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Honesty007:
One of my friend needs help.He came across 3 sisters of a certain family.He plays with all of them but loves only one.One of them loves him back but he doesnt love that one because she always jealous and doesnt want anyother girl near him.she is soo possesive and my friend dislikes it.Although she knows more than the other two,my friend loves the youngest of the sisters.Thing is my friend doesnt know what to do.He told the youngest one day that he loves her amongst all and before he had said that he told the possesive one that he hasnotin to say to her again.what can he do now because the possesive one knows much about the guy m esp the guy told her he loves her sister

Y do I have this feeling that u r one of the xters in dis ur story

Some of you just come up online n spit gibberish or any foul thing dat crosses ur mind. The op said things and expected a contribution that wud b beneficial. If u have no advice and nothing beneficial to say ,,then go and sleep like you want to . Its not a must for you to comment.

@Op like someone said earlier, u already told her NO ,what else do you want?? U wanna go back and tell her yes??
No offense but truth be told most of these OPs already know d answer/advice they are asking for. They r just fishing for comments dat wud help douse their conscience, to allow them piclk d wrong choice and feel good about it.

falconey:
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Said it well!

pet4ril:
You or your friend? Stop drinking panadol in another person's headache... let their conscience do the judgment

Yapsolutely

sunbel:
Help me out guy, due to my upbringing i don't know how to woo/toast a lady and dis as cos loneliness to grip me.... I nid comment on how to woo a lady on social medias or face to face to my own .....#waitin......

I would like to clarify.
I would like u to really clarify what u mean by "upbringing" and "lonliness" when u say lonliness , how exactly do u mean? R u refering to ripe for marriage or you are refering to friends of benefit?? And when u say ur upbringing ,how exactly where u brought up?

Defaramade:
Lol abi o, Op stop pretending it's ur "friend" shagging ur dead neighbor's wife cos it's pretty obvious you are the "friend".

My tots exactly!

profojah:
Wait na.. I just dey wake up..make I shower. Its 7:06am here

I see you really do have a problem..probably sick or something.
Please Don't use your nonchalancy to deter people who are really interested in the topic to comment or ask their questions and if they won't ,its better left blank rather than putting up insignificant comments.

profojah:
I stil dey sleep.. Make I wake up

It isn't a must for you to comment. U can juss pass by.

profojah:
I dey sleep Now. I'll give you a very good advice tomorrow when I'm up.. #just calm down you hear

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Good morning evryone..

Martins301:
Oga your foolishness is beyond comprehension. Did you say you are a pastor? Common LUST you couldnt resist and flee from, yet you will stand on the pulpit to preach against LUST and sexual sin.

Imagine if someone does the same thing to ur daughter. How would you feel? She tempt u agreed. Wasn't Jesus ur role model also tempted?

Quit thinking with ur dìck please. She is young and probably overcome with all the hormones running through her system. You are supposed to advice her and protect her like your own child not sleep with her. Use your head before you wreck your family and disgrace urself.

Well said

Love, dating/relationship issues, marital problems etc.. are one of the biggest problems affecting individuals and most people may b too shy or too embarassed to ask or share it. This thread is for you to share those probs so that other people with better experience or more knowledge can help profer a solution or a better action you can take. Feel free to ask.
Please let's try to b composed n not insult anyone who asks questions genuinely ,its because they need our assistance that's y they asked. Thanks in advance.
On that note let's hear ur questions.

Mcslize:
Make una help me analyze dis: I go use pidgid write am abeg d tin tire me.

I get 1 babe wey I dey try runs back den....d way I take handle d rapport stage make d babe giv me her numba witout askin .......I invite her com ma yard she manage come....bt nt witout stressin me o. I kor tel her say me like her...I wana b her super Hero......I b wan make a move touch her small na she stop me o..begin tel me say relationship get stage....say why I dey rush? She begin open phone plaay video 4 me of one woman pastor wey dey alwys discuss relationship.......she play d video finish na I breathe o....She say she and her friend go com see me if her friend like me den she wil b my shenkez. Na so I submit o...after dat day me begin call dey check on her.....na frm there d babe begin dey demand o. She say she be dey think of buying som stuff dat wil cost her 10k chaaii....I say dis babe wan make me her maga now o....as she knw say I like her na......nd she dey stress me even to chat sef na problem....I dey force her dey reply my message sef...I kor reason am me caution myself say dis babe dey play hard to get..she no dey giv me d kind attention I want nd here she dey use style demand 4 money frm me now...weti I go do now? .....and I no get money for hand dat period....me begin go folo people do work o...d work almost kill me sef and d money I no even see carry com house...chaii I look myself look heaven I tel myself na because of babe make me go do dis kind work wy I never do 4 my life wey wan claim my life so o. I b dey look 4 way to find d money giv d babe o bt I find out say she no dey giv me her full attention wen I need am....I go send her message to reply na die..na I leave her.......me no kor dey call her o.....afta1yr na I dial her numba d numba no dey go again...na I go facebook go begin send message again o...dey ask her for her number....before she manage send me her new numba no b small message I send her na we resume our chat again o ..we bgin chat ooo...na stil d same way she dey do 1year agao na so she stil dey do til now...she no wan dey chat...ok na me go just bone.....for like 3weeks she go kor whatsapp me hi...u don forget me? Me go mumu tel her say I no forget her..I no fit do dat kind thing to her na.....dat message go kor dey make her dey form again just because say I say me no fit forget her.....I go try strike better chat wit her she no go dey reply..chaaiiiand if I no chat wit her 4 a very long time she go say me don forget her....na weti I go do now? Ma kukuma forget her forever or ma stil dey mumu dey chat wit her? D tin tire me o..,....cuz even as I forget her 4 1year dat one no even stil make her make any change..as I don com back for her she suppose dey flow wel wit me......bt lie lie she no wan flow wel wit me.....d other babes wey dey flow wel wit me...me no dey reason dem which kind life be dis sef?

