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RomanceRe: My Girl Friend Is Pregnant by Mopeola(f): 9:52am On Sep 29, 2024
Baba baby, U go soon hear scores 😁😁😁
Christianity EtcRe: Bodyguards Diligently On Duty At Oyedepo's 70th Birthday Celebration (Video) by Mopeola(f): 4:52am On Sep 29, 2024
I kept wondering when Nigeria will learn from those people called pastors, pastors that r supposed to use the offering money and tithe money to feed the poor and the homeless are now the one flaunting in heavy cars and private jets, the world is soon coming to an end
RomanceRe: My Girl Friend Is Pregnant by Mopeola(f): 4:26am On Sep 28, 2024
What I will advice is for you to get a DNA done as you shouldnt be much happy with what you r not yet sure off, woman r more dangerous than snakes
Foreign AffairsRe: There’s No Place In Iran That We Cannot Reach – Netanyahu Warns Iranian Govt by Mopeola(f): 3:40am On Sep 28, 2024
One thing l noticed about Israel is that they will first take down their key man that knows much about the in and out of the war before they burn down the village, this is what happened to Hamas and now Hezbollah is another village that's gonna look more prettier than Gaza
BusinessRe: What Palmpay (flexicash) Did To My Friend (photo) by Mopeola(f): 8:57am On Sep 27, 2024
Now that u refused to pay back the money, how do you expect them to borrow someone that will be able to pay back on time cos you r stupid for not paying back on time, I remember when l took pay later from infinix l, I make sure l calculated my entire payment well before l decided to go ahead, now they r informing me that I can get a loan of 200k which I don't want cos I made up their payment without failing their terms
AgricultureRe: Goat Gets A Bag Stuck On Its Head, Causes Commotion (Video) by Mopeola(f): 2:16am On Sep 22, 2024
This is really what happened to us in life when one or two has problems, the families or friends that r supposed to find out to help you out of the situation are always the run to run away from you, U see those u called ur friends r not ur friends, just have a little problem and u will see of those u called friends
RomanceRe: Oloshos Now Allow Me Lash Them Raw by Mopeola(f): 6:49am On Sep 17, 2024
If U don lie for us finish make we know
RomanceFor The Wise Men by Mopeola(op): 8:14am On Sep 16, 2024
Listen up, Men!

If you think spending money on a woman will make her respect you, think again! You’ve been lied to, sold a fantasy that women will fall head over heels for the guy who buys them the most expensive gifts, takes them to lavish dinners, and showers them with money. Newsflash: They don’t respect you for it. In fact, they see you as a fool, and you become nothing more than an ATM in her eyes.

Let me break it down for you: women are not impressed by how much you can spend on them. They might smile, bat their eyes, and thank you with sweet words, but deep down, they know exactly what’s going on. You’re buying their attention, their time, and their company. They respect men who command respect through character, strength, and ambition—not by opening their wallets.

When you throw money around, you send a clear message: you’re trying to buy her approval. And guess what? No one respects a man who tries to buy affection. Women can smell desperation from a mile away, and the more you spend, the less respect you’ll get. She’ll take the gifts, enjoy the dinners, and smile for the Instagram photos, but deep down, she’s laughing at you. You’re just another guy in her collection of fools.

Think about it. When was the last time you truly respected someone who was willing to throw their hard-earned money at you for no reason? Never, right? Exactly. Women operate the same way. They’ll take what they can get, but respect? That comes from your actions, your ambition, and how much you respect yourself.

A man who respects himself doesn’t need to spend a fortune to get a woman’s attention. He knows his value and doesn’t feel the need to prove it with money. He’s on his grind, building his empire, and doesn’t waste time or resources trying to impress women who offer nothing in return. Real men invest in themselves, in their future, and in things that will yield results—not on temporary flings that drain their wallets.

You think she’s impressed with that new bag you bought her? That fancy vacation? No, she’s thinking about how to milk you for more. She’s testing your limits, seeing how much she can get out of you before you wise up. And once you do, she’ll move on to the next fool who’s willing to pay the price. Don’t be that guy.

