I think I would have liked it better with the noodles they used in the video and fresh spinach but I was improvising. I didn’t have all the ingredients or not enough. I was also thinking of adding chili flakes at first but then decided to go for the original taste. Your idea with the chili oil is what I will try next time though.
The question was whether a child is worse off without a mother or without a father, not if a fatherless home is better than a two-parent home. Your statistics don’t suggest that a child without a mother is better off than without a father.
Secondly, before you use statistics next time, know the difference between correlation and causation.
LVStone, be careful with the advice you get here. People write like they know your wife better than you but are just commenting based on their prejudice. Their words might add to your problems instead of helping. And at the end of the day, they don’t care about you and your home at all.
Techie25: I used to think I'm an introvert but these little days I've stayed alone, Omo I doubt I'm even an ambivert. Staying alone is kinda crazy, Upon I take myself out, Buy pepper soup, buy drinks, bring in girls once in a while but still. I feel lonely and empty.
I once made a thread about not feeling alive, I'm kinda linking it to this.
As I'm typing this, I'm even thinking of moving back to my parents house, Stay one year and refresh because I really don't understand what's happening or what's wrong, Nothing seems to excite me anymore nor makes me happy.
They're all temporal just like drugs.
I'm not addicted to anything, Whether drugs or smoke or whatsoever.
I'll need an advise on what to do.
Please Note: I'm not depressed.
Move back with your parents or find a roommate if living alone is your problem.
UjuJoan2: This is the repercussions of the 50/50 bills you men have been fighting for. There is no romance without finance. Just as men are wired to cheat, women are wired to be turned on by money.
If you want romance in your marriage, be ready to provide 100%. You cannot expect her to share bills with you and then want to come and “play with her b00bs”, it won’t work. A providing man is a sexy man. Anytime she sees you she will want to jump your bones.
Argue with your ancestors!!
All women (and men) are not the same. I don’t need my husband to provide everything to find him attractive.
Efuaye: A responsible single father is worth more than an irresponsible single mum. However, never pray to be raised by a single parent. Being under the loving care of both parents will be the best thing that can happen to you.
YoungDaNaval: As old as you are you never still get sense. Does your stupid husband see the kind of post you make on nairaland at all? What will he even do? He's a useless simp.
Do you really think you are alpha? Your insecurity stinks. I bet if you met her husband, you wouldn’t open your mouth like this. Stupid kid insulting someone else’s husband.
ojobolinda: I respect you for this comment. U r the only one that didn't judge me before getting the full story. My husband married me a virgin, we dated for 2yrs without sex (our agreement). My wedding night was the first sexual experience for me and it was painful... I continue managing the all stuff but its not getting better, sex is not enjoyable to me. Once he ask for sex, the first thing that comes to my head is PAIN. Because of that I am never in the mood but I do it just for him.. Most times I refuse and it turns to quarrel. I feel for my husband because its not his fault but I no do again
If I knew this is how it will be, I wouldn't have gotten married just like they have being commenting here.
My dear, the sex problem can be solved. There are very simple solutions to your problem. I think millions of women over centuries have experienced what you are going through. Luckily, we have more knowledge today and can approach this matter differently.
First of all, you need to know yourself. Is there anything that turns you on? Your husband shouldn’t penetrate you before you are wet. I don’t want to go into all details here but you need to learn more about your body. Sex at the beginning is painful for most women but if you know what you need, chances are high you will enjoy it too.
As for the problem with the place you live, this can be solved too. However, I don’t have enough details to advise you here.
If you love your husband, don’t give up just yet. Your problems can be solved. I am pretty sure you will enjoy intimacy one day if you get what you need now.
Wishing you the best of luck and an easy pregnancy and safe delivery. And lots lots lots of happiness.
Mom007: Honestly, this is the most sensible remarks to this two men's public show of shame and airing dirty laundry. At the end of the day, it's all about the money. Playing on the emotions of millions of fans across the world... chai! It's pure genius!
Ogbuu101: Sadly,most of todays girls have an ashawo mentality when it comes to sex and 90% of them who are like that carry it into marriage. Cos I’m sure she must’ve been giving it to the guy 10 times a day when they were dating,but now the extra expenses associated with marriage has come in and money is no longer flowing she suddenly doesn’t like sex
What if she was a virgin when she got married? What if she didn’t know what sex was like and that she wouldn’t like it?
ojobolinda: I regret getting married. My marriage is just a year old. I can't go into details but the bottom line is, I am not divorcing just want a separation. Reason for my decision 1) I hate sex where as my husband loves it. I have being unable to satisfactory fulfill my conjugal duties to him. I can stay a year without sex and I am happy but its unfair to my husband because he loves sex. We quarrel about it often.
2) Where we are living is affecting my mental health and I pleaded with him for us to relocate but he refused.
There are more which I can't type because it will make the post lengthy
I want to live apart from my husband and his family. I just want to move to another state and stay alone, all by myself. Marriage is not for me. I don't want my parent to know about it too because they wouldn't approve of it ( I have always given them this impression that I am happy in my marriage).
I am currently pregnant and we both agreed he will have custody of the child when he is born.
I just want to know if I will regret my action in the long run
What about sex do you dislike? Have you ever climaxed? Is there pre-intimacy before your husband starts? Do you have romantic moments during the day, kiss or hug?
What about the place where you live is so bad? Why doesn’t your husband want to relocate? What are his reasons?
We are really in the same thought frequency, seriously. That's the only way, to actually kick the bucket himself and hope the RNC refers to him as a martyr. Because, there's no way out for him now as it is
I have seen some of your comments here and I concur.
The rapist trump is holding a rally in a 9k seater hall but only under 900 have shown up. We haven't counted the craiglist paid actors being bussed in though.
Seriously? 900? How do you know?
I wouldn’t be very surprised if he kills himself but knowing Trump he will deny reality and create an alternative one.
armyofone: Bring back grandpa! That will make basilico and co feel better
But he already has a grandpa. He is 78 years old and can’t deliver a coherent speech or lay out a sound policy plan. His name is Donald Trump. They should enjoy the time left with him till November.
basilico: What is wrong with you. That's Pelosi saying they thought it would be an open process aka DNC convention to pick the nominee. Wot I twisted ?