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Marriage should be for free $ex and good company not for having kids, only the likes of Bill Gates, Elon Musk, Dangote etc might be considering having kids

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illicit:
Ok what's it

He sure didn't just up one day and started drumming that good...
He loves drumming and he developed the skill

That's a gift

That's a grown up man reincarnated, reason he can drum so good at age 5

That's beyond talent for a 5 year old

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Thank you for the good wishes. Also the main reason I opened this thread is to warn others of this kind of frame up that will lead to serious consequences and up to ten years behind bars for a frame up like this.

FACE:
Well done. Most times, it's best to go directly to the lenders as the rate they offer is available to the public, especially in noncommercial mortgages. The only need for a broker arises when it's a bit complicated. Some brokers can liaise with mortgage underwriters to resolve any ambiguities, whereas the same underwriters might say a flat no if there are ambiguities to resolve when you apply directly, because the decisions are more or less made by a computer algorithm. Good luck with your house buy.

You don't get it. My current income is enough for the value I asked for. My previous self employment income was not even needed. I already have an agreement directly with other banks based on my current income that will give me the amount I wanted and I have now gone back to apply directly myself.

FACE:
Be civil. You don't have enough income to obtain the amount of mortgage that you needed, otherwise he would not have any need to bump up your income. I concede that he is fraudulen, but your low income forced his fraudulent hands .

Ethiopia: The Ark, Zion, and Its Prophetic Role in End-Times Prophecy


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DmBR23S7H3o

santaclaws:
No need jare. I am sure others will comment.

Stay safe & good luck. ✌🏾

Thank you and you too

santaclaws:
LOL you shouldn't have even bothered to share your story if you were so concerned about privacy...

Good thing you already deleted your post. . .

Sorry I posted it in the wrong place. I wanted it where more people will be aware of this and be vigilant. You can continue with it here: https://www.nairaland.com/8281567/japa-please-very-careful-mortgage

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santaclaws:
Thanks for sharing. The above happened in what country?

It happened in one of the top countries in western Europe and as such this means this can happen in any other country

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How about a new name for Nigeria: Nigeria: United Tribes
This will help unit the country and rapid advancement will begin all over the country

The Rapture is actually going to be alien adoption, get ready for UFO alien visitation

budaatum:
That's alchemy for you. You got to be high on it to comprehend it or it would sound like just a load of nonsense.

The congregation needs a high payload of this Alchemy into their minds that can hack their minds and set them free from the junk payload the celebrant has inserted in their minds without them knowing.

budaatum:
It is a process of feeding people the Word (body), so that the understanding (blood) energises the body. Literally like mind hacking actually, whereby the celebrant hacks the mind of the congregation and inserts a payload without them knowing.

But don't expect any Christian to agree though, since I am utilising sorcery and black magic in my hermeneutics.

"Literally like mind hacking actually, whereby the celebrant hacks the mind of the congregation and inserts a payload without them knowing"

You are high on a payload of Alchemy used for composing writeups like this.

budaatum:
That's one way of looking at alchemy, except that, "Truth", is not alchemy.

Another way of looking at it is as Philosophical Alchemy, a type of speculative thought that involves the search for material perfection through a creative process that combines human and natural forces, as was practiced in many cultures, including China, India, and Islam, and in the Western world from Hellenistic times.

In Christianity, the eating of the body and blood of Christ can be considered to be alchemical.

Ref:
https://www.learnreligions.com/alchemy-95824

https://theopolisinstitute.com/leithart_post/alchemical-eucharist/

https://sacred-texts.com/oto/aba/chap20.htm

In Buddhism, you abandon the boat once you've crossed the river. You do not carry a useless boat across dry land. Same with alchemy (and hermeticism, and religion in generally). One should not stick to the literal stuff many hold as beliefs once the literal has served the purpose of increasing one's understanding. Newton did this by becoming Warden of the Royal Mint after spending years trying to alchemically convert dross to gold. His mathematics came from his understanding of religions.

https://www.manchester.ac.uk/about/news/indians-predated-newton-discovery-by-250-years/

I always read your moniker alchemically. It gives it the deeper meaning of you hacking minds and inserting a payload of understanding.

"In Christianity, the eating of the body and blood of Christ can be considered to be alchemical." But not for science and technology,

budaatum:
I think many think alchemy is juju, and therefore from satan.

Might explain why we find it difficult to turn crude oil to petrol, or turn the sweat of our brow into food in our belly.

Truth is that Alchemy is sorcery and black magic being used for the physical science and technology we have today

Knowing that Africans are more interested in everlasting life with mansions and sweet virgins, so when the Roman Empire got to Egypt and found Alchemy in Egypt, the Roman empire quickly realised they can use the Egyptian Alchemy for the science and technology we have today, so they kept Alchemy for themselves but gave us Jesus Christ so that Africans can have their everlasting life with mansions and sweet virgins while they have everlasting science and technology.

