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My dad has been sick for close to eight years now and for the last two years have been the one taking care of him at least a month I spend close to 100,000 why some months more, while my mom is indebted to one woman about 3 million naira but I've paid 2.5 million remaining 500,000.


I'm not complaining, business is ok and everything is going fine but sometimes it looks tiring.

maasoap:
First lie! No pressure on any Nigerian young man to get marry at his early 20s

He's just dishing out wrong advice, what can be more prideful than watching your children graduate from the University in your late 40s and early 50s?

Nnamdipapa:
Men that married later tend to have fewer kids compared to marrying ear’y so reducing chances of raising lots of kids and children are life-long responsibilities so decision to have them should be taken seriously with utmost clarity of mind.
Had my first child at 24 and then, my prinary concern was sex and not the future of the children. I had my second kid a year later and the third. Daughter finished high school diploma exam last month and I sm planning for university and career in the future. Sane goes for others.

You should read your topic very well and take your time to read your advice and reply. The greatest mistake any man can make is to father children in their early forties. Like you are in your sixties and your first child is barely 20 are you serious mr man?. Nothing beats early marriage blessed with children.

SmartPolician:
Nigerian government should study and learn from Pastor David Oyedepo now that he's still alive. You will never understand the impact the man is making in this country until you visit Canaan Land in Ota.

I cannot believe that Igbinedion University and Madonna University, which were the first set of private universities in Nigeria, watched Covenant University, which was founded nearly a decade after them, become the highest-ranking university in Nigeria.

The tithe and offering are a good source of financial support to both university-owned by the bishop Oyedepo you can never ignore that and that is the backbone of both universities. Have you ever heard or read about Landmark or Covenant University inviting politicians to come and pledge support for a project No it will never happen and you compare that to Madonna University which does not have such support. You won't blame them they are just moving on their own pace

elyte89:
He’s not playing God but stating d obvious fact except if u re just watching ball ..d same scenario is like expecting Tanzania 🇹🇿 to win the upcoming afcon…nobody will ever predict that.

You and Charles should just take a chill pill and rest, in this life go where you are loved that's the most important thing. I don't see that Galatasaray team leaving in the group stage of the Champions League if they can avoid injury quarter final should be their target anything else is an addition.

Blitzking:
Got my first kid at 33yrs..married at 30 by the time I am 53 my first son will be 20yrs

That is how it's supposed to be.

Goke7:
Why my mind dey think say some of these donations resemble bride price

I think you are not far from the truth, I can see Iwobi's name there; last year Alozie openly declared that she had a crush on Iwobi.

yinkeys:
Tinubu is rich in billions of $, whether it’s Lagos money or not we don’t know lol
That $3 million is nothing to him o
He may pay it
Na soldiers wey dey war front with wife and children I Dey pity sef
Soldiers wey no get complete equipments lol
To serve Nigeria as a footballer better pass to be soldier
True talk

Tinubu should just collect the account numbers of the girls and send the money to them directly so that what is happening in the military will not repeat itself in our sport.

Just like you pointed out the soldier on the battlefield lacking battle equipment is not the fault of the government entirely but on those top-ranking officials. Who uses public funds allocated for equipment for personal gain? And you can tell from time to time that the more we encounter insecurity the more the government puts more resources into the military and still yet we can't find a solution.

Shawarmagirl:
Will Tinubu accept Nigerians challenge to probe Wike land grabbing? The answer is NO.

Tinubu will not, he will wait until Ameachi becomes his opponent in the ballot box and use it to score political gain.

lovewins:
Just in:

President Bola Tinubu has announced a cash reward of $100,000 to each Super Falcons player who represented Nigeria at the just concluded 2025 WAFCON tournament in Morocco.

In addition, each player will also get a three-bedroom apartment at the Renewed Hope Housing estate in Abuja, and they will also be conferred with National Awards, receiving an OON (Order of the Officer of the Niger).

This figure seems outrageous but if true I'm very happy for the girls. I however think focus should be on development and not gestures like these that ultimately adds nothing to our growth.

I though you posted this on the super Eagles thread you still brought it here. So you want ten to twenty years time you be hearing I played for the super falcon now am ill government don't want to support me, I don't even have place to stay. It seems like you are a failed student of history.

Kog45:
Oga let's celebrate our winning than Rasheedat vs Esther debate.....Esther Okoronkwo for sure is a future Africa best...I watched most of the matches and I want to tell you Esther came into the party when we needed her most, Rasheedat all in all was massive throughout but my thumb up goes to Esther Okoronkwo

Esther Okoronkwo reminds me of Danielle of Brazil I don't know if she is still active.

