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FashionRe: T-shirt Culture In Lagos Nigeria. by lagosforever123(m): 9:34pm On Feb 21
I v learnt not to dry clothes in the sun. The sun really fades clothes
CrimeRe: Nigerian Man Jailed In Ireland Over Forced Abortion On Ex-Girlfriend by lagosforever123(m): 9:32pm On Feb 21
Thundafireseun:
Why is he smiling?

Who Dey follow am laugh??
The Brits need to really make immigration harder
CrimeRe: OAU Student Apologises After Falsely Accusing Schoolmate Of Rape (Video) by lagosforever123(m): 9:28pm On Feb 21
God1000:
As a Man, If a Woman wants to tarnish your image and ruin your life completely today, all she have to do is to set camera, shed a few tears on social media and mention your name.



Just anything at all she chooses to accuse you of will be carried far and wide in frenzy by bitter feminists, effeminate men, bloggers, influencers etc.
So sad. All these people don't know the game. Na game.
TravelRe: First Onitsha Boat Cruise Party (photos) by lagosforever123(m): 9:24pm On Feb 21
iluvdonjazzy:
The water and the ambiance is not encouraging at all, so ugly.
The camera is from a 2015 Malata phone. The camera quality is pathetic for 2025/ 2026.
FashionRe: T-shirt Culture In Lagos Nigeria. by lagosforever123(m): 6:04pm On Feb 21
How much does a t-shirt cost in Lagos Nigeria ? Or let me say it like a true Nigerian What is the Price of A T-shirt in Lagos Nigeria.

Is it t-shirt, Tee- Shirt or Tea Shirt ?
CareerRe: US Celebrates Wendy Okolo As She Leads Research At NASA by lagosforever123(m): 6:01pm On Feb 21
Ignoramus:
Where are those PBAT keyboard warriors, they won't see this to comment because it is not from their region.
Congratulations Wendy Baby 🍼 Geh ❤️
If you desire better doggy I'm available 💋
She very beautiful that is a fact..to me what she has achieved is not a big deal. When she can become like Victor Osimhen in terms of out of this world I'd clap for her.
CrimeRe: How Mirabel Created Fake Account Priston To Frame Businessman, Godwin Maduagu by lagosforever123(m): 5:56pm On Feb 21
franchasng:
That means someone paid her for this stunt hmmmm
Kashimawo.......this one na like Nollywood film.... E no get head or tail
PropertiesRe: Lady Shares Video Of ₦500k Apartment Shown To Her In Lagos, Sparks Reactions(pix by lagosforever123(m): 5:53pm On Feb 21
Hi
Sonnobax15:
lipsrsealed
Na una dey overrate that Lagos.

Place wey almost all your savings go dey happily dey waste untop transport and rentage angry.


I rather stay and die in this my ughelli than to go suffer myself all in the name of say --"I dey stay Eko" angry
If you want to stay in Lagos you have to have mapped out your strategy before you move. On of the ways I save mummy is by using my apartment as my house and office so I spend very little on transportation
FashionRe: T-shirt Culture In Lagos Nigeria. by lagosforever123(m): 10:13am On Feb 20
Where is the best place in Lagos to buy a high quality t-shirt. I'm thinking of either fruit of the loom or Price T-shirt
FashionRe: T-shirt Culture In Lagos Nigeria. by lagosforever123(m): 2:16am On Feb 20
KobolanderSegun:
Dat was back in the day mehn
Remembering my convocation t-shirt.... Omo those were days of youth.

