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Your wife is just crafting plausible excuses to avoid serious consequences of her actions.

Let me be very plain to you. Your wife has been cheating on you, and, she will continues cheating on you if allowed.
1. No cheating woman, cheats once as long as the social dynamics, uncontrollable sexual urge and/or the economic status that triggered that her infidelity, are constant

2. She had been intentionally in her actions. That is why she switched off her phone while engaging in her illicit acts. She didn't want you to disturb her at that material point in time.

You went to visit a man for many hours with your phone switched off, and, you tell me the man did not have his way. Visiting him alone is already enough reason for me to send you packing.

I can give you 100 reasons why she will cheats again. And, I'm not an advocate of forgiveness when it comes to woman cheating.

You have to report her to her parents and, send her packing. She has betrayed the vow she made.

Listen to me. A cheating wife is more dangerous than a poison . Be CAREFULL

Listen to me me you lot. That you married a virgin is not a yardstick to her fidelity. So many things can change a woman's behaviour. Take this to the bank!




Hello nairalanders, I am new to this forum and I was introduced by a friend of mine to this forum to seek advice on how to go about my marital issue.

Here is the problem, I married my wife a virgin and as at that time she was almost done with schooling as I met her when I went to stay with a friend around her school area. So we connected and then I told her I had interest in her and I would like for us to be in a relationship so she agreed and we started dating.

Fast forward to 2024 she was done with school so I went to pay her bride price and then brought her over to Lagos where I stay and then we started living together as husband and wife.

Everything has been moving fine after I disvirgined my wife and I felt like I was the luckiest man on earth and I feel like I already made it in life because I believe as a man if you get a good wife then you have solved 80% of your problem the remaining 20% will be making money to sustain the family.

So of lately I notice my virgin wife became so addicted to sex that she barely can’t go a day without sex and I am ready to give it to her any day any time.

So I traveled for work sometimes around feb 2025 and I stayed 2 weeks over there so when I came back I decided to take a stroll with my wife to get something down the street so I noticed as I was getting something she greeted a guy that sells female stuffs in my street so immediately I turned to talk to her she quickly discharged the guy and then they both acted like they were not talking together well I was unbothered because I mean the guy is just a trader doing his business and maybe she bought something from him and so I suspected nothing. Not until I noticed my wife likes going out to get things and she would spend time outside and this is something she doesn’t like doing before so I thought she is getting used to the Lagos life and so she is enjoying herself now and comfortable now in Lagos. I never had any insecurities whatsoever because I don’t believe she could have anything to do with any man since I married her a virgin although I know she has high sexual drive but I still think she can’t do no such thing.

Fast forward to sometimes around June I traveled again but this time somewhere close to where I live so I told her I would be spending a week or more and so I left to work getting there we lodged and waiting for update as regards to why we are here so on the 3rd day the contractor called and said we should all go and come back that the job has been rescheduled till the next month so I decided to go back home that same day since it was not far from where I stay so I tried reaching out to my wife’s number but she wasn’t reachable so I thought her phone was off, so I boarded a bus home to relax and break the news to her only to find my house locked and my wife wasn’t home and her phone was not going through so I managed to open the door using my spare key and then went inside and took my shower then I went to the kitchen but there was no food to eat so I decided to prepare something for us to eat in the house. I tried reaching my wife again and still not reachable and it was getting late already so I was worried and was curious to know what happened to her because she’s not so conversant with areas in Lagos. So I decided to pray and take some wine while I wait to think of my next action.

Suddenly she messaged me and told me she has not been able to charge her phone and there have not been light in the house, so I asked her where she was and she told me she was in the house and then I told her to come on video call I want to show her something I got for her but she told me the ba3 will die that she managed to use this to call me so I know she’s fine well I told her there was no problem and she should do her to make sure the battery don’t die so we can communicate tonight. So I went outside the compound only for me to find my wife coming back that night with this guy that sells female stuffs down the street and she was so shocked to see me at home she shouted immediately saw me and the guy just disappeared from no where.

Till now I don’t just know what to do because I married this woman a virgin but she has turned something else and I don’t know if to tell her parents or handle this like a man within us here although she told me she didn’t do anything with him that he tried to have her but she didn’t but how do I believe that please guys help me move this to front page so I get more suggestions as I am really confused.[/quote]

blacksam01:
It's free... I HV had fight with my landlord that led to the Court.

