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ITS A CRIMSON RED FLAG AND YOU CAN SEEN IT CLEARLY. TRUST ME, ITS ONLY GOING TO GET WORSE IN MARRIAGE because NOTHING EVER GETS BETTER IN MARRIAGE.

SO MAKE THE CALL NOW AND BE HAPPY TOMORROW.

CYBERWEAVER:
I am currently planning to get married. I’ve been with my babe for about a year now.

After several consultations, we agreed on a wedding budget of about 3 million Naira.

But I keep asking myself one very honest question: how do I commit that kind of money to someone who hasn’t really shown the same level of effort back, even in something as small as 5k, despite earning a little?


Asin, I never smell her 5k since we started dating.


At this point, it’s not even about the money anymore. It’s about intention, balance, and simple acts of kindness.

Even on my birthday, I didn’t receive a gift from her, and that stayed with me more than I expected.

I’ve never had to deliberately test her money, because genuine care and small acts of giving usually show themselves naturally over time.

To be clear, I’ve been carrying most of the financial weight in this relationship, and there’s hardly anything tangible she has ever done for herself without at least my 50% contribution since we met.

I don’t complain, but I also don’t want to ignore what I’m seeing.

As a responsible man, I’m trying to be honest with myself before I take a step I can’t easily undo.

So I want to ask people who are married or have real experience: if I go ahead and marry in a relationship where this is the current dynamic, what should I realistically expect in marriage?

I’m not trying to assume the worst, but I also believe experience speaks louder than hope.

Thank goodness she's not an Igbo person.

Some children of perdition would have dragged the whole Igbo race into it and started burning and destroying Igbo investments.

They should go to Warri and fight her, she has said what she said. DEAL WITH IT !!!

MOST MUSLIMS ARE HYPOCRITES. YOUR FATHER OR IS IT YOUR GRAND FATHER IS IN IRAN ENFORCING SHARI'A LAW ON PEOPLE MEANWHILE THEIR CHILDREN AND RELATIVES ARE IN EUROPE AND AMERICA LIVING A FREE AND QUALITY LIFE. ALL THE CHILDREN AND RELATIVES OF MUSLIMS WHO SUPPORT SHARI'A AND THE OPPRESSION OF PEOPLE SHOULD BE DEPORTED BACK TO THEIR COUNTRIES, SO THEY CAN FULLY PRACTISE WHAT THEY PREACH.

THIS IS WHAT YOU GET WHEN YOU ALLOW FOLKS FROM THE GUTTER LIKE WIKE INTO LEADERSHIP POSITIONS. PEOPLE LIKE HIM HAVE NO BUSINESS LEADING PEOPLE AND DETERMINING THE FUTURE OF GOOD PEOPLE.
ROTIMI AMAECHI IN THE PAST HAS TOLD US THAT WIKE IS A KILLERS AND THAT HE HAS KILLED SOMEONE AND CUT HIS PRIVATE PART.
WE THOUGHT IT WAS POLITICS , NOW ITS MANIFESTING. THOSE THAT LIVE IN RIVERS STATE KNOWS THAT THE MAN IS A ......

BY EVERY MEANS POSSIBLE THE CURRENT GOVERNMENT MUST BE FORCED OUT OF OFFICE. THEY ARE THE MOST USELESS AND INCOMPETENT ADMINISTRATION EVER. MAKING PMB LOOK LIKE A GENIUS.

THIRD TERM AGENDA LOADING.....

No. 6 really cracked me up... Ahahahahah ! That's why I call most of them in that category "angry birds"

FOLLOW THESE SM PEOPLE AT UR OWN RISK. PROLLY THE CARS AND THE HOUSES WERE NEVER HERS. THEY LIVE A LIE FOR A LIFESTYLE.

AT EVERY TURN THEY RE CHASING CLOUT AND MAKING CONTENT.

THATS HOW THE OTHER ONE CAME OUT TO SAY SHES NOW BORN AGAIN AND IS STILL MAKING ADVANCES ON HER EX HUBBY AND WAS VIDEOED PRAYING AND CASTING OUT DEMONS ON A GIRL. NONSENSE

THEY LIVE A PITIABLE FAKE LIFE

MAKINGATIKU PRESIDENT IS AS GOOD AS BRINGING BUHARI BACK TO LIFE AND MAKING HIM PRESIDENT AGAIN.

