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RomanceRe: What Is Wrong With These Birthday Photos That's Making Guys Go Nut Online by Mobinatric: 10:10am On Jan 11, 2017
She try sha... But dose boobz looks rily squeezed oooo grin grin
Catalin:
Isn't she cute? No she is not.
RomanceRe: What Is Wrong With These Birthday Photos That's Making Guys Go Nut Online by Mobinatric: 7:31am On Jan 11, 2017
The second picture, make dem look oloshoic grin grin
Estharfabian:

What's wrong with the dress, obi? embarassed



RomanceRe: What Is Wrong With These Birthday Photos That's Making Guys Go Nut Online by Mobinatric: 7:29am On Jan 11, 2017
Abi na Ur friend tongue tongue
Catalin:
The second girl from the left is pretty.
RomanceRe: Girls Wey Dey Use Thier Toto Clip Man Pricck! by Mobinatric: 7:24am On Jan 11, 2017
U dey form innocent abi grin grin
makydebbie:
Sexuality section pls
RomanceRe: Couple Take Pre-Wedding Photos To The Toilet (Photos) by Mobinatric: 7:20am On Jan 11, 2017
Haba, how now


Alondra:
Lust driven couplessmiley
RomanceRe: Frigidity by Mobinatric: 1:44am On Jan 11, 2017
U are so on point

Ur pix sef give us propa example grin grin
midehi2:
wow...exploit it woman and he will not go outside to get it again, free yourself, do the 'undoables grin surprise him, go wild with him on bed, exploit what you saw on porn, it won't harm you as far you are doing it with your husband..

men hates dull women on bed...go naughty cool
RomanceRe: Signs He Is Husband Material by Mobinatric(op): 1:38am On Jan 11, 2017
shocked make Una calm down

Abi Una gbadun una sef dey form quarrel for us kiss kiss kiss
TrapQueen77:
Shaarraaap... Ur opinion doesn't count here..
RomanceRe: Qualities The Woman You Want To Marry Should Posses by Mobinatric(op): 1:36am On Jan 11, 2017
Hmmm .... Trap runaway mode activated then

tongue
TrapQueen77:
Waaahahahahah! grin

*run for my life*
RomanceRe: The Swag On These Yoruba Guys Will Make Any Lady Drool by Mobinatric: 1:34am On Jan 11, 2017
Drool for bobrisky then grin grin
chistel20:
what will make me drool in dt picshure sef. see black black faces angrywhat will make me drool in dt picshure sef. see black black faces
RomanceRe: The Swag On These Yoruba Guys Will Make Any Lady Drool by Mobinatric: 1:30am On Jan 11, 2017
Love from imsu grin grin grin grin
CaraJewel:
No p
RomanceRe: The Swag On These Yoruba Guys Will Make Any Lady Drool by Mobinatric: 1:27am On Jan 11, 2017
Pple see things from different perspective
Mikylopez:
lolz uv probably been seeing things wrong wrapper up and down where d4k did u see dat fromhuh.... anyways u are entitled to your own taste
Dating And Meet-up ZoneRe: Whatsapp Match Making (men And Women) by Mobinatric: 1:20am On Jan 11, 2017
Mayb they can catch u instead... Since you are here cheesy
LadyAnn:
Guys,,, for real now brothers!!! When would you learn?? This is not the platform to get girls. It's not exactly rocket science is it?? Haven't you noticed that no female has posted on here advertising herself? It can't be any clearer
RomanceRe: Couple Take Pre-Wedding Photos To The Toilet (Photos) by Mobinatric: 1:09am On Jan 11, 2017
The yansh be like moimoi wrapped in green leaf grin grin
RomanceRe: What Do You Say To Your Partner After Lovemaking? by Mobinatric: 1:06am On Jan 11, 2017
So what else are u comfortable with... Should I give you another sweet hot round of doggy wink cheesy cheesy
sweettease:
Are you comfortable with hearing Thank you after it?
RomanceRe: What Do You Say To Your Partner After Lovemaking? by Mobinatric: 1:03am On Jan 11, 2017
CHAI, u rily dey enjoy the Congo be DAT grin grin
sweettease:
I know you said just men but really? You say thank you? lipsrsealed lipsrsealed lipsrsealed
RomanceRe: Qualities The Woman You Want To Marry Should Posses by Mobinatric(op): 1:01am On Jan 11, 2017
CHAI... Na me be trap inspector grin grin grin grin
TrapQueen77:
Heeey, wait..wait..wait... grin

