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Yields: I'm definitely scared of marriage. It's hard to find people who're faithful and loyal out there. I've to find someone who's going to give me the same respect, otherwise I'mma stay single. I cannot stand cheaters. I've a friend whose husband (well, now, soon to be ex-husband; they're getting divorced) told her last year that he had slept with prostitutes. They're Chinese. They've only been married for 4 years. To make matters worse, he wants to go back to China to pursue a music career ( "his dream" ) and because he's a PR she's not sure if she can get child support from him. They have two 2-year old twin girls and she just gave birth to a baby boy in June, but had to sell their home and move in with her parents so they can help take care of her and the kids while she gets herself back together. She has a Lawyer now, so we'll see how it goes. She has warned me, "When it comes to marriage, please be careful with choosing a man" and gave me a bunch of advice. Anyway, seeing what she's going through now and my own experiences, I know just how important it is when finding a suitable life partner. If I don't find the right person for me, I'm ready to be single until Jesus returns.

Wow! Sad story But why can't ‎u relate with stories of those ones who have had a successful marriage? Why do people readily identify with failed marriages

amaprincess: One thing i like about this section is, there are so many matured minds here.
Some said marriage is sweet, beautiful and all that, but even with all the sweet comments couples give about their marriages, we still see high rate of divorce, violence and separation.
In the society today, you see so many matured men and women due for marriage, but there are not given it consideration at all.
so many are scared. others, lost interest due to horrible heart break experiences and so many reasons.
i know marriage is not a do or die affairs, but it looks good and mystery some how. imagine two people with different upbringing, background. coming together to tolerate each other, Iive as one till the end of time, it looks amazing.
Now to those already in their marriage, pls enlighten us.
1. how do you feel being married? do you feel chain/tied down by one person for the rest of your life, or how do you see it?
2. what are the things that happen in marriage that change everything forever. like sins that cant be forgiven. its common with men once a women cheats, its unforgivable. although i dont support cheating either.
3. what words of advice can you give a young man/lady who desire marriage but scared. based on what you are experiencing now either positive or negative. what can you tell someone who is afraid of entering into marriage, so he/she don't fail (divorce).
pls honest contributions pls
Thank you.

The only thing I can say to ‎u is; "If ‎u are a perfect man or woman then don't get married".But if you have ur own faults as a human being,then you should be able to deal with another persons little faults. I Have been married for six years now and I tell ‎u I love my wife and kid so much despite her faults. And ‎u know what? She even loves me more despite my several faults too. So he without sin should cast the first stone

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