Samueltemi337:
They probably gave Ajibade because she won more woman of the match

You may be right but Okorokwo is more influential in games than Ajibade. There are all our players so congrats to both of them.

TechAI:
And you are entitled to your opinion.

They is nothing wrong in wifing a 20 years old, they are more fertile and easily get pregnant. Those matured ladies comes with their own baggage. What is more beautiful than watch young girl to become a full woman you will forever cherish her.

Factcheck0001:
I witnessed an event live n direct n was a direct witness n u are telling me u read somewhere?

Please did u also read that the thugs fought at garages in oyo state then n students were all forced to trek to their various homes simply because they want to install their own boys to do dirty jobs.

Many of u kids doesn't deserve to b argued with, I am telling u events I saw live n direct n watched on TV n u are telling me u read it when it could b written by a bias writer.

Let's even believe I was lieing, y do u think people were mocking obj when ladoja was crowned olubadan of Ibadan?

It's because he doesn't have option now, once he comes to Ibadan he must prostrate to the man he removed with thugs.

All these kids self

you are right, I've seen the picture where OBJ portrayed for the olu of ibadan but it's facial expression shows otherwise.

motymop:
This country is poor ooh

150 long truck vehicles for logistics for the population of 20 million people

I don't trust anything cng, especially with our low maintenance mentality.

Appreciate and move on, the private sector is there to support. If the government is doing everything you and your kind will still criticize

unscripted:
and they draw england for world cup ?

And almost beat Portugal, Zambia that we wallop 5 zero beat Germany 3 two.

QuinModah:
Here's the latest stats for Nigeria and South Africa in the ongoing WAFCON 2025:

Nigeria's Stats
- Goals Scored: Nigeria has scored 9 goals so far, showcasing their strong offense.
- Goals Conceded: Remarkably, Nigeria remains the only team yet to concede a goal at the tournament, boasting a clean slate.
- Wins: Nigeria has won all its matches so far, including a thrilling 5-0 victory over Zambia in the quarterfinals.
- Key Players: Rasheedat Ajibade, Asisat Oshoala, and Chiamaka Nnadozie are leading the charge for Nigeria.

South Africa's Stats
- Goals Scored: South Africa has scored 9 goals, matching Morocco as the highest-scoring team.
- Goals Conceded: South Africa has conceded 2 goals so far.
- Wins: South Africa won their opening match 2-0 against Ghana.
- Key Players: Linda Motlhalo and Jermaine Seoposenwe have been instrumental in South Africa's campaign .

Both teams are strong contenders for the title, with Nigeria aiming for their 10th WAFCON win.

Morocco and South Africa is the highest scoring side with 9 goals each in the tournament while Nigeria with same goals scored and not conceded any is not a high scoring side keep telling lies to yourself.

elyte89:
Na still Hausa league …will be facing oturuspor ,akapaspor ,Cyrikspor every weekend 😀😀😀😀,if dem like make dem buy Ronaldo and messi join

PSG say hi

asfrank:
Shame to those who were expecting to see Buhari's Body coming through the Cargo section of the Airplane.
Buhari gave his best while serving his country, and he has been honored even in death. more is waiting to come after this, Children of hate should get ready to complain as usual.

Gen. M Buhari, you fought, you won, now you rest ...

The body of the late Muhammadu Buhari, draped in the Nigerian flag, is being brought down from the Nigerian Air Force aircraft by officials of the Nigerian Military. #CTVTweets#Buhari#BuharisBurial pic.twitter.com/u5WZKHPTeh

— Channels Television (@channelstv) July 15, 2025

You are here defending rubbish, the fake drugs and dilapidated hospitals he refuses to upgrade are what me and you, and our children will use.

Will the world end if Buhari builds a befitting world-class hospital in Daura, you are suffering from a sickness and you know deep down as a president millions of people are still suffering from that sickness and you did not deem it fit to build a hospital that can find solution to it rather you ran to London died there what a foolish ex president.

franchasofficia:
You are completely wrong my brother.


Age comes with wisdom.

The things I desired when I was 24yrs, when I look back and remember them, I just laugh because they are ridiculous. Those are some of the things age brings....it makes you wiser, calmer, more coordinated, more calculated and more valuable in all ramifications, except some few who never grow up as they grow older; they are the few exceptions.


The best age range to marry a Nigerian lady (emphasis on Nigerian) is 28yrs - 43yrs. At this age, most of them have become more reasonable in their thinking and they have also become more realistic with life based on either their own life experiences in relationships or from watching and reading about other people's relationships. Not all of them have been exhausted like you think.

