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deltateam:
Yeah even though you 'felt' bad about it.

I actually felt bad the moment he started calling me names but you see when I checked our chat and found out I have loads of proofs that 10k isn't really a problem ehn...

My mood changed

Simplep:
So in all that happened, the only thing that matters to you is if they had sex or not,why are you so dull?

That guy is slow .


And he is a low life, I won't grace him with a mention even if he will pay for it.

Watch him come back to start airing his short-sensed views from his rabies infested brain

pocohantas:
You did well by creating this thread,

Some of these guys take advantage of the fact that NL is a very misogynistic forum- where the woman is always at fault. They also know ladies do not like this kinda drama, so any small thing...they run online to throw you under the bus or start taking shots at you.

You really did well.

Sorry for the bad experience, there are still lots of responsible young men out here though.

Thanks a bunch sweetie

deltateam:
I wish you had put the link to his own version before stating yours.

I have searched for the mofo's thread but couldn't get.

Please don't tell me its the Nairaland MOD jay that did this!

They removed his post already.

But I saved a shot of the post before they did.

That's all I could do.

MrNipplesLover:
she puked on my moniker?

happy Sunday.

Happy Sunday to you too

MrNipplesLover:
[every] Body needs Aprokocin jare, my brother. especially on a Sunday morning like this, as u talk.

abi wetin man go do



enjoy, brother.

This your moniker ehn





*pukes on his moniker*

0KNM:
lol. Not Benin? Okay.

Thanks for that


Btw, no fbi o. Just doing aproko

I suspected benin sha since one of his monikers is obaofbenin.

Who cares anyways?

I won't even expect all that he claimed he was to be true.

0KNM:
you didn’t answer the question

He claimed PH.

Your hint was a very close one to his name sha..

You almost got the name.
You try.

FBI sir

0KNM:
Where is Osasemore or whatever his name is from? If you do not mind me asking on a Sunday morning

FBI sir.

spirul77:
@op, I'm sure you are not ready for all the attention this whole issue would subject you to, the best thing I would suggest you do is deactivate this your account and the alternates that has similar wordings with this your moniker, create another account and with different moniker and start a new "nairaland life" ,because as the matter be so na different styles and different patterns men go take dey throw you formats from now onwards

Musa has learnt a lot at his gate post trust me.

0KNM:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_Q6Rixmvujc

Ahahahahahahahahahahahahh.


I guessed right

DonroxyII:
Maynation is not a rare gem but a stupid spoilt gem !!

She brought all the shi.t on herself hearing the intelligent talks from him .... Most intellectual guys are potential scammers , you won't see it coming because what you see is the intellect !!

Now, I will have to train my would be daughters better !!! ......

From the huge contract, VC, Cheap Hotel , trash talk .... An intelligent mind would have seen some disconnect.... Maynation fell because she lent him 25k and he returned 35k .....

Testing the water to earn trust for big lash !!

You people just think as though you have diarrhea in your brain or when God created you he purposely didn't give you a cerebrum.


I fell for him because he paid my 25k loan with extra 10k?


How much have you given a lady in your life? Not even a lady how much have you given your parents?

Do you have any idea what it takes to send someone I met online 25fuckingK?

And now you say the additional 10k got me tripping.



B*tch yo the one tripping here.

Mad out.

0KNM:
Ote sele bo yahoo ni babalawo
Ole ni everybody eni ile moba sani barawo
Ofe se ika fun mi
mi ologun mo ni Quran
mon de se adura mi
bi nse se adura mi
Allah ngba adura mi
Ati lo atide
eni ori yo odile
eniba lo lo bade
igba tin gba da de
se na de mi ni ade
kade kope lori
ki bata ko pelese
ki awon ota mi kan lese


Inside life lotiri 5ive alive

Lol I don't know if this is a song sha but if it is, it looks like something CDQ or Nairamarley could sing

DonroxyII:
Trust ..... This really gat me ROTF ..... Sex shd be the least thing under ur bf consideration ..........Your safety should be his paramount if he actually knew the story from inception !!

I was just amazed by everything ... I don't blame the "Jay" , I blame you and your bf who is aware and never stopped you......

