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Well, cooking is a part of nurturing your family, It is not as important now days in modern times as it once was in the good old days. Now, you find women going out helping the man be the bread winner, than they come home take care of the kids and his behind while he sits in front of TV. Now, don't get me wrong there are still couples who share in the task and believe in fifty-fifty. And there are many who still believe in the traditional way, which I was raised and that is the man is the head of his castle and the bread winner. My mom started teaching me early, I am oldest girl, the task passed to me to prepare and cook for my other four siblings when she was away. It was pleasure to me the responsiblity of taking care of younger ones or to have them look up to me for. There is an old saying I love, and that is Men don't know how to treat a woman these days, give a woman food she will prepare a meal, give her a house she will return a home, give her your seed she will give you a child. It's all a part of being the weaker vessel and submitting to man. This is the pleasureable part of being a woman. Don't lose that part of you. Cooking and preparing a meal for your family can be a pleasurable thing a gift of knowing you are doing your God given gift, or Allah or Jah or the name u use part of being your mans helper. If you find one who knows really how to setup his home.

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OK, I am kind of new here, just begin to post. So here is a new topic. Let's have some fun with it. OK?

Ladies/gentlemen you remember when you first met your boyfriend or hubbies, yeah. Well, that look he gave you, or when he was near did things to you. Your body went crazy with yearning. So tell me what do you do to keep the home fire burning?

Well, I would always do things kind of unsuspecting like once he came home. I got him to set on couch in front of red lite candles and champagne, I purchased light bulbs of red in color, so room was beautifully light. I excused myself and slipped on this stunning nightie it was red lace. ( few years back much younger, LOL) I turned on music, I chose earlier and turned on the house speakers came out lip syncing and dancing for him.

He laughed all through and I couldn't finish my act because I started laughing too. Than we drank champagne and I asked him to dance for me. LOL, he did in nude. Anyway, that SOB left. Too bad, for him because after he got out there and saw theres no place like home. He tried to come back. But I have retired my act for now.

So, what do you do to keep it burning?

[color=Black][/color]Hi, members I have a question, I am 37yrs old, no children and lonely. I don't go out to clubs or hang out, in fact I like being at home just not alone. I was married ten years but husband walked out. So for past two years I have been on my own. This feeling of loneliness, seems to be spreading like a disease. I throw myself into work but still when I come home I find the house to be like a tomb, it is quiet and not alive. The walls seem so sad I even look at my pet dog and he looks at me as though he feels sorry for me. LOL. I try to read and I pray but still being in the house is a constant reminder that I have no one to share my life with. So my question is what do you do when loneliness seems to be getting the best of you?          

The oldest define of love is from example by one man. And that is when you are willing to give your life for another to live. Now, to me that is true love How many will say and mean it from the heart that they would die for the one they now say takes their breath away when their lover comes near Or makes their heart beat rthymes inside the chest. Or sends tingles down tinglesdown the back, or makes their stomache feel funny from butterflies. And makes them weep tears of passion from the pleasure as they make love to you. Would you die for them? All these feelings everyone has are feelings that lead to the emotions of love. The emotions build to a point you would do anything and dying is one of them. So are we there yet? Or when the sound of danger comes do we throw them in front of the wagon?

[b][/b]allonmym come on lighten up a little. Can u do this for me even the lady may have had a sense of humor. Even though she maybe lonely you have to sometimes laugh to keep from crying. Nothing wrong with what he said. don't make a mountain out of mole hill learn to laugh a little or you will be caught up the stomp when you run your blood pressure up. Just smile laugh with the world. boo did that make u laugh? no? ok, have a good day Cheers

prince_onx you are funny!! 39.99 lol lol you are natural born comedian for sure.

Habibat he said he is single and still looking, I believe single would be your key word here. therefore it would conclude he wants something other than party for two.

2cantango he did it is all in his profile.

Thank you, its actually very easy to do with a bottle of spritz nice cute you have it.

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I am also looking for a good Nigerian fellow. Any eligble men  between 37 to 45 tired of being solo?