I remember when we were contributing to get our final year t-shirts. We had two options to either sew t-shirts or get already ready made t-shirts. When we compared the cost of sowing versus buying ready made we went for ready made. It was because we were going to get Price T-shirt. for the class. I went to Balogun Market and bought a sample for the class, immediately they saw it they all dropped money instantly. Quality speaks its own language. I had so many people agree we use Price T-shirt. People even gave me money to buy different colors for them. I made so much money in that space of time that I decided I wanted to go into Fashion after graduation.
Brings back wonderful memories..when we thought graduation would open so many financial opportunities...... Nigeria why ?
FashionRe: T-shirt Culture In Lagos Nigeria. by lagosforever123(m): 2:13am On Feb 20
Alikoooooooooo:
What school did you finish from. I went to Unilag. Because of this African heat I only wear t-shirts. I most have like a hundred t-shirts in my wardrobe

The Uniform of Faith: Church T-Shirts in Lagos

If you have ever spent a Sunday morning in Lagos, you know the rhythm. It starts with the alarm fighting a losing battle against the generator hum, followed by the spiritual wrestling match of getting out of bed. Then comes the real battle: the traffic. Whether you are navigating the gridlock of the Third Mainland Bridge or dodging danfos in Yaba, the destination is usually the same for millions of us: Church.

But if you look closely at the congregation stepping out of cars, buses, and okadas, you'll notice something fascinating. It's not just the fancy hats or the expensive shoes. It's the T-shirts. Specifically, the customised, programme-specific, colour-coded T-shirts that have become the unofficial uniform of the Lagos Christian experience.

Let's be honest, in Lagos, church isn't just a place you go; it's a lifestyle. And just like every lifestyle needs a brand, every church programme needs a T-shirt. From the massive Conventions at Redemption City to the local parish Harvest in a rented primary school hall in Surulere, if there is no T-shirt, did the event even happen?

The Psychology of the "Uniform

Why do we do it? Why is there so much pressure to wear the customised tee for the Youth Anniversary or the Men's Conference?

On the surface, it's about unity. The Bible talks about being "one body," and nothing says "one body" like five hundred people rocking the same navy blue polo with a gold screen print of a dove and the year 2024. It creates a visual sense of belonging. When you wear that shirt, you are signaling to everyone in the auditorium (and the visitors) that you are a worker, a member, part of the inner circle. It's spiritual camouflage.

But let's dig deeper. In a city as chaotic and competitive as Lagos, identity is currency. Wearing the church programme T-shirt is a way of saying, "I am part of this movement." It's marketing, both for the church and for the individual. You post the picture on WhatsApp status, tagged with a prayer emoji. It shows you are active, you are involved, you are spiritually awake. In the economy of church social capital, the T-shirt is your receipt of participation.

The Design Drama: A WhatsApp Saga

The journey of a church T-shirt is an adventure in itself. It usually begins about three months before the event with the formation of a "Committee." This committee is where the real spiritual warfare takes place.

The WhatsApp group chat becomes a battlefield. You have the Creative Unit, who want something minimalist and trendy. You have the Older Members, who want the font size big enough to be read from the gallery. You have the Finance Committee, who are screaming about the budget.

"Brethren, can we use Ankara instead of plain cotton? someone will suggest.
"Ankara is too expensive for a youth programme,"the treasurer replies.
"But plain white will show sweat," another person argues. (Valid point. Lagos heat is a spiritual weapon on its own).

Then comes the design approval. Someone sends a mockup. The Pastor's wife says the shade of blue is too close to the rival church down the street. The Ushers want pockets; the Choir wants a different cut. By the time the design is finalized, two weeks have vanished, and the pressure is on.

The Lagos Logistics: Balogun, Yaba, and "Come Tomorrow
Once the design is approved, the hunt for the vendor begins. In Lagos, printing T-shirts is a major industry. You have the high-end digital printers in Ikeja who charge in dollars, and you have the hustle boys in Balogun Market who can get it done for half the price but might disappear with your deposit.

Most church committees, trying to be good stewards of God's money, opt for the middle ground. Usually, a recommendation from a brother who knows a guy in Yaba.

This is where the "Lagos Factor" kicks in. You go to pick up the samples. The quality is sharp. You pay the 70% deposit. You are told, "Come for collection on Friday."
Friday comes. You call. "The machine spoiled."
Next Tuesday. "Light went off."
Next Thursday. "Come tomorrow."