It's on record that Isaac Newton was one of the greatest Alchemist in history.

pretending this doesn't matter your body
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is your first statement to the world it
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speaks before you do a strong
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disciplined physique isn't just
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attractive it's a signal of who you are
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it tells her you're a man who takes
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charge who doesn't shy away from hard
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work who respects himself enough to
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invest in his own strength believe me
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women notice this more than they'll ever
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admit but here's the harsh truth Too
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Many Men ignore this they let their
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health slip blaming time time genetics
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or excuses that hold no weight do you
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think a man like Alexander the Great LED
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armies across continents with a weak
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body and weaker will he understood that
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physical strength was Inseparable from
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mental strength he trained not just for
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war but for respect his own and that of
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others if you neglect your body you're
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not just losing physical appeal you're
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telling the world and her that you don't
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value yourself and let's be clear this
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isn't about a Aesthetics it's about
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discipline the gym isn't just a place to
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build muscle it's a crucible where
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excuses are burned away every drop of
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sweat every rep every moment of pain is
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proof that you're willing to endure for
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growth women are drawn to this not
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because they care about six-packs but
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because they admire what it represents
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dedication resilience and the ability to
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push through discomfort psychologically
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Fitness is is tied to dominance a fit
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man exudes confidence vitality and
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capability traits women are biologically
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wired to seek in a partner studies show
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that physical fitness is directly linked
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to higher testosterone levels which
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affect not just your appearance but your
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charisma energy and even the way you
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carry yourself when you walk into a room
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fit and poised your presence alone
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commands attention so Warrior ask
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yourself what does your body say about
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you right now is it a testament to your
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discipline or a monument to your excuses
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the truth is harsh but simple if you
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can't control your body you can't
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control your life she knows it and deep
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down so do you physical fitness isn't
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just about looking good it's about being
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ready for challenges for opportunities
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for life itself if you're not prepared
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someone else will
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be six grooming and style let's cut to
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the chase your appearance is your armor
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the way you groom yourself the clothes
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you choose the details you care for
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these are all signals loud and clear
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about how much respect you have for
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yourself believe me women notice they
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notice everything and here's the harsh
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truth if you look like you don't care
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neither will she grooming isn't vanity
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it's Mastery over the small things it's
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making sure your beard is sharp your
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skin is clean and your scent is UN
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forgettable not overpowering women have
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a heightened sense of smell biologically
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wired to detect pheromones and signals
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of Vitality a man who smells fresh who
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carries an air of understated confidence
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leaves a lasting impression but neglect
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this and you'll blend into the crowd of
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forgettable faces style is no different
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it's not about expensive brands or
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flashy Trends it's about owning your
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look a well-fitted suit a crisp shirt
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even the way you roll your sleev St
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speaks volumes it says I am a man of
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Standards Marcus aelius didn't wear his
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robes with carelessness every detail of
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a great Leader's appearance reflected
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his discipline and thought if you think
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clothes don't matter ask yourself why
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every powerful figure in history paid
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attention to them style is communication
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plain and simple but let me be harsh
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most men sabotage themselves by being
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lazy or indifferent they think grooming
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is unnecessary that style is superficial
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these are the same men who wonder why
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they get overlooked why they're not
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taken seriously women are biologically
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drawn to Men Who display traits of order
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and refinement it's a signal of mental
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and emotional stability a disheveled man
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doesn't just look messy he feels messy
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psychologically grooming and style are
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tied to confidence when you look good
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you feel good and that confidence
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radiates in your posture your tone your
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entire presence
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a man who takes care of himself projects
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dominance not aggression but control and
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let's be real women crave control not
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chaos so Warrior look in the mirror what
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do you see are you presenting yourself
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as a man of value or as someone who
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doesn't even respect himself grooming
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and style aren't about impressing others
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they're about embodying your own worth
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and if you can't do that why should she
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see it in you the truth is harsh but
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undenied deniable how you present
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yourself determines how the world and
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women respond to
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you seven emotional maturity emotional
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maturity isn't about controlling your
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emotions it's about understanding them
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embracing them and using them to your
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advantage too many men live in the
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shadow of their emotions letting anger
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jealousy or fear dictate their actions
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but true strength lies in not allowing
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these emotions to own you instead you
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own them you don't react to Life's
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challenges you respond to them with calm
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reason and self- disipline this is what
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separates the boys from the men Marcus
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Aurelius one of the greatest stoics to
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ever live ruled an Empire but what set
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him apart was his ability to maintain
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his emotional composure amidst the chaos
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of leadership when his generals failed
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him when his Empire was on the brink of
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collapse Marcus didn't lash out he
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turned inward reflecting on his own
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emotions understanding his response and
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then making decisions from a place of
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calm wisdom this is the power of
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emotional maturity women wired to seek
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emotional stability and they will
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instinctively gravitate toward a man who
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demonstrates it women are drawn to men
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who don't crumble when things get tough
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they want a man who can handle adversity
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with strength not one who lashes out in
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anger or insecurity emotional maturity
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is about taking responsibility for your
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feelings instead of projecting them onto
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others it's about not letting your
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emotions dictate your decisions but
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using them as a compass to stay grounded
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steady and calm when you act from a
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place of emotional maturity you become
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the steady force in a woman's life you
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are someone she can rely on someone who
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doesn't get lost in drama or overreact
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to small problems you become a man who
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leads with wisdom who knows when to be
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gentle and when to be firm women are not
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attracted to chaos they are attracted to
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men who can create peace not just in
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their own lives but in the lives of
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those they care about so Warrior ask
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yourself how do you react when life
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challenges you do you let your emotions
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take over or do you master them the path
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to emotional maturity is not easy it
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requires self-awareness control and
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responsibility but when you walk that
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path you build a foundation of trust
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respect and admiration and that's the
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kind of emotional strength that no woman
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can resist so Warrior it's time to look
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in the mirror and face the truth you
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either accept this path of growth and
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Mastery or you stay stagnant like the
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countless men who are forgotten the
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traits we've shared with you today
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they're not just for attracting women
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they're for building the life you were
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meant to lead high value men don't beg
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beg for attention they earn it they
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don't chase they command it's time to
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stop being like the rest it's time to be
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the man who stands tall unwavering in
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his power his presence and his purpose
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if you're ready to level up to rise
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above the noise and become a man who
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can't be ignored then leave a comment
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saying challenge accepted and don't just
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stop there like subscribe and hit that
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notification Bell your journey toward
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becoming the highest version of yourself
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starts now but only if you're truly
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committed to the Grind remember this is
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not for everyone but it's for you if you
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dare