After all the battle... 7 months passed.. and the landlord is owing me . The court calculated I pay only 2 months six I HV a right to 6 months notice ...

My landlord took me to court once. The magistrates gave me six months on top the three months I lived after my rent expired. So, forget what you hear. 6 months is a legally binding right of a tenant.

kelechiodo:
How Europe and the entire world continue to tolerate this Hitler called Putin is still dumbfounding. Someone just woke up one day and start killing fellow human beings from another country and world just kept on looking and him and cowing in silence. After Ukraine, Poland would be next. Putin needs to be stopped now. He is too irrational.

How's the world still continuing tolerating a country killing children, women both old and young, pregnant and weak, men, both young and old can't be imagined! That's not all. They now starve them to death! What could be worst? Israel you know, I'm referring to. Let your advocacy be general

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youneedjesus:
I desire to do something extra and diversify and i am currently thinking of going i to fish farming. How lucrative is fish farming. What are the challenges. WHAT is the prospect.

Fish farming is not that lucrative as people project it.
1. The cost of feeding nowadays will take all the profits, that's even if you made some.
2. The cost of changing the water. Be it earthing pond or very.
3. The cost of labour to sort
4. Cannibalism
5. Thievery by farm workers.
6. Disease
7 Market instability.

I did it for two years. Despite my attention and efforts, I made loses back to back.

I will not advise anybody to engage in fish farming. Except, it's your own compound and, you live there.

Cj4charles:
I told someone that Israel can't get away after hitting Iran, I know for sure that Iran will deal with them mercilessly without the help of America

20 containers full of munitions had delivered to Isreal during the 12 day war. Yet, Isreal still collect!

Watianoengineer:
The only reason why Isreal was flexing muscle on Palestine is because they have no standard military. Hamas is just a militant group who poses lesser threat.


Iran would defeat Isreal any day anytime. Isreal has never fought a war that got their country directly hit but Iran proved too strong for them. Isreal doesn't agree to ceasefire if they were fighting a weaker opponent.

May God bless Iran

Amen. You said it all! Iran actually surprised everyone. Truly, no be who call police they win case fah

Period007:
Haha,he said I should stop watching BBC and CNN and focus on Aljazeera the world's largest terrorist supporting network banned in soo many countries.

If Iran releases 100 ballistic missiles, they should be able to tell us the intended targets and if the targets were struck or not. Stop defending them blindly, you are not their military spokesman.

If it were not a delusional mind, and, for a fact that your mind has been encased to always believe the lies told by Netanyahu and the West, you would do a little more research on the damages caused so far by Iranian missiles on Isreal . I mentioned a few to you, yet, you question the veracity of my claims .

Again, Aljazeera is only banned in Israel because the evil regime is aware that Aljazeera report it as it's. Unlike CNN are other western media who hide facts in favour of Western interest.

Almost all the missiles launched by Iran towards Isreal after US's Intervention made a devastating impacts.

The iron dome is now laid lame, and the others are now incapacitated against Iranian advanced missiles.

All of this boils down to jealousy.
That Iran is so developing rapidly in military capabilities to the surprised of the West. The only country aside China, Russia and US to have developed Hypersonic missiles.

You people can't take out their brilliant minds .

Isreal the God's chosen are taken aback in the scheme of things .

What you people fear will eventually happens by God grace

Period007:
Hitting homes and civilian infrastructure is very low for Iran.

They claim to be a power in the middle east but have zero precision.

All the massive destruction of the buildings are as a result of blast waves. Iran do not target buildings directly.

All Iranians missiles have actually hit their intended military and paramilitary targets, including intelligence building, and strategic locations.

Isreal military have again warned both citizens and journalist not to make any attempts to reports the sensitive hits made by Iranian missiles. You get jailed !

Iran has done more hits in intended targets than Isreal has done since Isreal invaded.

you people should stop listening to only CNN and BBC who are biased against Iranian success.

Watch Aljazeera and others to get the true pictures

TEHRAN, Jun. 22 (MNA) – The Islamic Revolution Guards Corps said it has, for the first time, launched multiwarhead Kheibarshekan (castle buster) ballistic missiles in its retaliatory strikes against the Zionist regime.

The IRGC on Sunday gave details of the 20th wave of Iran’s attacks against the Zionist regime as part of the Operation True Promise III.