The stress level rises. The programme is on Saturday. Finally, on Friday night at 9 PM, the shirts arrive. Now comes the sorting. This is another tragedy entirely. In Nigeria, T-shirt sizing is… optimistic. A "Large" might fit a toddler, and an "Extra Large" might fit a wrestler. There is always a scramble. The big brothers are fighting for the XLs, and the petite sisters are drowning in the Mediums. But somehow, by the grace of God and a lot of ironing, it works out.

The Day Of: Suffering and Smiling

The day of the programme arrives. The atmosphere is electric. The ushers are in their shirts, the choir in theirs, the media team in black. It looks organized. It looks powerful.

But then, the sun comes out.

Lagos does not play when it comes to heat. If your church programme is in a hall without strong air conditioning, wearing a customised T-shirt becomes an act of sacrifice. You are sweating, but you must keep the shirt on. Taking it off is not an option; it's a sign of disunity. So you sweat. You dab your forehead with a handkerchief. You pray for the Holy Ghost to cool the place down.

Despite the heat, there is a vibe. There is a pride. When the photographer calls for the group picture, everyone rushes forward. We adjust our collars. We fix our hair. We flash the signs. Click.That photo is going on the church website. It's going on the flyer for next year. It is proof that we were here, we were united, and we looked good doing it.

The Aftermath: Souvenir or Dust Collector?

So, what happens to the shirts after the programme?

For some, it becomes a wardrobe staple. You wear it to the market on Saturdays. You wear it to clean the house. It becomes the "comfortable church shirt." There is a specific joy in wearing a T-shirt from a 2019 Convention that has faded slightly but still carries the memory of that powerful sermon.

For others, it joins the "Church T-Shirt Drawer." You know the one. Every Nigerian Christian has a drawer or a box filled with T-shirts from various programmes: Fire Conference 2018, Youth Blast 2019, Harvest 2021. They are rarely worn, but they are never thrown away. They are artifacts of your spiritual journey. Throwing them away feels like throwing away a blessing. So they stay, stacked neatly, gathering dust but holding memories.

More Than Just Fabric

Critics might say it's commercialization. They might say Jesus didn't wear branded merchandise. And they aren't wrong. But culture is culture. In Lagos, where life can be hard, unpredictable, and stressful, the church community offers a sense of family. The T-shirt is the badge of that family.

It's a way of saying, "I am not alone." When you walk into a massive auditorium and see thousands of people wearing the same colour as you, there is a psychological shift. You feel stronger. You feel part of something bigger than the traffic, bigger than the economy, bigger than the struggles of the week.

Plus, let's not forget the economic boost. The T-shirt industry in Lagos thrives on church programmes. From the designers to the printers, the tailors to the logistics guys, church merchandise puts food on the table for many families. It's a circular economy of faith.

In the end, the customised T-shirt for church programmes in Lagos is a beautiful paradox. It is stressful to organize, often uncomfortable to wear in the heat, and sometimes poorly sized. Yet, it is deeply loved. It represents our desire for order in chaos, our need for community in a crowded city, and our willingness to dress the part for our faith.

So, the next time you see a sea of matching colours at a church event in Lagos, don't just see fabric. See the WhatsApp arguments, the traffic to Balogun, the sweat in the sanctuary, and the pride in the photos. See the community. Because in Lagos, we don't just pray together; we dress together. And honestly? That's a vibe worth celebrating. Just please, for the love of God, next time, use breathable cotton. Amen.
Are Customised T-shirts still common ? They don't seem to be around as much as they once were
PoliticsRe: Lakurawa Terrorists Kill 34 In Kebbi by lagosforever123(m): 2:10am On Feb 20
WhizdomXX:
You beat me to it. Why can't the northerners come together to kill this Islamic terrorists. Even the governors. See how ebubeagu and amotekun reduced esn and herdsmen in the east and west respectively. What are the northerners doing, kwara, katsina, kebbi.
They are born to rule.....
PoliticsRe: Lakurawa Terrorists Kill 34 In Kebbi by lagosforever123(m): 1:55am On Feb 20
tunde1200:
Nigerian Army is doing their best just that the insurgency is beyond control.
God will send us a deliverer
PoliticsRe: Cash Crunch: Tunji-Ojo’s Interior Joins Ministries With Zero Capital Budget by lagosforever123(m): 1:54am On Feb 20
Walz001:
Hmmmm what a country


