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mii4u:
Bro some men will not allow u to do anything even with ur hands while sitting at home... I know a case of a man telling the wife that he will rather die than see her do anything, he does not want anything that will come from the woman and the said woman is a graduate, he doesn't give her monthly upkeep, the rule is wateva u want, let me know, if I have I give u if I don't, endure. And the man is very violent. So pls don't blame some women, u don't know how they have bin leaving.

only few will understand
Thank you

elantraceey:
Sorry for your plight and the lose of your child but sometimes I'm wary of one sided stories.


While you were standing by him, didn't you do anything to uplift yourself? I see a lot of ladies that stay with broke guys and the guy would be working hard to uplift himself and the lady will be nothing thinking he'll still be with her when he becomes rich because she was giving herself to him for free while he broke, my dear things don't work like that.

All that been said, you are where you are now and if you really want help, I'm going to ask these questions. Are you educated? What skill do you have? What can your hands do? Location doesn't matter, you can start up something and start taking of yourself instead waiting for one man to come uplift you.

I can bake cakes and I can make washing soap. It all need money to start up

I met him 2010 in my village when during Sallah festival he was very broke but I didn't care I stood by him I did all I could to see him up among his mate by 2014 he got a job and things start moving well for him by then he was still a good man, late 2016 we got married and a year later I was blessed with twins one died at birth but I believe it is the will of God. I never stop working with him saving money for him and planning our future and kid future with him and he loved me very well then fast forward 2019 he started changing he no longer care about me or my kid sometimes he beat me February 10 2019 was the day I will never forget I called him that our kid is sick that she needs blood my husband told me he don't care I should find a way to care for the child. I began to wonder what could be wrong but I did nothing bad to him only for him to call me one day that he wants to marry another wife whatt is that the reason why you have been trying to push me away? He refused to respond I started praying for God to help him see me and love me the way I love him but he cares about the new woman and not even me or my baby may 4th 2019 I lost my baby my whole world changed during that time I was suffering he married that woman and he come very abusive and I had to flee for my life I went back to village where I stayed with my grandma you know life in the village is very hard I suffered till I nearly ran mad my appearance change I became weak and unstable almost a year now I have not heard from him and am suffering to death.
I am very weak and I have Lost everything i need advice on what to do? And I need help I am starving he destroyed my life my dream and everything the only thing left for me now is death please help me.