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what is shes a single mother

IbrahimSola:
If you have money and wisdom to handle the kind of woman that you want to marry, go ahead and marry even if you're 19 years old. If any of the 2 is missing, sorry. You won't enjoy the marriage.

You must have money. Don't let anyone deceive you. Most marriage disputes come from money. Finance.
You must have the wisdom to handle the kind of woman you marry. If you marry a PhD, you must have the wisdom to handle such a woman. If you marry an ogbanje, you need a requisite wisdom. If you marry agaracha, you need the level of wisdom to handle her. Money + Wisdom = successful marriage. Wisdom includes even intimacy matters. Every other thing in between na stories.

degree holder go show u pepper

Britishcoins:
I married at 32, my wife was 22 that was last year, but before then, I was already doing fine in my business, I ensure that I built my house atleast no more renting... then I bought small car, before I now went for her.. Today I am comfortably taking care of her, my baby son and two siblings of mine...

Marrriage is sweet if you marry for peace of mind.. She is beautiful and good cook, though not a degree holder but I love it like that..

can u gist me a little..what did their wives do

MikeofKd:
Nice one sir .........
I'm thinking 30 or 35 , well for finances , I'm okay in that aspect , I have a few successful businesses. I can comfortably take care of 2 to 3 people so it's not a Biggie.
I'm just low-key scared of marriage ,I've seen many marriages go bad , my parents , my uncles and aunts , even my broda too , it scares me a lot.

I just pray I find a good Nigerian woman.

lool

Goldforever:
You guys are supposed to sleep under the bridge for taking us this far. Many will not know that you collected matche bonuses of those useless matches you guys played to disgrace us. Do you go there for tourism? You guy don't deserve any good treatment because all the good treatment you received what did you guys achieved with it? ?? Stop making noise and go and play football. If you win then you xan expect something good. Mad players

i expected him to talk bout amuneke

festacman:
Olusosun didn't make you who you are. Many of your peers at Olusosun are still poor and unmade. They will get more confused when then hear this. You are a product of dream and preparation having a handshake with opportunity.

It is about God's grace as you keyed in exploring and polishing the football talent God gave you, waiting for opportunity to break. It came.

In summary, some grassroots club owners took you and honed your talent. Emmanuel Amunike scouted you and showed you to the world at the U17 World Cup. From there through Germany, Belgium, France, Italy and now Turkey. The rest as they say is sweet history.

Give these people some credit, Victor. God bless grassroots coaches who are often forgotten in spite of their contributions to the supply chain. Believe me, it is not easy.

arokodare is actually superb

SmartPolician:
Victor Osimhen is the ONLY world-class player in the Super Eagles team. Others shine today and becomes uselezzzzzz in their next match. The media will hype them for the few days they performed well.

i wish i could ask 4 ur acct number for this writeup

Wickedlywicked:
Just dey there dey play okay? E Dey be like meme for eye till it gets to you. Were we not telling you on that other thread? The most dangerous and silly thing you could ever do to yourself as a man is marrying a woman who still has emotional attachment to someone else—a woman that you love more than she loves you. Make her your best friend and lover before ever proposing marriage to her you say no, that once you love her to the moon and back, everything is fine and she wouldn’t even think of cheating on you once she starts birthing kids for you I pity una life. I pity this coming generation of men. Someone had a child with someone else and without making enough research on what separated them, without even knowing the said man and not as if he was dead when you met her o, you hastily decided to marry her and expected that her love for the “broke” boyfriend who abandoned her would fade off just like that and just because you dey “knack” her and because she don born for you. Just keep enough money for DNA sha, remember I was saying this repeatedly on that other thread? Keep enough money.
Your friend even said a woman would start loving you the moment you start “knacking” her and she starts birthing for you when in actual reality, the reverse is the case as the love women show to their husbands wane with childbirth and that was when I knew you both weren’t married. I pity una😂
Men have no business with being emotional when it comes to marriage as marriage is a very serious matter that shouldn’t be handled with love alone on the part of the man. When you are marrying a woman, your love for her should be the last thing to consider rather, is she appealing to you? Can she be the best mother for your children? Can she multiply you in every way possible? Does this woman have baggage that you can handle as a man? And many other considerations. After all that is done, make her love you first and always scared of losing you. Make her the emotionally weaker party. Make her feel insecure and feel that you are the prize and could leave her if she misbehaves. But please, I’m not saying you shouldn’t love them but it should be visible even to the blind that they love you more. A woman who loves you more would be scared of doing things that could cost her the marriage and love. You don’t buy a woman’s love because it’s expensive and can’t even be bought with money. You will keep paying and renewing the subscription till your last breath. Pesin wey use money buy love no dey pay finish. Showing them they are all you’ve got and that you love them more than they do love you back is a recipe for disaster.
Again, men who marry the women who love them tend to live longer and in pure bliss (good examples are Jay Z, Asap Rocky, Pa Olu Jacob and many other lucky men out there.
Again, most Nigerian girls marry who is available and not who they really love and what happens after this? They go back to cheat on these available men with the ones who have their m u m u buttons at hand no matter how hard you try to love and care for them. This explains why you can be richer than Dangote and a girl would still cheat on you with her poor ex boyfriend.
It’s a circle and you have only yourself to blame for getting married to a singlemother. I have nothing against them because every deserves love but often time, the bonds between them and their babydaddies is not a mess you should put yourself through. Often time, their babydaddies will always occupy the most parts of their hearts. If I must marry a single mother, then she must be a widow.
Stories like this would look fabricated to you until it happens to you, your eye go clear.

