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U are so on point Ur pix sef give us propa example ![]() midehi2: |
Abi Una gbadun una sef dey form quarrel for us TrapQueen77: |
Drool for bobrisky then ![]() chistel20: |
Pple see things from different perspective Mikylopez: |
Mayb they can catch u instead... Since you are here ![]() LadyAnn: |
The yansh be like moimoi wrapped in green leaf ![]() |
So what else are u comfortable with... Should I give you another sweet hot round of doggy ![]() sweettease: |
CHAI, u rily dey enjoy the Congo be DAT ![]() sweettease: |
CHAI... Na me be trap inspector ![]() TrapQueen77: |
Well na the guy go decide... Only if to say as I wan dey suspect you if u get the right character ![]() TrapQueen77: |
Since both of u have traps in Ur names... Set the guy proper pussy trap na ![]() TrapQueen77: |
You go wait wella...cos u sef gats meet criteria first ![]() TrapQueen77: |
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Na man go talk you into been qualified, not you mentioning ![]() TrapQueen77: |
Bros u wicked ooo ![]() Mannygoulding: |
A lot of women try to understand why their relationships always fail… why guys treat them badly…why they always get hurt…why they can’t get a guy to commit. The common thread in most of these cases is these women are choosing men who clearly are not husband–or even relationship– material and hoping by some chance he’ll suddenly transform and be the knight in shining armor she wants. This type of situation doesn’t exist anywhere aside from cheesy romantic comedies and telemundoic mumu soaps . If you choose to pursue a relationship with a guy who clearly isn’t relationship material, then you’re setting yourself up to fail before you even begin.Trust me, I know all too well how enticing those damage cases can be. Sure, he’s has emotional issues, he’s jaded, he’s struggling at work, he has no direction, he still acts like a frat boy even though his acting like a drunk idiot and getting away with it days expired years ago, but there’s a really great guy underneath all that and as soon as we deal with all this other stuff, then we’ll have an amazing relationship. I’m sorry but no. The problem with these damage cases is that they often have a lot of the qualities we want, but not the ones we actually need. There is a big difference between wants and needs when it comes to relationships, but it’s not always easy to make the distinction. You might think you need a guy who is tall and strapping and charismatic and a CEO of a major company, but a guy with those credentials might have a host of other qualities that wouldn’t be good for you, that wouldn’t fulfill your fundamental emotional needs. When you hit that stage in life where you realize you are done dating for the sake of dating and want to settle down and find “the one,” you realize that the kinds of guys you date weren’t necessarily husband material and I have to really examine your list of wants and needs, and figure out the differences between the two. Doing so will make all the difference and suddenly, the damage cases that were once oh so appealing would do nothing for you. Whether you’re single, dating, or in a serious relationships, these are the 10 qualities you need to look for in a man, the ones that tell you beyond a shadow of a doubt that he’s the one and this is it. 1. He loves your good qualities, and accepts and embraces the bad without making you feel guilty for having flaws ![]() You don’t need to hide your true self from him and put on a front in order to be what you think he wants. You can share your true self and be vulnerable and feel safe doing so, knowing that if anything it will make him feel even closer to you. 2. He is there for you when you need him, even if it’s inconvenient for him ![]() A partnership will sometimes require sacrifice and compromise. Life is unpredictable and unexpected. You can’t predict what will happen and nothing can possibly go as planned 100% of the time. A guy who is husband-material will be there for you when you need him, he will be in it with you, he will be your partner in whatever happens and will weather the storm with you, even though he might prefer to stay in the sunshine. 3. Considers you when making decisions, both big and small ![]() A relationship is a partnership, not a dictatorship. Factoring you in shows that he respects you, that he wants to create a life with you, not simply envelope you in his world. Our worlds can be comfortable, it’s not always easy taking someone else into account, factoring in their wants and needs and preferences, but that’s what a relationship is. 4. He is growth-oriented ![]() No one is perfect, we all have flaws. And these flaws aren’t black and white- usually a person’s greatest strength is a hint to their greatest weakness. In a relationship, his behavior affects you (and vice versa) and sometimes his less developed traits will have a negative impact on you. A growth oriented guy will want to strengthen his character and work on it. A guy who isn’t growth oriented will say your problem and this is the way he is and you need to deal