What else can we say
You have said it all
FashionRe: T-shirt Culture In Lagos Nigeria. by lagosforever123(m): 8:09pm On Feb 19
KobolanderSegun:
I totally agree comfort is extremely important when wearing t-shirts. But iv noticed that when it comes to buying t-shirts for customing or Printing going for thickness is key to make sure the print does not peal off or crack. I always go for Price T-shirt because it's Gsm is 250 . This is a bit of over kill but I have some Price T-shirt that I have had for ,10 years and they are still going strong. Also Price T-shirt is 100 percent cotton making it more breathable. I'd also say Fruit of the Loom is also good quality for Printing.

Is Waky still in the market ? Waky was so good around 2003 but as time went on they got thinner
Waky was the bomb when they came out in 2001, they used to be so thick but as time went on they become thinner. I still have some I wear as inner wear
Foreign AffairsRe: Andrew Mountbatten-Windsor Arrested By Police Over ‘Misconduct In Public Office’ by lagosforever123(m): 8:06pm On Feb 19
Bahamas95:
While in another country you'll hear........



"Do you know who I am?"
So sad
Science/TechnologyRe: A Friend Of Mine Caught This Barn Owl by lagosforever123(m): 7:51pm On Feb 19
naturefellow:
stop being barbaric please. Release, the innocent barn owl.
Make all of us protest " Free Uche the Owl ". If it was trapped in Yoruba land it would be " Free Ojo the Owl "
Science/TechnologyRe: A Friend Of Mine Caught This Barn Owl by lagosforever123(m): 7:47pm On Feb 19
SlavaUkraini:
Village people sent a messenger to you and now you want to sell the messenger... ?

If you do that, get ready to pay fine next time you visit the village...
Ha ha ha !!! I hope OP is treating the Owl well..it looks so cute
PoliticsRe: Peter Obi Takes ADC To Odd Abuja Zones–Drop Bombshell on APC Latest Scheme Durin by lagosforever123(m): 7:44pm On Feb 19
manduwem:
I hope the whole effort pays off on election day... Cuz 9ja election dey pass game of thrones
Peter Obi is the Master. Nobody in Nigeria can match Peter Obi.
PoliticsRe: Lakurawa Terrorists Kill 34 In Kebbi by lagosforever123(m): 7:43pm On Feb 19
tunde1200:
Nigerian Army is doing their best just that the insurgency is beyond control.
So sad
SportsManchester United Have Woken Up by lagosforever123(op): 12:15pm On Jan 29
I cannot believe Manchester United have beaten.Arsenal.and man City. I'm so exited
PoliticsRe: 'Why Did You Start With Mortuary? – Governor Eno Questions Contractor (Video) by lagosforever123(m): 12:10pm On Jan 29
OlujobaSamuel:
The gov is right abeg, the priority is wrong, so so wrong.
You engaged me to build a school then I started with sch playground, or to construct a road and I'm installing the street lights first.
The governor doesn't want to be scammed.. It's a Red Flag. He should have started the hospital first then along the way started the Mortuary.
PoliticsRe: ‘under My Watch, America Couldn’t Act In Africa Without Informing Nigeria’ — Obj by lagosforever123(m): 12:04pm On Jan 29
ObiORBiafra:
Under your watch US had reasonable and decent leaders. Militarily Nigeria is more equiped now that it was under your watch so its not like there's anything you would have done if US invaded Nigeria under your watch.
US would never attack if Obasanjo was president. Omo the guy na real " top dog o ". He has a lot of friends with leaders he met in his first stint as president of Nigeria. Even George Bush Jnr said Obasanjo reminds him of his uncle's. And you know George Bush Jnr get action. Dem Love am die for Oyinbo land o. His secret is transparency he will tell you his mind before you ask him. It's the same reason why he has very strong links in the North. He isn't scared to speak his mind
PoliticsRe: ‘under My Watch, America Couldn’t Act In Africa Without Informing Nigeria’ — Obj by lagosforever123(m): 11:55am On Jan 29
fuckingAyaya:
When OBJ speaks then the world leaders stand firm and listened. We was the most respected black nation in the world, under ur leadership 3 US. President visited Nigeria because of the respect you command but now see what we left with. We've sunk so low because of ethno tribal politics
Mehn Obasanjo was a Baddosky. Look at his pictures again..let's assume he lived on your street and his name was Bolaji just one look at him you know you should not mess with him. I'm sure he could fight hand to hand very well, look at the picture with Carter if he was a boxer other boxers will fear him.
Foreign AffairsRe: China’s Top General, Zhang Youxia, Faces Death Penalty For "Spying For America" by lagosforever123(m): 7:17am On Jan 28
ChangedMan1999:
Was China not paying him enough money