oshe dear

sheycrown:
You can get in any store. Foodco, Emcare, wimpy, Brent….

where do i ges the bas rice in ibadan

NotOfThisWorld:
Basmati rice + Goat stew

go and sit down...see defence,u wouldnt graduate from university with this defense

Bintasukai:
At least everyone can now see why slavery and colonialism was so successful. Nigerians are willing to cut off their legs to spite the ground.

a boko spotted here

3exe3:
US shld do and come we all go suffer am thunder go fire any person wey change mind when he sees the surge in humanitarian crisis....i bet say most of una no get food stocked for house. shey na america una dy find america una go see.bbunch of idiots i share a country with.

he doesn't even av any igbo gene, not even gene or trait

lailo:
Haaland will still take over from the igbo boy. Na the initial gragra

Datwickedblakie:
Arsenal should have bought him instead of Gyokeres.

didinrin

yemmit90:
Exposing them should be the first step US should take, these terrorists can't operate with such sophisticated weapons withiout someone sponsoring or backing them.

I don't support possible invasion of US force, it will only create more problem for Nigeria than solving it. Take for example, I deduced something from Ahmed Gumi assertions recently, he said these terrorists has been infiltrated into society, which I think he is 100% right. Terrorism is now a big business in Northern Nigeria, majority of them are now operating from their homes withiout necessarily have to stay in the forest. So, if you kill the ones in the forest, how will you find the ones living among civilians that may soon start all over again after US force left?

And you southerners that are rejoicing over this, just know that the moment US invade Northern Nigeria, majority of them, especially those terrorists will find shelters in the South, and you can't stop people at war zone to enter peaceful areas in the same country. By the time this operation end, majority of them won't go back, and may possibly find another territories in your backyards.

Aside that, the illiterate alfas, Imams and extremists in the North might see this as war against their faith, and this can resulted to a more deadly religions war in Northern part of Nigeria and possibly extend to the South.

US military assistance to help us clear these terrorists in collaboration with our selected loyal force should've been a better option. The reality is that, you don't kill these extremists jihadish, tag the reason as Christians genocide and not expect a deadly retaliation on the same Christians in the nearest future. They are as dangerous as devil, even the ones that are yet to take up arms.

what yr did he finish in unilorin

otipoju:
I already like this guy and he is way different from many Nigerian local coaches.

1. Academically he is very educated.

Two bachelor's degree from two different universities...in Physiology and Human Kinetics. From ladoke Akintola University of Technology and University of Ilorin.


2. Professionally he is top notch.

UEFA A license UEFA B license and CAF B license. Also already coached in Portugal as an assistant manager. All at the age of 45.


He has my maximum respect. He is not waiting for anyone to come and sponsor him. He has been responsible for developing himself to the highest levels Professionally.

maybe for up and coming without money....so u mean davido worshippied azzezz when he just dey dash radio and tv stations 20mila to play his songs...think again

Offpoint1:
Nobody dines with the devil, the music industry is just control by powerful people who do silly things. You literally need to worship their asszes to stay in the game

melvin barcliff right?..ur moniker

magoo10:
At least he knows he is serving the devil,some people have been serving the devil without them knowing.

azizat don heavy small oo...lol...but hope monday is better?