It said the most recent stage of attacks was launched by firing 40 solid- and liquid-fuel ballistic missiles.

Multiwarhead Kheibarshekan ballistic missiles -the third generation of the IRGC Aerospace Force’s missiles- were fired in Sunday’s strike for the first time, the IRGC said, adding that modern and surprising tactics were employed to increase the accuracy of missiles and ensure their effective and destructive impact on the targets.

The Iranian missiles hit various targets such as Ben Gurion airport, the Israeli regime’s biological research center, and its replacement command-and-control centers, the IRGC stated.

The guided ballistic missiles launched by Iran had maneuverable and highly-explosive warheads that were being guided until the final moment of devastating impact, the statement noted.

It said the sirens in the occupied territories sounded only after the missiles hit the targets, upsetting the balance of the enemy.

The IRGC warned that the main sections of the capacities of the Iranian Armed Forces have not become operational in the counterattacks so far.

The Zionist regime waged an unprovoked war of aggression against Iran on June 13. It has carried out airstrikes on Iran’s nuclear, military and residential sites that resulted in the martyrdom of over 400 Iranians, including top military commanders, nuclear scientists and ordinary citizens.

The Iranian military forces started counterattacks immediately afterwards. They Islamic Revolution Guards Corps Aerospace Force has carried out 20 waves of retaliatory missile strikes against the Zionist regime as of June 22 as part of Operation True Promise

Bwanasaraw:
When Israel invaded Gaza after October 7th and Hezbollah started shooting missiles to Israel some people said the Israel Army is over stretched and can't fight Hezbollah because their stockpile of missile defense will get exhausted.

After defeating Hezbollah, some people said Israel can't fight Houthis because their fight with Hezbollah exhausted their missile defense.

Now they fighting Iran we are now hearing another propaganda

Hezbollah were firing rockets not missile. Oga, difference dey.

Even with US, Isreal can never be able to defeat Iran

brain54:
Israel spends 285 million dollars daily...


To intercept.


The rockets and missiles the Iranians are sending are they free or cheap?

To intercept is way costlier than to fire.
Make Una go school. Una say na scam

Chidex369:
You know more than Al Jazeera, cnn and others. Well done!

Mumu, it's what they let Aljazeera and CNN to know that they report.

Isreal has suffered morethan Iran on this. Their much hyped David's Sling and iron dome don tire. They are not able to intercept Powerful Iranian missiles . They are collecting left and right

vaxx:
Israeli media censors hundreds killed in Iran attacks

While Israeli government and security agencies are desperately trying to prevent the publication of casualty figures from Iranian missile attacks on the occupied territories, some sources are reporting a high number of Israelis injured and killed during these attacks.

In one case, the American newspaper Washington Post reported that the number of Israeli casualties since the beginning of Iran's missile operations has exceeded 1,800.

The newspaper did not announce the number of deaths, but some sources estimate the number of deaths during the several waves of Iranian missile attacks to be in the hundreds.

they did

The Israeli army's censorship organization has repeatedly announced over the past few days that the publication of statistics and images related to Iranian missile attacks is prohibited, and has called on residents of the occupied territories to refrain from publishing these items.

The attacks a few minutes ago (Iran Wave 11) were one of the heaviest attacks in recent days, with numerous images of repeated missile strikes on various cities, including Tel Aviv and occupied Jerusalem, also being released.

Despite repeated firings, Israel's air defenses are unable to intercept a large number of these missiles, and at the same time, some of these systems have also suffered technical errors and hit nearby areas in cities, causing extensive damage.

Even with the censorship, the destruction Israel has suffered is unimaginable. I duff my cap for Iran.

The Zionist regime is a criminal on all fronts.. Iran. Should teach them more lesson

Lots of you questioning the veracity of Op's post should hide your dumb heads in shame. The Institute has been bombed since 3 days. Hide your stinking ignorance and, stop disgracing yourself because of your hatred for Islam and Iran.
So. Many Israeli military infrastructures have been destroyed. But, because Isreal has a strong policy of censorship, most of the pictures and videos are not in the public view.

The only ones allowed are the accidental bombed buildings so as to instigate the public that Iran are bombing civilians.

Whereas, Israelis are terrorists , killing even newly born babies in Palestine - because you lots are so morally destitute, you have refused to condemned them.