Good heart doesn't live long ..... I can give out money and any material things to anybody (No qualms) but my personal life, my abode, my home is absolutely mine , I only share this with my personal people (Inner caucus mi) ....

Anyway, Maynation, If I am your father, I will slap you five times and cry for the next five months while Thanking my God for delivering my daughter from herself !!


18pages dusted, Tatafo yaff kee me

You already all through?


Tatafo yaff kee u indeed.

area74:
@maynation,

I am publicly requesting to become your friend. If the chats I read are true without dilution, there is no point hiding behind a finger. A woman like you is so rare.

I need not to proof anything because you will naturally become wary of meeting new guys especially from a faceless forum like nairaland but I can assure you that my identity is real. I am the country manager of a popular company in Nigeria in one of the west African countries.

I am in a dire need of a girl like you. I believe that you will complement me. I need your maturity and intelligence. I hope that you will find my personality interesting. One bad thing about me is that I'm always very busy and constantly travels due to the nature of my job.

I am not shy to express my friendship publicly because what is good is worth chasing.

Here is my email : tyolamide22atgmaildotcom

Lol.
Let even imagine I have none of this encounter with Jay.

You think you could just stop me and tell me you are Barrack Obama's PA and Donald Trump's right hand man and I will pay you attention?
Who approaches a lady with what they are?
You even wrote that you are the busy type. Funny.
You can do better love.

Thanks for the offer but I will just pass.

Originalsly:
Pim....now what?? �

Really... I'm glad you put this out there.... stood up and defended yourself...and did so verrrry well. Is like you just can't be nice to people again without looking at them as if you're ehmmm....CID ??

Hmmmm...... all these fine women with head full of working brain just be hiding in the shadows.

I didn't say I won't be nice to people o Oga.

It just doesn't have to be on NL.

JohnnyPalmer:
@ maynation.... I don't often commend nairaland ladies
As a matter of fact, I have zeroed nairaland ladies
But you have changed my opinion that there are still good ones..

Lesson number one.... Never judge based on one side of the story

I guess many would have condemned the lady based on the guys post.. Without hearing from the other side

Number 2.....never trust a stranger you met online.... The ones you know in real life cannot be completely trusted

What if he had killed you in your own home

It wasn't a wise decision and I blame your boyfriend... Good heart or not

The guy had a plan... There was no contract... He was an obvious scammer

He only came to Akure to see you, effect the plan and maybe chop the cookie too

You just a strong lady for not giving in

He's obviously an amateur too and sloppy... Invading your privacy and still telling you, he knows how much you earn

Lazy motherfvcker

Pained ass niggaa...he eventually lost control and panicked.... Rushed here to boost his ego....

Did you ask for the 10k extra?

What about the accommodation for 2 weeks ? Probably you were the one feeding him and all.... Still no get shame dey say he's broke

Isn't all that worth more than 10k?

A sense of useless entitlement... You should buy him 1k card

This Jay dude will come to regret it.... Cos he just wasted a lifetime friendship opportunity..

I liked that you cleared him on time.... Not leading him on

The onus lies on him not to give up... Maybe he win eventually win your heart or something.... Various ways to do this right.... The mofo decided to play a fast one


When it didn't work out... He started crying foul... Trying to thrash a good samaritan image

You lucky he wasn't around.... When you told him... You'd saved enough money for another car
He would have had sleepless nights.... Maybe na then im go hit you something for head

Who is the scammer?
So many guys are disgracing the male gender

He never had money for any hotel... He told you he was broke when he came around.... He was banking on you accommodating him from start....
You dived right into it.... It was a well laid out plan... I give it to him
He only got emotional and naive at the end

Let's say you actually had feelings for him.... It will be like filmtrick, how your money for grow wings

You've done nothing wrong, except being too nice, too trusting and too accomodating

God bless you sis... There might actually be a few good Nigerian gals out there with no strings attached

You people are just making me smile with your level of intelligence.

Thanks a lot sweet heart.

Lessons learnt, advice taken.

