your teeth**. I am talking from experience.

Thanks brah

RaggedyAnn:
This reverend father is probably telling himself one thing: that he's looking after this young girl's interest. But he'll end up achieving something else. There's nothing wrong with playing the role he's set out to play in her life. God knows, an impressionable girl needs all the guidance she can get, with all these predators around. He could advise her on how to behave and all, but to ask for such details as the intimate things you do borders on perversion (in my opinion). He's still a man after all. Is he getting off on that kind of talk?

And then there's you girlfriend. You can't deny that a man who cannot be had presents a certain kind of allure.

You should try getting close to this reverend, if the girl is that important to you. Give him the opportunity to feel you out, so that he's got no reasons to doubt your intentions towards his ward. And you can size him up as well, see if he's harboring unhealthy desires.

Thank you sir

feelgoodInc:
it's a very good thing for a girl to be closer to her father, it just means she doesn't have any "daddy issues" so any man that wants her will have to do more than her father did in other to get her, which is almost always hard. OP I'm sure you fit never blast sef.

but if she doesn't have a relationship with her Dad then that will be a problem but in your case, I believe the Reverend father has replaced her Dad or is her God father now.

and only him can decide if you're the best person for her, it's complicated. And just as the mother always knows who's the bad girl by just looking at the woman (gold digger) who's about to marry her Son, the Reverend father will see through any pretense you put up, just as a Father sees through that man about to marry his daughter.
if you don't believe you're the guy don't visit the Reverend. Simple.

Thank you

Papiikush and Syphax


One love pls...! Stop exchanging words plss.

ikaboy:
Good she is still a virgin. But I can tell u that d Rev. Is jealous that you will likely peruse before him. Tell her to dissociate from that Fr. ASAP. They are very jealous set of human being. Am a confirmed Catholic but I know this few bad eggs very well and dre modus operadi

Ok thanks for your advise.!

Syphax:
OP, what's wrong with what the Rev Father is doing? It seems like you are afraid that he will convince the girl no to sin with you.

He told her not to go into a relationship. Is being in a relationship now a sin??

SirMichael1:
Did your lady tell you she's is a virgin before you got into a relationship? If yes, did you deflower her?

She's still a Virgin.

CROWNWEALTH019:
Father get GBOLA??

What's Gbola??

Hello nairalanders... I want to share this issue that has been bothering me for almost a month now. I won't bore you with much talk and please ignore my grammatical blunders.

I have this young pretty and luscious damsel whom I love so much. We have been dating for a year and some months now. She just clocked 19years. Tho the journey has been kinda sweet and rough, we are still going strong. By God's grace she's the one I want to marry.

There is this revered father who is her friend and I am not too comfortable with it. He was the assistant priest in her church before he was transferred recently. This her revered father still chat with her everyday on whatsapp. They are so close that she shares everything about herself to him. Recently she told him that she's in a relationship but the revered father asked him why. The man is trying to virus my girl friend telling her to abstain from our relationship that she's too young. Sometimes he ask her if we have kissed, romance or if she have visit my house. He tells her all sort of rubbish I dunno. It's not as if I am suspecting the revered father but I don't just feel comfortable with the way he chat with my girlfriend.. I dunno if I should stop her from chatting with him...The whole thing is tiring. I need advise pls.. No insults pls...