BTW, Nigeria Christians, Isreal is not a Christian state .. It's a Jewish state. Stop your useless bigotry anytime Isreal is mentioned ..

You all will surely be out to shame

Israel's most famous science institute, known for developing drones, AI, and other advanced military technologies, has been destroyed.


Source: Washington journal
https://www.wsj.com/livecoverage/israel-iran-attack-news/card/israel-s-weizmann-institute-buildings-damaged-in-iran-attack-1KFe6Nmj0kQPFpl3lbNf


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QH30JYAJR0k?si=oIDakzUewla_DG4i[/quote]

The way your coward Isreal is targeting civilians including women and children in Gaza. I wish Iran can do more damage.

Like this, body they tell them.


Coward Iran can't do anything rather than targeting civilian population. Why don't they retaliate by killing Israeli military generals![/quote]

You have said it all!


I'm not a fan of Iran bit Isn'treal is overdoing.

Why attack a people for having the same weapon that you're having?

The hypocrisy and high-handedness is too much. Only religious bigots and terrorist sympathisers support the Zionist criminals.[/quote]

In my religion, wall geckos are advised to be killed. They are agents of the devil. Whether you believe this or not, wall geckos are very poisonous if any enters into your food or drink. Your girl friend could be right. So, please try and kill them. I always kill them in my house.

Should I be Worried about this Gecko?
Are Geckoes really agents of witchcraft?[/quote]

From my experience, Camry 08 is one of the most fuel efficient in all the Toyota products. I also use 08 Camry, and, I use exactly 42 liters from Lagos to Auchi which is 429 kilometers journey with load and passengers, and, with AC put ON. My Corolla uses more than that to cover the same journey.

So, if yours gulps fuel that much, I'm sure something is wrong.

Hello Nairalanders, as y'all can see from my previous threads, I bought a 2008 toyota camry July last year, the fuel consumption was something else and totally out of this world, I went from mechanic to mechanic, to detect and get It resolved, but the fault remained the same, nothing changed. So August last year, I bought a 2012 corolla, but it seems It also consume fuel which I didn't realized until I stormed upon a thread here on Nairaland, I came to this conclusion when I saw a thread on Nairaland titled "how much fuel per km does your car consume" I clicked on the thread and read all the comments and to my surprise, my corolla consume more fuel than those using v6 cars, a guy commented that his Toyota Venza goes 490 miles for 40k fuel, which is approximately 42 liters, I saw another comment where a guy stated that his camry goes 270km for 20k fuel.

Whereas my 2012 corolla goes 150km for 30k fuel which is approximately 31L of fuel. This Is the 5th time I have timed and calculated it's fuel consumption, the first I got 150km for 30k fuel, the second I got 144km for 30k fuel, the third I got 152km on 30k fuel, the forth, I got 146km on 30k fuel and the last which was four days ago, I got 149km on 30k fuel. I used "km" because my corolla gas milage reads in km and not miles.

Nevertheless, upon realizing this, I got a Nigerian used 2008 camry yesterday, the engine Is in great shape "very silent" but my mechanic I went with to purchase It warned me that there's no catalyst on it, In which I still proceeded in purchasing it, as I intended buying a catalyst for it tomorrow morning. I'm yet to test it's fuel consumption because I'm unable to drive It yet because my papers are not yet ready.

I have not sold my 2012 corolla yet, I told myself that If it consumes just like the corolla or consumes slightly just above the corolla, then I would sell my corolla, but If it consumes far more than the corolla then I would sell the newly bought camry and continue using my corolla.

For those using the 2007, 2008 or probably 2009 camry, what's your fuel consumption How many miles/km does your car goes per liter

Below are the pictures of my corolla and my newly bought camry.[/quote]

I think you are under-describing this your products. I'm getting more value than the money I spent in buying that interlude perfume from you.

I will recommend your products to anybody with full chest.

Even when I wash my shirt and without wearing the perfume, people still ask me what kind of perfume am I using.
I don't like giving review normally, but, I had to do this because of the great experience.

Please patronize this guy. You will be glad you did.




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What I see here is not Hyena

post=134952155]An Ekiti pastor, Oluwatuyi Olaseinde Alex, has marked a decade since he defended himself against a hyena attack on April 12, 2015. The pastor recently took to social media to commemorate the incident, expressing gratitude to God for His protection and deliverance.