Thanks a bunch

Originalsly:
This is most important.... don't ever ignore warning signs. He has a big contract .... but travelling for two weeks to hopefully contest for it? ... travelling but not knowing where to stay? ... can afford two week stay but clueless about getting data? ...and borrowing money for same?...N1K? You not living in a one room?...and single?... back to Plan A... borrow money...pay back quickly with interest... impress paying back is not a problem... set up for the kill.... either get your bank account details (locked room hurdle)... or big investment scheme... both failed... he mad. Consider yourself lucky he didn't jam a knife at your throat... force you to give him the details... then slit your throat....and disappearing. Again..... never ignore warning signs or gut feelings.
Some men are really dogs.... but few are exceptions... the ones you can trust with all your heart.... like me for example..... sooo calm and honest and gentle like a lion lamb. So now that the beast has gone and the guest room is empty.... and I have to be in your area for a conference.... is it possible that ehmmmm......can we talk privately??

This baba na CID.. ��




@the boldened..

If I hear pim

A305:
Just PM you Miss Mary, would love to read from you.

Warm regards

Ji masun

Cannicus:
Reading through your chats, I immediately recognised the hotel format for what it was. Seems you didn't. And might still not recognise other formats in future.

Quick question pls. If you were staying in a self contain, would you still have accommodated him? Are you that nice (or naive) or you banked on your neighbors and gateman for additional security?

I don't know if I would have accommodated him tho.

In my chat with him there was a point where I jokingly said he could leave with my gadgets in his bag but no way he could leave with bigger things.

Why? Because even before his arrival I have already discussed his coming with security men.
And all eyes were on him.

More reason why I wasn't really bothered about my properties, my life was what I will say I joked with.


So yes I seriously banked on them security men.

TONYE001:
Maynation, I applaud you on being exceptionally kind. You simply showed love which is a character that's expected of every human. Sadly, it didn't turn out well.

We all have our experiences. True. Albeit, I would plead that this shouldn't discourage you from continuing in your display of love and kindness to every human you come across, irrespective of gender, tribe, religion or race. We are all humans first before any other thing.

I must add quickly that you should be careful. Inviting a "stranger" to your home was a bit risky. Maybe in the future, you should adopt safer methods.

To you "guys" stereotyping Nigerian females, you can now see that there are females that suffer discomfort because of you makes? You can now see that there are females that give money to you males without expecting any particular favour? Next time, before you make blanket statements remember that your mothers and sisters fall in the category of Nigerian females.

The brother should be ashamed of himself. He should apologize to you in public.

Really, how some commenters turn this against the OP is baffling, to say the least.

I read this twice, smiling all to myself.


Thanks a bunch.

Biritiko:
Ignore that dumbass.

I better do

odave:
Ha, this serious o. I always tell people, scammers are schemers, they always have plan. It's you that needs to wake up.

And the guy rushed to nairaland to call someone scammer. He just burned a very useful bridge. We take friendship for granted most time.

maynation, may God continue to protect you. Honesty and having good heart in Nigeria makes one vulnerable. Thank God you dodge a bullet.

I wonder why some are still insulting her

Amennnnn.

Mesef no know o.
Thanks darl

Carbon2Oxide:
"Jay" baawo...

I just want to say "Hey"

I will send your regards

Funkybabee:
hmmmmmm you said there it was a boring talk about the business and later on leads to curse..




you haven't say the koko oooo

What is the 'koko' you are expecting?

Carbon2Oxide:
Your BF is from Mars then

Can you introduce me to your friends. Since birds of the same feather flock together

You want to 'Jay' my innocent friends?

prinx55555:
Good night Bros kid.

Lol @ Bros kid

Eveezy:
On a norm with the kinda person I see you are by what you have posted, I would have rushed to your dm, but in this situation is not the right thing to do.

Anyone who will probably dm u will go thru lot of scrutinizing, Nd still end up not getting ur attention.

As a matter of fact, I believe it will be almost impossible to trust anyone on nairaland.

So I fill just jejely just follow u Nd watch ur updates. Cos I only follow people that I feel have sense

Lol. No be lie

prinx55555:
Immature thirsty Nigga you all come online thinking everyone is like your immoral Sisters.


Alaaru tin je buredi.

Please leave this kiddo o pleaseeeee.


Just ignore him.

prinx55555:
He is staying lowkey kind of

Good for him tho.

prinx55555:
He has a new account.

He already made a comment on this thread.

That clown , can't even imagine which of the monikers is his.