with it. For example, let’s say you’re dating a guy who can be insensitive at times. Maybe he doesn’t give you emotional support when you’ve had a rough day and instead just gives you matter of fact advice in a direct way. His no nonsense approach to solving problems might be useful to him in the workplace, but it might be hurtful to you sometimes when he doesn’t empathize with what you’re going through and instead just tells you what to do about it, or gets impatient by the fact that you’re upset over something he doesn’t consider to be that big of a deal. You want a guy who will accept that his tone can be harsh and hurtful and who actually tries to work on it, not one who says it’s your problem and you need to deal with it. He probably won’t get it right every time, but if he’s growth oriented he will at least try. 5. Common beliefs and values ![]() This one seems so obvious yet it’s so often overlooked. If he is going to be your life partner, you have to make sure you both are on the same page when it comes to issues that matter. And if you aren’t on the same page, then make sure he respects where you stand (and vice versa) and that you both are willing to work together to reach a mutually fulfilling middle ground. This can refer to religion, core values, lifestyle preferences, where you want to live, whether you want to have children. 6. He views you as his partner The relationship is something more than just you and him… together, you and him are a team. And as that team, you are both individually stronger than you could be on your own. He sees you as his equal, as someone of great value who he can grow with, not someone who is there to feed his ego, give him validation, be his emotional crutch, be there to satisfy his needs. He respects everything about you- your thoughts, ambitions, opinions, the things you say, the company you keep, your job. He doesn’t make you feel bad about your life circumstances and he appreciates the person you are and the choices you have made. 7. He is willing to put effort into the relationship ![]() If there is a problem, he wants to find a way to solve it, he wants to work harder, to be better, to be his best self. The important thing to keep in mind is that people have different ideas of what it means to put effort into a relationship. He might believe that working hard and being good at his job is putting in effort because he wants to provide for you and give you nice things and a comfortable lifestyle (I use this as an example because it’s a classic point of contention between men and women because she will often view him working too much as him putting no effort into the relationship and being married to his work). 8. You’re able to communicate with each other, even about tough issues and even if one person is upset with the other. ![]() With the right guy, you won’t be afraid of brining up certain things for fear of rocking the boat. You know he respects you and will see what you have to say as valid and important. Every relationship will face its share of obstacles. There will be fights, miscommunications, arguments, and also times when one partner isn’t feeling loved. The only way to emerge from the tough times better and stronger is to work through them together and this starts with open communication. 9. He’s trustworthy ![]() You feel safe being open and honest with him and are not afraid of him violating that trust or using anything against you. You trust that he won’t leave you unexpectedly, that he is genuine, that he does mean what he says. You don’t feel an underlying sense of suspicion, like he has some ulterior motives. You trust that he cares about you deeply and would never intentionally hurt you. 10. He wants to marry you ![]() Ahh, it seems so obvious but yet, it’s not. A guy can have all the qualities on this list but if he doesn’t want to marry you, or maybe doesn’t want to get married in general, then he is not your husband. When a guy is ready to get married and meet a girl he thinks he can spend his life with, he knows pretty early on. That’s not to say they get engaged right away, but he knows this is it and she knows it too, maybe he tells her or maybe it’s just so obvious and he doesn’t even need to. It might be the wrong time, maybe he wants to wait until he’s more established in his career, more financially stable, but he will still convey his level of commitment, she won’t be left hanging and guessing and wondering. If he still feels like he has wild oats to sow and is still drawn to the single, bachelor, party boy lifestyle, he is not marriage-minded and you are setting yourself up for disappointment. If what you want is a serious, lasting commitment, make sure he is on the same page before you do anything. When a guy is ready for a serious commitment, it’s usually pretty obvious. And if it isn’t, then bring it up and discuss it with him. If he’s husband material, he’ll understand. If he isn’t… then at least now you know before it’s too late! |