Oya, come here na... *whispering* how u it's him I'm talking abt? cheesy u too eehn, u love gossip as well..
RomanceRe: Signs He Is Husband Material by Mobinatric(op): 12:59am On Jan 11, 2017
Well na the guy go decide...

Only if to say as I wan dey suspect you angry if u get the right character lipsrsealed
TrapQueen77:
grin


This is 2017 oooo.. I must seal the deal before it ends otherwise it's game over.
RomanceRe: Qualities The Woman You Want To Marry Should Posses by Mobinatric(op): 12:56am On Jan 11, 2017
Since both of u have traps in Ur names... Set the guy proper pussy trap na grin wink grin grin
TrapQueen77:
Hahahahah... I won't stop wooing that guy...I know he likes me tho but he's always shy grin tongue
RomanceRe: Signs He Is Husband Material by Mobinatric(op): 12:47am On Jan 11, 2017
You go wait wella...cos u sef gats meet criteria first tongue tongue
TrapQueen77:
grin



I've been from 1-9 ...but the #10 tho... I'm still patiently waiting wink cheesy
RomanceRe: Signs He Is Husband Material by Mobinatric(op): 12:46am On Jan 11, 2017
grin grin
braine:
Every man is a potential husband material. It just depends on how many yards that's required.
RomanceRe: Qualities The Woman You Want To Marry Should Posses by Mobinatric(op): 12:42am On Jan 11, 2017
Na man go talk you into been qualified, not you mentioning tongue tongue
TrapQueen77:
grin


TrapHedges... I have some of those qualities ooo.. cheesy do u think I'm qualified? wink
RomanceRe: Qualities The Woman You Want To Marry Should Posses by Mobinatric(op): 12:40am On Jan 11, 2017
Bros u wicked ooo grin
Mannygoulding:
my girl friend is nowhere near the first quality
RomanceSigns He Is Husband Material by Mobinatric(op): 12:39am On Jan 11, 2017
A lot of women try to understand why their relationships always fail… why guys treat them badly…why they always get hurt…why they can’t get a guy to commit. The common thread in most of these cases is these women are choosing men who clearly are not husband–or even relationship– material and hoping by some chance he’ll suddenly transform and be the knight in shining armor she wants. This type of situation doesn’t exist anywhere aside from cheesy romantic comedies and telemundoic mumu soaps grin . If you choose to pursue a relationship with a guy who clearly isn’t relationship material, then you’re setting yourself up to fail before you even begin.


Trust me, I know all too well how enticing those damage cases can be. Sure, he’s has emotional issues, he’s jaded, he’s struggling at work, he has no direction, he still acts like a frat boy even though his acting like a drunk idiot and getting away with it days expired years ago, but there’s a really great guy underneath all that and as soon as we deal with all this other stuff, then we’ll have an amazing relationship. I’m sorry but no.


The problem with these damage cases is that they often have a lot of the qualities we want, but not the ones we actually need. There is a big difference between wants and needs when it comes to relationships, but it’s not always easy to make the distinction. You might think you need a guy who is tall and strapping and charismatic and a CEO of a major company, but a guy with those credentials might have a host of other qualities that wouldn’t be good for you, that wouldn’t fulfill your fundamental emotional needs.