Pastor Alex captioned his post "Just like yesterday, Thank you Lord God," reflecting on the traumatic event that has become a testament to his bravery and faith. The post has garnered reactions from friends, family, and well-wishers who have congratulated him on reaching this milestone.

The incident has likely strengthened Pastor Alex's resolve to serve and trust in God, and his celebration serves as a reminder of God's protection and care, even in the face of danger and uncertainty. The pastor's story continues to inspire many, and his faith remains a source of strength and guidance for himself and others.


SOURCE: https://ekitinews247.com.ng/2025/04/12/ekiti-pastor-marks-10-year-milestone-after-fending-off-hyena-attack/[/quote]

ReubenE:
This man child saying another dumb shvt again.

A president that talks like a market woman.

"never seen before" is his favourite line that goes along with whatever he is saying.

Either it is deportation never seen before or tariffs never seen before

He took like "never seen before" lol!

Ma'ashalah. Jazakalah khaira

JESHAL007:
Hi

Hi

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Magaji traveled from South Ibie to Okpella to buy cement and in the two hours he was gone, his wife's kpekus had been ravaged by their tenant.

The painful part is that, upon use, Magaji did not still find out that Sekinatu's kpekus had been tampered with, because it does not have a meter!

If it took two hours for a married woman to have three rounds of illicit sex, just imagine what can happen in seventeen years.

There's an English proverb that says; "when the cat is away, the mice comes out to play".
And to be honest, there is no better playground than the kpekus of a woman whose husband is far away.

You mean this happened in my community! Wonderfulu!

[quote author=pimplucious post=134122459]I’ve always said this, once a man decides to marry a woman, he does because he loves her. And then, the only thing that woman owes the man is PEACE. Not love, not support but PEACE. No matter his misdeeds, just be his PEACE.

Once that is elusive a man will find LOVE elsewhere and then see if PEACE is there, too.

I hope 2face finds peace in his new found love.

My marriage didn’t last 3 months. Though I love my wife but couldn’t trade my PEACE for love. I bailed eventually. I agree with you

[quote author=Newgoodkk post=133937127]I do Love having sex a Lot before , Name it , Tall , not too Short , Light in Complexion, Dark in Complexion, Once You are Beautiful/ Pretty and Looks Good , I go after you .

I enjoy sex a Lot .

All of a Sudden , I don't know what really happened and took over me ...

Sex Started looking irritating to me , The thought of Lady Private parts started Looking disgusting to me , Like So irritating that I Felts I wouldn't like to come close to anymore .

I feel really Pissed off now especially when I see a Lady with eye Lashes , Make Ups Etc .

There was an Heavy Traffic , I decided to meet up an Appointments Around somewhere , I decided to take a Bike , I can't Imagine myself Not able to sit at the back of this Lady already seated on the bike .

She decided to Come down so I could sit down first and she sits at my Back , Honestly, I can't withstand when the bike moves , her breast begins to touch my back even if it's not intensional .

Why is this ?

What has taken over me

Lately, I'm experiencing same. Have low drive for sex. My d.. ck is 200% ready any day, and, anytime. But I don't have much interest on it unlike before. I know the economy situation is a contributory factor. There's no cheap sex oo. No matter what, you would have spent 12k. I now see it as a waste of money. Fairly, I'm well to do, but, I see giving girls money now as a waste. Though, actor na actor sha

I have 2008 Camry tokumbo standard for 6.5.m Also, Sienna 2008 for 5.5m.

2004 camry for 4.5m.
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step out of Lagos searching for a reliable camry 2004. I saw many dealers on Jiji and nairaland. I visited each of them with my reliable mechanic.
After checking several cars, we discovered that none of the Nigerian used cars is worth buying .
They always have one problem or the other. The most common is bad engines.

Many dealers even promised to give my mechanic 100k behind my back to convince me to buy this melon car.

It's crazy that with 4.5 million, all you can get is a bad car.
We return home disappointed.

On getting home. I went back to check my own car that I have been driving for 5 years. My engine, gear, and ac are still in perfect condition and I wonder if those putting their car on sale are those with major problem.

Nigeria dealers have ruined the used car market.
Is this a problem with toyota or because the car is a lower year.

I didn't consider other brands. Maybe it would have been a different situation.

At the moment, we are considering buying Tokunbo direct or on installment payment in order to evade this madness in the Nigerian used car Market[/quote]