Intresting! In my opinion, you should move on and find another girl..besides as a broke ass guy, its gonna b hard to get a lady. A classy lady that is.. No girl wants to date a broke ass nigga. I don't even advice it myself. But even if you don't have money ryt now, U gotta have a bright future looming, u gotta hav plans n present urself as a promising fellow. Lemme tell u a bitter truth dat even d bible confirms and that is a poor man has very little or no friends..
I am not saying ladies shouldn't dat a guy dat isn't rich .I am saying that in todays world where money often matters more than fidelity, style sometimes matter more than money..
Bros up ur game N give urself style. Be proud of urself,,keep ur hustle on n hustle real good and upgrade urself. Then u would see it would be easier for girls to b comfy dating you. But for now forget that babe n move on.

lanicky:
Sorry for the late reply...I'm a kinda busy lady.

How was your day?

BTW...don't shy around....feel free to mingle with others. You can as well bring your friends here to chat..you know I can't be around all the time

Okidoki!!!

daveP:
ah. Pardon my silence. Was busy.


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Thanks for taking your time to show me the ropes

hmmmm.

fantazia:
thanks its good to know there aint repercussion

Why do I get d feeling that dis story is u and not ur neighbour or friend.

joseph1832:
Ah yes! The hard to get mentality. I now believe such mentality is only peculiar to kids who still don't know why they even consider dating a guy in the first place.

A guy asks you out, you like him, and yet you still want to play hard to get because of some crooked mentality. This beats the sweet Jesus outta me.

Many girls still don't know what this dating thing is about. For me, the moment I ask a girl out and she says no, that's it! I leave her be. I don't have time to start chasing someone about....

exactly

charijee:
[color=#CD1076]Hi chronic ooops sorry koronic ...Welcome to our peaceful abode, where we interact and mingle freely. ...no harsh words and insults
Errm davep the chief chef will stroll you around [/color]

thanks

lanicky:
Hey koronic....howdy?

i'm doing fine. hailings to you.

demicupid:
that aint possible now.

#smiles# I for talk. :-)

kpodosky:
When I say people just go to school as a necessary ritual,my friends will argue I judge too quickly.I agree but ,can someone explain Mendel's Laws of Heredity to this female.Her ignorance is a sad sight.

Bro if she doesn't know doesn't mean u would rub it on her face.. U could have just explained it or better still just refer her.

fbtowner:
I'm tall. Really tall. About 6 and half ft.


But I'm trying to get money not gf

Hmmm!! Word!

demicupid:
lmfao oh,wen u talk "noted",if u no tall before,shey you wanna add to your height nih,or start wearing invisible heels.

Lols!

Judging from the comments made., It shows that most guys are not ready for "forming girls"..
Do girls still form?? Sincerely d girls I refer to as kids may still do but real classy girls don't. They know what they want. Its either they like you or they don't. The thing is most guys are moved by what they see and ladies are moved by what they hear as well as see or "percieve" . One can't expect to meet a stranger outta nowhere for the first time n outrightly just hit it off.
But if the girl has been seeing or knows d guy before , she already has some kind of perception about the guy. So if the guy approaches her she might b more receptive(dat doesn't mean yes immediately) and give u d green light.
Sometimes it takes friendship first before moving on to relationship..
Altho sometimes d girl isn't forming, d guy may b handsome n all that but she isn't just interested. Either because she is in a relationship already or not jus interested in d guy's type of person. Then the guy may take it that the girl is forming n keep coming n pressuring untill d girl gives them d insult of their lives n the likeness then suddenly turns disgust..

missmary:
if i form hard to get for a day.. You're already friendzoned... Don't take it personal some people are meant to be benchwarmers...

Lolz!!

kakakoshina:
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I dont ask a female 4 a relationship more dan two times and dats just three days! Day1 normal intro....... Day2: I want a serious relationship bla bla bla...... Day3: I'm serious whats ur reply.... No, final answer? Or I need more time, are u sure? Any of d above drop call... Number deleted!

Guyz like dis r very sincere n straight to d point.!! #smiles# loving this guy..

esosa993:
as for me there's no time for hard to get, if I don't like you then there's nothing you can do to make me say yes except of you use jazz, but the problem is some guys don't just get and would pressure you until u get frustrated and become rude to them.

Truthfully stated!

Harbosede02:
Sorry......do girls still form hard to get for 2/3/4 months??

I wonder o!!!

demicupid:
lol,funny,i always say no,and that means no...

Are you saying you never said yes , ever

ayokellany:
OP how long was your longest forming period any tall guy that ever asked you out ?

Hmm I see you have a thingy for tall guys

MrsPhyno:
I no dey form #ThankGodFoMaLyfe

Really?? #smiles#