When you hit that stage in life where you realize you are done dating for the sake of dating and want to settle down and find “the one,” you realize that the kinds of guys you date weren’t necessarily husband material and I have to really examine your list of wants and needs, and figure out the differences between the two. Doing so will make all the difference and suddenly, the damage cases that were once oh so appealing would do nothing for you.

Whether you’re single, dating, or in a serious relationships, these are the 10 qualities you need to look for in a man, the ones that tell you beyond a shadow of a doubt that he’s the one and this is it.

1. He loves your good qualities, and accepts and embraces the bad without making you feel guilty for having flaws wink

You don’t need to hide your true self from him and put on a front in order to be what you think he wants. You can share your true self and be vulnerable and feel safe doing so, knowing that if anything it will make him feel even closer to you.


2. He is there for you when you need him, even if it’s inconvenient for him cool

A partnership will sometimes require sacrifice and compromise. Life is unpredictable and unexpected. You can’t predict what will happen and nothing can possibly go as planned 100% of the time. A guy who is husband-material will be there for you when you need him, he will be in it with you, he will be your partner in whatever happens and will weather the storm with you, even though he might prefer to stay in the sunshine.

3. Considers you when making decisions, both big and small cheesy

A relationship is a partnership, not a dictatorship. Factoring you in shows that he respects you, that he wants to create a life with you, not simply envelope you in his world. Our worlds can be comfortable, it’s not always easy taking someone else into account, factoring in their wants and needs and preferences, but that’s what a relationship is.

4. He is growth-oriented wink

No one is perfect, we all have flaws. And these flaws aren’t black and white- usually a person’s greatest strength is a hint to their greatest weakness. In a relationship, his behavior affects you (and vice versa) and sometimes his less developed traits will have a negative impact on you. A growth oriented guy will want to strengthen his character and work on it. A guy who isn’t growth oriented will say your problem and this is the way he is and you need to deal with it.

For example, let’s say you’re dating a guy who can be insensitive at times. Maybe he doesn’t give you emotional support when you’ve had a rough day and instead just gives you matter of fact advice in a direct way. His no nonsense approach to solving problems might be useful to him in the workplace, but it might be hurtful to you sometimes when he doesn’t empathize with what you’re going through and instead just tells you what to do about it, or gets impatient by the fact that you’re upset over something he doesn’t consider to be that big of a deal.


You want a guy who will accept that his tone can be harsh and hurtful and who actually tries to work on it, not one who says it’s your problem and you need to deal with it. He probably won’t get it right every time, but if he’s growth oriented he will at least try.

5. Common beliefs and values wink

This one seems so obvious yet it’s so often overlooked. If he is going to be your life partner, you have to make sure you both are on the same page when it comes to issues that matter. And if you aren’t on the same page, then make sure he respects where you stand (and vice versa) and that you both are willing to work together to reach a mutually fulfilling middle ground. This can refer to religion, core values, lifestyle preferences, where you want to live, whether you want to have children.

6. He views you as his partner kiss

The relationship is something more than just you and him… together, you and him are a team. And as that team, you are both individually stronger than you could be on your own. He sees you as his equal, as someone of great value who he can grow with, not someone who is there to feed his ego, give him validation, be his emotional crutch, be there to satisfy his needs.

He respects everything about you- your thoughts, ambitions, opinions, the things you say, the company you keep, your job. He doesn’t make you feel bad about your life circumstances and he appreciates the person you are and the choices you have made.


7. He is willing to put effort into the relationship tongue

If there is a problem, he wants to find a way to solve it, he wants to work harder, to be better, to be his best self. The important thing to keep in mind is that people have different ideas of what it means to put effort into a relationship. He might believe that working hard and being good at his job is putting in effort because he wants to provide for you and give you nice things and a comfortable lifestyle (I use this as an example because it’s a classic point of contention between men and women because she will often view him working too much as him putting no effort into the relationship and being married to his work).