Women respect men who don’t bend over backwards for them, who don’t try to buy their loyalty, and who set boundaries. They respect men who make them earn their place in their life, not men who hand it over on a silver platter. And that’s the key—make her earn it. Make her prove that she’s worthy of your time, attention, and resources. You’re not an ATM, and you’re not here to fund her lifestyle. You’re here to build your own life and find someone who adds value to it, not someone who drains it.

Stop being the fool who spends money on women thinking that will win her over. She doesn’t respect it. She’ll use you, laugh behind your back, and move on to the next guy when she’s done. Respect yourself enough to say “no.” Your money is for you to invest, to grow, and to build your future. If she’s not with you for who you are—your ambition, your grind, your vision—then she’s not worth it.

Men, wake up. You don’t need to impress anyone with money. Impress her with your drive, your character, your confidence, and most importantly, how little you’re willing to tolerate nonsense. That’s what earns you respect. Not the size of your bank account, but the size of your self-respect.

So next time a woman tries to test you, asking for expensive gifts or fancy dinners, look her in the eye and tell her, “I’m not that guy.” Let her know that your value isn’t measured by how much you can spend on her, but by the man you are. If she’s worth it, she’ll stay. If she’s not, let her go—and be glad you dodged a bullet.

Real men don’t buy respect. They command it. Know the difference.

wordofadvicefrommopleola
RomanceRe: Girlfriends Are Better Than Hookers by Mopeola(f): 12:19am On Sep 13, 2024
Both of them are the most dangerous species, it only takes the grace of God for one to survive from their venom
RomanceRe: My Gf Surprised Me... by Mopeola(f): 12:16am On Sep 13, 2024
She will soon leave you as you don't longer worth her stand anymore
RomanceRe: Issues With Friendships, What Could Be Wrong? by Mopeola(f): 5:55pm On Sep 12, 2024
You won't understand how happy you are right now until those friends you are wanting turns you out to wanted
RomanceRe: Boobs Gang: If You Have A Gf And This Girl Offers You Free Sex, Would You Cheat? by Mopeola(f): 7:44am On Sep 12, 2024
Everything has an expiring date
RomanceRe: I Don Go Cast Myself. by Mopeola(f): 7:35am On Sep 12, 2024
Despite she caught you, what's she also finding in that group before she caught you cos shes only pretending as if she was there just cos of you, meanwhile shes alao a hunter
CrimeRe: Why Private Investigators, Pathologists Are Avoiding Mohbad’s Case – Odumosu by Mopeola(f): 7:27am On Sep 12, 2024
Nigeria law is a trash, even police r criminal
RomanceRe: Can A Dirty Lady Change With Time After Marriage? by Mopeola(f): 4:18am On Sep 07, 2024
No she won't change as it has been her attitude and besides she's the one that suggested that to you as a man that why must u be dirty
RomanceRe: Guys Please, Should I Take Her Back? by Mopeola(f): 4:12am On Sep 07, 2024
She never believed u could survive the trauma but seeing u surviving it is a surprise to her and letting her back into ur life is you going to rest in pieces, dig ur grave is the meaning
RomanceRe: Should I Stop Hangout With My Friends If I Have More Money Than Them? by Mopeola(f): 4:03am On Sep 07, 2024
Who no get today fit get pass u tomorrow, if u know, then no wahala
RomanceRe: What Should I Tell Her Or Do by Mopeola(f): 3:55am On Sep 07, 2024
Don't let her have that power over you, those r the first signal of a woman to break men into pieces if u decided to change ur life the way she requested, so don't listen to her as my advice
RomanceRe: How My Day Got Spoilt by Mopeola(f): 3:43am On Sep 07, 2024
Sho lo stupid ni
RomanceRe: Can You Marry Someone Who Lives In Rooms Like This? by Mopeola(f): 3:35am On Sep 07, 2024
Go abroad now
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Urgent Vacancy by Mopeola(f): 8:19pm On Sep 02, 2024
How much r they paying

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