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Dating And Meet-up Zone / Re: Married And Bored Just Like Me? Let's Be Friends... by merit1988(f): 6:56am On Jun 01, 2020
Still here darlings kiss
Family / Re: I'm Struggling With Love In My Marriage by merit1988(f): 12:44pm On May 27, 2020
yettymuse:
sadly you deactivated without listing the unselfish reasons! You for school us small na
my dear cheesy forget some of the bigots we have on Nairaland
Family / Re: I'm Struggling With Love In My Marriage by merit1988(f): 12:16pm On May 27, 2020
hardbody:
I tried to read the entire posts on this thread...I gave up mid way
forget the thread wink
Dating And Meet-up Zone / Re: Married And Bored Just Like Me? Let's Be Friends... by merit1988(f): 12:12pm On May 27, 2020
I've responded to all DMs
Dating And Meet-up Zone / Re: Married And Bored Just Like Me? Let's Be Friends... by merit1988(f): 4:36am On May 25, 2020
Still here

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Dating And Meet-up Zone / Re: Married And Bored Just Like Me? Let's Be Friends... by merit1988(f): 3:37pm On May 24, 2020
Smile87:
Everyone is jst saying pm pls wat does it mean o
it means that u should send me a direct message... Or if u don't mind, u can drop ur What'sApp no here for me..just because you may not know how to send a DM
Dating And Meet-up Zone / Re: Married And Bored Just Like Me? Let's Be Friends... by merit1988(f): 7:48am On May 21, 2020
miracle139:
WHY YOU SHOULDN'T CHECK YOUR PARTNER'S PHONE

1. It makes you into someone you don’t want to be.

Nobody likes the person that they become when they are consumed with waiting for their partner to go to the bathroom so they can pounce on their phone and quickly scroll through texts. Most people want to feel like they are honest people with integrity and self-respect. Nothing is a bigger hit to your self-esteem than snooping around, feeling like you’re a criminal, trying to get information that you know isn’t rightfully yours.

2. It sabotages closeness.

Many relationships never bounce back after one partner confesses to snooping on the other. Even if it turns out that your partner was in fact flirting with someone else, your sneaky behavior often cancels out their flirtation and you lose the moral high ground in your argument. It is very hard for anyone to trust someone who they now realize was going through their private messages, looking for evidence of their misbehavior. This lack of trust may be just as hard to forgive, in many ways, as an uncovered flirtation.

3. It puts you in a weaker position.

When one person snoops on another, it creates an unhealthy power dynamic. When you’re in a position where you feel empowered, you simply don’t sneak around and spy on others. You live your life without worrying about what other people are doing.

But if you become fixated on what your partner is doing rather than what you yourself are doing, you are effectively disavowing your own power and giving it away. This is not a healthy long-term dynamic.
Dating And Meet-up Zone / Re: Married And Bored Just Like Me? Let's Be Friends... by merit1988(f): 7:42am On May 20, 2020
Smile87:
wat if we are not on WhatsApp,so we can't join
the group is on WhatsApp dear .. that's the only way u can join
Dating And Meet-up Zone / Re: Married And Bored Just Like Me? Let's Be Friends... by merit1988(f): 1:59pm On May 18, 2020
I've responded to all DMs
Dating And Meet-up Zone / Re: Married And Bored Just Like Me? Let's Be Friends... by merit1988(f): 8:34pm On May 13, 2020
percyllahpercy:
Do you want a girlfriend or a friend with benefits

I want to teach you a Free step by step teaching on how to find a

girlfriend or friend with benefits on Facebook or Instagram
.
In less than 3 days

Join the group by sending me a message on WhatsApp with this number

0807 884 9553

Or use the link in my signature to send me a direct message

And say I want to join the group

And I Would add you to the group immediately

Here is my number again

Group will soon be filled
0807 884 9553
SMH
Dating And Meet-up Zone / Re: Married And Bored Just Like Me? Let's Be Friends... by merit1988(f): 8:36am On May 13, 2020
toks1610:
Pls add me up 07067484230

[qquote author=merit1988 post=84593735]Hi pple, will you like to make new friends with like minds here... there's a what'sapp group for that purpose...we play games, share jokes, gist, tease each other, discuss marital issues, business/careers talks and just hv fun generally...

Please you must be mature and married to be added to the group... that way, you have confidence that you meeting with someone who's in the same situation as you and understands what you are going through.

You might have to prove that you're married before added.


PM if ur Interested.... dropping ur phone number here wouldn't be necessary... I'll be waiting dearies.....
pls send a DM
Dating And Meet-up Zone / Re: Married And Bored Just Like Me? Let's Be Friends... by merit1988(f): 7:00pm On May 12, 2020
merit1988:
I'm more focused on adding more ladies now... Married babes, come forth ohhhh grin
Dating And Meet-up Zone / Re: Married And Bored Just Like Me? Let's Be Friends... by merit1988(f): 9:28am On May 09, 2020
stbruno:
Sent a DM yet to be responded to
i have responded
Dating And Meet-up Zone / Re: Married And Bored Just Like Me? Let's Be Friends... by merit1988(f): 9:27am On May 09, 2020
cruzz664:
08038581655
send a DM sir
Dating And Meet-up Zone / Re: Married And Bored Just Like Me? Let's Be Friends... by merit1988(f): 1:11am On May 08, 2020
Still here
Dating And Meet-up Zone / Re: Married And Bored Just Like Me? Let's Be Friends... by merit1988(f): 10:16am On May 06, 2020
gotina:
Am interested admin but am new here I don't really know how to PM. Thanks
click on my name, then read through what is shown afterwards... Click on send me an Email
Dating And Meet-up Zone / Re: Married And Bored Just Like Me? Let's Be Friends... by merit1988(f): 10:10am On May 06, 2020
gotina:
Am interested admin but am new here I don't really know how to PM. Thanks
Okkkkk... I'll send u a DM... Just say Hi
Dating And Meet-up Zone / Re: Married And Bored Just Like Me? Let's Be Friends... by merit1988(f): 10:09am On May 06, 2020
blackdennis:
hope this thread is not unsafe cool
have u been swallowed so far? grin
Dating And Meet-up Zone / Re: Married And Bored Just Like Me? Let's Be Friends... by merit1988(f): 12:27pm On May 05, 2020
I have responded to all DMs
Dating And Meet-up Zone / Re: Married And Bored Just Like Me? Let's Be Friends... by merit1988(f): 1:29pm On May 02, 2020
merit1988:
If u can go through screening, don't DM me... If u can't show a proof of being married, don't DM me... If uv got no spice and sauce, don't DM me.... We are growing gracefully kiss
Dating And Meet-up Zone / Re: Married And Bored Just Like Me? Let's Be Friends... by merit1988(f): 2:30pm On Apr 30, 2020
If u can go through screening, don't DM me... If u can't show a proof of being married, don't DM me... If uv got no spice and sauce, don't DM me.... We are growing gracefully kiss

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