8. You’re able to communicate with each other, even about tough issues and even if one person is upset with the other. angry

With the right guy, you won’t be afraid of brining up certain things for fear of rocking the boat. You know he respects you and will see what you have to say as valid and important. Every relationship will face its share of obstacles. There will be fights, miscommunications, arguments, and also times when one partner isn’t feeling loved. The only way to emerge from the tough times better and stronger is to work through them together and this starts with open communication.

9. He’s trustworthy huh

You feel safe being open and honest with him and are not afraid of him violating that trust or using anything against you. You trust that he won’t leave you unexpectedly, that he is genuine, that he does mean what he says. You don’t feel an underlying sense of suspicion, like he has some ulterior motives. You trust that he cares about you deeply and would never intentionally hurt you.


10. He wants to marry you shocked grin

Ahh, it seems so obvious but yet, it’s not. A guy can have all the qualities on this list but if he doesn’t want to marry you, or maybe doesn’t want to get married in general, then he is not your husband. When a guy is ready to get married and meet a girl he thinks he can spend his life with, he knows pretty early on. That’s not to say they get engaged right away, but he knows this is it and she knows it too, maybe he tells her or maybe it’s just so obvious and he doesn’t even need to. It might be the wrong time, maybe he wants to wait until he’s more established in his career, more financially stable, but he will still convey his level of commitment, she won’t be left hanging and guessing and wondering.

If he still feels like he has wild oats to sow and is still drawn to the single, bachelor, party boy lifestyle, he is not marriage-minded and you are setting yourself up for disappointment. If what you want is a serious, lasting commitment, make sure he is on the same page before you do anything. When a guy is ready for a serious commitment, it’s usually pretty obvious. And if it isn’t, then bring it up and discuss it with him. If he’s husband material, he’ll understand. If he isn’t… then at least now you know before it’s too late!
RomanceQualities The Woman You Want To Marry Should Posses by Mobinatric(op): 11:53pm On Jan 10, 2017
ell, here we go.

You’ve been dating a while, maybe living together for a few months. You think you’re ready to take the plunge and buy a diamond ring, but you’re just not 100 percent certain. So you’ve turned to the internet for help.

At risk of sounding hokey, if she’s the right girl, you’ll just know. Trust your gut. Of course, according to most accepted statistics, our guts are wrong at least 50 percent of the time. But hey, it’s the world we live in.


Although marriage sure isn’t what it used to be, it is still a big decision and you should treat it as such. Sometimes our guts get just as confused as our heads. So let me break it down for you in an easily digestible fashion. If she embodies, say, at least three-quarters of this list, go ahead and set a date.

1. She’s nice.
According to bumper sticker wisdom, mean people suck.

2. She doesn’t rush you.
Wanting to talk about plans for the future is one thing. Deadlines and ultimatums are another. Don’t be bullied into marriage just because you’re afraid you’ll lose her. Fear has no place in this process.

3. She bring out the best in you.
A great indicator that she’s right for you is that being with her makes you want to be a better man.

4. She has her own goals and is supportive of yours.
When these things are in perfect alignment, you’ve really got something great.

5. A decent relationship with her parents.
Extreme circumstances aside, you’re not going to want to get involved with someone who hates her parents, or has caused them a lot of pain. It’s an indicator of how she feels about the people closest to her, which you’re going to be.

6. She’s emotionally stable.
Crazy girls can be a lot of fun in the short term, but you don’t want to spend your life with someone who runs hot and cold. You want someone who has their shit together.

7. You’re sexually compatible.
When you’re single, just about any sex is good sex. But in a relationship, you need to have the same (or at least very similar) likes and dislikes. Sex isn’t everything, but it’s pretty damn important.

8. She’s a team player.
Even if you’re both pretty old-fashioned about gender roles, relationships in today’s world don’t fly if all she wants is to be taken care of. You’re not taking over for her parents, okay?

9. She doesn’t ask for the moon.
We all want to live in the house on the hill, but we don’t all make it up there. Make sure she’s going to be okay even if you don’t deliver on your moneymaking potential.