Kalulu44:
Both are forwards and strikers. Assisat time in the national team is up but doesn't want to admit it. She's using her past record to blocked the way of Gift Monday by using her influence and monetary gift to keep getting invited even though she now has a permanent place in the bench.

the grand magician senator was there too

all looking over 32...not even a single youth player

im going through a heartbreak too..i hope i dont follow same path too

15k per day...lool..nothing like dat oo

ositadima1:
Use about 4 million to buy a new keke, complete all the papers and licensing, and drive it yourself. I don’t know what state you’re in, but I’ve heard that keke drivers usually remit around ₦15,000 per day to the owners, so I’m sure you can even make more since you’ll be driving it yourself.

Take good care of it, maintain it properly, and after about six months, you can go ahead and get married; there’s no need to keep waiting. If you’re diligent and hardworking, I believe that within two years you should be able to buy another keke and put it on hire. It provides steady income, and many young people are doing well with it.

hookup?

KaptainAfrika:
Yes make sure your wife has a big load behind or in front, or both, and take her everywhere you go especially in parties where there are big men there.

na d best advice b dis op.....person go grow old wit white hair no family,dem still dey say make e make money

latiephwald:
Keep 3.5m for business and try manage less than 1.5m to settle yourself with family.
Call your wife, ask about what she's good at if you don't have any business or professional you can Venture into, manage the business with her, you guys should cut your coat according to your sizes. In less than two yrs you'll smile.

Many people here are into shady business or affiliate with fraud, don't fall to their advice. You are not getting younger. You won't like it to keep paying children sch fees at age 70plus. Follow your decision

but y are most ladies disrespectful

APOPTOSIS:
Tomorrow na she go still use MOUTH ruin her marriage with insults. Same Lady that would be kneeling down to give you drink on wedding day, would be the same person that will ask you to go pick your food from the kitchen. Menhhhhh wake up.
Start making your marriage transactional.
Something must go for something.
Don't be blinded by Love.
Ladies must work hard to earn such, just like you want to work hard to put smile on her face.
Don't lose out entirely.

ohhhhh so it pains dem after sex if i breakup immediately ...no wonder she no won gree comeback

SenecaTheYonger:
She already has another guy so if you break up with her, she might even laugh in your face and never calll you.


But if you break up with her 1 minute after having hot sex with her, it’s going to touch her spinal cord

im not arguing, this week u will still roll wit ur muslim friend ,as long as u dont accept its political im arahere

advanceDNA:
As usual.....ur religion is a religion of peace....even if u are killing everybody

thrash

advanceDNA:
Baba...what has having Muslims friends gotta do with the fact that y'all are bunch of crazy pple when it comes down to ur religion....

If u must know .... I don't have close Muslims friends anymore because I notice they never put humanity first ....once it comes down to their religion of killing infidels/Kafir, justifying evil done in Islam by Muslims, they become someone else completely .......

When the violent killing of Deborah happened, ..a Muslim friend I've known since forever said she deserved to die ...he's not a northerner ....in fact he lives in northern Ireland.....

Someone that we talk about the senseless shootings in America, killings the south east nigeria...but as soon as the evil is carried out by his fellow Islamic brothers....it becomes justified

oga meself no fit smoke...sit down..no gain

zedman1:
I have never smoked too , but in life, I've come to realize that time changes everything. What you think you might never do and condemn others for doing, you may find yourself doing the same in the future, giving yourself rational justifications to offer solace. That sentence "Do not judge" is no ordinary statement.

swear wit ur life u don't av muslim friends

advanceDNA:
Its not really about fear.... A Muslim will rather want a terrorist, d£vlish, vampire Muslim to be ruler of America or anywhere in the world than any type God fearing Christian.....

First rule of being a muslim....Muslims don't antagonize each other.whether violent ones cutting pple's head or so called peaceful ones defending their religion by calling it religion of peace even when their brothers are killing infidels.... ...that's why it doesn't matter to them whether their oga slept with a 9 year old or a 6 year old or the wife of his adopted son...

At the end of the day ...any non-muslim killed is an infidel to them....it's allowed by their god and pr0phet

ijiat

odejimioflagos:
Nigeria is a sovereign nation and will never accept any threats or invasion from any country, including the US. We appreciate the offer of assistance but we will solve our problems with our own solutions.