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Transcript


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you're not here by accident Warrior
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you've come seeking something deeper
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something real but here's the harsh
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truth most men are stuck in the cycle of
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mediocrity chasing fleeting desires
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never truly understanding what makes a
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man irresistible they think it's about
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looks wealth or Charm but believe me
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those are the easy distractions the high
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value traits that women truly can't
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resist are the ones know one talks about
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these are the traits that Define a man's
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character that make him stand out in a
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world of noise if you're serious about
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unlocking the highest form of Attraction
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you must first become a man who is more
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than just a shadow of others you must
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embody traits that are rare traits that
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demand respect this isn't for the faint
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of heart if you want to be the man women
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are irresistibly drawn to then listen
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closely until the very end because we
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are about to reveal the high value
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traits no woman can resist in a
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man confident demeanor let's confront
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the truth without confidence you're
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invisible you can have wealth looks or
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intelligence but if you lack that
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commanding presence you'll never hold
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her attention or anyone else's
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confidence isn't an option it's a
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necessity it's the unshakable belief
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that you are enough that no one's
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approval is required for you to stand
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tall Marcus aelius ruled an Empire with
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this mindset writing waste no more time
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arguing what a good man should be be one
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are you wasting time or are you becoming
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women don't just notice confidence they
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feel it it's in the way you walk into a
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room the way you hold your gaze and the
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way your voice doesn't waver when you
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speak your truth confidence is Primal it
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signals dominance stability and
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Leadership qualities hardwired into
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their psychology to seek out if you
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don't have it they will look elsewhere
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believe me they always do but here's the
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brutal reality many men fake it they
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puff up their chests throw around
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bravado and hope no one notices their
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fragile core let me tell you something
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harsh true confidence cannot be faked
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it's born in discomfort forged in
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discipline and solidified through action
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it's built when you refuse to quit when
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you overcome failure and when you show
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up for yourself every single day without
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that Foundation any facade you put on
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will crumble the moment it's tested
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Warrior ask yourself this do you move
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through life as if you own Your Destiny
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or are you tiptoeing afraid of being
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judged the difference between the two
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isn't Talent OR luck it's mindset
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confidence is knowing that no one can
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give or take your worth because it's
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rooted in your core it's not loud it
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doesn't beg for attention it's the
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steady flame that burn Burns within
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impossible to extinguish and if you're
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waiting for permission to start here it
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is stop waiting you don't need
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validation from anyone not her not
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Society not your past a high value man
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doesn't wait for the stars to align he
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moves boldly through life knowing the
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only approval he needs is his own now
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ask yourself are you that man yet if not
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what's stopping
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you two empathetic listening let's get
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one thing straight most men don't listen
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they tolerate noise they nod zone out
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and wait for their turn to speak and
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then they wonder why women pull away why
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they're labeled emotionally unavailable
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here's the harsh truth if you can't
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truly listen you're just another
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forgettable man in a sea of mediocrity
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empathetic listening isn't passive it's
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an act of strength it's not just hearing
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her words it's understanding her
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emotions her unspoken fears and her
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hidden desires women crave this
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connection more than anything else
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believe me she will choose the man who
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listens deeply over the one who only
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talks about himself every single time
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it's biological women are wired to seek
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emotional safety and if you can't
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provide it she'll looking for someone
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who can epicus once said we have two
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ears and one mouth so that we can listen
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twice as much as we speak yet most men
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live live as if they have two mouths and
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no ears too busy talking to ever
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understand don't be that man when you
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listen truly listen you separate
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yourself from 99% of men who are too
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self-absorbed to care you show her that
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you're not just present physically but
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emotionally and that's rare that's
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irresistible now let me be harsh for a
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moment if you can't master this skill