ell, here we go. You’ve been dating a while, maybe living together for a few months. You think you’re ready to take the plunge and buy a diamond ring, but you’re just not 100 percent certain. So you’ve turned to the internet for help. At risk of sounding hokey, if she’s the right girl, you’ll just know. Trust your gut. Of course, according to most accepted statistics, our guts are wrong at least 50 percent of the time. But hey, it’s the world we live in. Although marriage sure isn’t what it used to be, it is still a big decision and you should treat it as such. Sometimes our guts get just as confused as our heads. So let me break it down for you in an easily digestible fashion. If she embodies, say, at least three-quarters of this list, go ahead and set a date. 1. She’s nice. According to bumper sticker wisdom, mean people suck. 2. She doesn’t rush you. Wanting to talk about plans for the future is one thing. Deadlines and ultimatums are another. Don’t be bullied into marriage just because you’re afraid you’ll lose her. Fear has no place in this process. 3. She bring out the best in you. A great indicator that she’s right for you is that being with her makes you want to be a better man. 4. She has her own goals and is supportive of yours. When these things are in perfect alignment, you’ve really got something great. 5. A decent relationship with her parents. Extreme circumstances aside, you’re not going to want to get involved with someone who hates her parents, or has caused them a lot of pain. It’s an indicator of how she feels about the people closest to her, which you’re going to be. 6. She’s emotionally stable. Crazy girls can be a lot of fun in the short term, but you don’t want to spend your life with someone who runs hot and cold. You want someone who has their shit together. 7. You’re sexually compatible. When you’re single, just about any sex is good sex. But in a relationship, you need to have the same (or at least very similar) likes and dislikes. Sex isn’t everything, but it’s pretty damn important. 8. She’s a team player. Even if you’re both pretty old-fashioned about gender roles, relationships in today’s world don’t fly if all she wants is to be taken care of. You’re not taking over for her parents, okay? 9. She doesn’t ask for the moon. We all want to live in the house on the hill, but we don’t all make it up there. Make sure she’s going to be okay even if you don’t deliver on your moneymaking potential. 10. She keeps her cool in arguments. Relationships have arguments. That’s a fact of life. If you can get through them without her bursting into tears, or you punching a hole through the wall, you’re in good shape. 11. She takes care of herself. Go ahead and complain, fatties. Not saying you have to be an Olympic volleyball player or a supermodel, but everyone — man or woman — should stay healthy. 12. You’re okay with each other’s baggage. Most of us have a bag or two. Be honest about how you feel about what she comes with — and make sure she’s doing the same with you. 13. She’s at least as smart as you are. There’s nothing worse than a dumb woman, except one who pretends to be. 14. She respects guy’s night. If she trusts you to go out with the boys (and you honor that trust), you’ve got a keeper. 15. Her partying days are behind her. We’re all entitled to blow off steam every so often, but if she has to go out, get trashed and dance her ass off every weekend, she’s probably not ready to settle down. 16. She accepts your faults. And doesn’t take it upon herself to fix them. 17. She can cook. This may seem old-fashioned, and I’m not saying she has to be Chef Cindy, but don’t pretend you don’t want your woman to feed you, because you do. SHARE 2 25 Qualities The Woman You Marry Should Have Chuck HendersonBy Chuck Henderson | 4/21/15, 3:29PM EST Posted in Gentlemen Image via Image via We Heart It Well, here we go. You’ve been dating a while, maybe living together for a few months. You think you’re ready to take the plunge and buy a diamond ring, but you’re just not 100 percent certain. So you’ve turned to the internet for help. At risk of sounding hokey, if she’s the right girl, you’ll just know. Trust your gut. Of course, according to most accepted statistics, our guts are wrong at least 50 percent of the time. But hey, it’s the world we live in. Although marriage sure isn’t what it used to be, it is still a big decision and you should treat it as such. Sometimes our guts get just as confused as our heads. So let me break it down for you in an easily digestible fashion. If she embodies, say, at least three-quarters of this list, go ahead and set a date. 1. She’s nice. According to bumper sticker wisdom, mean people suck. 2. She doesn’t rush you. Wanting to talk about plans for the future is one thing. Deadlines and ultimatums are another. Don’t be bullied into marriage just because you’re afraid you’ll lose her. Fear has no place in this process. 3. She bring out the best in you. A great indicator that she’s right for you is that being with her makes you want to be a better man. 4. She has her own goals and is supportive of yours. When these things are in perfect alignment, you’ve really got something great. 