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[size=20pt]Nadia's mum[/size]

[size=20pt]Nadia's Sister[/size]

Thanx.

How do you play Simon says?

But how do you get to know each other if you don't call each other often especially when you both live in different cities

What Jobs Can Ssce Holders Do In Nigeria

What jobs can SSCE holders do in Nigeria?

How do you play SUWE?

For a Nigerian cultural presentation for kids and teenagers, i need names of games we could play together.

I only know Ten-Ten, Boju Boju.

What oher games do Nigerian kids play?

My babe doesn't spend more than 15 minutes with me on phone. She complains she's tired after 15 minutes.
For How long do you speak with your Girlfriend or Boyfriend on Phone?

googles:
[size=13pt]yea it happens there's this room mate of mine she is real nice but pple just dont like her,and i think its because she wants everybody to like her so she goes outta her way to please pple and in turn they give her attitude.
just be your self,stop caring about wat pple say cos if you do it might kill your self esteem and you'd see urself in that light forever and dont go out of your way to be nice to pple they ll just take you for granted [/size]

Yea, you may be right. My ex-gilfriend once told me i was too nice.

MRbrownJAY:
@poster
man if you believe your friends then you are a fool. . . . . . . .
if all the people you have ever lived with hated your guts then there is something wrong with you, no doubts about it.
maybe what you should do is ask your"so called" friends to move in with you and stay with you for a few months then they will probably say some unpleasant ishhhh about you too.

to hang out with people for a few hours per week and to LIVE WITH people is completely different and the day you realize that is the day you will understand that something is wrong with your attitude/self.

if this is bothering you then i suggest getting your own place but in the long run i see "husband and wife" trouble.
believe me, i[b]f you are impossible to live with then your wife will feel just the same as this flatmates of yours[/b].

Well, my ex girlfriend left me for no reason till today she never gave the reason why she decided to call it quit. So i can't say for sure if she had difficulties living with me.

y me:
no body is perfect remember,maybe there is a part of you that people really cant stand no matter how much you try to hide it

petersecur:
@poster, Please go and Join Jehova withnesses and You will find REAL love there, and while You will also pray To God to bring you Nice and Good friends, dont be shy, and dont look down on yourself, You must thank God for creating you the way you are and remain strong everyday, Just as the sun rise and shine everyday, say to yourself i will rise and shine today and say to yourself that you are the best!

Thank you very much for encouraging me. I will follow your advice and i hope that there'll come a time when i'll be able to live with other people without problems despite our different personalities

[quote author=frank3.16 link=topic=394263.msg5465001#msg5465001 date=1265540085]Luk at this xample: if john complains a lot about his md in his work place and his co-workers think the md is ok, then the problem is more likely to b john's and not the md. If evrybody complain about d md except john, the the md has a problem and john is much beta than other workers. The more the people that hav problem wit livin wit u, the more likely it is u who hav a problem wit livin wit people. B more open minded wit urself, then u wil b able 2 undastand those things about your personality that people dont like.[/quote]I have tried that, believe me i couldn't find anything. What else can i do? Any suggestions?

Has anyone ever experienced that? Or been through something like that?

I always have problems living with people. At the beginning i was thinking it can't be the case that everyone i ever lived with was bad. But with time i (and those who knew about them) realized it was never my fault. I would even go out of my way in pleasing people just to avoid problems still they end up hating me. They always find one thing or the other why they don't like me and each time i ask them what exactly the problem is or what have i done they don't have anything to say. It's like they just don't like me.
My bestfriend tells me there are people like that: People, who others just don't like and people who are just likeable not based on the good things they do or don't do while another close friend of mine says its the spirit of rejection, a spiritual problem?
Please help a brother!
Advice please!

I always have problems living with people. At the beginning i was thinking it can't be the case that everyone i ever lived with was bad. But with time i (and  those who knew about them) realized it was never my fault. I would even go out of my way in pleasing people just to avoid problems still they end up hating me. They always find one thing or the other why they don't like me and each time i ask them what exactly the problem is or what have i done they don't have anything to say. It's like they just don't like me.
My bestfriend tells me there are people like that: People, who others just don't  like and people who are just likeable not based on the good things they do or don't do while another close friend of mine says its the spirit of rejection, a spiritual problem?
Please help a brother!
Advice please!