10. She keeps her cool in arguments.
Relationships have arguments. That’s a fact of life. If you can get through them without her bursting into tears, or you punching a hole through the wall, you’re in good shape.

11. She takes care of herself.
Go ahead and complain, fatties. Not saying you have to be an Olympic volleyball player or a supermodel, but everyone — man or woman — should stay healthy.

12. You’re okay with each other’s baggage.
Most of us have a bag or two. Be honest about how you feel about what she comes with — and make sure she’s doing the same with you.

13. She’s at least as smart as you are.
There’s nothing worse than a dumb woman, except one who pretends to be.

14. She respects guy’s night.
If she trusts you to go out with the boys (and you honor that trust), you’ve got a keeper.

15. Her partying days are behind her.
We’re all entitled to blow off steam every so often, but if she has to go out, get trashed and dance her ass off every weekend, she’s probably not ready to settle down.

16. She accepts your faults.
And doesn’t take it upon herself to fix them.

17. She can cook.
This may seem old-fashioned, and I’m not saying she has to be Chef Cindy, but don’t pretend you don’t want your woman to feed you, because you do.


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25 Qualities The Woman You Marry Should Have
Chuck HendersonBy Chuck Henderson | 4/21/15, 3:29PM EST Posted in Gentlemen
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Well, here we go.

You’ve been dating a while, maybe living together for a few months. You think you’re ready to take the plunge and buy a diamond ring, but you’re just not 100 percent certain. So you’ve turned to the internet for help.

At risk of sounding hokey, if she’s the right girl, you’ll just know. Trust your gut. Of course, according to most accepted statistics, our guts are wrong at least 50 percent of the time. But hey, it’s the world we live in.


Although marriage sure isn’t what it used to be, it is still a big decision and you should treat it as such. Sometimes our guts get just as confused as our heads. So let me break it down for you in an easily digestible fashion. If she embodies, say, at least three-quarters of this list, go ahead and set a date.

1. She’s nice.
According to bumper sticker wisdom, mean people suck.

2. She doesn’t rush you.
Wanting to talk about plans for the future is one thing. Deadlines and ultimatums are another. Don’t be bullied into marriage just because you’re afraid you’ll lose her. Fear has no place in this process.

3. She bring out the best in you.
A great indicator that she’s right for you is that being with her makes you want to be a better man.

4. She has her own goals and is supportive of yours.
When these things are in perfect alignment, you’ve really got something great.

5. A decent relationship with her parents.
Extreme circumstances aside, you’re not going to want to get involved with someone who hates her parents, or has caused them a lot of pain. It’s an indicator of how she feels about the people closest to her, which you’re going to be.

6. She’s emotionally stable.
Crazy girls can be a lot of fun in the short term, but you don’t want to spend your life with someone who runs hot and cold. You want someone who has their shit together.

7. You’re sexually compatible.
When you’re single, just about any sex is good sex. But in a relationship, you need to have the same (or at least very similar) likes and dislikes. Sex isn’t everything, but it’s pretty damn important.


8. She’s a team player.
Even if you’re both pretty old-fashioned about gender roles, relationships in today’s world don’t fly if all she wants is to be taken care of. You’re not taking over for her parents, okay?

9. She doesn’t ask for the moon.
We all want to live in the house on the hill, but we don’t all make it up there. Make sure she’s going to be okay even if you don’t deliver on your moneymaking potential.

10. She keeps her cool in arguments.
Relationships have arguments. That’s a fact of life. If you can get through them without her bursting into tears, or you punching a hole through the wall, you’re in good shape.

11. She takes care of herself.
Go ahead and complain, fatties. Not saying you have to be an Olympic volleyball player or a supermodel, but everyone — man or woman — should stay healthy.

12. You’re okay with each other’s baggage.
Most of us have a bag or two. Be honest about how you feel about what she comes with — and make sure she’s doing the same with you.