Is the cost of living too much in China

Does he have too many people who depend on him
Some people want Rolls Royce and Swiss Bank accounts. It has little to do with cost of living and alot to do with greed and lack of contentment
PoliticsRe: 35 Military Officers Including 33 Northerners Detained Over Alleged Coup Plot by lagosforever123(m): 2:24am On Jan 28
Dalohad:
I can see some Yoruba Muslim followers of that drug sniffer begging their ancestral spirits to include an Igbo name therein.. grin

That Igbo name would be worth more than the Yoruba officer from Osun and all other northern officers on the list., as it will help their anti-Igbo propaganda as we approach 2027 elections.. grin

We saw how they twisted the propaganda in the Jan 15 coup in 1966 and tagged it an 'Igbo coup'. Carefully removing the names of the Yoruba and Northern officers who actively participated in that coup.

At the end, one of the Yoruba officers Maj. Adewale Ademoyega honourably wrote a book 'Why we struck' to dispel the rumour that it was an 'Igbo coup'. Vindicating the Igbos.

A book that many propagandist Yoruba writers hate to reference till today..

Posterity is a great judge.. grin

*please mention and save this text, before they delete it and ban me as usual*
Sorry but Yoruba people don't really have time. Some Ethnic groups have Developed paranoia that everyone is after them. This Paranoia stems from always playing the victim. If two Northerners fight in Far away Kano they will say " that is why we must break up and form Biafra ", if a Northerner marries 5 wives they will say " that is why we must break up and form Biafra ". Yoruba don't really have time. As long as it does not happen in their zone.... Carry on with what you are doing.
PoliticsRe: Supporters Of Monday Sit-at-home Are Enemies Of Anambra, Igbo Economy — APGA by lagosforever123(m): 1:49am On Jan 28
Wizardslayer:
Soludo isn't a wise man.

He's setting himself up against the whole Igbo nation by doing the biddings of his masters in Abuja.

Sit at home at Monday is far bigger than soludo.
Who created Biafra ? Ojukwu. Who created APGA Ojukwu. Which Party is Soludo in ? APGA. I'm sure you don't know Ojukwu created Biafra. You probably think Kanu formed it. This TikTok generation have little between their ears.
PoliticsRe: Supporters Of Monday Sit-at-home Are Enemies Of Anambra, Igbo Economy — APGA by lagosforever123(m): 1:45am On Jan 28
Wizardslayer:
Soludo isn't a wise man.

He's setting himself up against the whole Igbo nation by doing the biddings of his masters in Abuja.

Sit at home at Monday is far bigger than soludo.
Don't believe the hype
PoliticsRe: Supporters Of Monday Sit-at-home Are Enemies Of Anambra, Igbo Economy — APGA by lagosforever123(m): 1:40am On Jan 28
McBishop2020:
Closing the market indefinitely will then become economic what?
Mr Governor, think twice.
Hatred kills.
Allow people to support whom they want to support in peace.
The business is theirs, the loss is theirs, the holiday they chose is their right.
You can't force someone to go to shop when you added nothing to the person's struggles.