5. A decent relationship with her parents. Extreme circumstances aside, you’re not going to want to get involved with someone who hates her parents, or has caused them a lot of pain. It’s an indicator of how she feels about the people closest to her, which you’re going to be. 6. She’s emotionally stable. Crazy girls can be a lot of fun in the short term, but you don’t want to spend your life with someone who runs hot and cold. You want someone who has their shit together. 7. You’re sexually compatible. When you’re single, just about any sex is good sex. But in a relationship, you need to have the same (or at least very similar) likes and dislikes. Sex isn’t everything, but it’s pretty damn important. 8. She’s a team player. Even if you’re both pretty old-fashioned about gender roles, relationships in today’s world don’t fly if all she wants is to be taken care of. You’re not taking over for her parents, okay? 9. She doesn’t ask for the moon. We all want to live in the house on the hill, but we don’t all make it up there. Make sure she’s going to be okay even if you don’t deliver on your moneymaking potential. 10. She keeps her cool in arguments. Relationships have arguments. That’s a fact of life. If you can get through them without her bursting into tears, or you punching a hole through the wall, you’re in good shape. 11. She takes care of herself. Go ahead and complain, fatties. Not saying you have to be an Olympic volleyball player or a supermodel, but everyone — man or woman — should stay healthy. 12. You’re okay with each other’s baggage. Most of us have a bag or two. Be honest about how you feel about what she comes with — and make sure she’s doing the same with you. 13. She’s at least as smart as you are. There’s nothing worse than a dumb woman, except one who pretends to be. 14. She respects guy’s night. If she trusts you to go out with the boys (and you honor that trust), you’ve got a keeper. 15. Her partying days are behind her. We’re all entitled to blow off steam every so often, but if she has to go out, get trashed and dance her ass off every weekend, she’s probably not ready to settle down. 16. She accepts your faults. And doesn’t take it upon herself to fix them. 17. She can cook. This may seem old-fashioned, and I’m not saying she has to be Betty Crocker, but don’t pretend you don’t want your woman to feed you, because you do. 18. She takes care of you when you’re sick. If she keeps her distance when you’re down, that’s a pretty good indicator of her life philosophy. If, on the other hand, she’s all about keeping you in chicken soup and cough medicine, this is a woman who really cares about you. 19. You have similar tastes. She can be a little bit country to your rock and roll, but in general, you need to like a lot of the same stuff, or you’ll find a lot of conflict down the road over very little things. 20. She calls you on your bullshit. You don’t want a doormat; you want someone who stands up for herself. 21. She makes you feel important. Some dating games women play involve a lot of aloofness. I guess they’re preaching that “men are hunters” line. But if you’re considering marriage, you should both be out of the game-playing phase. 22. She lets things go. You’re going to do stupid shit from time to time. That doesn’t mean you need to be reminded of it every three months. 23. She has a sense of humor. Every woman on the planet wants a funny guy. Since you’ve worked so hard on that, you deserve someone who appreciates it. 24. She’s confident. You want her to love you, not need you. She needs to be okay with her life outside of your relationship. Nurturing the needy is not a romantic relationship. You can add yours |
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MTN Nigeria laying off Contract Staff without been paid their full salary. No gratuity, no pension, no thank you mail to people who have spent at least 5years to like 14years of their life. They did the worst last week by telling them to do photocopy of their ID cards and return the main ID'S with the staff left with a sheet of paper without been paid and still expected to work. They also harassed the contract staffs searching them with mobile police armed with guns as if they are criminals. This is outright injustice.... No mails communicated yet on the mode of payment for the 15days they worked as their salary is been calculated from 15th of previous month to 16th of present month, but the remaining days of 16th- 30th september is not paid with their leave days remaining and also unpaid leaves. We call on concerns Nigerians and appropriate authorities to help them fight these course.
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@atama ur reply make me laugh. Did u take urs in lagos or abi. I did in lagos anyways and can u still pls send me dat dragnet questions. Thank Ayodejiogunsina@yahoo.com |
Hello guys, please, any information yet from the test we did with dragnet on the 8th of march,2016 for the nestle field sales manager, water . have they contacted anyone or when they might likely let us know the result. |



what will make me drool in dt picshure sef. see black black faces
.... anyways u are entitled to your own taste