She could be dating (sleeping with the pastor).
Leave her to be with her pastor ooh don't try to be a stumbling block to them...

IDIOTIC FG, IF HE HAD JOINED THE APC WILL ALL THIS BE HAPPENING?

DANGOTE AND HIS CARTELS CONTROLS THE PRICE OF CEMENT, THE PRICE OF PMS, THE PRICE OF AGO, AND NOW THE PRICE OF LPG (COOKING GAS) IN NIGERIA. NIGERIA IS REALLY A CRIME SCENE.

MONOPOLY IS VERY DANGEROUS.

IT IS TREASON FOR THE ECONOMY OF A NATION TO BE IN ONE PERSONS HANDS.

ARE NIGERIANS FOOLS?

IS MADAM ABIKE DABERI SEEING THIS?

IT IS FREE IN MY AREA, BUT YOU HAVE TO BE YORUBA AND ALSO SUPPORT TINUBU TO BUY AT THAT RATE. BETTER STILL YOU MUST BE A CITY BOY MEMBER

FAKE PROPHESIES. THERE IS NOTHING LIKE '' MAY'' IN PROPHESY, IT'S EITHER A YES OR A NO.
IT'S EITHER IT WILL HAPPEN OR IT WONT HAPPEN.

JUST SHUT UP AND STOP DECEIVING BRAINLESS PEOPLE.

WILL THEY BELIEVE IT WHEN YOU SAY IT.

NO POINT SAYING THINGS WHEN THEY RE NEVER GONNA BELIEVE YOU.

VERY BROKE AND ENTITLED WOMEN . SO DISGUSTING WITH THEIR FILTHY ATTITUDES

LET THEIR FATHER'S MARRY THEM.

ufotunang:
So who is going to marry them ?

TAKE NOTE OF THE ALL SEEING EYE 👁️ AT THE DOME OF THE BUILDING. TRULY THIS IS THE YEAR OF MANIFESTATION.

THAT'S CLEARLY AN ILLUMINATI SYMBOL.

BUT OF COZ WOT DO I KNOW 😊

USELESS NEWS

CORRECT YOUR GRAMMAR FIRST BEFORE I VOTE

Bro, firstly things are generally very bad in the country, especially economically. So the issue of low savings monthly is actually something a bit general. As for your wife not adding any value to your life , especially economically, it's best you have a serious chat with her about it, if it persists, you can file for a divorce.

Time is too short to waste it in an unhealthy union.

DID ANYONE NOTICE HIS EYES (PUPILS) IS THAT NATURALLY HOW HIS EYES ARE OR THERE'S SOMETHING UP?

JUST IMAGINE WHAT IS COMING FROM AN NSA. THE COUNTRY IS USELESS.

givedemwotowoto:
BH are NSA's brothers seeking peace and understanding

“Whether we like it or not, there are (terrorists) in Nigeria who want peace. They are our brothers. We must seek for dialogue and understanding (with the terrorists). - Nuhu Ribadu, Nigeria National Security Adviser.

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— Rinu Oduala 🔥🔫 (@SavvyRinu) March 1, 2026

THEY CAN BE REINTEGRATED INTO YOUR OWN COMMUNITY WHERR THEY BELONG

1x2x3:
BH are Nigerians, they need rehabilitation and reintegration into the society.

DIRTY OLD MAN

JUST HEAR THIS MAD MAN. WILL ANYONE BE WRONG TO CALL HIM A TERRORIST SYMPATHISER?

THEY CAN CONTINUE THEIR MEETING IN HELL

CyynthiaKiss:
Throwback Photos Of Late Buhari And Late Iranian Leader, Ayatollah Khamenei

MEN HAVE ROBBED AND LOOTED THE NATION BLUE BLACK . ITS OKAY TO GIVE A WOMAN A CHANCE , SHE COULD OUT PERFORM ALL THE NUMBSKULLED MEN THAT HAVE RULE THIS SICK COUNTRY.

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