Edygirl,only u deep inside your heart would know if this is true love or not but methinks if you could get through with the relationship for 3years there gotta be something there
about your folks sayin all those things,amidst all they say, always remember that you come first,you'll have to live your life with whomever you choose to be with,whether rich or poor, you posses the choice,so plzzz choose right.
And about this guy you are in love with,he may seem not too-well to do now, but you never know what the future holds for him,so one more time i'll say listen to your heart and choose right.
ma prayers go with u

Maybe you need to also work on the words you utter when you approach females.Trust me,nowadays,looks dont really matter anymore it's how you would be able to carry yourself and what you have to offer for yourself

men,is this dude being used big time or what?!!!!! oh boy,u need to leave that golddigger alone and find a girl that will appreciate you and not demand mercilessly frm u,drop that girl like it's hot