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Kobojunkie:
1. Let's stop telling everyone this lie that was invented by your traditional/religious leaders to keep many subjugated and controlled under their banners. There is no partner for everyone out there. As a matter of fact, about 25% of the population in every generation go on to never experience marriage or a romantic relationship in their lifetime. Not through any fault of their own, but because life had many other equally important or meaningful plans for them. And that is the fact of this life we live in. 🥱🥱

2. Again, stop telling him this lie! No human out there has mind-reading abilities. That stress of having to communicate your feelings and plans is necessary regardless of who you meet. 🥱🥱

3. This is the worst advice that many out there ever received. It leads to burnout, bitterness(being rejected so many times tends to take a toll on the average emotionally deficient being out there), and disillusionment. Look at threads in the Romance section on Nairaland for the evidence of this. 🥱🥱

4. Wrong! His problem, as he honestly stated, is that he is still lacking in emotional and social intelligence. And the only way to properly resolve his issue is for him to take time out from the chase to work on these skills until he is at least at a point where he is comfortable enough to express himself to both men and women, and also knows how to handle rejection, not as an attack on himself, but a fact of life. 🥱🥱

In as much as you made some valuable points in your write up, but there’s no almighty formula to things like this. All I’m trying to say is that he should keep on keeping on. There’s power in repetition. No one was born with emotional or social skills and you build it by interacting with others, knowing what works and what doesn’t. How would he improve if he doesn’t interact? You can read thousands of books or watch thousands of videos but if you don’t interact with people is of no use. I’m only encouraging the op to continue being social and open, and if desires to get a partner he’ll surely see someone who understands him, simple.
Op keep pushing my brother, nothing good comes easy. There are many people who are in such situations that still found a way to pull through.

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Sonnobax15:
this is where the problem lies......

Once a man begins to believe his problems and misfortunes are spiritual,I just shake my head....

That's how people used to tell me about two years ago......But today now,even tho I'm not where I ought to be but at least I'm doing far better than what I used to be,even without doing any so-called spiritual cleansing or whatsoever

Bro,your problem is simply comfort...... You're just too comfortable and you feel like going out there to sort your life ain't worth it,after all,you have got parents who're Willing to provide all your basic needs for you..

Nothing spiritual here,na just mental illness dey worry you.

As someone who’s once in his shoes, what did you to to change your life? What steps did you take?

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There’s a partner for everyone. When you meet your own you wouldn’t have to stress it. Just keep talking to as many as you can. Remove the pressure to win them over, just see it as fun. You’ll be amazed by the results you’ll get. Your problem is that you’re taking women too serious.

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