Let's face it. IPOB has distanced themselves from the sit at home order, but the people chose to show solidarity to their own leader, fighting and suffering for their emancipation, by staying at home on their own Accord.

Allow them. Just make sure they pay their taxes whether they sell or not.

My take though
The people choose to show " solidarity"......
CultureRe: Top Facebook Influencers 2026 by lagosforever123(m): 3:37pm On Jan 26
Alikoooooooooo:
The Best Influential Nigerians on Facebook 2026

Facebook remains one of the most powerful social media platforms in Nigeria, serving as a space where entertainment, information, culture, and influence intersect. Over the years, many Nigerians have risen to prominence on Facebook by consistently creating engaging content, shaping opinions, promoting culture, and influencing millions of followers both locally and internationally. These influential Nigerians use their voices, creativity, and authenticity to connect with audiences in meaningful ways.
One of the most influential Nigerians on Facebook is Davido, the globally celebrated Afrobeats superstar. Beyond music, Davido’s Facebook presence is a blend of entertainment, philanthropy, and personal connection with fans. His frequent posts about music projects, charity initiatives, and everyday life keep millions engaged and inspired, making him a dominant digital force.
Another notable figure is Funke Akindele, a renowned Nollywood actress and filmmaker. Her influence on Facebook goes beyond entertainment, as she uses the platform to promote Nigerian films, advocate for social issues, and inspire upcoming creatives. Through her successful movie promotions and relatable posts, she has built a loyal and active online community.
Don Jazzy, one of Nigeria’s most respected music producers, also stands out as a major Facebook influencer. Known for his humor, generosity, and mentorship of young talents, Don Jazzy uses Facebook to encourage creativity and positivity. His engaging personality has earned him admiration across different age groups.
In the media space, Linda Ikeji remains a powerful Facebook influencer. As a pioneer of digital blogging in Nigeria, she has transformed online storytelling and celebrity news. Her Facebook page attracts massive daily engagement, influencing conversations around entertainment, lifestyle, and business. Baebronx is one of Nigeria's leaders on Facebook and across all social media platforms.
Designs has also played a significant role in Facebook influence, and this is where Loloko Oloko shines prominently. Loloko Oloko is one of Nigeria’s most popular Facebook design creators known for his original, intelligent and captivating designs, Wild sense of humour and relatable storytelling. His content resonates strongly with the creative community
Another strong voice in comedy and social commentary is Mr. Macaroni. Through satire and humor, he addresses societal issues while entertaining his audience. His Facebook influence extends beyond laughter, as he uses his platform to promote justice, awareness, and civic responsibility.
In the music industry, Wizkid also commands massive influence on Facebook. His posts generate widespread reactions, discussions, and admiration, proving his strong cultural impact beyond music alone.
In conclusion, influential Nigerians on Facebook come from diverse backgrounds including music, film, media, and comedy. Figures like Baebronx, Amaka1, Davido, Funke Akindele, Don Jazzy, Linda Ikeji, Wizkid, Mr. Macaroni, Loloko Oloko, Peluumi, ArestoCraft and FishHunger demonstrate how Facebook can be used as a powerful tool for influence, creativity, and connection. Their impact goes beyond numbers, as they shape culture, inspire millions, and represent the evolving digital voice of Nigeria.


Top Overall & Facebook Influencers (Top 10)

Davido (@davido) – Over 31 million followers
Tiwa Savage (@tiwasavage) – Over 19 million followers
Wizkid (@wizkidayo) – Over 18 million followers
Burna Boy (@burnaboygram) – Over 18 million followers
Pastor Jerry Eze – Highest-earning Nigerian YouTube creator
Mr Macaroni (@mrmacaroni1) – Comedy / Skits
Sabinus (@sabinus1_) – Comedy / Skits
Brain Jotter (@brainjotter) – Comedy / Skits
Taaooma (@taaooma) – Comedy / Skits
Enioluwa Adeoluwa (@enioluwaofficial) – Lifestyle /