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you'll always be a step behind she'll
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confide in someone else connect with
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someone else and eventually choose
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someone else listening isn't a skill
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it's a survival tool in the game of
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relationships so ask yourself when she
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speaks are you genuinely present or are
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you just pretending to be because she
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knows the difference and if you're not
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truly listening you've already lost
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her three chivalrous manners let's not
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sugarcoat this most today have forgotten
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how to be men they've abandoned the
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strength and Grace that Define true
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masculinity for centuries chivalry isn't
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outdated it's rare and Rarity is power
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when you hold the door walk on the side
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closest to the street or stand when she
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enters the room you're sending a clear
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message I'm not like the rest and trust
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me women notice chivalry isn't about
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impressing her it's about respect
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respect for her and for yourself
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Alexander the Great once said said I am
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indebted to my father for living but to
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my teacher for living well what's your
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teacher the values you choose to live by
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chivalry isn't weakness it's a
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reflection of strength so unshakable
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that you can afford to show kindness
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without losing your Edge but here's the
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harsh reality some of you think chivalry
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makes you a nice guy you've been lied to
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women don't reject kindness they reject
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men who are kind because they backbone
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if you think opening a door or paying
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for dinner entitles you to her affection
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you're not chivalrous you're
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manipulative chivalry is selfless it's
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doing the right thing because it's who
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you are not because of what you expect
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in return ask yourself Warrior when was
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the last time you acted With Honor
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simply because it was the right thing to
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do when was the last time you stood firm
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not because someone was watching but
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because your values demanded it chivalry
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is a dying art because most men are too
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weak to embody it they think
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vulnerability is dangerous that kindness
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makes them soft but here's the truth
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kindness without weakness is lethal it's
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the mark of a man who can protect and
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cherish simultaneously believe me women
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crave this balance it's wired into their
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psychology to seek a man who can lead
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without dominance care without
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submission the chivalrous man doesn't
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just stand out he becomes
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Unforgettable four sense of humor let's
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face it if you can't make her laugh
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you'll never make her stay women are
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drawn to humor like a moth to Flame not
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because it's cute but because it's
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powerful a sharp sense of humor doesn't
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just entertain it disarms intrigues and
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captivates it shows her you're not
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rattled by life's chaos that you can
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stand in the storm and smile and believe
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me that's irresist
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but let me be harsh most men get this
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wrong they confuse humor with clownery
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they crack desperate jokes try too hard
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to be funny and end up embarrassing
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themselves real humor isn't forced it's
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effortless it's the wit that comes from
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confidence the charm that stems from
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intelligence women can smell insecurity
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and humor a mile away and if your jokes
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are a mask for self-doubt she'll lose
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respect faster than you can blink look
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at the great leaders of History Marcus
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Aurelius for example in his writings he
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acknowledged life's absurdities with a
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calm knowing perspective he wasn't
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bitter he was amused humor at its core
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is stoic it's the ability to laugh at
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life to show that no challenge no
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failure no obstacle can shake your
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resolve when you embody this you're not
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just funny you're magnetic and here's a
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psychological truth you need to hear
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humor creates emotional bonds when you
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make make her laugh you're not just
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entertaining her you're creating moments
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she'll Replay in her mind long after
9:05
you're gone laughter triggers dopamine
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the Feelgood chemical and guess what
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she'll associate that feeling with you
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but if your humor is crude overbearing
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or comes at someone else's expense
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you'll achieve the opposite disgust
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instead of Attraction so Warrior ask
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yourself this is your humor a reflection
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of your strength or is it a shield for
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your insecurities do you use it to
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connect or to cover up women don't want
9:34
a Jester they want a king who can
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lighten the weight of the world with a
9:38
single clever remark if you can Master
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this balance you'll be Unforgettable but
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if you can't then let me be honest
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you'll Fade Into the background like so
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many others who never understood the
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true power of a genuine
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laugh five physical fitness let's stop
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