From 30yrs and above, most Nigerian ladies become more financially responsible, reasonable and valuable to their men in relationship and marriage....unlike the ones below 26yrs. There are also exception of ladies below 26yrs who are wonderful in character, wisdom and understanding, but they are not always many.....and its due to how men chase them around during those age range.


If you like go and marry a girl of 22 years, we will be here to read your marital ordeals and also offer you valuable advice.


Remember, I am talking as a happily married man of over 6 years.....so learn from me....I also have too many friends with similar experiences who also attest to the fact that older ladies are better for life commitment and marriage.


Remember, I am not encouraging boys of 25yrs to go and marry ladies of 35 or 40yrs...I am talking about the best age range to wife a Nigerian lady; 28 - 43yrs based on my own personal findings and opinion anyway

Well! Everybody is entitled to his/her opinion, my wife was barely 21 when I married her and I think that is the right age to wife a lady.
Our society now is dominated by so many social vices and prostitution and wanting to belong is one two of many to list, wifing a lady at 28 only God knows his body count and how expose she is.

If any tribe will not celebrate buhari I think the igbos should, building that second niger bridge is one of the biggest achievement by any past president.

Demigod22:
To be honest, I have similar relationship with my elder brother. He tells me everything, and he takes my advice on everything. Anytime they have misunderstanding, his wife will call me immediately to explain to me, I will ensure they settle immediately.

The bond is so crazy that my brother tells me about his sex life with girls before he married, who is good in bed or bad. I open up to him about my relationship also.

When he makes money, I will be the first to know, if he wants to change his car, I will be the first to know, when he gets a girl pregnant, I will be the first to know. His wife once told me jokingly that I am the number person her husband loves so she doesn't joke with me.

Back to your feelings, you can politely tell her. Start a casual conversation with her by asking her who can she tell all her secrets without fear of being snitched on? You will tell her that for you, she is the one, then when she says her sister, tell her why she shouldn't discuss everything with her sister especially her relationship with you because you guys are a team.

Only Hod knows how long you have been married, I like your last paragraph.

Napoleon55:
I thought u are a transfer market guru,wouldn't u know?

Lol una no go kill person .

cenaman:
Why can't they leave Nigeria out of their discussion?

Must they drag Nigeria to every of their discussion?

if they don't tag Nigeria, how will the topic trend?

komekn:
I said this several seasons ago and l reiterate none of our current CB's are as good as Tosin it's very simple.

Anybody talking about Saka lookalike Tyrique George he is both Ghanian and Nigerian descent.

We know he's very good and better than all our defenders, since he refuses to play for Nigeria we should be crying and begging him so that he can use us to catch Cruise just like Tammy Abraham.

There was a time when we were lacking quality midfielders and I think Safarigirl made this comment she was like " well if they agree to play for us fine if they decide otherwise we move" Her comment was born out of continuous snubbing from Eberechi Eze, Micheal olise and one other guy I can't recall his name, but see where we are today we have move pass that stage, you may argue that the current midfielders we have are not quality enough but you can also give them credit for taking us to the last afcon final.

teeshet:
The same nnadozie that conceded six including a howler against Spain at last years Olympics. Or the same nnadozie that gifted the Matildas the opening goal in Australia cos she can't launch a goal kick very well. Continue supporting mediocrity

Oga, that lady is very good not just good but very good, those saves he made to keep Nigeria in the game are not easy saves moreover good goalkeeper do concede or is there any world-class goalkeeper who doesn't concede goals.

This OP I just feel your pain, You just remind me of the conversation I had with my dad, I already have two houses I told him this one you are staying on rent why don't you look for land in the village so that we can buy even a plot and build like two bedroom flat, you are approaching 70 and still living on rent his response is that building of house is a waste of resource and money, I told him he's growing old and is embarrassing staying on rent. I thought I persuaded him I never knew I was wasting my time. He lied to me that he had seen the land and that I should send money I sent to him he requested three trips of sand I sent to him. If I ask him about the sand and if they have tipped it he will just laugh.


Some people just came to this world to watch television they did not come to make any impact.

No country from Africa reacted because Africans are nothing in the scheme of things in the world.

kpankpangolo:
How much is a fake tooth that he can't afford?

At 85, he should go an implant fake tooth to please you.

Image123:
Two different situations. Declare a state of emergency when the state government is not out of options. Na you go still cry foul.
BTW, Rivers State is greater than NW,NC,NE, and SE. Don't play.

So money is now more important than more than 200 people who have lost their lives. Are you normal at all.

This year alone more than four hundred people gave died in benue state alone and you are here considering which state produces more VAT for the FG