Top Facebook Creators (Nigeria)
Hamzat Habeeb Adelaja – 12.8 million followers
Machigoldpranks (@machigoldpranks_) – 11.1 million followers
Brain Jotter (@brainjotter) – 10.8 million followers
Sabinus (@sabinus1_) – 8.5 million followers
Mark Angel (@markangelcomedy) – 7.3 million followers
Tilda Harris (@tildaharris) – 6.5 million followers
Top Lifestyle, Fashion & Beauty Influencers
Loloko Oloko - Fashion Designs
Chioma Ikokwu – Lifestyle / Fashion
Dimma Umeh – Beauty / Lifestyle

Creativenahz (Inas Godwin) – Dance / Fashion
Clara Benzon (@clarabenzon) – Dance / Fashion

Top Food Creators (Nigeria)
Ify Mogekwu (@ifys.kitchen)
Omotolani Tayo-Osikoya (@tolanibaj
What of The Karachika she is extremely influencial.
Music/RadioRe: Court To Airtel: Pay ₦210M For Unauthorised Use Of Mbanefo's Nigeria Go Survive by lagosforever123(m):
Mrexcell:
Very correct when the song was reigning in the late 90s there wasn't much money in the nigerian music industry.
Who told you that ? E se o, e se o, Afro juju lo fe gbo o o. Ese o . Omo Shina Peter's Cleaned out in 1990 he became a multi millionaire and is still living of that money till now.
FamilyRe: Why Women Cannot Handle Perfect Men And Want To Divorce Them Divorce Them by lagosforever123(m): 12:43pm On Jan 26
KobolanderSegun:
There is only one Reason Women want Divorces from " Perfect " Men, the real reason is lack of Control.

Alot of Women don't quite understand why they are in a relationship with a man. They erroneously think they can " mold " men. Men cannot be molded by women even molding children is rather hard, tricky and can lead to children rebelling or children becoming hateful of their parents.

What are Women to do with men then ? Women are meant to use men this is the only formula that works for both parties.

When I say use. I do not mean " use and dump " I mean use then refill. Women are meant to Use men, then Refill men then Use them then Refill them.

A lot of Nigerian women are in the habit of constantly " billing " men or charging men for everything in the relationship. A One way Relationship never works because everyone weighs what they give.

Being a Very Beautiful Woman with Fantastic curves is not enough to hold a long lasting relationship. Do you use your energy to make him stronger? Do you thank him if he does very little ? Do you thank him when he pays for the children's school fees ? Do you hug him and kiss him for paying school fees. Do you thank him when he pays Nepa Bills since you also are enjoying the " oye " as the air-conditioning is blowing tight. Do you thank him for providing the food for the house.

Some women will say he is doing his duty as a man, but thanking a man for doing his duty makes him know his efforts are appreciated.

The Only way a Woman can control a man is not running after men she likes but looking at the man who loves her the most. Once a man loves a Woman it is for the woman to be grateful for his love, thank him for his love.

Women must understand you can only " control " a man who is in love with you. You cannot mold him. And why will you mold what that already loves you ?

One's whose mind is molded to you

When you hear of Women walking away from " Perfect " men it has nothing to do with the men but everything to do with the Women.

Let's Assume a Woman needs space to think she can simply move into another room and be less around the man.

When you see a Woman saying she grew to big for the relationship it is often a need to massage her Ego that she became bigger than a man..

The problem with thinking you become bigger than people is a mental illusion. One can be fantastic in one realm like be highly intelligent but lacking in human interaction intelligence. One could be very wise in knowledge but very foolish in compassion.

A friend of mine in America is currently dating a TikTok influencer who has done some X Rated content before. He loves her to bits and he has not stopped her from twerking for her followers. Despite being a nerd na TikTok influencer he won marry. From what I can see it will work because he is very emotionally stable hates drama and does not like raising his voice.

So people when you see a Woman leaving a Perfect man it's not the man's fault regardless of what the woman says.

It's like having the perfect job and walking away from it. Na the job fault ?
U are absolutely right. Look at the footballer KAKA who was a real gentleman to everyone and was big on female advocating. His wife said she divorced him because he was too perfect.

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