13. She’s at least as smart as you are.
There’s nothing worse than a dumb woman, except one who pretends to be.

14. She respects guy’s night.
If she trusts you to go out with the boys (and you honor that trust), you’ve got a keeper.

15. Her partying days are behind her.
We’re all entitled to blow off steam every so often, but if she has to go out, get trashed and dance her ass off every weekend, she’s probably not ready to settle down.

16. She accepts your faults.
And doesn’t take it upon herself to fix them.

17. She can cook.
This may seem old-fashioned, and I’m not saying she has to be Betty Crocker, but don’t pretend you don’t want your woman to feed you, because you do.


18. She takes care of you when you’re sick.
If she keeps her distance when you’re down, that’s a pretty good indicator of her life philosophy. If, on the other hand, she’s all about keeping you in chicken soup and cough medicine, this is a woman who really cares about you.

19. You have similar tastes.
She can be a little bit country to your rock and roll, but in general, you need to like a lot of the same stuff, or you’ll find a lot of conflict down the road over very little things.

20. She calls you on your bullshit.
You don’t want a doormat; you want someone who stands up for herself.

21. She makes you feel important.
Some dating games women play involve a lot of aloofness. I guess they’re preaching that “men are hunters” line. But if you’re considering marriage, you should both be out of the game-playing phase.

22. She lets things go.
You’re going to do stupid shit from time to time. That doesn’t mean you need to be reminded of it every three months.

23. She has a sense of humor.
Every woman on the planet wants a funny guy. Since you’ve worked so hard on that, you deserve someone who appreciates it.

24. She’s confident.
You want her to love you, not need you. She needs to be okay with her life outside of your relationship. Nurturing the needy is not a romantic relationship.

You can add yours
CareerRe: MTN Laying Off Over 4000 Workers, Happening Right Now by Mobinatric(op): 10:28am On Sep 30, 2016
lalastica... biko Frontpage abeg and Oga seun
CareerMTN Laying Off Over 4000 Workers, Happening Right Now by Mobinatric(op): 10:22am On Sep 30, 2016
MTN Nigeria laying off Contract Staff without been paid their full salary. No gratuity, no pension, no thank you mail to people who have spent at least 5years to like 14years of their life.

They did the worst last week by telling them to do photocopy of their ID cards and return the main ID'S with the staff left with a sheet of paper without been paid and still expected to work. They also harassed the contract staffs searching them with mobile police armed with guns as if they are criminals. This is outright injustice....

No mails communicated yet on the mode of payment for the 15days they worked as their salary is been calculated from 15th of previous month to 16th of present month, but the remaining days of 16th- 30th september is not paid with their leave days remaining and also unpaid leaves.

We call on concerns Nigerians and appropriate authorities to help them fight these course.

PropertiesBe A Proud Owner Of A Land At Oluyole Ibadan (very Affordable) by Mobinatric(op): 5:42pm On May 27, 2016
A plot of land located in Oluyole local govt at Arowojeka town after Agric Olomi area ibadan. A 15minutes drive from Academy Bstop, the first overhead bridge after toll gate before Iwo Road.

Land Agreement details to be handed over after purchase with the pix on the profile.
Available for Inspection at anytime
First come serve

Be a proud owner
call 70378867 88 or 70620272 04

Jobs/VacanciesRe: Nestle Field Sales Manager,water Info by Mobinatric(op): 11:05am On Mar 14, 2016
@atama grin grin grin ur reply make me laugh. Did u take urs in lagos or abi. I did in lagos anyways and can u still pls send me dat dragnet questions. Thank

Ayodejiogunsina@yahoo.com
Jobs/VacanciesNestle Field Sales Manager,water Info by Mobinatric(op): 12:31pm On Mar 13, 2016
Hello guys,
please, any information yet from the test we did with dragnet on the 8th of march,2016 for the nestle field sales manager, water .

have they contacted anyone or when they might likely let us know the result.

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